Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
If your baby needs a dad, first look at the biological father. Is he fit to be a dad? If your answer is "no," then I have to ask the question of what were you doing getting knocked up by him?
Am I unreasonable in asking for those who cannot handle the consequences of sex not to be having it? And don't tell me she will have it covered by herself and that the "dad" she is seeking out is just a bonus. Statistically she will not have it covered by herself, and logically if she cannot figure out how not to get pregnant from a man who is not willing and/or able to be a father she will not figure out being a mom properly on her own.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Unfortunately, we set the bar so low on these women, that merely allowing the child to survive is considered “successful”. Sure they are way more likely to end up in prison or “transitioning”, but those single moms sure are heroes! /s
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"I got high standards"
Where were these standards when she allowed herself to get pregnant WITHOUT first finding a "life partner"?
lemko1968 1y ago
What about the guy who got you in that predicament? He was good enough to have sex with you but not good enough to be a husband and a father? Do you put out for every Tom, Dick, and Harry but require Prince Charming to raise your spawn and finance your lifestyle?
Redpillpusher 1y ago
This is irritating. I understand many females have no accountability, pack mentality, etc. Etc. But enough is enough, this does not work!!! Where are the numerous examples of average to below average women with kids finding suckers. Now if this was a fairly common occurrence then I get it. But this only happens rarely and with females 7.5 and over. Geez
PoopBeast 1y ago
Yeah I'm kind of curious how often this works as well.
souldrone 1y ago
It works. It definitely works.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Predatory women in the "acquisitive" mindset can absolutely turn on the charm.
I know a woman who has had six husbands. Destroyed/Divorce raped each in turn after she was done with them. But just think of the mental gymnastics required for that 3rd, 4th, or 5th guy to rationalize what he's doing. And think of the level of persuasion that makes him want to. Speechcraft level 100.
The crazy thing is that no one taught her how to do that. It's natural, same as it's natural for female spiders. Attract --> Mate --> Devour
This is why you see fat whales batting well above their SMV.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Unfortunately, there are still men who buy into the outdated belief that fat women will make up for their looks with better personalities.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
@PoopBeast
This is how their strategy likely works (when the girl is this unappealing)
1) guy who can't acquire sex very easily at all swipes right thinking he will be able pump and dump (even he doesn't want her)
2) he fucks, still can't get something elsewhere and keeps coming back for more for regular sex (or at least the idea of regular sex)
3) she takes advantage of this and employs games etc to create investment
4) guy develops a situationship with her and it eventually falls apart at some point (unless she baby traps him)
Rinse and repeat. Going without sex for too long for any guy creates some desperate incentives
There really aren't many other viable strategies for women like this. They have fucked up their lives and have to just rely on whatever situationships they can get with whatever games they can employ
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
It's sad some guys get so desperate. I'd rather fuck my fingers than that thing, and it doesn't come with post-nut clarity in the morning.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
It’s the validation of someone liking them is what does a lot of guys in.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I don't know what it is, but chicks in nursing are some of the most ran-through bitches that exist. Or maybe its the uniform that gives them some extra power in addition to having a pussy that drives them insane. (Just like military chicks are most definitely fucking their way through the chain of command.)
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Calling a medical assistant a nurse is insulting to nurses. RNs are serious people in a serious field (it’s why more and more guys are going into it).
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It was obfuscated, so I didn't really see the description there. I'm sure male nurses are serious, I just have run into a lot of women in the medical field that seem to be loose as hell.
Maybe its just me...
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
It's definitely not just you. I've known a few nurses and a handful of medical assistant types. Every one was a rampaging turboslut. I've heard the same from everyone I've spoken to about women in the medical field - most of them women.
KSal90 1y ago
Who wears cheetah? Large and in charge ain't gonna fit in that anymore.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well your baby does have a dad. You should go back to him and try to make it work.
But she won’t do that. Just another woman who’s managed to ruin her life less than 2 years into adulthood. And who will probably ruin the life of that kid, especially if it’s a son.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
'she won't do that' - more likely, 'he' wont do that.
The babydaddy knows full well what a nightmare this self-entitled semi-retarded slut is.
carnold03 1y ago
Geezus, I don't even want to imagine the life she's been living to be a 19 year old woman who looks like she's in her thirties.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If she wears scrubs, she's down to fuck... I've lost count how many nurse-whores I've run into.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
Yeah well I got high standards too. I say “fuck off” to women like you.
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No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
It's a rough ride to the bottom.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
All the expense and responsibility of a child without any of the pleasure of making it. Sounds like a pretty one-sided deal...
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
'Being a step dad is like serving a life sentence for a crime you didn't commit'
I'm curious - what is it about gen z women that leads them to believe that men are going to wife up a woman with another mans baby? Seriously, is there some TV show where average looking, fat women with a bastard child, a load of debt and nothing going for them pair off with chads who then take care of them for their rest of their lives? Is that a thing? How else are they getting this idea that us men are going to drop everything and rush on over to wife up these broken hoes?
