Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Doricel
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Lol. These women can want 666 but I can't value youth?
Okay
Pic889 1y ago
You forgot how women reject men with symptoms of baldness (a sign of aging).
So... women should be allowed to age like a human, but men aren't. Makes total sense.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s hilarious that they’ll shame men for losing their hair. I’m going bald and my girl thinks that I look better now versus a decade ago. Definitely helps that, heavily thanks to her, my diet is vastly improving.
But yeah, lots of men lose their hair but otherwise look just fine.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Consistency is a tool of the patriarchy!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah these thots are acting like they don't openly lust after rich celebrities with chiseled abs.
Bitch, please.
99% of the time this sort of complaint is from aging skank that enjoyed (wasted) her youth while she had it, but cultivated nothing to keep a man around once that was gone.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
If all you bring to the relationship is your youth, then possibly.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's asking because she doesn't understand a thing that men innately do, and that thing is called "loyalty".
A man will marry a woman in her 20s and only love her his whole life, regardless of her age or appearance. A woman will marry a man in his 20s and only love him as long as he provides her benefit.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That's called "wife goggles", and men tend to be so loyal that it pretty much takes the wife slapping those off the husband's face.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Ford Mustangs are selling for $40,000 because they're nostalgia engines, so to speak. Boomers and Gen-Xers recreate their youth driving them around. A man sees his wife as similar to the day he married her and, in some ways, that's why alpha widows can't get beyond the chad/tyrone they fell for. We imprint. Once someone goes out on the market at whatever age, they have no imprint advantage. They are literally what they are at that moment, good or bad.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The "wife goggles" work best if she was young when you got with her, they don't work so well if you only get with her after she hit the wall.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's funny. My ex didn't realize it. She thought that because I, her husband, always wanted her that she could just go out into the market and get the same level of attention from men of my caliber.
Well, she's on the carousel now. Best of luck I guess /puffs cigar
voskresenie 1y ago
hey, what a coincidence, mine did that too. We got together towards the end of college, then she didn't want to do long distance so we split. She called me up about 2 years later when she was in the area and we fucked for a few days, then flew back and forth to see each other for a few months, then she didn't want to do long distance so we split. Then she called me up early COVID and we reconnected, then she flew out to see me and we fucked for a few days, and this time (approaching 30) she seemed genuinely interested in a serious relationship. But by that point, I was so pissed at how she'd used me and been fucking other guys in between (literally only 2 in that time, which was less than I had, but it still made me too uncomfortable to get over), that I kept bringing it up in a cringe-y way and called her a slut and such. She stuck around another 6 months in spite of me making her cry hysterically like once every two weeks. I eventually went a bit too far while crazy drunk and she ended things.
The whole time, I thought she was stunning and I told her so (she was maybe a 7-8 in college, but by the time we split, she was a 6 at best, probably a 5, but had a body that was exactly my type). Turns out she mostly only stuck around as long as she did because I made her feel good about herself, and made her pussy feel even better. But then she somehow got the idea that what I was saying was objectively true, rather than subjectively from my oneitis goggles, and became convinced she could do better. She blocked me on the one social media platform I'm vaguely "on", so I don't know how she's doing now, but I can see based on post counts that she's only posted one thing in the past year and a half (after previously posting something about once a month), so I'm guessing she's miserable. The better part of me is sad about that, but my more vindictive side is happy. I thought for a while that she'd come back, because that's what she'd always done, but at this point I'm fairly certain she won't. But she hasn't even hit 30 yet. When that happens I wouldn't be too surprised if I hear from her again.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They always come back when you're winning.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
The reason why men are drawn to youth in a woman is due to it being tied to fertility. Even if a man does not consciously want children, he will have a biological drive to reproduce, and that drive will mean that he will want the best chance possible of spreading his genes. And this desire will be even stronger with a man who is consciously looking to start a family.
Also, there is the saying about "growing old together," which implies that you are not already old.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Found a gold nugget, gentlemen.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. Basically. If you want to marry a valuable man. Just like men have to accept that their wife might leave them if a richer man comes along. Instead of fretting over it, make it not worth his while to fool around. Hit the gym and do a skin care routine to retain a youthful appearance and fitness. Be sweet. Be supportive. It’s not that hard.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Slow down. You're asking women to put in effort for the sake of keeping a man. That's misogynistic you shitlord.
Please notify the thought police and report to the nearest reeducation camp.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If you choose to ride the carousel, you have to accept that the ride has to end one day.
These women pretend that they will be that rare magical exception as they ignore the admonishments from the older nasties that they replaced. They will ride the carousel for as many rotations as their looks will allow. When their looks start to fade, they will make an ever increasing series of compromises about the men they will accept, the treatment they will tolerate, the kinks they will accommodate.
Anything just to keep riding, just one more time.
Then comes the day when all the compromises fail, all the deviant sex acts aren't enough, all the men have moved on to younger and hotter nasties. They've become the women they replaced in their youth, and now they bemoan the very process they were enjoying.
The carousel has the same end, every time.
