Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Land_of_the_losers
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Petersonluv 1y ago
Let’s make love real and genuine
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
I wanted to make this 'Single woman tears' but didn't see the flair in the menu.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago
Both "Single Woman Tears" and "Single Mom Tears" should be in the list. Being she's a mom, the latter is more appropriate.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Now I sees it.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Good find. I love these posts. Let's break it down:
Tired of being mom and dad, to kiss all the boo boos, cook and clean, and go to work. Two of them have special needs, and the other three are just plain retarded.
Tired of being pumped and dumped by Chad and Tyrone.
FAT.
She fucked around and found out, and thinks she can claw back the hands of time. You can't unfuck Chad and Tyrone, and can't shove your crotch goblins back up in there to where they came from.
As long as the right ATM/babysitter comes along, she'll be real devoted.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
I will give her credit, at least she said she enjoys cooking. I dunno if she cooks worth a damn or not but at least she said it. That’s rare these days.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She can microwave a hot pocket like no one else!
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
She can make macaroni out of a box 12 different ways
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You'll give her credit, but what she wants is your credit card. The long card number first please...
souldrone 1y ago
I need one with a 5$ limit so I can troll them to death.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
YOU DID NOT HAVE TO REDEEM IT! WHY DID YOU REDEEM IT!!!
roaringstuff 1y ago
I can literally hear this in my head. Thanks for the laugh xD
chunky 1y ago
Learned her lesson, but it's too late.
nicknack 1y ago
If she actually learned anything shed go back to the father of her children. Traditional women stay with the father of their children no matter what. Men back in the day beat their wifes and had entire second families and their wives stuck by their side til y’know “death do us part”.
My mother is traditional, she stuck by my father even tho he was a serial blatant cheater and they obviously werent a good match.
Traditional women arent online in their 30’s with young children getting pumped and dumped by Chads. Traditionally they would be punished severely for that.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Which one?
nicknack 1y ago
I thought this after I posted. Theres no hope
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Traditional. At 38 with kids. You keep using that word; I do not think it means what you think it means.
nicknack 1y ago
How traditional do you yhink she was when she was 22 with no kids hot girl summering
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
As far as modern women are concerned, "traditional" means something only men are supposed maintain for the benefit of women, while women deserve to enjoy being modern to make up for thousands of years of oppression.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Even if women's thousands years of oppression was true (it is certainly not), is she saying she's thousands of years old?
Tell her she can only count the last 38 (or so) years in a female human body, not the previous time where she was a literal eldrich horror. While the reincarnation didn't stray too much from the original, the original wasn't a female human body.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Also it’s interesting that women will pine for a “traditional” man while simultaneously decrying the past. Like you want a man who can take care of you, but you don’t want to defer the authority that should come with it?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
This historical oppression is moot in that men and women share the same ancestor so could men consider ourselves oppressed because our mothers were oppressed and women privileged since their fathers were?
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 1y ago
In this case, "traditional" is just another word she uses hoping that a man will not immediately see that she is unable to uphold her end of a traditional relationship (thanks to her having kids from another man/other men). It does not matter what the word actually means to her, just as long as she gets what she wants as a result of using that word.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Just because she wants a traditional man (now) doesn't mean that she's prepared to be a traditional woman.
That's what so many of these women fail to understand: there's a fork in the road where one path leads to Wifeandmotherville and the other leads to Whoretown. All the off ramps toward Whoretown are one-way: there are no roundabouts that lead back toward Wifeandmotherville.
She took the road to Whoretown and discovered that chasing fun when you're a young woman leads to loneliness and burdens once the fun stops. Women who put themselves into positions where they have to play the male role rarely understand that the male role revolves around the burden of performance. Our acceptance - our very humanity even - is predicated on fulfilling our assigned duties in ways that women's lives aren't. By the time they figure it out it's already too late.
