While we do not usually showcase stories of women winning with their dual-mating strategy during the weekdays, in the weekends we make exceptions so that these cases can be used as examples on what to avoid, what not to do and what not to be. We want to remind our members to not spend their time finding fault with the man and his "lack of masculinity", but to focus on the woman, her strategy and on learning the red flags so that you can make informed choices yourself. Remember Rule 1: Anyone who engages in man-shaming will be banned.

I think this is worthwhile content because every once in a while, it's good to remind ourselves that plenty of women do stick the landing when they get tossed off the cock carousel. The women we profile in this forum are a relatively small subset of the whole landscape.

I personally know of several women who were big-time sluts in their early/mid twenties, taking advantage of their looks and bubbly personality to get attention from men and be treated to a fun life, who then in their late twenties / early thirties settled down with a beta guy who was absolutely gobsmacked that they could be so lucky as to land such a hot woman of his dreams. The most recent ones I'm thinking of have only been married for a few years so it's too early to say how it will work out, but earlier vintages (guys I knew from 10-15 years ago) have been souring left and right so I'm not too hopeful.

As much as we all might want these women to face the consequences of their actions, many of them don't. They manage to "have fun" early, and then stick the dismount by landing on a good guy: maybe someone not super exciting, but still a good, dependable guy who will take care of them and provide for a good family life and also worship them as goddesses and believe their bullshit about how they're reformed.

It is what it is. FWIW, I do think things are getting better, as redpill spreads amongst guys, and more importantly, women are being much less secretive about their past, which can't really be hidden from the internet anyway. In the old days, you would have no idea that your One True Love was secretly blowing the quarterback, or had a train run on her during spring break. Now, there are likely posts on instagram and facebook. If not on her page that's been scrubbed, then on her friends' pages where they conveniently tag all their friends on their wild girls trips.

But even with that, I would say that attractive girls who don't truly fuck up (i.e. end up with a kid before they get married) have a very good chance of finding their bailout. And we need to remember that.

• Every post is for attention. This is why I don't let my tradwife on social media. Women constantly compare themselves to each other and try to one-up each other with "look how great I'm doing" and "poor me" posts. It's all for validation and attention.
• You'll know them by their fruit. Not seeing any here.
• The fact that she calls herself a Bible anything at this point just is just virtue signaling. The "Bible nerds" I know IRL do not brag about it.
• Even if she sticks the landing for 10 years, she'll still be an alpha widow and a ticking time bomb. My broken family followed this pattern. I wish the guy well but don't have high hopes. He'd have been better off marrying a less pretty girl with less of a past.

Women still live life in easy mode, unfortunately. As long there is the implicit (conservative) rule that men owe women marriage, and as long as women can shift from liberated to conservative without being called out, this will continue.

Anyway, press "f" to pay respects for the man. Somehow I doubt she will continue the whole "Christian girl" act long after marriage. Even if she doesn't cheat, the culture clash will work its magic.

As I've said in another post, if a woman asks you to marry her, tell her you are not religious and that you consider marriage a religious affair (and that even civil marriages are a whitewashed version of that religious affair, which is true btw). This flips the script from her demanding you to marry her based on an implicit (conservative) social rule to her having to explain to you why she wants to get married. Then you can pick her arguments apart (easy, since she can't play any conservative cards like abstinence from pre-marital sex).

If you are religious, present body count as an excuse (even if it isn't a deal breaker for you).

Never get married, folks.

If anyone wants to crosspost to WAATGM reddit since I stopped making OP's there, go for it

LoL not even a speckle of subletly in this one.

It's rather depressing that Christian women feel the same sense of entitlement that non-Christian women feel towards this. Their past promiscuity doesn't matter because God has forgiven them. You literally aren't allowed to hold it against women according to them. They confuse justification with sanctification, salvation with their marriage prospects and then wonder why guys are turned off by their past. They then proceed to use Christ's forgiveness as a weapon against guys for having the standard of avoiding whores. Female entitlement has seeped so far, even into Christianity.

