Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
moorekom
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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TRON 2y ago
old and gold digger, stay classy girl.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Something doesn't add up here...
I've known this since I was a teenager, and I've seen this play out so many times it's ridiculous, but most of the time when someone (man or woman) brags about a trait, they don't really have that trait. This is especially true when it's a trait of the "show, don't tell" variety, including (but definitely not limited to) smart, honest, loyal, independent, kind, etc. etc.
In this particular Carol's case, she claims "tough" and simultaneously "sweet and soft". I'd almost bet a day's wages that she's none of these things, but rather just a bitch with a bad attitude who thinks that's what being tough is. As for sweet, yeah, preciously few are any sweet women in these modren times.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
This presents a dilemma for people like me. I'm not much to look at, but I have some unusual and highly useful attributes that aren't at all obvious. I can't tell people what they are because I'd come across as a douchebag... probably with a "Napoleon Complex" (I'm 5'7'), but if I don't tell people they'll just assume that I don't have any of those attributes and I'll be ignored at best, and actively excluded at worst.
Obviously people who know me well know what I bring to the table, but that takes a lot of time... far more time than it takes a woman to swipe left. That's not a problem for me personally because I'm happily married, but everything goes... so much faster... than it used to go. I'm glad I'm not in the market today: I (eventually) did pretty well with women back in the day, but I'd be screwed if my 20-year-old self had to navigate the mating market today.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Hmm. It would be difficult to show the attributes that are of the "show, don't tell" variety if one never got a chance to do any showing. Like you said, much of that takes time.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
If you claim to be something then you become that thing, right?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Let's try it.
I'm an independently wealthy millionaire with all kinds of free time to pursue various hobbies and interests!
I'll let you know, but let's not hold our breath.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Fake it 'til you make it?
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
If you claim it, you are it.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I am now a 30 foot tall robot.
Fear me.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago
I'm a 15th century Venetian knight who drowned in the battle of Lepanto when an Ottoman fireship rammed the war-galley I was riding on.
Dammit, I shouldn't have chosen to be that one.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Better luck next time, cuck.
GIANT ROBOT, OUT!
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Well, well. This is interesting. Putting child-free right in the bio. I guess women are waking up to the reality of the dating market.
As for the rest of her bio, she is 29. She is hunting the quickest route to a husbank. Seeking a Godly man is just another reason the single, eligible men she would like to meet are leaving the Church in droves. Wifing up this thing in a religious ceremony would be a one-way ticket to Hell on earth.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I remember as a kid, all I truly wanted to get married, have kids, raise a family up as the head of the household. Nothing amazing. Just work hard and some woman would appreciate that. I learned as I got older that women didn’t want that.
Now, I’m middle aged (36). Now, suddenly, all of these women who didn’t have time in their life for a bore with a good job like me, suddenly want commitment. So, where were they 10-15 years ago? Too busy “having fun”? Meanwhile we didn’t get to “have fun”, we had work to do.
Now, they want to cash in on our work. Pass
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
pretty good summary for most of the women out there.
They want a "nice guy", guy who will commit, give them money and stability.
they are all done with the "hot guys, the fun guys", they "grew up, they have found what they really want", barf
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
They got to find what they want through getting their back blown out. I got to find out through being mistreated. They can cry a river about how I have better options than the old bats that they are.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
yup, but TBH, many of these women fully believe they were mistreated.
Example: Many take the strategy of hooking up with (hot) guys, guys above them, in the hopes that, it will stick. It doesn't, the guy won't commit to her and she feels (mistreated). She shouldn't, unless the guy outright lied, which vast majority of times its not true. They took a gamble and often these girls take a LOT of gambles like this. I read it on threads, many girls admit it that it's their strategy, hook up with a hot guy and hope it sticks.
Great way to get pumped n dumped.
Then, years later, they give up and change strategy to find (a nice guy).
Yup, not gonna be me, for sure.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yeah they're not having fun now. They get to work from age 30-70 as their SMV plunges like a wingless airplane.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I feel a slight joy as I look into my ex-wife's eyes when I'm picking up my son. She's so tired all the time. She didn't realize that her whole life was under the protection and provision of men (first her father, then me) and that all she had to do was appreciate and respect it.
