Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
OP @Seagram7 and anyone else: for future reference, when it comes to articles, we strongly prefer an archived link via archive.is so that everyone can read it in its entirety rather than just screenshots.
In fact, it's even specified in the rules. Here's rule 7 in its entirety, with what's relevant to this post in bold:
I'll leave this up because of the comments so far, but we will be removing future posts featuring articles that are just incomplete screenshots rather than archived links.
CC: @moorekom, @Kevin32, @lurkerhasarisen, @Woodsmoke, @houseoftolstoy (I haven't seen anyone else active recently; if any of you have, please tag them in a reply).
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
@land_of_the_losers
Chad_Bodmor 1y ago
I can answer that. This dude isn't Chad, he's a tampon. Women don't put tampons in their vagina because they like them there. They put them in there, resentfully, when they need them there. And as soon as they don't they yank them the f*ck out. Sound familiar?
The only thing they like to shove in their vagina is Chad's cock, or their vibrating toy while they fantasize about's Chad's cock.
This dude is getting relationship maintenance sex, only as absolutely necessary to keep him interested. God help him if he marries her and she no longer has to have sex with him to keep him around. How does "only on your birthday and Valentine's Day" sound to you?
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Oh Lord, she's dating the male equivalent of what she calls herself in the mirror on a daily basis (funny, kind, gorgeous). And surprise surprise, it's the men's fault that she got treated badly but still felt the uncontrollable urge to fuck them anyway. This dude needs a sign from God to end this farce of a relationship asap (i.e. a Snapchat ping on her phone like the homie in https://www.forums.red/p/whereareallthegoodmen/319099/woman_fails_her_audit).
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
Anytime a woman says she married or is dating her best friend I immediately think she’s using him for something that isn’t sex.
If she isn’t complaining in some way then you’re too boring in my opinion.
LolTroll11 1y ago
What a healthy well adjusted adult.
If we take everything she says about her boyfriend at face value( :/ ), even in the best case scenario she now sees sex as a bait to lead a guy into relationship. She should have stopped when it didn't work the first few times, but that would be expecting too much from people nowadays.
otter1 1y ago
Me thinks her mom used sex as a weapon, she was socialized into that.
DextroShade 1y ago
She has lost her ability to pair-bond because it was fucked out of her by Chad, Brad, Pookie, Rayray, Tyrone, and Kevin in sales just to name a few. Used-up trash like this should be avoided at all costs, and I hope the guy wises up and leaves her in the gutter where she belongs. NEVER commit to a bitch who doesn't like having sex with you.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This kind of woman is basically fucked because what they want from an LTR is a man that they can transition into being their dad. The 'dad partner' is a guy that will 'take care of her' and solve all her problems and pay for shit, so that she can then regress into a child like state (the highest form of achievement for a modern woman). BUT.... as the man slowly transforms into her replacement daddy, she slowly loses all interest in sex with him. Which is reasonable - girls don't want to have sex with their daddies, they want their daddies to be their servants and provide validation and unconditional affection and constant praise.
This relationship is fucked beyond repair. It cannot be fixed. Take warning guys, when women start crying and want you to sort out their problems DON'T take the bait. We have a strong urge to protect and provide, but be very careful with it....that is our 'fathering' instinct. It is supposed to be lavished on our off-spring, not our partner.
You will notice that many women have cuddly toys, they will use a baby voice, behave in a childish voice, even call you 'daddy'. This is to try an evoke your fathering instincts. DO NOT DO IT. A woman is a woman, and a child is a child. Do not confuse the two.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I read somewhere that birth control makes women less instinctive making them choose logical stable safe-choice men that don’t turn them on; and women are legitimately incapable of pair bonding when they've been with multiple men. That's what the issue she's having is.
My guess is her previous 'boyfriends' would take what they wanted from her and their forcefulness turned her on. Her boyfriend now is one of those sensitive types that actually cares about her and so her pussy dries up like the Sahara Desert. She needs to tell her boyfriend to be more assertive and less agreeable. Of course she won't, she'll cheat on him by fucking some guy she met at a club, and then she'll push her boyfriend away until he gives up on her
Women work like this, when a man pops her cherry and the first couple times she and her first have sex it’s like the first cigarette or heroin shot, it’s designed by nature to be intensely bonding. That isn’t what happens anymore, they get fucked at a young age by a dude that spins a dozen different roastie plates, there’s not bonding, she gets fucked in a bathroom stall then next week she’s chasing the high sucking off three cocks, so they never actually bond with any mate for their entire life.
While they were still always hypergamous and was a coin flip if they would end up cheating at some point, marriages back in day still would last 60 years despite common problems on both husband and wife’s side of the relationship. Because they were still a bonded pair on her end of things. When does that ever happen now, like 1 in 10 if even that? Casual sex for women destroys the basic fundamental structure of human interaction and the strongest foundations for decent civilization. All so women can feel empowered and fuck around.
link for columnist's response and reader comments (all disinformational bluepilled bullshit) the few comments that are based in realism are quickly piled up on
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2023/jan/31/im-really-happy-with-my-boyfriend-so-why-dont-i-want-to-have-sex-with-him
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
See my sticky comment.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup
This post is why any n-count > 0 is too much for marriage or LTR material.