RedPirate751 1y ago
When you describe it that way, you can see the carousel for what it is: an addiction. And like all addictions, eventually the addict will hit rock bottom.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. Men and women being promiscuous is fundamentally different. Women don’t have to do anything special to get sex; even the “sex addict” girl that went viral on the “whatever” podcast was at best a 5, and probably a 3-4. How many men who are a 5 or less suffer from sex addiction? Probably not a lot, because men of equal SMV struggle to get any.
They know that to keep a man, they have to offer more than a wet hole. Instead of being someone that a man would want to be with, though, they just coast on being a woman.
voskresenie 1y ago
I went to rehab for substance abuse treatment and during my intake, they were screening for "cross-addictions" (a common problem with drug addicts, when they get sober they often continue their addictive ways, just with something other than a substance). When they asked about sex addiction, I laughed and said, "look at me, what do you think?" Then they pretended to be confused and made me actually give an answer. No. I do not have a sex addiction. I definitely would if I could, but I can't, so I don't.
voskresenie 1y ago
Thinking again, maybe they actually were confused. It was a woman doing my intake, and women are delusionally unaware of how difficult it is for men to get sex. I brought this up with a former plate once and she disagreed, saying, "none of my guy friends have any difficulty getting laid." And I thought, yeh, obviously, because they're all dudes you or your friends have fucked.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I like the way she says "Does getting married to a man mean you have to accept...."
Lets unpack that. She's implying that because of the fact that men only want young women (she calls them girls, which is sexist if you say it as man, like literally enough to have you dismissed from the workplace) she is considering NOT getting married. She's trying to fool herself (and her readers) that she has a choice about whether to get married or not. She's basically saying, because all men are paedophiles, I'm considering not getting married at all. Let that sink in. She is looking around for justifications to explain away the truth that she has realised on a subconscious level (that she will not be getting married), but is trying to process on a conscious level.
This is a cope. She's not going to get married....BECAUSE no man wants to marry her. Women control access to sex, men control access to marriage.
The fact that women NEED to find some reasons to explain why they are not (and never will be) getting married explains most of the misandry that you hear esp from Karens. They need to believe that all men are trash and paedos as cope, to make it look like they rejected all of mankind, rather than the other way around.
I am minded of the great philosopher Betran Russel. He said "All of us are born insane - some remain that way".
It's a profound insight. He means that logic and reason must be learnt, and it is hard work. Men have a much better grasp of logic and reason and use it every day. Women tend to transition straight from an easy childhood, straight into teens, where they are treated like queens. They then transition into hot teens, where they given everything. Then they transition into young ladies where we continue to treat them like kids. They never really grow up. By the time the wall comes around, they have been living a life on the charity of men. Its too late to develop logic and reason.
Doricel 1y ago
It's literally like an incel saying he doesn't want sex
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Here’s modern feminists and leftists in a nutshell:
Can a 9 year old choose to genitally mutilate themselves? Yes Can a 9 year old experience sexual content? Yes Should we have condoms available for middle schoolers? Yes Should we lower the voting age to 16 or less? Yes Should 18 year old women date serious men in their late 20’s or 30’s? TOO IMMATURE, MEN ARE PREDATORY.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Minor (fun) quibble in that most women can get married IF THEY PUT IN EFFORT similar to at least average men: If they learned social skills to meet men, set their sights on mere "average men", and had something to offer, then (some) men would wife them up. But the "feminine lifestyle" is sort of like a spoiled child who could have a clean room if they made the effort to pick it up, but feel that it's more "cool" to live in a messy room because their mommy doesn't pick up after them. Their entitlement holds them back and this is an important thing we shouldn't forget:
Their situation is NOT hopeless. They MAKE it hopeless!!!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
A minor quibble with your minor quibble: you say that women can get married if they put in effort. It looks to me that the average woman can get married with no effort whatsover. The men do all the effort. All they need to do is put on a dress and sit there and smile. Men do the running, we ask them out, plan dates, pick them up, pay for dinner etc etc etc. We ask them to marry us. We also do the work, buy the house and car etc etc etc. All you need to do is NOT be a total car crash slut. You really don't need to do anything special.
Honestly, have a look at the subset of women that do get married young. They are not especially attractive. I actually think that its the more average looking women that end up getting married and choosing the housewife lifestyle. It's the 3-5's that get married -thats the average looking girls. The issue starts when a young women is a 6 and up. If you a young woman that is slightly better looking than average, you will get hit on the moment you go out the door. Men buy you drinks and chase you whever you go. So you choose the hoe life. It's a lot of fun and you get a lot of attention free drinks and validation. I've often thought that a slightly above average young women gets to lead the lifestyle of a top tier hollywood actor. You'd have to be Leonardo Di Capri in his hey day to have have the kind of leverage that a normal 7 gets.
