Return of an old classic.

For future reference, @Tufta, and anyone else following along, the "damaged goods" flair is for abuse victims. A better fit for this one would be the "leftovers" flair.

Gosh it's so simple. Men whom are genuinely interested in being husbands and fathers are looking to tie the knot between being professionally established and being older than about 55 before there first kid graduates from high school. 55-18-2 years of childless marriage = 35. The window for tying the knot is 25-35 years old for a man. Which means he's looking for marriage partners from about 20 onwards, longer courtship when young. Shorter as they age. Which means good men are pairing up with their spouse usually from about age 23 to at the latest age 33. That 33 yo who is going to marry at 35 is looking at an ideal age woman 25-27. At 27 if you have not got a marriage material partner you had better get on the stick. 2/3rds of your dating pool is spoken for. Once you hit 28 your situation is critical. If you aren't already dating whom you think you are going to marry you need to start tomorrow, 5/6 of your potential dating pool is already paired off with whom they will marry and you are competing for the balance with women 3 years younger than you. Once you hit 29 you are in extremis, 9/10 of your dating pool is paired off with whom they will marry. At 30, single, unmarried men, whom want to be and would make a good husband and father, and have not paired up yet are no longer in your dating pool, as you compete poorly with the 27/28 year olds who see he writing on the wall and are looking to nail down the future husband right now. You are leftover.

Any woman who fails to find a husband is a failure.

Literally every woman, no matter how she looks or how fat or bitchy she is, can find a husband.

If a woman is single, it's because of one simple thing: she refuses to date on her level. Men will happily date down to secure a partner. All men do it by default (thanks hypergamy) but women are unable to do the same.

I made a comment earlier about feedback loops - for men, the feedback is immediate and harsh so we are forced to look at the dating market with a harsh realism. Women have no feedback loop so they never learn. The result is that we have a world of women who believe that they deserve the top tier of men while being middle/bottom tier women.

The actual top tier women aren't on the market at all - they're taken and never given back. Ironically, these are also the women who don't hate men because their experience with men is commensurate with their value to men - they aren't Arby's dumpsters (places to put extra unwanted meat). They're wives.

Oh well. Fuck it. Enjoy the decline.

another thing of note - the very first thing she shows you is herself in a mirror. Just standing there in her panties and tshirt. She pans from bottom to top. This is what she is most proud of. Her biggest achievement is that she is not fat. She just wants to get that into the mix ASAP, about 5 seconds in from the start. To her, this is why the universe owes her a better lifestyle.

Sadly for her, in the 5 seconds before she gets to the mirror, we find out more about her than she realises. Because just look at the state of her bedroom, Clothes and shoes strew all over the floor. She is dirty and untidy and living in squalor at the age of 35. This tells me everything I need to know about this child.

Personal pet peeve, but what is the deal with some people and broken phone screens? Don't they realise it's only a matter of time before the broken screen starts shedding glass shards? Don't they realise phones can be repaired or that refurbished phones exist for a fraction of the cost of new?

Sure, it's an expense everyone can do without, but so is a tire change after stepping on a nail, and yet you don't see people casually driving their cars with flat tires like you see people casually using phones about to start shedding glass shards or already doing so.

Wow. So much to unpack here. First off....shes a major kidult. The baby voice. The fact that she cant clean up her apartment and lives in squalor at age 35. Her apartment looks like a junkie crash pad. This is a child that never grew up. And nobody around her like parents or friends had the balls to call her out on it. Can you imagine what society would call a man who lived live that at age 35? A looser. She is a looser.

Shes managed to coast along so far just on her looks. She got a pussy pass but its running out. Now nobody wants her ...not to fuck or to work with.

It was quite interesting when she spoke about the beta bucks guy that she wanted to settle for....only he gave her the dry. Im sensing that he might have got sick of her shit. plus im sure shes a childish nightmare to live with. If shes a massive pain inthe ass and there's no sex then whats the point of her for a beta? Shes very clear that she only gets the tingles from bad boyz.

This woman is a classic modern woman. Avoid at all costs. It wont go well.

This has been posted before, but it's good in so many ways. The comments section is gold. She has a talent for editing and cinematography and her vision is sometimes brutally honest and other times, delusional. Spanish speakers caught:

"I love how she so "gently" translates some parts. Like when she's speaking with her grandmother and she says: "Es muy feo quedarse sola." Which she translates as: "It's not nice to be alone." But she's holding back. That's not the full extent of what her grandmother said. What she truly said was: "It's real ugly being alone." And ask anyone who speaks Spanish, "feo" means "ugly" in pretty much any context."

I have a lovely relative whose going through her experience almost precisely like this: PERFECT men throw themselves at her and she has serial relationships through her 20's where she bores of them or goes "independent" and walks out. Her parents were almost perfect: They gave her an expensive education with few hardships. She has EVERYTHING except for one thing: Perspective. As my wife and I hear about her adventures through family gossip, we quietly wonder: "Will she turn out like this woman?"

Yup, an old WAATGM classic. I find it personally cringe when she’s watching old videos of special moments that she shared with men who ultimately became strangers to her. She did it to herself, not searching for a plain old good guy. Using your best years for “freedom” comes with a cost.

First time I've viewed this one, even if its a repeat.

Her voice irritates the shit out of me, first off. Sure, she has a bod that isn't the staypuft marshmallow man, but that only carries you so far. I've messed around with 'exotics' before, so it isn't her accent -- her goddamned voice just grates upon my soul.

Even if I could put that aside, I just see the delusion that is apparent and she won't let go. "Perfect boyfriend" isn't perfect enough. Nothing is. She's firmly got her point of view up her own asshole and is refusing to readjust it.

I feel no pity for her. She made her empty bed, now she gets to lie in it.

An oldie, but goldie. That failed to have me crying in my popcorn.