Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago Stickied
Does your daughter's birth certificate list a barracks instead of the father's name?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That one there was a violation
NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
... savage
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
...but accurate.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Is it just me or is The Wall hitting women younger and younger?
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Here's the thing.
To married women - the wall holds little significance. What really matters is, whatvkind of wife is she...
For single women, the wall matters a lot. In several different ways.
To single mothers, the wall is make or break.
Because of the tremendous liability that comes with a single mother, there's no actual reason to have any association with her altogether. There's definitely no reason to date her.
The only reason why anyone would point their dick in her direction, is because she's hot. That's it.
That's why the wall is make or break for a single mommy.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's what they don't get. The wall is undefeated, and the only way to avoid it is to never ride the carousel that flings you into it.
Find a man, get married, be a good dutiful wife, and your beauty will only grow in his eyes.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
OK, maybe it's just me then. I just thought I was seeing an age-shift trend.
nicknack 1y ago
I think you’re just getting older, and 27 seems so young to you now. 27 is plenty of time for a woman to turn herself into a fat sun damaged pig with high mileage.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's just the posts. Used to be 35+ most of the time. Now it's 27. Tomorrow it's 23, etc.
nicknack 1y ago
When I was 21 I sat next to a girl named Emma in community college. She was huge , covered in tats and had an awful haircut. She was extremely friendly to me and constantly asked me about how my life has been etc. Turns out it’s the same Emma I had a massive crush on when we were 12, who was voted prettiest hair in middle school and could have been a child actress how cute she was. I had no idea for basically a month.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Plot twist: When you meet her at the reunion she'll be a man
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I have a question for the servicemen: Is there any branch distinction between the THOTs? The Navy guys are often off on deployments for a half year at a time. The Army guys may move around a lot, but do their wives and family follow them? Just curious.
I'm thinking that my daughter, if raised properly, could leverage becoming an officer and getting a free education in ROTC but is the temptation of miles of stiff, young sausage too much for any woman to bear?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Basically a 4 becomes a 9 when there is scarcity.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
If it's a PCS (Permanent Change of Station) move, the Army pays to move the whole family. Exceptions exist (as of when I served, Korea and Kuwait), but those pay "Family Separation Allowance". I think all branches are the same on this.
Deployments, TCS (Temporary Change of Station), and TDY are different, and there are tons of variables. 99% of the time, family can't come along.
What lurker said. I advise against it.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Another vet chiming in: sluts gon slut. And military lifestyle makes it way too easy for women to practice the more unethical forms of hypergamy without there being an immediate punishment, which means to the hypergamous lizard brain said punishments don't exist until well after WHERE ARE ALL THE GOOD MEN?!
Edit: And even the rare few that manage to exert control over their lizard brain are inevitably going to have other issues that impact their desirability for marriage, usually due to being insufferable cunts that don't pull the same weight as a same ranked male, or against all odds they are stable, competent, and respectable, but are basically a dude with a vagina. I have known only two of the latter in my entire time. Doesn't mean you'd want to marry them though.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
Women officers cheat on their significant others as much as enlisted women. I saw a lot of it.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
So as someone who did both Air Force and Army, I'll tell you...
Sluts gonna slut.
There is just too much access to horny, fit, dominant men for any woman to resist.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Air Force AND Army? Are you a masochist? :-)
nicknack 1y ago
Military girls are sadly sluts. Same as male nurses.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Male nurses aren't sluts, they're just men surrounded by sluts.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
1) Women don't belong in the military anyway, so the rest is moot. But since the can of worms is already open...
2) I don't recommend the military to anyone at this point. The next war is likely to be a bloodbath, and the brass is more concerned with the force being PC than being dangerous. That's going to cost lives.
3) Every service member moves around, and any assignment of more than a year is accompanied. Everyone goes TDY at least occasionally, but Navy guys tend to be gone for months at a time if they're on a ship. That's a long time for a woman to go without.
4) Any woman who is even remotely attractive will have guys throwing themselves at her, and although a lot of the guys are blue-pilled, on average they're also more educated, more ballsy, and in much better physical condition than the average civilian. Also, rank establishes dominance: a captain doesn't have to "game" a sergeant to gain compliance.
5) Why do you want your daughter to go to college, anyway? She'll be happier as a wife / mother than as a military "boss babe" or a cubicle drone. Having authority doesn't make women happy. In general it makes them miserable.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Thanks for the input. I'm asking because I want to explore options so thanks for your feedback. I don't want her to be totally uneducated. In answer to your question: I don't buy into the Jane Jetson model of "tradwife" nonsense because that was a temporary, bourgeois situation that soon collapsed. Most women throughout history have HAD to work even if on the farm but without farms, I would prefer my daughter not need to work retail or service industry. A housewife who does nothing but cook and clean is tempted to cheat or divorce him later and ask for alimony. So I think we need a balance.