Are they aware that men are barely marrying women WITHOUT bastards in tow nowadays?
The delusion is strong with womenkind. This trend of women going on dating apps, with pregnant belly, and then demanding a husband is perplexing. I think they are having a hard time separating fantasy and reality.
Perhaps we could make loads of money by creating a new 'reality' TV show, which panders to the dreams of young women.
Pitch: we take a bunch of very average or below average women, bonus points for being overweight, that are pregnant and then we put them on an island with guys that are all giga-chads: All over 6'2, six packs, tanned, strong jawed, rich etc. And at the end of every week, one of the girls marries one of the chads in a beach ceremony, and everyone cries. It would be huge. Obviously it would be fake as fuck, but we would present this as 'reality TV' because people are retarded and can't tell the difference.
This show is going to make a boatload of money, because it represents what women want and demand to be true. They can sit on their sofa eating pringles and getting fatter and watch this and feel good, because it proves that 'all women are 10s' and that there is a prince out there for every slutty slob.
We'd like to call it 'Fantasy Island' but that name is take. What about 'Damsels in Distress - Knights to the rescue!'
Anyone got and ideas for a good name?
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 1y ago
This is what The Bachelor / Bachelorette is degrading to. In the beginning, it was always single, never-married, young women on the show. Now, it's often older, sometimes divorced single mothers (to be fair, several of the men have been single fathers too). A few years back, the bachelorette was 39. And there's this: https://screenrant.com/christina-mandrell-addresses-mom-shamers-before-bachelor-premiere/
The women still look good, but they're certainly no one's idea of a prize. (PS don't ask me how I know about The Bachelor. I blame it on the women in my life :-)
But to answer your question, here's my theory. Previous generations (let's say Boomer and earlier) that were largely pre-feminist (both men and women), no one would touch a single mother (even other women would shun them). Then, current generations (say GenX and older millenials), when both men and women were feminists, they were accepted, and plenty of men did marry single mothers. Now, the youngest generations (GenZ and younger millenials), the women are still full-bore feminists, but the guys are getting disgusted and turning off. Even ones who might still be feminist in terms of workplace stuff, etc. are checking out of the relationship market.
So what we have here is a delay in getting with the times. Young women like this see older women (like her mom's generation GenX/older millenials) who managed to get married while being single mothers, and expect the same, not realizing that the men in their generation have changed. Like you said, GenZ guys are not even marrying never-married, no-kids women. They're certainly not interested in wife'ing up a single mom. Some of them may be desperate enough to date or fuck these women, and maybe a few of them get trapped or end up catching the feels. But the vast majority of these women will remain unmarried. It'll just take them a few years to realize this.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
There’s a lot of good stuff on The Bachelor. I was watching it while doing nordictrack a few months ago and The Bachelor literally looked like the Chad meme with a name like Trent. I laughed as he had a “bachelor tells all” episode and all the runners up who went with him to the Fantasy Suite had to sit there, along with her parents, and watch as it was clear he slept with all of them and dumped them the next day. “Mom, Dad, are you proud?” Then finally one of the girls got all angry with him about something and he did the Chad “Ok, so what?” and she got over it. That 35 minutes of Nordictrack felt like 5 I was laughing so hard.
Anyway, the old Bachelor formula was funny because it was the dream originally of 25 Staceys (and a few nut jobs thrown in for fun) chasing Chad who does all the fantasy things for them: Takes them on a gondola in Venice, or ride to the Eiffel Tower, and dinners every night AND then ask the father for her hand in marriage and finally, pick out a diamond ring to give her. My wife laughed: “That’s easy! Just ask the diamond guy what is the most expensive one, IDIOT!!!”
I’d say the show has gotten a bit incestual as the Bachelor/ette would be picked out of the ranks of previous contestants. I think it was better when they picked a man off the street and watched him react. They picked increasingly trashy bachelorettes out of the contestants to appeal to the women who watch the show including 2, hilariously in one season, aging unremarkable women dating all the hot guys at once and felt disenfranchised as their insecurities popped out. If they tried to reject one guy, he could always go shag the other one. And tatted up single mothers with zero personality getting tons of chads chasing them.
The bachelors of the past also had something going for them such as being a doctor, winery owner, farmer, or soccer player.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I clicked on your link and it was only 3 seconds before I saw the phrase 'mom shamers'. Wow. Just wow!.
It's inevitable that The Bachelor show is pivoting towards having old single mums - that is the way of the wokery. And the guys look like fags larping as single straight males. For all we know, they probably are fags. TV is like that.
You correctly point out that the vast majority of these women will remain unmarried. But you mistakenly say 'It'll take them a few years to realise this' - its my observation that they never seem to realise it. They carry on for 20+ years thinking that their prince is just around the corner. There are women in their 50s and 60s still demanding chads drop what they are doing and 'man up'.