She certainly wants a traditional man in her life now... she needs one, in fact, but the only way for a 38-year-old mother to have a traditional man in her life is to have already been married to him for ten to twenty years. You don't start looking when you're approaching 40 with bastard children in tow.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If a woman claims to be traditional, but she's single over the age of 24 or is a single mother, then you can conclude her claim is false.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
What kind of man can a 38yr old single mom that loves to cook get? I bet there's someone out there for her. He's probably 65 and lives in a camper trailer right down the street and gets $1700/mo from social security. His wife died and his kids are grown and there's nothing he'd like more than a nice younger woman that loves to cook and be a stay-at-home wife. He's traditional and doesn't cheat and is also lonely. If only they could just meet...
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’d lay 50:1 odds against her responding to that man’s DM. Even though that sounds like the man for her. Maybe she can even befriend her stepkids and have a network of people as she goes into the second half of life.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You gotta see Sarasota Tim on youtube. He's 65, lives in a camper, gets $1700/mo but a more based chick already snapped him up.
master-of-losers 1y ago
I respectfully disagree. This single mom profile does not contain an excessive list of demands and she even says she'll devote herself to the right person. She's unlikely to get what she wants, but nonetheless in relative terms it's more reasonable than most single mom profiles.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
There's been a trend of former sluts emulating traditional wifely traits to lock a guy down, so I really don't trust this profile at all.
I'd be very skeptical, if I ignored my rule about no single moms, that is.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You're both right - both you and Gimme.
This profile is way more 'reasonable' than the ones that we have been seeing lately - for example the blatant hypocrisy of single moms who exclude single dads. I highly suspect that this single mom is simply adapting (very slowly, like a glacier) to her environment. She has probably got about 10 years of OLD (or more) under her belt, and she is slowly realising that she can only attract trash / pump and dumps. I'm also going to surmise that even the P&D requests have tailed off recently. I am also willing to be 5:1 that she is NOT 38.
So, she thinks its her profile that is the problem (and not her). So she changes her profile to be less demanding (and younger!).
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Not listing them is not the same as not having them. As others have noted, if a guy on her actual level tried to DM her, don't be surprised if all of a sudden additional terms and conditions start applying as to why she can't accept them.
It's part of how the overwhelming majority of these women got to this position in life, after all. By ignoring or exploiting attainable men while chasing unobtainable men.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This one is crafty, but we can spot the loony:
You cook macaroni & cheese from boxes for your brats because they are starving and you're exhausted from work. This is not cooking. Just today, my wife made amazing homemade pretzels (with homemade mustard), a big batch of homemade granola from scratch, and we had homemade chips she bakes from homemade tortillas, all from scratch. This was a light cooking day for her. You have nothing.
Right, it's all about her. She's ready to give you a list of demands, but will have very little left to give after taking care of her kids and working full-time. Any time with you will be "for her", exactly as she says.
Of course you are, you left the man who is the father of your children and have no better prospects. If you're that lonely, crawl back to him.
This means she's tried the dating scene, most likely extensively, and has now become sick of it. Typical CC rider. Emotional damage warning.
You will never be happy with a traditional man, and even if you were, they don't want you. They married tradwives a long time ago.
"Traditional" is a word women use to mean "whatever I happen to want right now" and have no idea how "traditional" men actually think or what they want, they can't even define the word.
Like you did to all those other men, and your BD? Let's call them all one by one, and ask for their opinion on your ability to be "devoted" and "traditional".
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I guess single moms go one of three ways
1) demand more, ignoring the fact that she’s a single mom
2) demand more, BECAUSE she is a single mom
3) cry about how there’s no one and essentially beg for a man.
Here we have #3. While far less fun to mock as she isn’t living in a delusional state (at least nothing in comparison to the first two categories), she does provide a good truth in how these women think.
And also, she cries about being “so lonely”. But if some working class dude, or some guy on an overstayed visa that needs a green card, or someone else like this, slid into her DMs, would she suddenly have “standards” that those men don’t fit? Even if she claims not to, we know the hypergamy will kick in and she’ll chase the best potential deal possible. Even if that’s exactly why she’s a single mother now.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's so funny how they start dreaming of a more traditional society as soon as they get pushed off the CC.