Again, this is only an option I'm exploring. I may have her educated in either Poland or Ukraine.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm marrying my daughter off hopefully before 20. Not a penny for college. Homeschooled all the way, no regrets. Bet she's already smarter than your daughter (maybe not in math or science, but in many domestic things necessary for housewifery).
If you don't believe in traditional tradwifery, you haven't met my wife or many other wives I know who are genuinely happy and obedient to their husbands. It can be done if the culture around them doesn't push them into meaningless careers and actually educates them on how to be a successful wife and mother.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I have many dear friends with housewives. One of them is what I would call the Martha Stewart Stepford Wives (happy version). She makes homemade Halloween costumes, cooks elaborate meals from scratch, and so on. She's so busy I think she gets stressed out. Same with the Helicopter Moms. If she has a family of 4, she'll be busy throughout her 20's looking after the kids at home. Then when they're in school she's be a chauffeur and tutor. I get it. That being said, I still think that automation has freed up these women from a lot of time and they can and often need to work to contribute to the household finances. I don't think a woman should get a useless degree merely with college being a dating club, but something with flexibility to work part-time during their 20's and then afterwards at a decent wage. I concur that spending $120K on debt for a show degree is silly.
I do appreciate your point that locking down a man in her late teens/early 20's may make a lot of sense in that smart, average looking STEM major men are in abundance in that age range. I know a chemical engineering guy who married the first girl he laid in college and she was a land whale but back in the 1980's, if you weren't on a frat or hot looking, you were living like a monk. She locked him down early although it's sad she got an engineering degree and it went to waste.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women try to one-up each other with how busy they are. They keep their houses clean not usually out of service to their families, but out of competition. Same with homemade things.
Ideally this is the purview of a husband - keeping the family sane by not allowing her to take on too much - and the wife should obviously be following what he says about it.
Years ago I enacted an edict whereby there would only be "one thing a day", or one activity outside the home each day, like one errand/visit/event. I noticed my wife being too busy as well. She resented it at first, now loves it, as she has adopted a less busy and more home-focused life.
I make under the poverty level and have for many years, and she doesn't work. We do fine. Just requires everyone to be on the same page, and a frugal lifestyle.
She does sometimes contribute, but only by selling things we make at home, not by working outside the home in a job. She used to work full time when we were married, and has a useless degree, but looking back I wish we had not done it that way. It leads to marriage problems, less kids, and a less fulfilling life.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ah, she gave away the game.
Ex army girl.
She's been run though and HARD.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Yeah, that was the jump-off point for me as well. I never served but I've had enough conversations with enough men who did to know women who are/were in the military are invariably more trouble than they're worth.
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Yes indeed. You are hopeless.
Because no sane man will take you with all your baggage.
Especially considering that you have a daughter....
Nope nope nope.....
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
I'm sure she hears "Thank you for your service!" a lot.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
When I see a woman that is in or prior military, the word "whore and slut" pops into my head.
Here is a topic I have seen firsthand and wanted to comment on for a while: women in traditional male professions where the men vastly outnumber the women. I have been in both the military in the sand box and now my civilian job.
In the sand box, the phenomenon of the "Desert Queen." Out there, the men vastly outnumbered the few women deployed. I was on an all male combat outpost where we didnt see a woman for months. when we rotated to a FOB and saw women, we couldnt stop staring. Women that were a 4 or 5 on the looks scale became 8 and 9. The women out there had constant male attention. Even if we didnt speak to any of them, we couldnt stop looking. Hence the term "Desert Queen."
Fast forward to my civilian job. I went to an academy where the male to female ratio was 9 to 1. My academy class of 48 had a total of 5 women and 2 failed out due to firearms or the run. The women were constantly being flirted with, helped with their classwork, talked to, given support that no male ever got. For us it was sink or swim.
From what I have seen in both those environments, all that constant high level male attention and validation literally warped their brains. Add to this is the men are usually top tier, fit, young, aggressive, confident, the kind those professions attract, you get women that are giddy with this dream come true environment. This is hypergamy unleashed in the most feral way I have ever seen. Really try to imagine being a woman surrounded by fit, good looking guys constantly hitting on them.
Another issue I noticed in both environments is that the loneliness, the home sickness, the isolation experience along with the stress women cant handle the same way as men. I term it as they "cant do the time" in those situations. Men find support in peer bonding where as women---and you guessed right----all find a man for comfort. All of them, even the married women. They find a "battle buddy" in the sand box or an "academy fling" for support. The supposed good girls usually just stay with the one guy throughout while some of them go through almost every guy on the FOB or their academy class. Of course all the flings ends when we all get on a plane and go home. The women go home thinking that their reputations are safe and their gone wild time away from home is the past is the past.
What does this meandering of text all mean? Stay away from women working in any over-represented male profession. Police, fire, military. The overabundance of male attention has warped their brains, and they have had more opportunities to say yes to sex and have been banged more times than a drum.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
My favorite piece of porta john graffiti I saw in Iraq: