Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago Stickied
AWALT. Don't anyone ever forget that.
That said, it's another version of AWALT and picking the poison that is not going to do you much harm.
PoopBeast 2y ago
I don't know. Based on my personal experience in college, the Asian foreign exchange women definitely had their shit together on average vs the western white and black women. I also get the feeling they don't usually get away with as much in their home countries. I know ethnicity is no guarantee, but I think if I had to play Russian roulette, I'd rather do this version of it.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
You have to watch a beast at its natural habitat to get an understanding of what it is capable of. A lion in a zoo and a lion in the forest are not the same things.
PoopBeast 2y ago
I don't think this is always necessarily true. Just because they're not in their home country doesn't mean you can't learn an awful lot about them. I personally still know one of them who went on to have a successful marriage that they're still in a decade later. Besides, you'll never be absolutely sure you're observing a woman under absolutely "perfect" conditions to make that decision.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
That is one of the two things I was referring to.
Her home country, culture and how it generally is going to be.
PoopBeast 2y ago
I think you're coming from a position of absolutism, whereas I'm coming from a position of practical realism. The practical reality is that many men, including men in the circle we're in will choose marriage when tempted with it no matter how they talk. You'll never have an absolute guarantee when you take life's gambles. You'll never have the perfect statistics to back up every decision. Like it or not, you often must extrapolate based on the data gathered from the anecdotal life you've lived. That said, based on what I've personally seen in my life, I can understand why many men would expect an Oriental woman to be a less risky prospect for marriage than a woman who's lived their entire life in a western country.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
Sure. Much of what we talk about is in absolute terms. This is not because we believe there are no exceptions, but because we want to emphasize on the prevalence of shit choices.
Realistically, yes, there are some unicorns. I've encountered a few in my life. Sure, they had their defects but they are as unicorny as it gets. But, they are not the rule. Yes, it might be tempting to get a beautiful Asian wife, but it does have its problems. As with everything in life, everything has a cost.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2y ago
While there is a lot of wishful thinking when it comes to how women in other countries are, we cannot deny that the surface level observations with the two groups of women are accurate. Women from Asian countries are far less likely to be obese and appear to be more feminine than many Western women. This is not to say that they will be risk free for relationships/marriages, as you have stated that AWALT. Western men (especially American men) look at their own women and see none of these traits on the surface level, and seeing more appealing women gives them hope that they can get a better deal.
Also, the Asian women in this picture look like they are in some sort of J-Pop/K-Pop group, which of course is going to be one of the most cherry picked groups of women when it comes to physical appearance. Just like every other racial group, there are going to be many other women not nearly as high on the physically attractiveness scale. But with obesity being so prevalent, simply not being fat will give any woman bonus points over their heavier counterparts. Sad, but it true.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2y ago
It is a k pop group.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 2y ago
Thank you for understanding that the meme isn't meant for men, it's meant for Western women. Not to get into politics, but one of the things Trump did right was sponsor Miss USA for similar reasons. I imagine the conversation went something like "Okay, I'll sponsor the pageant, but only if you don't allow any stamp tramps, leftovers or whales."
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Undead chronic put it best. You can play Russian roulette with 1 bullet or 4 bullets. What sounds better?
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
MGTOW is choosing not to play Russian Roulette at all.
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goodmansaysfuckyou Big Dick Energy Misogynist 2y ago
AWALT
I will pass and continue to refuse to commit to any of them.
jprdl 2y ago
"Im fat fuck off." Oh I thought to marry her sorry.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
Oh, you mean these asian women?
https://youtu.be/lxGap-lxmt0
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
AWALT.
Gold-digging and hypergamous (that "if you're not even as capable as me" line that immediately follows "I have house, I have car, I have money in the bank").
wswZtyqNGQ 2y ago
Reply to a post on the shithole board:
I do so enjoy the implicit man blaming going on here.
I think of it more as this analogy: Imagine a restaurant that has the absolutely best food you've ever tasted. Gastronomically perfect and finger-licking good. Getting reservations there might take months, long lines even then, the kitchen takes forever, and the wait staff are arrogant and mess up even trivial orders. But the food is so damn good it's worth all of the hassle. It's the restaurant where everybody who's anybody goes (even if you don't have the importance to land a decent reservation).
Then imagine the same place years later. The food quality has dropped way down. Nobody talks about going there anymore. Heading there you'd hope the management to have the intelligence to remove the reservations, waiting lines, and have found damn good and attentive wait staff. But when walking in you notice the exact same problems remain while the smell of the cooking food turns your stomach then you'd wisely best turn around and walk out. And if the management yells at your back that 'you just don't understand what fine dining really is' then you should give a slight chuckle as you go on your way.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2y ago
Good analogy.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
That's basically a Thai restaurant in the US. By the time I went to my local one it smelled like piss, the food was mediocre, there were no other customers, and it took forever. Basically $20 for the same thing you can get in Thailand in the slums for $0.50.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2y ago
I could show you plenty of Asian hoes. The difference is they know they're hoes and act accordingly.