Guys this line of thinking comes from social constructionism. What she wants is a guy to enter her frame, pedestalize her, and develop ONEITIS. She had that with one guy. I agree, that's a very toxic relationship. And she dumped him because of it.

The feminine imperative tells her that she can maximize her sexual strategy by having sex with a guy, getting him pussy-whipped, and then use sex to control him. She doesn't necessarily realize she's doing this because of all the blue pill ideology of "love", "dating", etc. Hat's off to the Chads who know this and maintained frame and just pumped and dumped her.

Women will tend to do this: have one serious long-term relationship that ends badly and then ride the cock carousel until their body count is so high that they are broken and unable to have another serious relationship.

Its like a Black Mirror episode, minus all the idiot ideology stuff for "modern audiences".

She's trapped behind an invisible plane, as far as the eye can see. While she was hot, she had the ability to pull these men into her parallel dimension and extract time/resources/money from them.

Now, the siren call grows too weak to tunnel past the barrier.

As time ticks on and her beauty turns into gnarled wrinkles and drooping chin/eyelids/breasts and ass, she sends one final message out into the ether -- what could it be? What did I do wrong?

Oh sweetie, can't you see? You are the monster, and now, your reward lies in the formless void protected by "The Wall".

This is what happens when all of a woman's friends tell her she's amazing. This lump likely has no personality whatsoever. She may still look good, who knows? Let's assume for this exercise that she does. But if she had any kind of personality then she'd likely be able to make something click somewhere. There are men out there still looking for coupling. They just don't want a brick of wood to spend time with.

She doesn't realize she's been relegated to "Recreational Use Only" status. But you know all of her friends tell her she's amazing and funny and so wonderful. Likely they don't even believe it.

That or she is one of 1000 other bad bitch types who is off putting to be around for too long. This one would almost be sad if it weren't for the fact that in all of this infodump she shared at no point was any personal reflection taken. No revelatory moment of "oh, maybe it's me?" anywhere in there. It's the men's fault for not falling for her you see, it's not incumbent upon her to look into seeing their needs at all. Just show up and fall for me damn it! Who gave those smelly men the right to do what's best for them?

My uncle is a used car salesman. He would say these type of women are used but still in circulation, lol.

She picked the Hoe Path and not the Wife Path. (And ladies, don't fool yourselves, if you are indulging in a decade+ of serial monogamy, hookups, and trading up, you are on the Hoe Path) Is surprised that Hoe Path doesn't lead to Wife Status.

Who could have possibly predicted this?

Plenty of men loved your old used up ass I bet. But you overlooked them or stopped seeing them over shallow reasons because they didn’t act like Chad acts. Now you’re still chasing Chad and wondering why he don’t love you. Bitch he never loved you but you kept giving away the store for free like a dumbass and now look at you.

The question you must pose to women who read this is “why didn’t this woman end up married with her first guy?”.

Was she “too young” for it?

You won’t just get back when you once had, simply because you want it. You get what you deserve, though!

As always, I think its important to look for what is missing here. What does she omit? Isnt it telling that she says 'no man says they love me' but she never said that she fell in love or said 'I love you' to the men in her life. Very interesting.

She is expecting and demanding something from men that she is not willing or able to provide herself. When I hear women talking about 'serious dating' or 'dating with a purpose' or only having relationships 'which are likely to go somewhere' we all know what they are talking about - they are demanding that relationships lead to marriage. Whenever I hear that kind of talk I know we are dealing with a broken slut - because its the most unromantic way of 'evaluating' a relationship that I can think of. There is no love. There is zero romance in a broken slut with baby rabies looking around to lock down some poor fool before its too late.

It could well be that she is a broken slut and not able to pair bond anymore. She might not be able to fall in love.

Maybe because dating you is work. You're obviously looking to lock someone down and the rare times you can even reach the phase where the NRE (new relationship energy) wears off, he does a cost/benefit analysis. This never ends up in the positive. Can you do the math? Here's a hint - you don't come out as a benefit for him. You are a major long term liability.

Also, why hasn`t your therapist been useful? Are you being honest with her (and yourself)? What has she told you and have you tried to follow any of it? OR on the very low odds you have done the above, why are you still seeing her? Is she just telling you what you want to hear?

As always, what you're not saying says a LOT more than what you are saying I wish I remembered the exact quote and when I read it; something like when you're telling a story and you leave out the parts of it that make you look bad, you just come out sounding like a moron instead.

and yes I have a therapist but SHE...

I came to conclusion lately that women need therapist from age of 10. More so if from single parent homes. I would say that in most cases it should be male therapist, maybe if single parent is male then therapist should be carefully selected female.

Therapist at later age is only damage control.

I generally don't take these stories seriously, as they have been run trough few woman filters and what her man said was probably a white lie anyway. All this lying to themselves is at the core of not being able to fix themselves and improve.

And yes I have a therapist but she really hasn't been very useful.

That is shocking.

I am shocked.

This is my shocked face.

Help! And yes I have a therapist but she really hasn't been very useful.

DUH. When women refuse to look in the mirror, even when told to do so by other women, no amount of therapy will be useful.
She had a solid relationship up until the age of 25, when she decided to hop on the CC to obviously find something better.
So for 10 years she played the bicycle game, falling for the Chads of whom none decided to commit.
At least 7 longer-than-a-few months "relationships" and "many" one-night stands later, she finally asks the question, "What am I doing wrong?"

Too late, Mary Jane Rottencrotch. The only thing you're good for now is a roll in the hay.