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reignoferror00 1y ago
"I hate feeling like I'm shallow"
Don't worry, just find or make up another synonym for shallow that feels better to you. I'm sure the femiverse has many already if you don't want to go though the trouble of custom making your own. But you might gain some satisfaction, pride, and a sense of accomplishment if you can make your own - especially if it catches on with your 'friends' and followers. Think of the attention and fame!
or as George Carlin would call it on his bit on Shell Shock, "euphemistic language"
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
She could try making "fetch" a thing!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The key phrase here (correctly highlighted in the headline, well done @polish knight) is.... "I hate FEELING like I'm shallow"
She hates the feeling, she doesn't hate being shallow. She wants to change the feeling, not the way of life that is being shallow. She wants to feel different, not behave differently.
It would be like me saying 'I hate the feeling of guilt that I get when I torture people until they die in pain."
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
The other side of the coin to the vast feminine advantage of reaching their prime SMV in their youth is that age much more painfully than men. We ALL get older and need to live with that, but women's market value ages faster than men and they resent this. Their hypocrisy, as you point out, is illuminated in this hypothetical exchange:
"I'm young and pretty so you men are NOTHING compared to me!" "Well, you're going to get old, someday, and not be young anymore, yes?" "How DARE you shame someone for their age!?!?!"
Aside from the hypocrisy, there's the massive cultural narrative and paradigm to not remind young women that they aren't "getting younger" or "prettier" and their ability to make outrageous demands of men literally decreases by the day. In the past, women resented family gatherings where they'd hear at least a few times "So, how old are you? Do you have a fiance yet?" and yes, that's awful pressure but also a useful reminder that she's procrastinating and wasting her youth. Just because she doesn't want to hear it doesn't mean it's not true.
In even most conservative families I know, most fathers will push their daughters to excel in school and even athletics but not to develop her social skills or morals to lock down a good mate early and have lots of grandchildren. "There's always time! Plenty of girls have gotten married in their late 20's and had kids". Yeah, ok, and Bill Gates is a billionaire without a college degree also.
Allowing someone to "feel" like they're not shallow when they actually are is like allowing an athlete to get shot up with morphine and "play hurt." Pain exists for a reason: As a reminder of urgency.
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
I agree. However...
...then don't complain if you get fuckzoned by the ones you're attracted to, due to yourself not being physically and mentally attractive enough for them. Because those you'd so readily label as "fuckboys" or "players" aren't shallow either, you just aren't good enough for them.
As long as there's no double standard involved, I'm all for this message. Of course you shouldn't be with someone you aren't both physically and mentally attracted to. What the hell would be the point of that? For anyone involved, really.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
(Most) men learn, through the feedback of rejection, how to search for something attractive in women that are available to us. Perhaps one of the greatest attractive traits to men for a woman is her availability. One ex-girlfriend told me she got hit on all the time when she was dressed in her yardwork outfit without makeup. What's the point of marriage if, as women age, they become less attractive? I'm thinking it would be fun to ask grooms on their wedding day: "Would you want to have sex with that 60 year old woman who came? Well, that's what your wife will look like in 35 years!"
(Most) people love their children unconditionally without being able to control what their children will be physically and mentally. We work with them to mold them into something we can respect and hope will have value in society.
That being said, conditionally, what you and she says makes sense but with the caveat that life is about "settling". We can't all be astronauts, CEO's, and presidents married to movie stars otherwise we'll just refuse to work or have relationships. Settling is about LEARNING to be happy with what's available to you. Emphasis on learning to be happy in that entitled people will be miserable most of the time since they don't get exactly what they want.
SSeuSS 1y ago
She came there to temporarily fix her feelings.
Message is correct tho.
How she got to the point of needing fix is important. She either hole—saled her vag (being alpha widowed or not able to pair bond) or is in relationship where she started cucking partner...
There is abundance of men she could be atracted to, but there's a reason she looks for justification.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Ironically, it's not primarily women who need to be told this about men, but about themselves.. It doesn't matter how nice you (think you) are, or how pretty you think you are after you spend a hour and a fortune in front of a mirror... no man is obligated to overlook your flab, your tattoos, or your short hair.
You want to feel good about being fat? Go right ahead, but no man with taste and options is going to choose you. His preferences for physical appearance matter. In fact, when it comes to what he's willing to accept into his life, ONLY his preferences matter.
I'll hear no more shaming of men for having physical standards that exclude women who would like to be chosen, and that's doubly true for women who choose to be obese (and obesity is always a choice).
DextroShade 1y ago
They would still call a man shallow for not wanting to date a fat bitch.
NewReligionOfSociology Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well the entire discussion is obviously parasitic on which party is trying to date out of their league.
Your league is strongly indicated by the average physical attractiveness of the people you've had significant relationships with.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I have no problem with this. I’d rather a woman leave me alone or friend zone me, than “give me a chance” only to stomp on my heart and wallet when she inevitably wants to move on, after she’s sucked out the lifeblood from me.
But she has to understand that men find women more attractive on a physical level than women find men. So therefore, the pool of men that they want will be smaller than the pool of men that want them. Which means they have to accept either
1) they get passed around from man to man Or 2) they have to share a man in a relationship
And oh, by the way, women tend to be attracted to men around their own age (a man around 4 years older tends to be the ideal for a woman), while a man is always attracted to youth. So, the men you like will continually see you as a downgrade to what they can ultimately obtain.
Good luck in that arena, though!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No, you hate feeling like a hypocrite. You judge men for only being attracted to pretty girls above your SMV because you're jealous, but when YOU do it, it's ok because "it's not the ONLY thing that matters".
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Really? Whatever happened to 'Beautiful at ANY Size?' Men had to date fat women because reasons. C'mon ladies, we can have 'Handsome at ANY height/income/wealth, etc' can't we?