Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Feminism teaches women that looking for a husband before 24-27 age range is too early, which goes against the traditional viewpoint that a woman who has failed to get married before the age of 22-24 is a spinster.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I love feminism.
It gives me plenty of access to women in their 30s who are so accustomed to being treated like shit that they expect it. You don't have to take them on dates. You don't have to be nice to them. You don't even have to return their calls/messages.
The best part is that when they try to pull the "traditional roles, treat me like a lady" bullshit, you can turn the feminist rhetoric back at them and watch them blue-screen from the cognitive dissonance.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Any single woman over 25 who claims to be traditional is anything but, if she was she would be married or engaged already.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
"Finally ready to settle down"
http://gc.pinchstatic.com/recipe/126/1-2-6-3-1-3_large.jpg
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Did you see the stats showing women having kids after age 35 increased and age 20-34 decreased? https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nhsr/nhsr179.pdf
Men's stats follow the same trend. Combine that with the Morgan Stanley SHEconomy stats that 45% of women ages 25-44 will be single and childless by 2030. Then you throw in MGTOW, NEETs, economically unattractive men, men under 6ft, men without 6 pack abs, red pill guys who abhor women over age 28, and you basically have an extinction coming.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
How many of those women after age 35 are single moms?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
40 percent of births in the United States are to unmarried women, and they are still more likely to be young, black or Latina and without a college degree.
Sorry if that wasn't what you wanted to hear but the good news is the trend is towards single women over 35 having kids by choice and fewer younger women having children.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
You're good, bro. Looks like things are moving in the right direction. Hopefully I'll live long enough to see women fall back into their roles as nature intended. Maybe another 40 years or so.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
From my experience, they double down the older they get. Both my Grandma's died alone divorced. My mom and aunt are dying alone divorced. One sister is alone and divorced. Another aunt died alone and divorced.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Huh. Some of them are beating the odds.
That's fairly common knowledge.
Nah, just a steep decline in the population coming. Humans have survived worse.
It'll suck for those of us who are around, but as a species we'll survive.
Who knows, maybe there'll be a pendulum swing. I'd love to see that within my lifetime.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
We've already seen a swing. It shows up as an increasing number of foreign born people and decreasing number of native born.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Did you mean an extinction of our culture? I had thought you had meant as a species.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's hard to say if the species will go down. A couple places in Africa are still prolific. Definitely the gynocentric societies will go extinct just on pure mathematical reality.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I just skimmed the abstract and two things jumped out at me:
1) The average woman reported giving birth to 1.3 children while the average man reported fathering 0.9 children. That's a roughly 30% difference.
2) The researchers accepted these self-reports at face value.
When you merge the implications of those two facts it paints a grim picture that reinforces what red-pill men have been saying for years: a lot of women would rather share "alpha" f-bois than have their own "beta" husbands. Other than a few cases of female respondants having borne the children of men outside of the age demographic under consideration, the only way for the average woman to have more children than the average man is for the women to be sharing a subset of men.
Now add in the fact that a woman knows exactly how many children slithered our of her birth canal, but a man has to assume that the children this woman give birth to are his. In other words, that 0.9 doesn't account for the fact that in some cases of "Mommy's baby - Daddy's maybe," the child really belongs to another man... one of those f-bois who sires children with multiple women that women pretend to disdain.
For some reason when we talk about women driving hook-up culture and forming themselves into rotating harems that leave most men with nothing, we're the bad guys, but when researchers prove it... crickets.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You could say that some women use IVF, sperm donors, etc. and that might account for some of it. There's also the stat of 30% of men under 30 are virgins. I think at this point in time we can assume roughly half of all women are hoes and half are housewives. This tracks with the SHEconomy stats as well. So it seems like the hoes are sharing a small number of men to get pregnant with, it doesn't work out, and then they get with a beta for resources.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I haven't read the paper yet, but one thing that may account for the 0.9 vs 1.3 is that some men might not even know that they're fathers, and the sluts may not be able to identify which fuckboy is.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Good point but most fuckbois are careful not to get baby-trapped and use condoms. It would seem to be a small number and then abortion probably takes care of a lot of that.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Only if they have resources that could be commandeered for child support.
If you're an ex-felon with more debts than assets, no job, and no prospects for anything beyond subsistence wages at best, then what do you care if you have half a dozen baby mammas? Might as well enjoy unprotected sex with the women that are messed up enough to want to have your baby for some reason.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
LMAO, I was careless and sloppy in that department. I was just really lucky.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Aaron Clarey did a video on guys who are 9s and 10s. The rules of the game completely change at that level. Every woman is trying to get your phone number, baby trap you, etc.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I must have been (and maybe still am) like 7.5 or 8 at most, then.
