Mmmh thank you, kind sir. This indeed is such a tasty treat. As I'm getting older, give it ~15-20 or so more years, and I'd be inclined to say 'better than sex'. Although probably not. I am a horndog, and not afraid to admit it :)

A woman claiming her ex was "abusive" is the female version of a man claiming his ex was "crazy". In both instances it can happen, but 90% of the people claiming it happened to them are just trying to protect their ego by claiming it happened to them.

I used to claim two of my exes were "crazy" when in reality I fucked up. I didn't handle those relationships as I should have. Lesson learned. Some people, unfortunately, never learn to own their mistakes.

I don't believe "AbUSE" without a police report.

I say this because there are countless resources for abused women to not only leave their abusers, but to punish the abusers as well. In every story of how "abusive" an ex was, there is always an element of her choosing him knowing his tendencies and staying in the relationship, it only ending when he stops doing the "abusive" things.

My default stance is not to believe it, and that whichever woman is saying it is just trying to make herself look like the innocent victim instead of owning her mistakes.

My default stance is to believe that she chose to ignore the red flags that were plainly obvious to anyone not thinking with their genitals, and to assume that the moment funding is secured from a "decent" man, she will go right back to thinking with her genitals, which already does not have a good track record.

Single moms need to be kicked out of the dating pool to go raise their kids and after that get themselves hence to a nunnery or the like. No matter what assumption we go with, they are a waste of time and effort for any man that has his shit together that wants something serious.

Its a great idea if the audience is male, but you know this.

Females could give a shit what someone else thinks, unless its their immediate friend group - which feeds them the < current thing > coordinates of whatever trend is happening. They are social chameleons, and groupthink consensus (and general gossip) is their lifeblood.

I personally have been through the real-life hell of a sister going completely off the rails, effectively ruining the family in the process. They don't give a shit, never gave a shit and will continue to not care as they pursue their immediate 'goal' of whatever tingle/desire they have.

Add in a society that promotes and encourages such reckless behavior, and you have legions of Instagram "models" and Onlyfans porno chicks selling themselves.

I try not to teeter into the abyss of accelerationism/nihilism, but fuck me its hard to care about society at large sometimes.

Her goal with her post is basically, "help me avoid the negative consequences of my actions." Wouldn't it be great if, instead of that, she made a post where the goal was, "young women, take my advice: lock down a good man instead of chasing tingles from a known bad boy"

It's a result of a subset of consequential ethics. If they can make the consequences go away, then they were not a Bad Person.

Whereas many men tend towards a more deontological mode of thought, where an action was bad or good independent of the actual results.

I appreciate that you're trying to put a positive spin on things. But we're talking about modern women. They ALL think they deserve top tier only, they all think they came up with the idea of being attracted to "Tall Dark and Handsome" (even though the litany of bad romance novels has been selling that same tripe for 100 years), and they all think they're going to be the ones who beat the odds (statistically impossible). Why do so many videos have guys using that "Delusion calculator" app and the women continue undeterred on their quest for tingles?

In short, it'd be nice if your proposal were to happen, but the chances are less likely than surviving a skydiving trip with no parachute on the day you win the lottery after being struck by lighting while a talking ape asks you if you'd like to share a samovar of coffee with him.

Not that high school girls would listen

That is the unfortunate thing. No matter how much you want certain ideas to be adopted by a large group of people, and no matter how good they may be, it matters little if the intended audience does not care to listen. Perhaps this is why requiring approval from the father was so important historically for any marriage to happen.

You know what would be really great for society? If there was a forum specifically for 16 year old girls (the age when she apparently had her kid with the bad boy) that explained to those 16 year old girls the consequences of their decisions.

There is. It's called Abstinence Education, but everybody has decided that telling children that that there are consequences to screwing like a pack of bonobos is "repressive" or something. So instead we have so-called "Sex Education" that teaches them what to do when the inevitable unwed pregnancies happen.

Of course that's all just a result of society rejecting tried-and-true sexual mores.

And old black lady once said on YT: Men see themselves in younger men, women see themselves as younger women.

There is a forum. It's called the church. The most controversial thing they teach women is "don't have sex with your boyfriend and give sex to your husband as much as he wants". So what do women do? The exact opposite. Their body, their choices, their consequences. My body, my choices, my consequences. Anyway, I gotta go put my dick in my wife and then teach my boys some red pill.

It seems to me that men learn from the bad experience and pass that learning experience along to other men, while women try to justify the bad experience and pass that bad experience along to other women.

...and would've also taken half of what he owns

I'm guessing she dumped him after having the bastard. When women get pregnant they go into nesting mode and require the beta side of hypergamy. Then the male either rewires into parent mode or he goes off with other women.

Yep. That's what actually killed her chances. She could have chosen the bad boy all she wants. Lots of guys would still think they won "in the end" if she finally goes back to them. But the kid is a slap back to reality that she willingly gave another man her most precious gift, the ability for him to continue his genetic line, and that slap in the face every morning is more than a lot of otherwise bluepilled guys can bear.

Yeah women can't even get their own mating strategy right. She's supposed to get with a provider long-term FIRST and secure genetics short-term LATER. Nowadays they just secure the genetics and then look for a provider.