This is bullshit.

She was insecure of her own body, but was lazy to do nothing about it. She saw her husband having multiple options in real life and later online and still that did not prompt her to get off her ass, exercise and be a good wife. She relentlessly moved herself and her husband into a corner. And yet, her husband was understanding, encouraging and stood at the front of the corner knowing that they can get out. All she had to do was to follow his lead. What she did was to stab him in his back. She did not cheat because she was sure he was cheating on her, but because she felt inferior and wanted to prove to herself that she too had options. Maybe she got treated like a piece of meat or maybe she got guilty, but she seeked comfort from her husband by asking for forgiveness.

Reading between the lines of her text, he is not a dumb guy. He is smart, attractive, in demand and loyal. His loyalty prevented him from exercising his options. Now that she took the final reason to no longer be loyal to her, he left her. What a train wreck this is and what a loser she is. She lost a great husband, a good family, a good life and her self esteem forever because she was not strong enough to fight her battles herself and not smart enough to ignore her pride and to follow her husband's lead. Now she is what she should be: a cautionary tale for younger, smarter, more loyal women to never fuck up like she did. Those who can see this for what it is can learn from it. It's doubtful how many women these days will actually get that message.

Excellent find, OP.

Edit: Editing to add update provided by u/biccat in Reddit.

https://imgur.io/a/CaVz9p7

There's just no happy ending with modern women. It doesn't matter if you're tall, dark and handsome - and rich, and easygoing, and interesting, and owner of a huge schlong, and whatever -, if you're that perfect, you have got to be cheating on her. Nevermind that all evidence points to the opposite, she's sure you are cheating - and thus, her cheating is justified.

Also, there is an uptade to the post, but it's not that interesting. The husband came home, packed more things, informed her they're getting a divorce and only wants to be able to see the kid whenever possible. Oh, and she still hasn't told anyone else about her affair (and doesn't know if he did).

The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands.

I kept neglecting him

So why didn't you stop ... ?

Oh, I'm sorry, that was the wrong line of questioning.

Her allegedly insecurity driven infidelity is just an excuse to fabricate consent from the audience in order to avoid admitting she was a stupid slut. Turning on the waterworks and emotionally charged rhetoric to get sympathy instead of the castigation she knows she deserves.

Make no mistake, she does not care that what she did was wrong, or she'd have had the moral fiber to not do it to begin with. She's just trying to avoid the consequences.

So a stay at home mom with the only duty of opening her legs once in blue moon decides to unequivocally reject all evidence of her husbands faithfulness and cheat due to her 'feelz' and magical woman's intuition.

ROFLMFAO

And the upshot of all this is I did not see one sign that she was concerned about the pain she caused him. She was only worried about what she was losing: her income, security, status and lifestyle.

Good on the husband because he appears to be doing everything right. I hope he makes a clean escape from that pitiful marriage.

I know a great way to prove her love and possibly save her marriage or at least show him that she will do anything to save her marriage:

Go to the gym and lose the weight.

If someone suggested that, watch the tears dry up and she goes into a stunned silence at the mere thought of hard work. She would rather take the divorce.

I believe she fully intended on destroying her marriage. This is all a front to attempt to elicit sympathy from internet strangers. If anything I suspect that she already had the guy in mind from the start and just tried to come up with any justification at all to allow herself to cheat. She had to have known that this would blow up her marriage. My guess is she was hoping that it turned out he was cheating so she could not only redeem herself but then run away with the big payday in a divorce. But now she is going to get nothing, and won't even get the consolidation prize of her soon to be ex-husband's resources.

Edit: I also suspect she has been cheating for more than this event.

"one thing lead to another" Every time I read that phrase my IQ drops by a standard deviation and I want to hurt my pillow.

Her self loathing sent her to find signs of her husband's infidelity. There weren't any but that couldn't be right because there should be, otherwise she'd be the loser in the relationship, and she's not a loser right... right??

I wonder if she knew beforehand that her husband would leave her if she cheated she would still do it.

Yes - Reap what you sow No - Fuck around and find out

How does one take long screenshots like this?

Just goes to show you, you CANNOT be good enough for a woman. No matter what you do, no matter how you act, no matter how well you treat her, she will betray you eventually. And believe me, I hate saying things like this. I wish it weren't so.

It's a rigged game. The only winning move is not to play.

This was no beta bucks. This was legitimately a good, masculine man who took pride in his appearance, his work ethic, and simply wanted to share with a woman he cared about. Even with her weight gain, he was compassionate and just wanted her to follow his lead.

Instead, she had to go and blow it all up. All because instead of being proactive in keeping a high value man, she simply got jealous that he has options.

Her love life is ruined. Alpha widow mode engaged.