Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
the sad fact is that she will get hundreds of replies on tinder or hinge.
The quality of women on offer on OLD is so poor, and men are so lonely and desperate that all you need to do as a woman is be alive. You can just list a load of red flags in bullet point format and they guys will line up around the block.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
the thing that strikes me is this - look at her face. Look at how happy and proud she is of being a complete car crash. She's 27 and on the scrap heap. And she's grinning like some dude that just won an award. She's on the express train to trailer trash living. And she's pleased as punch. She's proud of being a worthless slut. Amazing.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She clearly IS DTF.
I mean, we have the evidence.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What she means is that she is not DTF with you. She is DTCC (down to cash checks) with you, but DTF with Tyrone.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Perhaps one of the biggest red flags of all time: women going on dating apps and then saying they are 'looking for friends'.
Run for the hills.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's a shit test.
They know they don't want or need friends. They say that because:
The men stupid enough to believe it become orbiters
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
When I see these profiles of a woman on a dating app, I just see a prostitute. They may not know it yet, but they are prostitutes. Not a slut or a easy lay, a woman that wants money in exchange for sex. That is her future. There is no other role for her in society.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
She's clearly not a wife-grade woman, and since she's pregnant and not willing to offer up the goods, she's not "short-term fling" material, either.
She's also incredibly irresponsible and unwilling to accept responsibility for the consequences of her choices. Bitter, too. Leave her in the streets where she belongs.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's also not friend material either. Because my friends don't expect me to paint their houses, help them move, sort out their final demands for payment notices, recover their cars from the pound, reconnect their utilities for them, 'lend' them money, and then listen to their woes all night long. My friends realise that if they are a total car crash leech without having a single interesting thought or anything at all to contribute, then they aren't really the kind of friend that anyone would be interested in having.
She'll find this out very slowly over a few years. And then she'll pivot into the role of escort. She wont' be able to say the word 'whore' because its sounds so bad. But escort somehow sounds less, you know.
SeasonedRP 1y ago
Oh I have a feeling she'd offer up the goods to someone who played it right. Not that I would advise anyone to.
nicknack 1y ago
At least you can’t knock her up. But you can catch her herpes and she will put you on the birth certificate.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm sure if a poor soul with the right sized wallet came along, she'd try to suck up to him harder than a remora on the underside of a great white shark.
She's made her slutty bed, now she gets to lie in it - for a few minutes before the baby starts crying again, anyway.
hijoton 1y ago
" harder than a remora on the underside of a great white shark."
You magnificent bastard, that was high poetry.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
She’s still in love with the ex or she wouldn’t have mentioned him.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
She'd go back to him in a nanosecond.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Your role will be to lend her the $30 she needs to pay for the taxi ride over to her ex when he makes the booty call.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I need about tree-fiddy.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"I need gas money to come see you, teehee"
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
or in her case "I need gas money to go see a friend"
nicknack 1y ago
As she, and anyone else with children should do. Go back to their baby daddy.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Baby daddy is not interested. This was the one thing I would fault Kevin Samuels on. He often would say - "your baby daddy is the highest that you will get- go back to your babby daddy and make it work"
The thing is, the baby daddy was too high in the first place. The baby daddy was out of her league, or he would have stayed. The very fact of the matter that baby daddy is not around means that baby daddy was too high in SMV for her.
nicknack 1y ago
Guys generally don’t leave a good deal, she was a bad deal for him. Too ugly and with all the bitchiness, delusion and attitude of a hotter girl. If she came back and shut her mouth, cooked and cleaned his place and let him sleep with other women whenever he wanted, he’d keep her in his rotation.
It’s that these women want the male deal nowadays - someone who also cleans, cooks, listens and is loyal. Well to get that you have to date below you in looks and socioeconomic standing. Which is what men traditionally do, but women refuse to.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Another reason to believe that the baby daddy was 'higher than her level' is that she banged him, and let him go raw. Slut like her ONLY bang dudes that are much higher in SMV than themselves. That's how hoes work.
And chads are used to banging sluts lower in SMV than they are - thats how they get the volume.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Right, but if he's smart, he isn't likely to take her back.
That, and "she'd go back to him in a nanosecond" is intended as a warning to any man who might someday find himself attracted to a woman such as this one.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The baby daddy can always go back.
RedPill115 1y ago
I mean, she's pregnant with his baby.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She probably mentioned baby-daddy in the vain hope that he'd come back and stay with her.
If he's smart, he'll stay away.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Lol someone played the fuckboy lotto and lost twice.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Brutally hilarious, lololol
redpillschool Everybody tag him 1y ago
She tells her ex "Get off my dick."
Seems like maybe preggos there got those instructions turned around.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Where i'm from, lots of women in her situation end up literally on the streets asking for change.
Look at what you're subsidizing western men, LOOK!
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That’s about what she deserves to deal with as well. And give those kids to their father(s).
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 1y ago
That's not a happy face, it's a CRAZY face. Bet your last sane neuron she would never spontaneously make that face to you; not for anything you do or just because you. That is the delighted expression she only ever makes when she thinks she succeeded in fucking someone over, in this case her ex.
