This one has been featured on that other platform before, and it's among my favorites.

This is the 4th incident in the past month or so I've seen of women who tried to engage in dual-mating game of playing "hard to get" with a beta-bucks backfiring on them. In those other cases, the guys after about 2 months of no bedroom fun simply walked off. The woman here sums up the paradigm quite nicely, she's "not comfortable having sex so soon without a commitment" but yet the man is committing resources such as time and money.

What she means by "commitment" of course, is not only money up front, but a lifetime commitment as well before she dishes out any goods. This type of one-sided arrangement could only be reasonably demanded by virgins or young and/or pretty women with low body counts.

If a woman such as this wanted to stop sleeping around, she could ask for more time but she shouldn't be asking them to pay for dates. Suggest picnics where both bring food, walks through the park, and so on. This should go even for women who were raised "traditionally". Well, men are told when we make demands of women to obey and cook for us "It's 2023, don't you know what year it is?" Ok, then the trad-women should accept that if they're over the age of 30 or so, then she's just entered the 21st century.

She was in a dark place back then, but I fear the darker place is her future.

Because the internet never forgets. If she's 26 now, her life expectancy is going to be about 92. That's 65 years. She's going to find that to be a long, cold, dark winter.

I think men in general should stop this nice & loyal act if you're not getting compensated for it with sex, leave those gentleman code behind and straight demand for sex cause if it ain't sex or food or love then why you're in this relationship.? Just to pay food bills & shopping .?

Tyrone gets blown in under an hour but the gentleman had to wait 3 months for unenthused starfish sex? You don't get to say "I'm not comfortable having sex so soon without a commitment" if you have blown a guy within an hour of meeting him. Whoever sent him that video did him a huge favor, it's good to see men looking out for each other like this.

"And he finished in my mouth" + "We have kissed however" = need for Clorox.

To comment on race (as a black guy), the bruh in question likely was a very particular black guy, highly adjusted black guys get no sympathy from these women. They seem to sense that you’ve no out of wedlock kids and no rotation.

You were in a dark place at the time, but the lightning was just good enough to make a video.

Was the black guy you immediately gave a blowjob to related to Marvin Gaye? ♫ When I get that feeling I want sexual healing Sexual healing, oh baby Makes me feel so fine ♫

Any more clichés to regale us with?

grown as a lady? that one is hilarious. you mean you started as somewhat of a lady? did you hold a pinky finger out while blowing him? are these growths somewhere on you body or is it just that your body that has grown in size?

I needed some healing

I had no idea oral sex with a stranger was so healing to women.

Can't say I even understand what is going through her little hamster brain here.

Disgusting man. I'm very grateful for the new advancements in ai. I found a website recently that lets you reverse image search a face, to search for videos, pictures, websites with that face. It's scary accurate haha, I tried it with some random girls face and found her private (slooty) TikTok and leaked private onlyfans with her face lol. Very useful in screening, I suggest you bros make use of these technologies, avoid situations like in the post.

ah yes the classic Alpha Fucks/Beta Bucks

Not comfortable with sex before commitment

Had year long romp no strings attached sex with Tyrone

Make it make sense!

I have grown as a lady since then

No. A lady would never have behaved in such a manner in the first place. The only way in which you've grown is in your ability and willingness to exploit good men.

Some unknown saint saved a good man. Most likely it was a jealous woman or jaded ex-girlfriend of the man and wanted to hurt him.

Either way, a man was saved.

In the original thread there were a lot of people making this about the guy's alleged entitlement to sex. It has nothing to do with feeling entitled and everything to do with being charged a way higher "price". The OP had every right to set different standards for different men, but her bf also had every right to not take her seriously.

Making the man in your present pay for the mistakes of your past equals no future.

"I was a slut but now I'm a good girl."

Yeah, sure.

And this guy who has to be put through the wringer because she "doesn't do that stuff" anymore. Oh? Then what exactly is in it for him then, besides her nagging and bills?

I hope he ghosts her, she doesn't even deserve any explanation.

