Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
otter1
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Chad_Bodmor 1y ago
6 out of 10 woman for my age bracket seeks 9 out of 10 man from younger age bracket.
Yeah my arrogance meter pegged so hard into "Delusional" it bent the needle. You'd be damn luck lady to get a third of that list one age bracket above you if you did the chasing.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
I wonder how she would feel about a guy who posts his height taller than his actual height? I am sure she would not contemplate the hypocrisy there.
And if she is older than she posts (45), so much for the "life-long relationship." Half of her life is over, and that is being generous with average life expectancy. If she wants any relationship, she would do best to keep her expectations reasonable. Sure, there are men who actually would fit these categories and maybe even be fine with a relationship with her, but I have my doubts that she would see anything less than perfection in all of these categories as enough. Such a list does not come from someone who is down to earth to understand that what she is asking for is quite exceptional even on paper.
For example, men who are "successful" and "ambitious" (i.e. have lots of money) are going to have much less time to devote to live the healthy lifestyle she also demands. Sure, one can be healthy and earn lots of money, but often if you want to be a high earning man, you are going to have less time available to do the exercise needed to be considered "physically fit." Often, you have to make choices in what you can do with your time, and they often clash with each other.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
I make $450,000 a year. Also note that I posted a MUCH higher salary than my real one for search purposes, so hopefully you're not hung up on numbers.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Well not only do I make $500,000 per year, plus stock options, but I am also 6'4" tall, and have a seven bedroom house in the 90210 zip code.
Please don't be hung up on numbers because i altered all of those for search purposes.
You should contact me if you are honest, not superficial, and your dress size is no more than your shoe size.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Did you all spot how she wrote "USUALLY with an entrepreneurial spirit"...... Usually. Which implies a plurality. Not an individual. I find that very interesting.
She's talking about her day dreams. She is confusing day dreams and delusional thinking with reality. Which is common. To be fair, that is all she has left.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
Much better profile @otter1, Chasing Chad mixed with Princess. Worth a weekday post.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hahahahaha...oh my aching sides. Whheewweeeww.
Oh sweaty, what do you bring to such an amazing man? Your presence? I doubt that would mean very much because your character is shit. You cannot be honest and upfront about your age and yet you demand top notch attributes from your future husband?
You get what you fucking deserve, and then only if you are lucky.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
This [read: beat up roast beef - 10,000 miles - pussy which she will only share with you when she feeeeeeeeeeeeeeelZ like it and is in the mooooooooooooooooood].
And this [read: sagging body, sad sagging boobs, extra weight, cellulite, etc]
And her stryng induhpyndaiynt attitude.
otter1 1y ago
post menopausal pussy at that
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Her: Age is just a number, and I have deliberately misled you about mine. Numbers should not matter to you.
Also her: You must be at least 5'10" tall, because numbers matter to me.
So a woman's AGE is just a trivial detail even if her depicted age is not even close to her real age, but a man's HEIGHT is a deal-breaker even if he's only off by a trivial amount?
Would she be okay with a guy who's 5'4" wearing six inch platform shoes? I think not.
Doricel 1y ago
If age is just a number i would like to date a 19 year old female as a 30 year old male.
I guess they won't have any problems with it right? Age is just a number, riiiiiiiiiiiight?
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Dude im 32, my last girl was 19 and she's as tall or taller than me (5'10). My preferred age bracket is under 26, preferably between 18 and 24.
Fuck what they think.
Doricel 1y ago
I was sarcastic about that in my last comment.
The women i look for are in the 18-23 age range and most women i approach are 18-19 year old.
Post wall roasties can suck it.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Take a look at what r-eddit is saying about Leonardo De-Caprio and his new 19-year-old girlfriend. The post near the top of r-all calls him a sexual predator right there in the post title, and the admins left it up.
So numbers don't matter when a 13-year-old wants to get her genitals mutilated, or have sex and keep the baby, but a millionaire adult supermodel is a child when she decides to ride the coattails of one of the top actors in cinematic history.
And that's just the tip of the hypocrisy iceberg...