Pic889 1y ago
I will be the contrarian here and tell you that, in my opinion, an n-count of 0 doesn't mean anything. For example, if she has daddy issues but was raised in a conservative town, she can have a (purported) n-count of 0 but cheat on you on the spot if the right kind of bad boy gives her the right kind of tingles. Think of how you can have a husky dog that has been born and raised in an urban environment but once you take it to a ski resort it will start digging tunnels in the snow instinctively, because that's what it was meant to do all along. Same for women with daddy issues and bad boy tingles.
I am of the opinion that you have to vet the woman, and vet thoroughly: How does she act around you? Do you always have to initiate intercoure and how is the intercourse like? What kind of men she was dating before? (her past taste in men is her present and future taste in men) Are you afraid of asking her to split the bill / does she need to be compensated in order to be with you? Does she pressure you for marriage? (this means she knows she can keep up the pretense of intimacy for much longer btw).
The problem is, men's magazines don't talk about any of this. They focus so much on initiating the date that what happens after that is never mentioned. And as a result, most men go at it without any kind of field guide. Meanwhile, women's magazines tell women what red flags to look (despite most women ignoring them systematically), so women hit the ground running in that regard if they are smart.
PS: And to be even more contrarian, I would personally be afraid of a woman with an n-count of 0 today unless she just hit 18. You are basically dealing with unknown territory when it comes to the kind of men she prefers and there is a chance of her being asexual.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
More fun that way!
Both my wife and I had an n-count of zero when married, and have been loyal for over 20 years. While I can't speak from experience from a PUA standpoint (like Roosh for instance), I can definitely say it's a huge deal. I would never recommend marrying a non-virgin simply because the chances of a happy marriage go way down for ANY partners above zero before marriage. Just statistics.
I agree, but I think n-count is the number one criteria for vetting. Like when you vet someone for renting a condo, you check their credit score first. It's a crude metric, and there can be anomalies, but in general it works.
I'm a proponent of "young" marriage, although if you look at history 18 is on the old side to marry. I plan on marrying my daughter off at 16-20, no later.
As far as "unknown territory" that's exactly the goal. Sexual innocence is priceless in women, and I can attest to that. To put it bluntly, I'm the best sex my wife has ever had, she never compares me to anyone, and I have more sex than most people my age (and have for over 20 years). This would not be the case if my wife had "experience" before marriage.
Sexual innocence has always been desired in women, and always will be, because it's much better to start a marriage without sexual baggage.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
It doesn't make them less instinctive (if that can even be measured in the first place). Hormonal birth control affects a woman's MHC gene expression preferences. Your MHC genes express your immune system's setup outwardly via your natural body odor. Natural selection favors mating between two mammals that have dissimilar MHC genes, because this maximizes genetic diversity (thus maximizing the survivability of the offspring). A woman who isn't using hormonal birth control favors MHC genes that are dissimilar and the most compatible. If she goes on the pill for a while, the estrogen tricks her body into thinking it's always pregnant, and it changes her MHC gene preference to favor MHC genes that are more similar to hers.
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
So feminine men
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I don't know about you guys - and I'm not trying to violate the 'shaming men' rule - but honestly there's something about the latest generation or so of guys that I see around me and on various media outlets (Youtube, etc..) that just strike me as "off".
Mannerisms, affected speech (a bit high and nasally, not quite a lisp but certainly feminized), and of course some fashion choices that seem overly-estrogen influenced.
I don't have a convenient word for it, but its started to grate on me. Even to the point where if I find a subject I'm looking for on say, YouTube, if the commenter is some nasally femi-guy, I can't really stick with the video. My brain keeps saying "Speak normally you fucking pansy" and I just shut it off.
Hey, maybe its me, but it seems that for whatever reason there's this trend. Am I wrong?
chadinthemaking69 1y ago
It’s so easy to be a man in this era because everyone is listening to girls and TikTok about what it takes to be a man.
Actual masculine men and this space are all that’s left
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Welcome to 2023, where getting banned from that platform is a mark of manliness (and often the only content worth consuming).
nicknack 1y ago
Don’t worry, that muscular ex con with the neck tat she sees walking his pitbull will make her pussy extremely wet, and she’ll even daydream freaky no commitment sex with him.
Unusual_Chair 1y ago
She wants her boyfriend for stability and nothing else. She would be happy to convince her boyfriend to accept her being fuck other men and come home to him afterwards. What she doesn't realize is that commitment isn't for her, she belongs to the streets.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"It doesn't seem to bother him too much (yet)" Oh, trust me, it bothers him. No man wants to be beta bucks. It bothers him, but he's currently in a state of denial or hoping for change. But if he has any sense, he's going to leave.
Then you can go back to the CC - and get those bad boy tinglesTM!