Send her the Best sex of your life/ BPD meme, with a note: You do go well.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
My fucking god I'm dying reading this comment
also @Typo-MAGAshiv
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
You are literally projecting and coping and seething because you don't go well because gypsy!
Or whatever that nutcase said.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
No matter how tough she thinks her life is right now, one thing is for sure.
It's going to get a lot lot tougher. If young women could learn one thing, just one thing, it would be this;
Winter is the longest season. And winter for women starts at about age 27. This women has had her time in the sun. She will now have another 60 years and its going to be hard time, because no man is going to look after you, be interested in you, or put up with you. A few of them will fuck you. But that's not really going to help a clueless retard like her survive 60 years of winter.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What's wild is that women, if they just shut the fuck up, close their legs, and don't get fat, can have the easiest lives ever.
All they have to do is find a good man, don't piss him off too much and they can ride the gravy train until they die.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You ask too much!
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I enjoy seeing sad sluts get divorced, fuck a few dudes (because they're liberated now!) and then find out that getting commitment is damn near impossible. Watching "WAATGM" play out in real life is funny as fuck.
My ex wife let it slip in a casual conversation that she has not been able to keep a man around longer than a month. I was tempted to tell her that my mom hasn't had a relationship in over 2 decades.
This dating market is rough for fat black single moms, and it doesn't get easier.
Meanwhile, I have to use my calendar to keep my social life in order.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'll never forget when some over chick was saying to Kevin S "Oh dating is hard in your 40s" and KS straight up interrupted her as quick as hell and said
"Not true - I'm 52 and I'm beating them off with a stick"
It was funny as fuck. He really drew attention to the difference between men and women when they are over 40 - if you're a man and you're not obese, have your shit together, you can slay. Women? Not so much.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah when you're in your 40s the knife only cuts one of two ways: you either handled your business and now your life is in easy mode, or you didn't handle your business and every fucking day is a struggle.
You know my biggest stress point? *What do I want to cook tonight?" or "Do I go to the gym now or later?"
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think that is why the crazy cat lady is a true stereotype.
Women generally have life on easy mode for the first 20 to 30 years, and then when "winter" sets in, as you've aptly stated, the whole thing flips on its head. No longer can they rely on just finessing the social web they've built to get free shit and favors. They might actually gasp have to do shit on their own, using their skills (which are usually not developed) and what they've learned.
I think this is why they flip out, go a bit nuts (even more than usual) because they didn't have the foresight to prepare for this. Ignored it all along until the season changed and they don't have anything stored up for the winter of the rest of their lives.
Good analogy on the seasons, there.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There's this woman, Lori Alexander, who works with women and she says these women go insane around age 40. She's typically talking about married women who hate their husbands but I can see how it applies to single women.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Related concept is the Aesop's Fable of the Grasshopper and the Ant.
These women are Grasshoppers. Problem for them is that there is no reason for an Ant to take them in for the winter of their life when said Ant did not get to share in the summer of fun with them.
nicknack 1y ago
It's the same reason that women "are not into going out anymore" right around the time they turn 27. Coincidentally, right around the time they stop getting all their drinks paid, skipping the mile long line in the club, stop getting invites to boat parties / after parties.
They try going out and realize how difficult and not-fun it is to get treated like shit by staff, pay overpriced drinks, not sit at the tables unless you pay 1k+, and get nobody approaching you the whole night.
This is right around the time men can start affording to get tables to sit at, pay to skip the line, having their own place to host the after parties, renting/buying boats. And they shame us for being too old to party.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"too old for games" and "losing at the games" has a Venn diagram overlap of 100%
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It was either you or somebody that made a brilliant reply on women and timetables on the metrics of their life. What is blowing up in their faces (haha a pun) and making them crazy is when things dont go according to plan because they dont factor in a margin of error or cushion in their plans. For instance, they plan out exactly when they will stop riding the CC (at 26!) get married (at 28!) and have their first kid by 30, of course while having a degree, a wildly successful career and married to a decent guy that has a power job. When that timetable doesnt go the way they planned and they are now 30+ in age and the cake with sprinkles isnt there, we are seeing the results. They really are going nuts.
I use to say on here that WAATGM was not an accurate sample of women. That we underestimate women and most are smart enough to know when to jump off the CC, properly sterilize their past, not stupid enough to run her mouth or have friends that will snitch her. That they will do the AF in their 20s and settle with the BB before the wall. I now revise that line of thought because of that post I read. Most women DO NOT factor in a margin of error called real life and dont know how to react when they hit those age milestones and are still single and looking. Real life does not follow timetables you set. The 30 and post 30 freakout is very real. There are too many women both I have seen IRL and online that can not believe they are still single and looking and have no man lined up by 30.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Some manage to stick the landing. Some don't.
Our purpose here is to laugh at the ones who don't, while simultaneously warning men not to be a safety net for the women who would otherwise use them as one.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Respectfully, I'm going to disagree ...or offer an alternative interpretation ...
You seem to make the mistake of assuming far too much logic and rationality to women, probably because you yourself are logical and reasonable.