A 'traditional' society would have this in store for her:
Single mothers are shunned by society. No family wants their kids to associate with your bastard kids. The school would exclude bastards. There is no welfare state. Single mothers end up homeless and end up having to sell their children to childless rich people (that's how it worked before adoption agencies were a thing). The single mother (now without kids) has to resort to either being a street walker and live in a flop house (and get raped and robbed like every week) or, if she can find one, a poorhouse. Where she will do menial hard labour at the behest of cruel and ruthless nuns. And then die alone, in abject poverty.
That is 'traditional'.
There was never an era where old unattractive, used up, fat women with several bastards in tow (who didn't want to bear YOUR children) were rescued by knights in shining armour. It was never a thing. The knights in shining armour would compete for the honour of marrying a beautiful, young, well born virgin of about 16.
They're all dreaming about an era that never existed.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
At best those hags would find those factory jobs. There’s a reason why the term “spinster” is used to describe an unmarried older woman. It’s because that’s where the women who got rejected in the marriage market ended up going; sit in a hot building all day and sew for 10-12 hours. Chop chop, the women who didn’t ruin their life want their designer dresses.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think the reality was even more severe, hornetsfalcons12. If we were to look back at history, the jobs at factories were quite highly prized. Factory owners would look for 'women of good character' and screen out any that were 'scandalous' or 'of ill repute'. Why would you want a street whore working in your factory when you could have respectable people of good character? And landlords were the same. No landlord would rent to a woman of ill repute. I think you underestimate how different thing were. Being a 'fallen woman' meant no job and no home. It meant the streets (work as prostitute) or the workhouse (slave labour and lose your child by being forced to give it up to a rich childless couple or sell the kids into indentured service).
As recently as about the 1930s, having a bastard child(ren) meant total exclusion from polite society. It was like being a leper.
There was no chance of going on OLD and demanding chad!!!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
edit: it was much more recently than the 1930s that having a child out of wedlock disqualified you from society.
Read about the Magdalene Laundries in Ireland. These were workhouses were women with children out of wedlock were kept and treated like slaves.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Magdalene_asylum#:~:text=The%20Magdalene%20Asylum%20in%20Cork,the%20Waterford%20Institute%20of%20Technology.
the last one closed in 1996!!! It would have common even in the 1970s that a woman with a bastard would lose everything - no way to rent a flat, no way to get a job. It was the workhouse for her. They suffered unbearable cruelty at the hands of the nuns that would treat them as slaves. Many of the babies would die from abuse by the nuns, including starvation. And the bodies of the babies would then be throw into a septic tank.
https://www.belfasttelegraph.co.uk/news/republic-of-ireland/mass-grave-of-796-babies-found-in-septic-tank-at-catholic-orphanage-in-tuam-galway/30327483.html#:~:text=The%20Catholic%20Church%20in%20Ireland,mothers%20in%20Tuam%2C%20Co%20Galway.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I found out a while ago that spinsters only refer to unmarried women between the ages of 23-26, if they are still unwed by 27, they became thornbacks.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Plot twist 1: She isn't 38! She's well over 40. This profile has the smell of 'profile writing experience'. She realised that everyone filters out for over 40. Even men over 60 filter out women over 40.
Plot twist 2: She's obese. How do we know? She's single. And on OLD. And also, she doesn't mention her weight. Because 99% of old single moms on OLD are obese, she would 100% lead with the fact of not being obese if she were not obese. But she is obese, so she doesn't mention weight. Not even lies about it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Very true. I remember getting into a message exchange with a woman who eventually revealed that she wasn’t 34, but 42. But wanted kids, so she dropped her age in the hope that she could garner attention.
The funny thing is that she next’d me. I can still log into my old profile even though I’m no longer on the market. Lo and behold, I see she’s been active. Big L. Hope that career and “life experiences” make up for the lack of a legacy
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
The lack of a picture does strike me as suspicious.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, its the royal flush. There are so many signs.
No picture? = obese On OLD? = obese (can't get any interest IRL) Wants to get into a text message exchange? Not ready or willing for video chat / face time? = obese Face only picture? = obese Likes going to the gym 'occasionally' = obese (has never been inside a gym) Doesn't mention gym or sport = morbidly obese, needs help getting into her mobility scooter Over 25 and has kids? = obese Likes fantasy fiction? = obese
souldrone 1y ago
They are all the same. It's like a conspiracy, but real...