Women: "My age, weight, and n-count are not important. They're just numbers that don't signify anything."
Also women: "A man's height and income are very important numbers because they accurately reflect who he is as a person."
Doricel 1y ago
I'm out. They can date themselves if they want to.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Good observation!
Numbers are measurements.
The measurements of your awesomeness - are desired numbers.
The measurements of her failures - are undesired numbers.
otter1 1y ago
And obviously the man's AGE is important to her or she wouldnt care that she was being matched with dudes her own age before she started changing it for "matching purposes"
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Hey sweaty pie,
If you're already writing up a fantasy list of requirements about an imaginary man - why stop at one page???
Write out a 10 page list! Go all out!
Heck, just write another romantic novel
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Ugh, I've seen enough already lol
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Good luck with that, grandma.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The guy you want is back in your late teens/early 20s where you left him. In your 50s, good luck, even with the extensive makeup and old photos.
She filters men based on height, while also lying about her age "for search results".
A "lady" is a woman who makes it easy for a man to be a gentleman. You want to be treated like a lady, act like one. Men know how to treat a lady, but we reserve that kind of treatment for... ladies. You want to be a washed-out whore, the daughter of a feminist whale, you don't get anything but scorn.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
After having read some 18th and 19th century fiction, it's useful to understand the historical context of "ladies". They were literal members of nobility with huge... tracts of land offered to their suitors. "Ladies" also were aware that as they aged, their marriageability would be severely impacted hence they were quite charming and pleasant to be around as well as mistresses of discretion.
With the advent of birth control and "the sexual revolution", so-called "ladies" could demand that "gentlemen" "know how to treat them" and if he didn't, she'd refuse to give him sex BUT the cost to that was that she had to eventually give him pre-marital sex. This woman herself probably would "friendzone" some sap if he was a "real" gentlemen and kept paying for dates and holding open her doors but yet, once she gives him sex, she has ZERO hold over him (if he's smart.)
The careful balancing act of dating, from 1960 to say 2000 or so was for a man who was "gentlemen" enough to still be "tingly" and "fun" and that she'd sleep with after N times but they'd somehow wind up married. I'm amazed it worked at all.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You're getting my upvote just for the Monty Python reference.....
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Seconded. Love a good Python reference.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Holy shit, I think I have seen shorter lists in a laundromat. These modern women are insane with their expectations. She comes across as incredibly selfish and superficial. Some poor bastard who decides to wife her up will give her the world on a silver plate but she will complain and be resentful because it wasn't delivered on a gold plate.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Plot twist: nobody will wife her up. Nobody. There are guys that will respond to her profile on OLD, but they are just looking for some pump and dump. They will be able to get some action by PRETENDING to be interested in an LTR. The delusion that she is suffering from is that there is some guy out there who will volunteer to give up his freedom in order to be miserable with this demanding, insane entitlement princess. It's not going to happen. Not with a tall guy with "demanding presence", and not with a short guy with no presence.
In the immortal words of Willy Wonka - "You get nothing!"
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If a woman is her age and single, it's for a good damn reason.
Also, it's funny that women start demanding more when they start offering less, like increasing their standards will magically increase the quality of men pursuing them.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This is the actual foundation principle of Eff-Eee-Ess which is that the more demands and "standards" a woman has, the more attractive she is to a "real man" who wants to "man up" and 'prove himself' to her. The more money she spends at the shopping mall is a turn on for a "real man" billionaire who needs someone to blow all that cash he has burning a hole in his pocket.
That's why Eff-Dee-Ess usually comes to inevitable advise their adherents on the HIGH likelihood they're going to wind up dying alone. As a 'strategy', it's basically telling them to go out and blow their paychecks on lottery tickets and a suicide pill.
Steve Harvey once gave similar advice "Pay for business class you're used to it, and find economy class unbearable, and that will motivate you to become successful". It's an amazing opposite of most self-made millionaires I've known who tend to lead austere, minimalist lives.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
For a long time, to I've suspected that Female Desperation Strategy is actually a ploy to sabotage women in the dating market. Given that it was created and frequented by women who are - and this might shock you - single as fuck, you would think they would be the last ones you want to take advice from on securing a man, much less a man of "high value".