Rules were (and are) different for sure, but not that different.
Edit - do you have a link for that video by any chance? I don't always agree with Clarey, but almost always at least enjoy his work.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V0e2dqO-6QE
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Thanks!
kurkumaonce 1y ago
Not extinction this way IMO, populance replacement. It'll have to be rather slow because you will have to have diversity in control room with red button. So some of wealthy families will be going on for some time yet being in control and stuff but then west will be weaker and getting more immigrants from wherever.
Today immigrants mix to some extent and enjoy comfy life or at least better one then before. As the sex life and wealth will be more and more significantly affected and more good men checking out - more workforce will be imported - it will be a loop and already is.
It is really hard to say what will happen after control room will be diverse as future governments will be elected by less and less educated ppl. Survival instinct will be not enough if intelligence is insufficient.
I often hear example of Idiocracy, film. I can't remember did this even mention vast amounts of mass destruction weaponry available that can cover Earth with explosions several times. And that doesn't even cover biological weapon that is far more dangerous, maybe10 ppl fucking in Himalayas might survive Abomb blast and repopulate Earth again but some viscous bug might have 100% kill rate and fuck all water sources.
Then countries that are not able to manufacture Abombs could as well develop bio weapon as means of defence so that would be total fucking warfare of dumb ass people. Worst scenario but it is cooking slowly.
Last chance is to fuck Elon and send babies to Mars.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
We're almost at capacity for immigration and that just barely keeps the population from decreasing. I also see immigration competition from all the major countries that have declining populations. I also see running out of working age immigrants since every country has a fertility rate that has fallen below the replacement rate.
Just as a simple example, I've got Germans, Canadians and Swedes looking to hire me for programming. I've got most of SE Asia, China, S. Korea, Japan, and Saudi looking to hire me for teaching. Japan only got 3000 immigrants when their target was 40,000. Japan needs immigrants, but do immigrants need Japan? I can see a day and age where the US becomes unattractive to immigrants.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’ll be a long time, IMO. People are willingly living in this country for basically their entire life with no work authorization status (aka illegal immigrants). They still prefer it to their home country.
It’s wild to me that you’d rather be a serf than a citizen. But, that’s the backwardness of many places in the world when you don’t have money.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There are lots of paths to legal immigration so the ones who don't utilize it are usually up to no good. Drug dealers, gangs, felons, or else they're unable to afford it. I suppose it's better to be a serf in a country with social safety nets than one without.
That being said, you eventually run out of immigrants and/or they become less desirable. Basically that's what's happened to Japan. Expensive place, difficult language, exclusive culture, low pay, etc. But hey, at least they're not all fat :).
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Honestly the easiest way is like what my girlfriend’s aunt did: come here on a tourist visa and get to work on the husband hunt. A lot of men in America are so starved of a real companion in life, that being not obese and nice might as well make you Saint Mary.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Huh. I thought Japan was against gaijin becoming citizens, only allowing them to work there and not much else.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Japan is hyper-gynocentric and like western feminism, they only want "alphas," but they need "betas" to keep the system afloat.
The gaijin play the "BetaBucks" role: their purpose is to pay the bills now that the girls are getting older and there aren't enough "AlphaBucks" (native Japanese) to do it.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I'd have thought that the gaijin would be playing "hot foreign guy" based on some of my buddies' stories (I've never been there).
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
You're taking the metaphor more literally than I intended. I'm talking about the (to coin a phrase) Cultural Market Value of foreigners in general, not the Sexual Market Value of individual western expats. Japanese culture looks down on foreigners (hence the term gaijin being universally understood as a pejorative), but if the nation is to economically survive the demographic typhoon they have unleashed on themselves, they'll have to culturally "marry" the geijin for their resources.
But the culture they want (Japanese culture) cannot and will not give them the economic stability they need, so like a wall-crashing spinster "settling" for a BetaBucks man she feels is beneath her, Japan will have to make some accommodations for the icky geijin who can keep the lights on and put food on the table.
Edit. The fact that many Japanese men have become "grass eaters" (and who could blame them?), and the fact that white western expats tend to be swaggering go-getters might make the pill easier to swallow. If Japanese women see the possibility of marrying tall, cocky, wealthy foreigners, they'll rank their desire for tingles over their desire for cultural homogeneity.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I mean look at how many Japanese women marry American men. I know multiple dudes with Japanese wives, and one of my coworkers is the child of a white American man and Japanese woman. Women with value to the relationship world, will seek out their man.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Oops. Tired and distracted yesterday. I doubt today will be any better lol.