So, no, Women dont' need to put in any effort at all. They just need to choose - hoe or housewife.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Minor-minor-minor quibble. You had said "BECAUSE no man wants to marry her" You later add "All they need to do is put on a dress and sit there and smile." which lowers the bar, a bit. Nonetheless, it is incredible how that LOE is beyond most modern spinster women who lack the ability to sit still and smile and not muck it up. You'd be surprised how many women I met who were corporate nuns: Due to their lifestyle, they didn't get asked out a lot and some of them were quite lovely. Thanks to womanism, they don't get asked out at work, men won't "bother" them in the supermarket or stores, although there may be sleazes who hit on them. In terms of seeking marriage, I think that women over the age of 30 or so do have to put in MORE effort albeit slight. Develop some skills to talk to men, even average men, deal with attempts that don't work out, and so on. It's just that the Level OF Effort for them is so low, we think it's nothing but for them, it's like asking a girl with the mind of a 2th grader to do 3rd grader homework. We think it's easy but to them, it's insurmountable. That's why foreign women are so hated by western women for "working" for a mate and putting in some effort to provide value and to socialize with prospects. Spinsters are on a strike where they'll go down in flames rather than cross the picket line.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yes, I should have been clearer. Pre-wall, a woman doesn't' really need to put in any effort to get married. Post wall, they are going to have to put in a bit of effort, but a) most are not willing and b) you can't teach an old dog new tricks c) it would be shameful / damaging to their egos (and therefore impossible).
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Case in point: A teenage friend of mine said that she thought I was a "loser" because I used a dating app (back in 1997) and another mocked me for flying around the world and bringing my wife to the states (where we largely associate with Slavic USA culture.). In other words, I was mocked by women for putting an effort into finding a mate and these women have even less respect for other women who do so. They want "the fairy tale" of the handsome prince casually slaying a dozen dragons and the princess sleeping.
I want to tell my daughter this: Would you do anything for your child? Would you work at a job you hate? Or put up with crap to make their life happy? To me, to have a family, meant I had to put up with crap. These women could have wonderful families and children if they just made a small effort in starting a relationship. They'd rather spend $20,000 on egg freezing and a sperm donor than pay their way on a date with a decent man who'd make a wonderful father.
When womanists gripe "women do more housework than men even if she works the same hours!" I point out that men did years worth of work to make the marriage happen to begin with. She ate on a man's dime for a decade as a meal ho'. She sat around mocking and rejecting men and reveling in the inequality. The extra work she does in a family doesn't include the work he did to MAKE THAT FAMILY POSSIBLE.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
you were on dating apps in 1997?? You must have been one of the first! Gosh, that seems like pre-history now.
RE. women that gripe about them doing the housework - its such a phony argument. Housework is worth about $15 an hour. The man could easily do that. If you're a man and your wife is griping about doing the housework, just say "Fine. I'll do it all. You can do the breadwinning. I'm absolutely fine with doing housework, which has a market value of $15 per hour. You go and do the breadwinning, which is going to have to be in the range of $100-$400 an hour (depending on lifestyle). what do you mean you're not able???"
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I called my wife on this bluff. Every Saturday when I get ready to relax, she goes cleaning crazy and then barks at me for being lazy. So, I shut her up by simply saying we could take the money out of our marriage pool and paying for a maid service and let her enjoy her Saturday with me. She declined "I don't want a stranger in my house cleaning" and I said "Then that's YOUR problem. Stop bothering me about it."
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
that is weird. You offer to get a cleaning lady, she goes quiet. Maybe she would feel slightly undermined by seeing a women cleaning around the house, because it would be someone doing her role. it's almost as if women dont' always mean what they say!
Loneliness-inc LvL 99 Rogue NiceGuy™ 1y ago
Lol
DextroShade 1y ago
Yes, we like young, attractive women just as you like tall, rich men, but here you are shaming our preferences while keeping your own. If you give your husband the best years of your life and are fit, feminine, and submissive he will not leave you even if he cheats. Women end most marriages, not men.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"I amassed silver and gold for myself, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I acquired male and female singers, and a harem a as well—the delights of a man’s heart."
This is what men naturally do when given unlimited resources - acquire a harem filled with young, beautiful women. Solomon had over 700 wives and hundreds more concubines because he was rich enough to afford them all.
Any man who agrees to own only one woman for life is giving a huge amount up, so he'd better receive something good for that in return. Otherwise it just isn't worth it. Whining about the nature of men is pointless - try explaining exactly why you're worth a man's commitment.
shaketheroom 1y ago
Does getting married to a woman mean you have to accept that your wife views you as a provider and not an alpha fuck? Does it mean you are secretly not her best and just the best prospect that committed for life?
Its the same shit.
shaketheroom 1y ago
As a young bull Chad myself this explains why i catch nasty vibes from seemingly attractive 30-35 year old women. Autorejection.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Pre-rejection is a thing they do to pretend that they have the right of first refusal.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
Yep. And you probably also get it from frumpy 20 year olds. It's kinda funny but after I got more attractive to women, I found it much easier to approach 8-10s than 5-6s. The 5-6s would look at you suspiciously because they knew you were out of their league, and they would pre-reject you so they could have the satisfaction of rejecting you before you could reject them (even if all you were doing was being polite or asking an innocent question). Meanwhile, I would strike up a conversation with an 8 or 9 and she would actually enjoy it and flirt back.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You should see the nasty vibes my wife catches from 45yr old women when they see she has a ring and a husband by her side WHILE she's working out at the gym, lol. It just gets worse and worse as they get older.