I don't take investment tips from bums, I don't take fitness advice from fatasses. Why would I take dating advice from people who have failed in the most skewed and advantageous market for women in the world?
Steve Harvey gives advice that leads women to spinsterhood. Very rarely does he hold them accountable for themselves and he never ever breaks the second rule of female fight club: don't tell them that they might need to put in effort. The first rule of female fight club is that you don't talk about female fight club.
I don't know why people listen to Steve Harvey anyways. Our guy Broderick has been married three times, so maybe I'll go to him if I want to know how to navigate a divorce or raise my daughter to be community property.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I still chuckle when I remember the time Jesse Watters interviewed the head mod of r-antiwork, and it turned out that the guy giving financial and career advice to hundreds of thousands of people is an obese part-time dog walker who literally lives in his parent's basement.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I remember that!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
*mental note to look that up on YouTube later
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It was beautiful. He thought he was going somewhere and JLP just asked him what he did for a living and when the guy said it, you could see the wind up for the knockout punch
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
My next day off, I'll try to remember to watch it
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Good questions PB, you say 'I don't know why people listen to Steve Harvey' ....I'll tell you why women listen to a guy that doesn't hold them to account, always takes their side...because he gives them the advice that they want to hear. This is how you make money from post wall single women. You write 'self help' books with titles like 'You are the Queen' or 'Unleash the princess' or 'Know your Worth' or 'Never Settle' or 'Hold Out For The Hero' or or or....I could write female self help / dating strategy book titles all day.
Lets write a few chapter headers:
Doricel 1y ago
3 is pure delusion, but if you can Make a buck or two off these roasties more power to you
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They are all delusion. The only kinds of advice that women want is bad advice, the kind that panders to their delusions.
This is why Kevin Samuels had such a hard time. There he was offering the truth, which is very useful. And all these post wall basket cases would call and try to convince him that he was wrong. Every single time. They would sit there and smile and tell KS that they were a princess and much higher value than they plainly were, and that they should never ever 'settle'. It's so cringe making to watch some of these women, call a dating coach up, and then try to convince the dating coach to change his mind.
A much better business model would be to simply tell them 'yass queen - you go girl! Imma gonna show you how to land a High Value Man. All you need to do is sign up to my patented Prince Hunt (TM) course, and I'll show you
Just listen to these testimonials! Jacinta, aged 41 "I had a great time in my 20's just dishing it out, doing coke for BJs at the clubs. But then I realised that I wanted something real, ya dig? So I signed up to KS's Prince Hunt course and I instantly was able to access my choice of tall, good looking rich men. That's how I met Chad, who is 6'5, a millionaire, great dancer, massive cock, six pack, loves pets and thinks of my 2 kids as his own. The course has paid for itself many times over. Now I don't have to work any more, I just go to the spa and take selfies all day."
Doricel 1y ago
You should also make a special course called "HOW TO MAKE HIGH VALUE MEN COMMIT TO YOU"
and then put a VERY small asterisk that says "only for one night"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
good one Doricel, but the issue is that it contains the truth. Women don't want the truth. They want the dream.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
If you haven't seen this scene before (a "meh" move) but this scene is good of a pretty woman shooting a guy down at a bar as she lectures him about what women want. youtube "Love Potion No 9 Bar Scene 1"
She demands he know what designer outfit she has on, for instance. I cannot imagine any (straight) man would know that. Men simply don't care about "expensive tastes" although upper class men may want a woman who dresses elegantly, but that can be done on a budget. (The joke is that Ann Taylor provides Queen Elizabeth's wardrobe).
That being said, it's funny that my wife has rather proletariat inclinations: She may gripe about it, but she INSISTS upon cleaning the home every 2 weeks with an old fashioned mop even as I said just hire a maid service and enjoy her weekend. She also prefers to hand wash dishes instead of using the machine.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You have highlighted one of the central contradictions of modern woman: they demand that men transform magically into a woman in order to qualify for an LTR with them - for example that they;
And when / if the man does that, they won't want the man any more.