The women that I know either do not know about the wall or refuse to accept it. They do not believe the wall is real. Some think that the wall is age 50. I have simply NEVER met a woman that accepts that there is a wall at age 27, and that it is caused by the fact of women 24 and under being a better offer than they are.
And here's the thing. YOU CANNOT FIGHT AN ENEMY YOU DO NOT BELIEVE EXISTS. Can't be done.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Absolutely 100% true. I have been overestimating women. I do admit I have giving them too much credit. In the military, a fatal mistake is underestimating your enemy. It doesn't go even as far a applying Vulcan logic. I use common sense and think "that is a really bad idea" and assume they would see that too.
An example to prove your point was when I first started reading TRP. There was a post of a single mother trash loser that hit it out of the ballpark and found a rich beta. She then goes and cheats on him with her former weed dealer. Of course she gets dumped and she is now a broke single mother one step away from starvation. I was completely baffled by her behavior. It was one of my first post on that site. I said that if that was me, there is no way I would kill the goose that laid the golden egg. There is just no way I would fuck up my meal ticket. That is applying logic and common sense. I am now realizing it is not just some but most women that dont plan ahead. Dont think of if this goes bad. Most importantly, dont believe the wall is real or they will cash out at the end of the CC ride.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Interesting stuff.
I don't subscribe to the idea that 'all women are crazy' or even 'all women are dumn'. Those are gross simplifications that just don't do us any good.
However, it would be remiss of us not to look around and just analyse how women they think. And the one thing that pops off the page for me, is this: women just don't seem to understand stats and quantitative methods. In particular, they do not understand probability, which can be view as a branch of stats. Of if I were to be really precise (I am a man after all...so I should be!) they might understand it (the ones that are educated) but they don't believe in it. Those are two very different things.
Most women understand the concept of a mathamatical concept such as 'mean average' ....but they simply do not believe in it. They know how to calculate the mean, but they simply do not believe that it reflects reality.
A good example of this is if you tell them the average income of a male in the US is X . They sort of go, yeah...in theory, but in reality....its much higher. Because my sister went out with this guy blah blah, when I was in college most men that I met were blah blah blah.
They just can't and won't accept that there is more to the world than their experiences and what they want to be true. So if you tell them that women over 45 are more likely to die in a car crash than get married, they'll say 'but my cousin was 47 and she met this great guy blah blah and J-Lo got married to a younger guy who was rich and tall blah blah.
they simply cannot and will not engage with the reality of probability.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
I wonder which of the 107 genders she's going to put on the birth certificate. Decisions, decisions...
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She's kinda hot. By that I mean not fat. She's still of marriageable age and capable of having kids. Long hair, no tattoos. Wait... she has a kid in tote and is pregnant? SMV=0.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Is she kinda hot? Have a close look at her face.
Now scroll forward a few years, and imagine her with a few teeth missing. Because where she is headed, there aint no dental care. Life in the trailer is tough, with only meth and fentanyl to cheer you up.
She is a future meth head.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
FTFY.
her SMV is still decent.
nicknack 1y ago
When you said no tattoos i had to do a double take as this is the type of trash water woman that would get tats, because theyre so hot on chad / jamal, and low and behold you missed the one on her inner thigh. probably has them in other places not visible on this one pic too
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yikes. I was at the lagoon/beach yesterday and it was mostly Latino families with kids and here comes the caucasian skinny blonde covered in tats with her drug dealer bf and kid in tow wearing a string bikini. My son pointed it out by saying "Hey dad check out the tramp stamps". I then proceeded to use her as an example to my wife and kids about how difficult it would be to protect her from rapists, how embarrassing it would be to take her to church or your parent's house, etc.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Sharp eyes! I had to zoom in to see that.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'll bet you 100 to 1 that her body is covered in tattoos. I'm thinking a massive chest tattoo for starters. Lots of random shitty writting on her sides. A large tramp stamp and some random shit on her back. Her choice of dress is revealing in that it looks like an attempt to hide something.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Girls like her that rant about what a loser her ex was never cease to amaze me. If this guy was suck a deadbeat loser, then WHY did you: 1. Take off your clothes in front of him. 2. Consent to sex with him multiple times. 3. Let him rawdog you and ejaculate inside your fertile womb?????? Why did you have sex with a loser?
Women are the gatekeepers of sex and they are the ones that set the sexual marketplace. That is a woman's true and awesome power: The control of who gets sex from her. As an oldtimer once told me about the nature of women: "she chooses you or it was r@pe. So she basically CHOOSE to have sex with a loser and let him cum in her and get knocked up by him.... but it's all his fault. Did he use a Martian Slut Ray and hypnotize her?
That is pure ghetto talk straight from the trailer-park white trash speak. She is low class. The only thing she had going was her youth and beauty, and just like that, her SMV is cut in half by being a single mother. Even lower if that is the way she acts and talks.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm so tired of stupid bitches adopting ghetto speak. I mean sure, its a great way to sort out who's a fucking waste of time but at the same time I'd like society not to be circling the fucking drain into the sewer.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women adapt to be pleasing to the types of men they want to attract.
I see indicators like that as a welcome warning. I don't want to date a woman who has a past filled with pieces of shit.