Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 2y ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - Locked - 6.4K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
Content Archive:
Related forums:
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 2y ago Stickied
Please observe Rule 1. We're here to expose women's dual-mating and poor behavior, not shame the men who are blue-pilled as we once were.
@moorekom, @Typo-MAGAshiv, @goodmansaysfuckyou
redblow22 2y ago
as we once were
This struck home today, thanks.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
@moderators:
Can I disclose more info about her ? The reason is she is a Chameleon who is supposedly a "man's right activists" and is actively pushing for men to "get married" - obviously with leftovers.
I realize, that it conflicts with no Doxxing rule, but also I think men should know what their supposed allies really are. Thank you for your reply
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
@sean_karaya we do not allow posts if the aim is to dox. We only allow posts that fit the theme with personal info censored.
Reply with a screenshot or link of how the woman is a chameleon and we'll consider allowing it as a weekend post. Thank you.
@moorekom, @Typo-MAGAshiv
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
We can comment on posts that are a year old?!
CC @moorekom
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Reddit has an option to turn on archive after six months. We had that turned on. I have to check the settings here to see if we have a similar option.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Kevin,
It might be a better idea to have this sent in PM if it is going to have personal information. Yes, we can delete it, but better to be safe.
@sean_karaya, please PM the info. We'll see if it can be allowed as a weekend, follow up post.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I have PMed Kevin 32 about the details
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Thank you.
UpsideDB Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
He's young, hopefully he'll get tired of it fast enough.
If you're looking to end up in a situation like that it seems WAY better to just Ernie and Bert things with your best bro. That way you can both still hook up with people without fucking with each other's emotions. She will definitely try to keep other women away from him, and he'll certainly get less-than-awesome feelings when she's banging some dude in their apartment.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
this is an important thing to keep in mind if you find yourself FriendZoned.
There are Red Pilled men who say that men and women can't be friends. This is generally true, but there are exceptions. If a woman really is your friend, she'll help you hook up and be happy for you when you do. If she gets jealous, or worse, actively cockblocks, she wasn't your friend at all, but using you as an orbiter and backup plan.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
"I hope one day you will find a woman who..."
Sure you do, as long as that day is in 20 years.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
This is accurate!
Whenever a woman wants to be my "friend" I actively flirt with and try to fuck other women in front of her. In my 40 years of life, only one has helped me and not cockblocked me or flipped her shit.
To this day, we are actually friends.
souldrone 2y ago
True. My best friend is a woman and the best wing(wo)man I ever had. She might bitch when we are alone about stuff, but she always makes me feel good in front of my date.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Yeah. Mine broke up with her man and was like "hey, you wanna just go to [town redacted] and get fucked up and try to get laid?"
It was glorious. We ended up getting an Airbnb and we had our mutual hookups, but she changed her mind about hers because she wanted "to get her guts turned into soup" and he wasn't gonna be able to do it. I thought it was cockblock city but she totally said "no, you go get yours, I'll sleep in the other room"
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Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago Stickied
Why???
Is it so difficult to take your blaming gaze off the man and direct it at the piece of trailer trash whore who clings to him???
Is there not enough glaring fault in this slut? Not enough to readily notice???
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
If you wish to retain the ability to comment on this forum and tribe, you can and will ignore it.
What men do is not the focus here.
Additional reading:
PSA: We are not here to shame beta men.,
"NO SHAMING MEN FOR ANY REASON" is Rule #1 For a Reason,
and PSA: Stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
Tag @loneliness-inc
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I mean, did he think you wouldn't?
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
Some skulls are too thick for logic...
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
I mean, it was obvious by his reply that he didn't even read any of the links.
I'm not going to take the time to repeat what has already been said every time someone new wants to argue about our rules, especially when I don't even have enough time to post/comment the way I really want to.
aldabruzzo No busted Pillsbury biscuit cans 2y ago
Just about every woman would do this if they could. Have multiple men for different functions.
--a rotating series of hot attractive men for Chadsex.
--one or more men for provisioning.
--a "gay best friend".
--a coparent.
We are seeing this now. Women want a wife/maid, a human dildo, a walking ATM, and a bestie. If possible they want men to fulfill these functions so that when push comes to shove, they can extract money and resources from all of them as circumstances and need dictate.
Men, this is why YOU should be in control of the relationship's course and the marshaling and distribution of your resources. Because a woman will do this to you if she can- she'll relegate you to fulfilling one or more of these functions for her, while you get nothing of value in return. The minute you see something like this happening to you, you walk. You walk away.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
This is the female version of a harem. I don't think is is actually natural for women all at the same time... too much emotional upkeep maybe? This is why we talk about the "dual" mating strategy, because as they age women want different things from a man. But they don't happily spin plates like men naturally do.
redpillschool Everybody tag him 2y ago
This chick lays on "bestfriend" like I put mayo on my sandwiches. Excessively thick, and in an effort to humiliate somebody.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Yuck.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oldie but a goodie. Really a tragedy. Hope this dude noped out when he found a woman willing to let him raise his own kids.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied
A different mod beat me to removing this, but saying it's entirely his fault is shaming and blaming the man.