That is disgusting already. Dont we have some positive stories like cat saved by fire crew?

There are plenty of guys out there that will not care about your past. They will be so grateful that they got down your pants that they will wife you up, give up his dreams, and work a soul crushing job and give you his paycheck to spend. So I ask why lie? Plus this can be your ultimate screening test for a true prince. A man that will accept you for you, flaws and all. So I ask why lie?

A tale as old as time: Alpha Fux and Beta Bux.

Girl in her prime bangs Tyrone and no sex act is off the table. Hits the wall and now wants to settle with rich Beta. For such a short post, there is so much to pull apart and comment on.

First and most striking: her biggest concern is WHO filmed and leaked the vid. That is her top concern. Must bury the evidence, thinking like a guilty person. It is very telling.

Then there is the HUGE issue of what a women would call a male's "fragile little ego." As in "Men are sooo stupid. Don't you understand that Tyrone that I just met and had 3 hours of the most mind blowing no holds barred sex meant nothing??? You are special! That's why you had to wait 3 months and I couldn't go too wild or you might think I'm that kind of girl and I'm not!" Call me fragile and petty all you want, but as a man, when I find out that I was strung along for 3 months and you sucked off Tyrone within 45 minutes, I have two words: FUCK and YOU!

It's posts like yours that I really see the dual mating strategy concept in women. She really does split her desires and men into two camps. Tyrone, Roberto, or Chad satisfy her feral lust to breed and the 3 month guy satisfy her instinct for protection, provisions and resources. The big problem is that 3 month guy wants the same kind of sex. "Hey stupid! you don't get it yet? You ARE NOT suppose to get what the Carnie Operator got. So what I use to fuck ans suck after just meeting a guy and I made you wait three months. You should be grateful for the scraps I give you now.

This is the current malaise modern women have in the dating market. The guys that have no problem with her past she wants nothing to do with; they are Icky incels. While the guys she wants a commitment from do care about her 304 report and feel disgust at her past promiscuity. Prince Charming doesn't marry the village whore. It's that simple. I suspect that women know this too, hence the hamstering and the lying. Once I understood sexual activity I could not understand how such a natural act could be so destructive. A few moments in time that a man and a woman share intimately could cause such devastation.

Lastly, the new excuse to hide behind is some kind of mental illness. "I was in a dark place" justifies the manipulation and games being played? So it wasnt my fault that I got drunk and plowed into a school bus, because I was in a dark place too.

Alright ladies, Dr. No-Stress is in the house. If you're in a dark place right now, and you need healing, I have just the cure for all your woes...

Oldie but a goodie. This was absolutely hilarious. Checks off all of the boxes

• make the nice guy wait, let the guy who piques her primal urges stick it in her mouth within an hour of meeting him

• dismiss past promiscuity as a mental health issue. Because apparently hopping on penis is a form of counseling for women.

• let a man hit it for a year with no commitment

how to convince the guy im dating that this is a COMPLETLEY different version of me

Honey, he just learned about it. :-)

"How do I make the consequences of my past and current choices go away so that I can have my cock and eat it too?"

Yeah when a woman offers you a worse deal for a higher price than she offered past men, take it as what it is, a mortal insult. What's pathetic is society has coddled women into expecting to get away with this when if one man insulted another man that deeply, there would be blood shed.

As is, it is grounds for an immediate ghost and block, no explanation, and certainly no closure offered for her to try to abuse as a way to reassign blame to the injured male party.

Edit: And I would like to repost part of a comment I made on the old thread @Typo-MAGAshiv linked:

For the peanut gallery: Once you find confirmation of hoedom - do not confront them/mention it in a misguided attempt to "save" them, you dumbasses. For starters, it won't work, second, it won't work, third, it won't work, and fourth, you'll just cause issues for yourself while accomplishing nothing of worth. They do not want to be saved!

Just silently demote and move on.

That's some serious bro code there. They can make revenge porn illegal but they can't prosecute anonymous. :)