Now she's working full time for scraps, only getting by because I'm timely with child support and cover child care.
And she hates it. She hates that I'm looking better (now that I'm not dealing with her, I'm in the gym more and eating how I want to eat), have dating options, and generally thriving without her.
I hope she enjoys being obese in her 40s.
redblow22 2y ago
Then, when the child support ends, or, as I saw in your reply, you get full custody, that income is a hole in her budget that she will not be able to recover from.
Winter is coming.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh Jesus a fat single mom in her 40s. A woman's SMV really hits zero around age 45 when menopause hits and the grays start coming. Well, I guess she'll know what it's like to be an 18yr old man.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
It's going to be a cold fucking winter for her. What she doesn't know is that as soon as my investments pay off, I'm coming for full custody.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
yes, don't let your son be raised by this woman if you can.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh hell no.
Every day I'm not at work, he's with me.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Sounds like my friend’s mom. Die hard leftist. Is going to work until she drops, as she works as a pharmacy technician (you can basically work that job at 18 with a certificate). Now she’s busy constantly insulting my friend’s politics, but who wants to bet that she’ll be knocking once she can’t work anymore?
When all you know is special treatment, equality feels like oppression.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I can't even count how many women I've seen break down in tears when they are honest about how much they hate being "strong and independent".
Every. Last. One.
They play tough, but they are only doing it because they don't have a choice - they can't manage the femininity or submission necessary to attract and keep a man willing and able to take those burdens off their shoulders.
Feminism has tricked them into thinking that independence from men is the pinnacle of happiness, not realizing that their independence from men has freed us from our responsibility to women.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
And our reason for a relationship.
Think about it. Before, you’d have to marry the woman before you’d get to sleep with her. And the price to sleep with her? Lifetime of provision. Not that this is inherently bad, just shows the kind of commitment a man would have to show.
Now, what commitment do we need? Like hey miss, you have a good job. You own a home. You can pay all of your own bills. Congrats. But if you think I’m going to commit to you for your rapidly aging body, you’re sadly mistaken. I don’t want a woman who is going to make me compete with her to “earn” her cooperation. I’ll go find one that is sweet and cooperative by nature. If she isn’t here, I’ll make a trip to Manila or Bangkok or something.
When the promotions and raises stop coming in hot and heavy, these women seem far less happy about their own life choices. Jordan Peterson once talked about how male and females on big law partner tracks tend to do similarly well, until around age 30. Then the women leave. Because their family is more important, or the stress of the job causes them to seek out lower paid but less stressful jobs. Guess what, ladies? That exit strategy doesn’t exist when you don’t have a man. Hope that career is worth it.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
The price of sex used to be marriage.
That system was a pain in the fucking ass for men - we had to make something of ourselves, carve a stable life, pass vetting from relatives, and give up potential access to literally every other vagina on earth. Then you know what we got to do? Work every damn day in the hopes of consenting sex (and hope it's good) to provide for someone who didn't have to do anything in return except some light domestics that we could have afforded ourselves if we weren't supporting a wife.
Women benefited from the patriarchy and it's "oppressive" systems that kept the most attractive men locked to one woman, kept men on the factory floor and on the front lines, and created a system where women had a perpetual safety net.
I should thank feminists. As a tall, handsome, moderately wealthy, big-dicked jerk, I'd be in hell under the old system - only one woman? Thanks to feminism, I can have all the bad girls I want, and openly! There's no socal shaming whatsoever if I don't commit.
Women were the gatekeepers, and they abandoned that role for tingles. Fuck em, this is the future they wanted.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 2y ago
When my wife and I were engaged we discussed roles and responsibilities. We agreed that I'd make the money and that she would be responsible for the house. I told her that I didn't care how it got done - just that it got done. She could do it herself, or she could get a job and pay someone to do it for her out of whatever she earned. Not my problem either way... just don't make it my problem.
