Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 1y ago in WAATGM In The Making - Permalink - Locked - 3.2K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She sends men mixed signals and she gets mixed results.
Only women are surprised by this.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
These men are just supposed to wait until she realizes she doesn't have better options for her to finally warm up to them you misogynist
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And she'll make them wait until she's 45 to boot.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
And by that time, she has already been thoroughly booted.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
A deceased friend of mine referred to this behavior as "glass jarring". In which a woman expects a dude to just hang around forever getting nothing like he's a dick in a glass container marked Break In Case of Emergency.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Sadly, most wives treat their husbands that way.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
So, a severe case of too little, too late. Sorry, Mother Teresa, maybe being cold and distant to a guy who's into you just doesn't really work too well.
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Aphr00dita 1y ago
She established a pattern.
Bravo. First step completed.
I can't imagine to be any of those if someone not annoying or huge pain in the ass would approach me about it. Anything from 4\10 + CB (cool babe) would get answer if asking really polite (also offering something non sexual for advice) and 2 or 3 times (invested in knowledge). If she get this feedback she is below 4CB and well below if consistent pattern.
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Who am kidding. I never met such woman anyways
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is the dating market working exactly as women shaped it. A battle of the sexes. Nobody is there to be good, honest, or loyal. People like that get snatched off the market right away and stay off the market. 1 or 2 dates and they stick together. Not some endless parade of random hook up screenings.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
That's exactly why you won't find good women in dating apps. They're not there - they don't need to be there. People around them know their worth, and they themselves don't have to make a point of being a strong independent woman. And yet, our lady here is still single; I wonder why.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I met my wife on match 22 years ago. Our widow friend met a nice man online about 5 years ago as well. The widow set her standards reasonably, was not demanding, and quickly found someone and got married. Once they made an (actual) effort to find someone, they were quickly off the market.
In times past, women met men via lots of social events such as church festivals, weddings (and funerals), school, and "social media" (gossip between neighborhood mothers, faster than gig fiber). Courtship was in the home, chaperoned, and not about milking men for free goodies and entertainment in exchange for 3rd date sex. "good women" might engage in long courtships, but they were respectful affairs (in the highest sense of the word). Reputation mattered back then, for men and women, and Rhett Butler was cast as a "scoundrel" in Gone With The Wind for taking a woman out on a date and not returning her home in time when something COULD have happened and NOT marrying her. That's right: He was shunned from "polite society" for going out on a traditional date and getting her home late.
My grandmothers were born in the 1910s. My paternal grandmother's sister rejected some guy who was courting her and she said "I liked him. I saw my opportunity and grabbed it!" and she expressed a desire for him. He would become my grandfather.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There is something to be said for limiting the options pool. You choose the best of what was available and get on with life.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The key to this limited options was that they were sincere. When people dated back then, they were geared towards marriage. We hear about "hookup culture" today, but that's been in place largely since the 1970's with women going out to date with strange men where he plies her with goodies and if she doesn't put out, he moves on. Even in the 1950's, men were griping that women were using them for goodies and women griped men tried to get them to "put out" BUT women drove this. They LIKED the goodies but wanted men to be "gentlemen" and the fathers would blame the men while literally pimping out their daughters for free meals.
Courtship geared towards marriage meant a different “three date rule” in that if a woman wasted his time, he’d move on quickly while the ones she liked courted her at her parents’ home AT HER PARENT’S EXPENSE (see Michael Corleone and Apollonia)
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What's funny is I can go to the Philippines and get a gf in 10sec and it's pretty much expected that she wants to get married and have kids. If I go online there it's just the undesirables, ladyboys, leftover women and gold diggers. If I go to a club there it's hoes and prostitutes. It's kinda like that all over Asia.
I think that going forward we have to just categorize women. Some guys are doing this already and labeling them "recreational use only" and they use a series of red flags to identify them. It's like we're bringing back social stigma but in a covert manner to deal with women covertly changing the rules.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Interesting statement. How would you meet them? Just striking up conversations in public? Streets? Shops? What's the opening line? "Hello? How are you? My name is X?"
I think, perhaps, 60 years ago such an introduction and opener would have been the norm and quite acceptable but most western women would regard such an approach with trepidation unless the guy was hot. Do Phillippinas react with more friendliness to caucasian foreigners?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah you just walk up to them and say hi and ask them out. No big deal. It was the same in russia and thailand. https://www.youtube.com/shorts/C93W_-cDxmY
Sometimes they're married though and you find out after you cum in them, lol.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Translation: "The guys I'm not into are persistent and sometimes get into my pants, while the dudes I get wet for know I'm a chum bucket castoff, so they ghost me if I try to be something beyond a convenient pump."
Naturally she's "too nice", "too kind", "too loving" and loyal -- bitch, if any of that was true you'd be with a guy instead of whining somewhere on a social media platform.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
So she's upset that men she's not really interested in eventually take the hint and won't let her play her favorite game of Boy's Brain Ball anymore.
What a fucking cunt.
Edit: for any peanut gallery, most women know within minutes if not seconds if they will ever have any sexual interest in you. But never ever expect them to admit that they know, because they can get resources and utility by keeping things ambiguous. That's why they'll fuck a known jobless philanderer they've known all of 30 minutes in a bar bathroom, while making the average schlub they've known since childhood with a stable job cough up a ring or otherwise jump through a ridiculous set of hoops before giving him grudgingly rationed out duty sex. They know there is nothing to gain from withholding sex from the philanderer, he'll just instantly leave.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
One of the great blue pill myths is that men "enjoy" being the pursuer and providing for his "lady" but that sounds more like the product of centuries of brainwashing. This is easily disproven with this thought experiment: Ask most (sane) men if they'd prefer to be a handsome celebrity with women throwing themselves at him versus a chivalrous normal guy wining and dining a woman for years in exchange for a few pats on the head and "thank you!"
I think this ties into the other article I just posted where a woman frets she isn't turned on by ANYONE because her "hard to get game" has left her emotionally dead inside.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
My gut reaction: FUCK YEAH LADIES IT'S DATING LIKE DICAPRIO TIME! ALL ABOARD THE SS GLAWK GLAWK, EXCEPT FOR THOSE OF YOU OVER 25, HERE'S SOME HANDY DIRECTIONS TO THE NEAREST NURSING HOME, TRY NOT TO BREAK A HIP ON THE WAY THERE!
ahem. I mean, yeah, being rich and not being expected to bust my ass for scraps of attention would be nice.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Note that this applies to Chads and Tyrones who are often dirty poor hence "bailout" flair. Our society has pushed a bluepill narrative that men, including powerful and/or handsome men, enjoy "wining and dining" and pleasing women for the sake of it.
In a way, women finally see through this in that they are suspicious of "nice guy" intentions hence the shit tests. "Are you being a decent person because you're weak?" she's asking, in her reflexive driven manner. A woman would prefer a legitimately bad person in lieu of a decent one that she's unsure of their strength. As men start to see through it, they'll realize that chivalry has zero value. We can't bury the beast of woman entitlement feminism until we kill off the chivalrous beast that birthed it.
DextroShade 1y ago
This is where it would be good to ask the Kevin Samuels questions: how old are you, height, weight, dress size, how much does a man need to make, etc. She sounds like another entitled average-at-best basic bitch who is shooting down average men because she thinks she deserves high-value men who should simp for her.