Like I said, its the central contradiction inside every modern womans brain - they both want us to be women, but do not desire men that behave like women. The only solution is to not listen to what they say they want and hold on to your masculinity, even if the world tells you your toxic and evil.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I find it funny when women claim that men aren't emotionally intelligent, as if they have the monopoly on it by virtue of having a vagina or because they're really into star signs.
EI consists of four areas (next time a woman starts talking, ask her what those areas are. Prepare for retard-speak): self-awareness, self-management, social-awareness, social-management (or relationship management, depending on the source).
Men are far and away much better at this, because we do all four on a daily basis. Women are so myopic that, because we aren't led by the nose by our feelings, they think that we don't have or understand our feelings.
"No Kimberly, we just know that we don't have the luxury of crying in the middle of this Kroger. We are just as disappointed in the ginger beer being out of stock as you are."
A man who isn't emotionally intelligent is a man who fails - he isn't respected by anyone because the world knows that a man who cannot manage his emotions and his relationships is not useful to anyone - he's too fickle and mercurial to be reliable... He's essentially a woman.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
great insight. In terms of EI, they fall at the very first hurdle - which is self awareness. When you say we are far and away better at this, you're not wrong. My wife once asked me why there were so few female pilots and I just said - its just not their bag, not their skill set. She responded 'but women can learn to fly, they can learn the maths etc (commercial pilot skills very maths heavy). So I just reminded her that a woman's go-to response for a catastrophic event is to engage crying mode. Which is not helpful for a mid Atlantic engine fire or similar event. Men are prone to respond to events in a rational way (men actually invented the school of logic and reason) and women respond to events in an emotional way.
When women say they want men to be 'emotionally intelligent' its just some word that they realise has been used in circles that count (behavioural scientists). They have no idea what the word means. When they say that they want men to have a high EI, what they really mean is that they want men to respond to events in a emotional way (rather than a logical way) so that the men will be 'more like them', in the mistaken belief that the woman will then have 'found her soul mate' because they will be better able to 'get along' because they are 'more similar'.
This is of course pure bs. You can test my hypothesis simply by behaving like a woman in a time of minor crisis, just to see how much women value men that have become women. Next time you get a flat tyre on a busy road (ideally at night) just start crying and waving your hands around and tell her that you 'have no idea how to change a tyre'. For bonus points you could start shrieking about how you are both going to get raped, you're stranded and are both going to die.
rb577511 1y ago
The fake 'sorority smile' is a bit terrifying. She scares me.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Man those crazy eyes.
I didn't even read all of the profile, the pics were enough. I gave that a hard pass before her laundry list was factored in.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Holy crap! She ran out of adjectives in the English language.
EmpireCrimson 1y ago
She's free to ask for whatever she wants - however delusional it may be - but what is she offering ?
It's a two-way street, even when it isn't. Sure, she's not some feminist oaf trying to punch above her weight, there's nothing in her post that would entice any guy from choosing her, beyond her looks. She's north of 45. Kids are out of the picture. What is the value-add? She doesn't talk about herself. What does she add for him? Next.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The dating market is just like the free market.
As a buyer, you can ask for anything you want. What you can't do is expect sellers to give it to you for less than they feel it's worth.
I could want a Verge TS, but I can't walk up and say "I'm willing to pay you $15K USD for a $50K USD product." My choices are simple - give them what they want or fuck off.
Women don't understand this because they do not understand value. When something is given and not earned, you do not understand it's value. Sadly, there isn't an analogy that you can make that will help women understand this.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
As soon as you see this sentence "I am searching for someone with a passion for life" you know she is mad. She is telling you that all the other guys that she's been with didn't have 'a passion for life'. They were boring. They just went to work, earned a living, behave normally. That's not what she wants. She wants to live in a fairy tale with a prince performing miracles to entertain her.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Red pill truth:
You can do anything to a woman except bore her.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Other things that might cause problems:
giving her everything she could possibly want, such as kids, a house, a life of luxury, attention and love - that will likely lead to divorce.