She's no Christian, that's for sure. She's an expired, soon to deplete her eggs roastie who wants some well connected church Chad. Usually when they do change they don’t mention their past AT ALL. They tell the next guy they were a waitress or some fantasy story. Could this girl be legit? Maybe but I’m very skeptical. However, most people are not truly reformed. 99% chance she is washed up and not making enough money anymore and wants to start over with a husband who will pay for everything. A lot of these girls do it for the attention. The currency of attention is worth 100x more then the money. She’s probably just getting more attention with this new act she’s putting on. Probably boosts her TicTok so this conversion is probably a grift . Women don't have agency and aren't critically analyzing their decisions. They just know their peer group and authority are praising her for being a whore that found the light. In the hundreds of replies on her twitter post, no one asked her if she is keeping the sinfully obtained money. Some of the twitter replies are asking why she had to post a pixelated pic of her in a sexual pose naked. She replies that she has to show how far she truly sinned before finding salvation. Again, attention and validation is her currency.

The only way these people are going to learn and hopefully prevent future behavior like this is if they are actively and collectively shamed. Promoting this is pretty much saying "it's ok to do this, just ask for forgiveness later and you're good!". Preventative measures need to be taken. I wouldn't date her and certainly wouldn't marry her. I'm not going to risk my kids getting bullied because classmates found nude pictures of mom. I'll just find someone who doesn't post nude pictures online. It should be like 99% of the remaining girls on earth so no worries.

First grift sex, then grift god. These people are always the same. Having many people pat her on the back for finding God is the same attention seeking behavior that she was doing before only the subject has changed.

You don't hear alcoholics going on about AA and how great it is, do you?

As an offering, she would be a firm 'no thanks'.

In order to figure out if your behaviour is selfish and hypocritical, the best test is to simply ask, "What would it be like if everyone else behaved the way I do/did?"

So in her case, what if every woman became an 'adult entertainer' (prostitute) until such time as the world had no use for her, and then, and only then, 'saw the light' and decided that they were now redeemed?

This woman got lucky and found a guy. I highly suspect this won't work as expected for him.

But serious question, what if every single woman did what she did?

She will be back in the meat market within two Cocktails..

Honey, resurrection did not end 2,000 years ago. The moment things get tough you will whip out the cell phone and start finger banging away.

God's forgiveness is not spiritual bleach: those stains may fade, but they never go away. Those stains should serve as the basis of your humility and compassion. Let's see if you can actually practice those virtues first.

Converts make the best zealots, so let's hope that her conversion is both real and permanent. (It happens.) I find it troubling that she describes herself as a "preacher," though.

She is manifestly NOT qualified to preach. Not only is she a novice, but she's a woman.

Witness? Absolutely. Preach? Nope... take a seat and be silent. A "Bible nerd" should know that... it's pretty basic stuff.

This would be funny if it wasn't so pathetic.

Womanese translation = I was a prostitute in my prime and managed to convince a sucker to marry my used up ass and pay for my shit for the rest of his life. God bless

Imagine having your face posted all over the internet next to your whore wife admitting she's a whore. That's the real lesson here. Your woman's past matters.

I really hope this man does not get burned as a result of this. Any woman can claim that she has "changed" and is "a different person." But words alone cannot supersede a pattern of behaviors that have been in place for years. Not saying I know for sure either way, but there is a reason that women like this are often avoided no matter how much they insist that they have turned a new leaf.

One thing that is often misunderstood about forgiveness and redemption is that it does not mean you get to wipe the slate clean like nothing ever happened. For example, this woman should not expect that her "redemption" means that she will be able to get marriage from a traditional conservative man. In fact, women in her position should be ready to accept that they might not be able to achieve the goal of marriage to a traditional religious man. This is because being redeemed is about getting right with God and following his will, not about treating God like a genie who will grant all your wishes. If you do end up getting the end results you want, you can be thankful for that and thank God for that. But in moments where you do not get what you want in the end, you must be willing to accept such outcomes.

Though in this case, it does look like she may get what she (claims she) wants. Again, I hope this man does not have a bad outcome where he gets ruined by a divorce (not sure if they are married or just dating here). And I do not wish for her to have a bad outcome either. There is just going to be reasonable doubt about her, as many other women in the same position have been insincere with their claims to have found religion. And I cannot in good faith endorse men to trust these women when they claim to have become religious, as there is too high of a chance that they are lying. Especially when I do not know the woman in question to know if she is sincere.