It must be because we are so intimidated by them. Yeah, thats it. We see how awesome these women are, and we're just, you know, afraid? Because we are such worthless pieces of shit, and unable to 'man up'. That's it. Deep down, we know that these women are simply TOO AWESOME, and we can't compete with such high levels of awesomeness.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
You're right. If you cannot afford something, you go for something affordable in the meantime and keep an eye on the unaffordable hoping to snatch one. One of the emerging strategies seem to be women getting pregnant early with guys they find hot and then to look for some rich Chad (Alpha bucks). If that doesn't work, women are entitled to a beta bucks anyways and one will surely step up.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The problem (for them) is that beta bucks are slowly waking up. I'm seeing a lot of beta guys in my social circles that have made the mistake one, got divorced (in their 40s) and are not going to make the same mistake again. They're simply not putting up with self entitled sluts with babies in tow. They want (and are getting) much younger and better women, quite often eastern European.
Here's a familiar story: Wife walks out on the guy and family in early 40s, or late 30s. Says shes 'not happy' - which means she had an affair with a chad, which re-awakened her inner slut. Leaves the husband. Husband is devastated. Things don't work out for the ex-wife, because she's now much older, and there is no market for her product. The husband however, quite quickly settles down with a new wife, that is much younger and better than the old wife. Now the ex-wife is single and can't get arrested. Can sometimes get a pump and dump, if she's lucky. But the husband has a totally different life - things are much better for him.
The husband is totally different now - he is red pilled and has a younger wife. He didn't choose this path, his ex-wife chose it for him.
This is my story anyhow.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This happened to my cousin. His unremarkable wife got attention at bars and dumped him even though he's a pretty good looking guy. He remarried a younger version of his wife. It was like a 2010 Toyota camry dumping you and you getting a 2020 one instead. She, however, about 4 years later married... a guy who looked remarkably like him and about the same age. I think she probably considers herself lucky.
chunky 1y ago
It's good news for the husband, but it's gotta be rough on the kids. Women used to stick out bad marriages until the kids were grown, at least. Now, tingles trump kids.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
yeah, its devastating for the kids. I wanted to keep it going for the sake of my kids, but no, wife wanted to play the fool and get pumped and dumped. Pure self interest, didn't give a shit about the poor kids.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
what is 'nerf'?
BigMelungo 1y ago
I’m pretty sure that’s a slang way of saying “shoot your shot or don’t”. Seen it used other places by the kool kids.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Nerf is also slang for disabling/weakening something, usually for competitive reasons.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Toy company that specializes in foam balls, darts, etc.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Really? I googled it but thought, that can't be what she is talking about. Is that what she wants? to play with nerf balls? wtf.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Nerf makes great toys! Lots of fond childhood memories.
"It's Nerf or nothing" was their slogan in the 1990s (might still be).
I think she's just trying to be quirky. Really, that line is innocuous compared to the rest of that abominable profile.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
apart from being fat and pregnant, this woman is going to be single for ever because she is 5'10.
How do I know this? Because her list of demands is going to include 'taller than me'. Obviously that is standard. But when she says 'taller than me' she will also add 'I like to wear heels when I got out, so he's going to have to be taller than me when I'm in heels'. And sluts like to wear at least 4 inch heels. Which means that she will only consider guys that are 6'2 and above. Let's say 6'3 for margin of comfort.
Here's the thing - tall guys don't want tall girls. We prefer small girls.
What's that? Not fair you say?? It's just preferences baby, just preferences. You've got yours, we got ours.
nicknack 1y ago
“He needs to be taller than me” is womanese for “he needs to be taller than me in 6 inch heels and my hair done with 3 inches of volume.”
Oh, and he has to be at least as tall as Becky’s situationship guy.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
Funny you should mention that.
I never gave a shit about a woman's height.
I ended up with a wife who is 5'10" to my 5'11".
I like not having to bend down to kiss her!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I don't mind either way - I've had girlfriends from 5'0 all the way up to 6'4. Equal opportunities!
But I have to admit, I do still enjoy rejecting taller girls. I can't exactly explain why, but I do love to turn down tall women.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"I got high standards" Not in terms of grammar and syntax, clearly. It's I've got, not 'I got'.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I *have.
:P
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Sure, but I've is a contraction of 'I have'. As well you know!
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Right, and adding "got" to the end of that contraction is entirely superfluous. It's like saying "ATM machine."
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
fucker beat me to it!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
or PIN number
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Someone posted recently about 'resting bitch face' ...this lady is a contender!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Nobody else said it, so I will:
If I was on a dating app and saw this, I'd message her and suggest she get an abortion and call me. Or she can always give it up for adoption.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
nobody else will say it so I will - I would 100% smash this chick. Her fat legs are amazing. Recreational only.
BigMelungo 1y ago
I would too, just wanna bite into them fat thighs like a piece of chicken