To any lurking women:

Sure, you don't owe us common courtesy of decency.

That cuts both ways. Here's a short list of things we men don't owe women:

• kindness

• protection from those who would do you harm (I recall a crazy hobo on either a subway or a bus yanking a woman around by her hair, and no one intervened to help her. Is that a world you want to live in? It's the world you women are making.)

• commitment (after all, we aren't vending machines into which you put sex tokens and a marriage comes out)

• assistance of any kind. Reach down your own shit off the top shelf. Kill your own spiders. Open your own jars. Watch out for the door, because we'll likely stop holding it.

Don't like it? Then stop accelerating the breakdown of civilization.

All of the people explaining why women are free to ghost whoever they like are doing it in defense of a woman who decided being insulted was a good reason to start a conversation(not just with the guy, but with the public), is surrounded by women who agree that it’s a great icebreaker for reddit arguments, and none realize that their lack of obligation to accommodate men by being polite extends to the men they hope will politely take silent hints.

The idea of lying to protect themselves from dangerous men comes up often, but they’re pretty open about attacking men, and they seek out “dangerous” men by the hundreds for relationships instead of avoiding them, in addition to using their frailty to appeal to men’s protective instincts despite being a weakness they’re revealing to the same men who are supposed threats

One of the worst things that can happen to a woman is when the tribe turns on her and she is shamed and shunned. That is why social status and reputation is so important to a woman, it is a pure survival instinct. For this woman to want to shame him and get others to join in and gang up on him participate in cancel culture, she is literally wanting to do to him the worst thing possible you can do to a woman. She wants the tribe to destroy him. That is a true reflection on what an awful person she truly is. What I find amusing is when instead of the venomous hate she wanted inflicted on him, she is criticized for her rude behavior. Notice how defensive she gets. She does not want the torch and pitchforks' crowd coming after her.

Having done my time in online dating, I have had conversations with women hoping to meet with them, only for them to end up declining the idea. In some cases the reasons may have been complete crap ("I just got out of a relationship and I am not ready to date" in spite of the fact that she has a dating profile and is active enough to message me back and forth), but at least declining a date gives me some resolution where I know exactly what to expect. Radio silence from someone who supposedly has interest in finding out if you want to meet is certainly far worse, as it makes you think that either you are dealing with a bot/fake profile or that they are just looking for an ego boost with seeing how many matches they have. Either way, that is a frustrating experience.

For any men who will do online dating/dating apps, I would advise you to not put any thought into a woman who does not even have the common curtesy to follow up with someone she matched with. Such women might as well be bots anyways, because conversing with a bot profile is just as rewarding as conversing with a type of woman who does not respond. On the other hand, a bot profile might have just enough programming to provide some actual responses.

Yes, as others in the screenshot pointed out, I find it strange that she only responds when he decides to go scorched earth with the prospects. Yes, I am sure she was able to detect his "toxic personality" when he was genuinely trying to converse with her. It is not like she never would have responded to him had he just waited days and days longer or anything like that.

Women have as much consideration for men on dating apps as they have for the menu on the McDonald's app: there is no fucking difference to women.

If you voluntarily sign up for a dating app and consciously swipe right on someone, you are requesting to monopolize a fraction of their time. Therefore, you do owe them the basic standards of human decency. That includes, but is not limited to, timely communication. If you can't handle being an adult, don't date.

I doubt he even read her reply. I know I didnt.

OP probably expected a lot of "yaaaas kween" in the comments and didn't get it. They called her out for being an inconsiderate beeyotch...

Which is why she's still single.

Glass houses boo.

Irregardless of the woman’s behavior, the guy should have taken the “L” and moved on. He is letting women dictate his frame. If he wanted a “W” the correct move would have been to unmatch. He should be doing the final rejecting, not putting himself in a position to be publicly rejected. I also understand how frustrating this can be.