The poor dude doesn't know any better.
However, she is totally taking advantage of him.
We all hope that, and we hope our forum helps other men wake up and not be taken advantage of.
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
Pointing out the obvious self-sabotaging mistakes that men make isn't "shaming men" in my book. We can all probably relate or empathize with what makes a guy debase himself like that, what's going on in his limbic brain and thought processes, but it doesn't make it any less true that men bring these situations upon themselves.
It needs to be pointed out, because at the end of the day, you're not in control of women's mating strategies, and the choices they make. But you are in control of the choices you make, and which part you allow yourself to play in somebody else's life. So it should always be pointed out.
It would be more disrespectful/emasculating to the young lad to paint him as devoid of agency, a helpless victim of "the evil whamen". Hopefully, what happened here with this girl was an invaluable learning experience for him looking back, and maybe even for some of those who caught up on the meme back in the day.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied
That's not the point of rule 1, but rather to keep the focus on the women's bad behavior.
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
It's your sub, so you take it where you want. I don't see why we can't focus on both though. Women behaving badly is entertaining and all, and goes to show what men have to deal with out there, but it's also kind of a dead end if we're never going to point out a man's agency in a situation like this. It's blame, not shame.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago Stickied
Well thanks. That's mighty generous of you.
Additional reading:
PSA: We are not here to shame beta men.,
"NO SHAMING MEN FOR ANY REASON" is Rule #1 For a Reason,
and PSA: Stop blaming men for women's bad choices.
Tag @DextroShade
Oh yeah, and tag @redpillschool
Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
What can I say, I'm a charitable guy.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 2y ago
You aren't in control of men's mating strategy either. You're only in control of yourself.
You have the rest of the internet and all of real life to hold men accountable for their bad choices.
This forum is one of the only places that shines a spotlight on the female side of the equation.
Looking at this train wreck, is there really nothing that you can find on the female side of the equation???
C'mon, man! What's holding you back from pointing an accusatory finger at a whaymyynZz?
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maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
This is both heartbreaking and infuriating.
*Mods, hopefully my 2nd point didn't violate Rule 1.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
You're good.
Great catch. She is putting herself out there and making it crystal clear that she's available.
Let's get you upgraded to Junior Hamster Analyst.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Thank you for the prestigious flair good sir!
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Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
(i bet they had sex though)
yup, if he's a good boy and she is in the mood. but, he's not enough for her, why he's not her "partner".
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Not the "I need this dick in me NOW" sex that she gives men she wants. It's the "I guess I can string him along with starfish time" sex.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2y ago
"You're such a great guy! Any woman would be lucky to have you!"
"Would that include yourself?"
"Oh, no! Not me! We're just friends! But I know there's someone out there that will be just right for you!"
I see these sort of statements as empty, because if you are touting someone as being a catch for someone to have while you yourself could be considered an eligible candidate for said person, it puts into question whether or not you believe your own words. It would be like telling someone who is looking for a job that they are certainly a shoe-in for any employer looking for workers, all the while you are also an employer who is looking for new hires who fit the exact type of position the person you are talking to is looking for. But if you refuse to even interview said person, that would show that you are not sincere with your words.
Actions are always a better indicator of the truth than words are.
Intrepid_Place53900 2y ago
yup
(you're such a great guy, any woman would be lucky to have you)
translation:
You are a nice guy, some below avg girl will be very happy to have you. Me, I like tall guys with muscle, and harley's, but that's just me, we can still be besties.
reignoferror00 2y ago
"You're such a great guy! Any woman would be lucky to have you!"
"Would that include yourself?"
"Oh, no! Not me! We're just friends! But I know there's someone out there that will be just right for you!"
If there is I'll make sure she doesn't come with 500 yards of you. I'll cling to you without any real affection to scare off some; the rest I'll find other methods (down talking you to him, etc.). I'm sure as hell not going to help you find another woman. Hey this meal ticket may last my child's lifetime if I'm lucky; let's ride this until he wises up or becomes a completely beaten down empty shell of a person ... or even longer if my legal jurisdiction ropes him into becoming a step-dad in a legal and binding way.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Wow, I can't wait to be a dad to some hoe's bastard child so she'll call me her best friend. And I am currently available at the low low price of $400/hr.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Lessons:
Single moms do not honor stepfathers. Maybe the kids will, someday (I respect and appreciate mine for example). Do not raise other men's kids - you are paying for her mistakes.
Pic889 2y ago
I'd openly state it, preferably when others are around: "I have a rule, if I wouldn't do it for a male friend, I don't do it for a female friend".
That way she can't complain (remember, they expect you to be their unpaid servant, so setting the above rule prevents nagging in front of you and most importantly behind your back).
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
One thing that all women do that I find to be disgusting is that if a different woman is genuinely interested in one of their orbiters, they will feign interest to keep the man close until the other woman is no longer interested then go back to their "you're such a good friend" shit.
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