I want to point out one key distinction here: what she is attempting to do is the equivalent of the prescribed monk mode in redpill circles. The intention is where the distinction comes in. Men do it with the intention of improvement. She is doing it as a reset/detox. The assumption here is that she was already perfect and she is scrubbing herself off of her impurities. If she had realized that she made some mistakes and she should not make those mistakes again, she would understand that she is ready as she is right now to get a man on her level. But she doesn't and so she will continue to fail.

Lets address what women like to call our "petty little fragile male ego." You as a woman have been a sexual man pleaser for your entire adult life. Of course that lifestyle has an expiration date and is no longer working out for you. So you decide to pull this generations Born Again Virgin card. "I use to be a slut but starting WITH YOU, I dont do that anymore."

Of course it's my fault for having a fragile ego by not wanting to become celibate and ghosting you. She should also add this into her equation: https://dalrock.wordpress.com/2010/09/03/sex-cartel/ This article basically states that for every girl that wants to revalue sex and leverage that for commitment, there too many other girls out there that will put out.

The reason why this doesn't work: she is selling herself, but she is selling herself at different prices for different men.

For 'the right man' (Chad) she will put out in a bathroom stall. Chad won't even have to buy her a drink. For Chad lite, she'll go home with him after a drink or two For a 'decent guy' she'll insist on dinner first, and then put out for an ok guy, she'll insist on multiple dates and then reluctantly put out, with some eye rolling and a bit of clock watching. for a guy that she thinks is beneath her, she insist on multiple dates, trips, gifts etc before some really crap duty sex. And finally, for a betabux, she is going to insist on celibacy until committment.

Yeah, but no. Women forget that men may be beta, but they are still smarter than they are. Those beta guys, the ones that were nerds, and had to study hard and grind to become doctors and dentists, they know the score. And they are no ok with the idea of being charged more than other guys.

Reminds me of second-hand virginity, a concept drummed in during high school and middle school PE/Health classes. Even back then we scoffed at it, though I can understand it for victims.

One of my bitches begged me for anal, and said she wanted to be my anal slut on date 1. She is like 19. Afterwards she was going on for days about bucket list and how great it was and how we had a first together and now she tells all her friends how great anal sex is, etc. Some months later as a FWB it turns out that her first anal was at 15 being "anally raped" by her 26 year old boyfriend. He just wouldn't stop etc. I did the math in my head immediately but stayed chill and she knew what she was doing. She went on to sugar coat it with how I was her first real anal, the only meaningful, etc, blah blah blah.

You can't reset virginity, and although she's not trying to do that in the technical sense, she's trying to reproduce the effect. Not going to happen. Note that she's not saying that she's now determined to become celibate for life, or until she gets married, or even until she's in a monogamous relationship... she's just pondering if it would be useful to stop whoring around for four to six months while she's managing the sort of life changes men are generally expected to make when we turn 18.

Once again we see that celibacy doesn't mean the same thing for men as it does for modern "liberated" women. Even though she admits to being overweight - and that she used to be even more overweight... and that she's a 30 year old woman who lives with her parents - a voluntary four-month hiatus from casual sex would be a major life change for her.

Imagine being a 30 year old overweight man who lives with his parents and just got a driver's license agonizing over whether he should voluntarily refrain from a rapid-fire string of attractive women trying to wine-and-dine him into their beds.

Yeah... I can't imagine that, either. That's why terms like femcel have no meaning: a woman who would be considered a compete loser if she were a man is spoiled for choice. Rather than being mocked for being an incel, she's worried that she might be indulging in too much of the sexual variety that gets thrown her way.

Privilege, thy name is "Woman."

So she’s still down to go on dates and waste a guys money, time, gas, energy and weekends? But no sex, of course, as she’s already had way too much of that already in the last year. Women are completely fucked in the head.

She's just trying to rationalize the fact that her parents won't let her whore it up.

She plans on being CELIBATE for

4-6 months

CELIBATE

Read that again. Deliberate celibacy 4-6 months

That means her natural dry spells of accidentally not getting laid are less than that in all likelihood.

This woman has been on the carousel for a while if she has to purposefully go 4 months without sex and thinks that's a noteworthy period of time to not get laid (especially as a woman)

Will she adhere to the same celibacy rules when Chad comes around? Ofcourse not! She will whore it up for him.

Wow. just realising this made me realise how grateful I am for being a man, specifically, not being a woman. Imagine being so retarded that you wrote lines like this "...help prepare myself to be holistically ready to meet" . Gosh. I'd rather be a disabled man in a wheelchair than a woman that was as cognitively impaired as her.

This woman is basically washed up. Her life is pretty much on the slide from now on. A guy of 30? His life is just beginning. The fun starts at 30 for a guy. And carries on for a long time after that. Kevin Samuels says that he was beating them off with a stick at aged 51.

When you read between the lines, you can see that she is only at the foothills of understanding what the wall is, and that she is past it. She realises that the past few years have only been hook ups. She seems to be worried that men only want to have sex with her, but has failed to realise the full extent of her woes. In the past, men only wanted to have sex with he because men realised that she was Recreational Use Only (RUO). And she has probably been that way for the last 5 years. If she thinks things are bad now, she has no idea how bad they will be when men no longer 'only want to have sex with her'....

I few days ago I posted that I thought that the classical date (going out with a woman you just met, to a restaurant, where you pay twice (one in cash, and once in the form of the pain of listening to absolute lunacy)) was a bit beta. This is exactly what I meant. She is more than happy to 'go on dates' and make you brain bleed with garbage about 'her journey' and 'living her true holistic self in an actualised way'. But not sexy time.

It's another one of these "Did you know that if you don't have sex for 4-6 months, you're considered to be a virgin?" types. She's trying to convince herself she can start over, but fails to realize that just because she thinks she can ignore the baggage she's towing behind, doesn't mean that it's not there and that no one else can see it.

Her hole has been dip-sticked by plenty of dudes who took her up on the advertisement for free fucks.

She can't pretend that didn't happen, nor can she in a biological sense purge anything she picked up from that lapse in judgement.

If I have a tupperware container that for some reason I used to scoop horseshit out of the stall, do I really want to store actual food in there even if I've scrubbed it to death?