The dynamic has shifted over the years, and she ended up getting a master's degree (long-since paid for), and she works full-time. Her job is very stressful and she has some serious medical issues that are exacerbated by stress. The money she makes is nice and provides a great cushion and lots of peace-of-mind, but the fact remains that we don't need her paycheck to get by. A couple of months ago she broached the idea of quitting her job to concentrate on her health, and I obviously agreed. When she told her boss that she was planning to leave in 12 months they begged her to stay (she's the only person who knows how to do what she does, and she''s FAR better at it than the woman she replaced). In the end, everyone agreed that she would offload some of the routine stuff and do her "core" job with reduced hours. She makes less money now, but it's hardly enough to notice - much less worry about - and she has a lot more time to do food prep and exercise and go to her endless string of appointments with medical specialists.
If she hadn't secured marriage to a HVM when she was 20, her life would probably be very different and much harder. One of her sisters made that mistake and is now in her late 50s, twice-divorced, and living her life on "Nightmare" setting.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
There's a game called "Legend of Mana" and the hardest difficulty setting is "No Future Mode".
Fitting.
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
"Just looking for nookie, do us both a favour and swipe left"
Yeah, she's not falling for that trick again. Only Godly men from now on.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2y ago
Oh, she falls for it when she wants to. She ain't hurtin' from a dick shortage, that's for sure.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2y ago
As always, the tier of man they want is also wanted by 19 year old debt free virgins with no tattoos.
So what is she offering to compete against that?
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
Combativeness. That's what successful men crave in their partner, right?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Ahhhh, I miss the days when the girls were young and hopeful and not totally broken by the ghosts of Chad’s past and LARPing as a man at work.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
and black..........
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I don't fuck with black women anymore.
Regards,
A black man
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I think I could handle the African ones.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Actually yes. I've had wonderful experiences with non-American black women.
Kenyan women specifically.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
On the surface, this seems not bad, right?
Those things do put her near the top of the pile... Until we dig deeper:
"God. Business. Travel"
The "god" thing is a bullshit purity front. The only time she thinks about god is when she's calling his name while getting railed. If she were REALLY a godly woman, that photo wouldn't be on her profile. She wouldn't HAVE a profile.
Her focus on "business" is also a red flag. She's expecting YOU to have gobs of money (because women don't date down). She just isn't allowed to outright say it.
And gentlemen, "travel" is synonymous with "I like to leave my local area where my thottery has social consequences and get railed in ways that would make my alleged church congregation excommunicate me." It also means "I want a man with disposable income and time... And I want him to spend those on me."
"Tough cookie on the outside, but sweet and soft inside."
This is a whole fucking headache because she will use this to play both sides of the fence - she will be tough and masculine when it suits her, and switch to innocent feminine damsel when it gives her advantage. You will NEVER know when she's going to do it or why, and it will ALWAYS result in you being on eggshells around her.
"Interested in sharp godly men who know how to have fun!"
TRANSLATOR ACTIVATED: "I want a good looking man with high status who is kept in check by traditional values. At the same time, I want to be able to continue my party girl lifestyle without fear that this man will see me as the low-value woman that I am. Oh, and look at this ass."
"Just looking for nookie, do us both a favor and swipe left."
Shit test. I bet if my 6ft, 6 figure, 8 inches of godless black muscle offered her a "let's just see how it goes" date, I'd be in that ass by the end of the night. She's accustomed to men just wanting her for sex... And getting it. That's why she's talking that bullshit about wanting a "godly man", yet flaunting her ass. She's trying to land alpha bucks and fucks while screening betas out.
My conclusion: right swipe, smash, and never call back. It's what she wants anyways.
redblow22 2y ago
"Godly" women, the real ones, are usually married to Godly men, and creating families by 29.
Business? MLMs, with a storage unit full of product.
MA? How much student debt?
Run far from this one
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
She's got her Plan B career in case the marriage doesn't work out. Now she's ready to "stick the landing" and find a blue-pilled Alpha that doesn't know his worth to lock down right before her SMV begins to plummet. If things don't work out she can divorce rape him and go get her own money as a teacher.
lemko1968 2y ago
Chocolate Entrepreneur? She’s a chocolatier like Milton Hershey or Willy Wonka?