Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 1y ago in Dual-Mating Strategy - Permalink - Locked - 10K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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yaxir 1y ago
I just read the background of it all
wtf
I feel for Jonah Hill, the man wanted a good, healthy relationship - he didn't want to share his woman with other men, even on social media.
and that's perfectly fine. But instead, he got called out as insecure and manipulative - excuse me, wtf
Brady is a bitter woman, jealous that she didn't get Jonah's custard inside herself - which would have meant tonnes of money for her
instead, Jonah got another girl pregnant and i bet brady is butthurt over that
now reverse the genders and watch the media go crazy lul
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Men only want three things in life; young virgin fertile fresh pussy to marry, children, and wealth for your children that will last until your death. Under the current form of the social contract no matter how much you work, how much you sacrifice. The bottom 95% of men will never obtain all 3, the bottom 80% will never obtain 2/3, and the bottom 60% will never obtain even one. The smart ones realized 10 - 15 years ago. Now the dumber ones are starting to become aware of their own situations. This problem is getting worse with each generation when it comes to relationships and family, 75% of college age zoomer males admit they have never had sex!
Hypergamy has run rampant, every woman; fat, skinny, tall, short, high value, low value has deluded themselves into thinking they not only can get Chad but they deserve Chad. Chad is pumping and dumping women by the thousands while the bottom 60 - 75% of males don't even get the leftovers. The bottom 60 - 75% is left with infertile women, useless goods, not even secondhand goods but destroyed, non functioning product!
The social contract has been irrevocably damaged. The legal system, culture and economy in America has been damaged beyond repair, there is NO TURNING BACK!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The mistake he is making here is two fold;
1) Why is he sending long text messages? That is beta and female. Always preference the spoken word. Esp for him. The spoken word is for men, long texts are for women. Also, its stupid to do that if you are a celeb, because they will end up all over the internet (as proved with this instance). Text is forever, and will be posted - spoken word is more private.
2) The way he is laying out his boundaries makes it feel like he is 'begging'. This woman is very much beneath him. She is pretty average, and a slut. He is a super star multi millionaire comic, a hollywood A lister. Doesn't matter if his films are lame and he is fat - he can smash on demand. If he went to any club, there would be a long line of hotties that wanted to degrade themselves for him in the bathroom. Fame + money beats abs and game. every time.
Explaining your boundaries in such detail....it hints at poor frame. She obviously didn't feel any dread, if she was behaving in the way that she did.
Never explain, never complain. If they do not live up to expectations, dip.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Wait... you mean a wimmin can't have her cake and eat it too???
How is thaaat fair?
dongking 1y ago
Jonah phrased it really well. Copy + paste worthy (with small adjustments) for future LTR boundaries.
Menthos666 1y ago
I think is too well phrased. I suspect exit strategy.
Instead going alone in the wild, he used some good counselling.
Her therapist advised to make it work, which she admitted in screenshots of convo with her friend.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
A PSA for those that are very wet behind the ears:
Having boundaries like this is great. Technically though, in the modern environment, bothering to openly express them to a woman is at best a waste of time. You are not training a dog that does not know better. She's a functional (allegedly) adult, so it's not your job to teach her something she should full well already know. She's either acting right or she is not.
You just evaluate her on whether or not she meets those standards and stay or exit accordingly...in silence. Let her figure it the fuck out. And that's still far better treatment than what you could expect in reversed positions where you did not meet a standard of hers.
RedPirate751 1y ago
Second this. You can't really outright state the boundaries anymore in most situations.
Generally I just say something isn't okay with me when it happens, and if it happens again I withdraw attention in response. If she keeps doing it I continue to withdraw.
Einsamer 1y ago
This must be at the top
ChopHopper 1y ago
Well stated. This is exactly right. If you try to communicate your basic boundaries, there is a chance that she plays the chameleon for a short while to secure the bag. After marriage she reverts back to her natural ways.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm cynical enough to just put "No sluts please" and leave it at that lololol.
Any time a man has any requirements, they're met with a fusillade of angry wahmen who can't believe he's had the NERVE to specify things.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
Here's the deal, though: very few sluts think of themselves as being sluts. No matter how many men a woman has been with... no matter how many orgies and hookups and ONSs she's had... no matter how many racy pics she's sent (or posted online)... no matter how many abortions and bastard children... she's always on the "good girl" side of the "good girl / bad girl" line.
That famous scene from "Clerks" illustrates the point perfectly: the guy asks his girlfriend about her n-count and she admits to four... plus oral with 37 guys. He's shocked, so she gets mad at him for thinking she's a slut.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"My girlfriend sucked 37 dicks!"
"In a row?"
Classic, and you're right. Reminds me of one slut my friend was into at the time and she always tried to interject she was a "good girl". Good at snagging dick, lol.
EmpireCrimson 1y ago
Well stated. Personally, I think she shot herself in the foot by posting all of this. There are going to be a lot of guys who will start to "put their foot down" and express their boundaries.... she will have a lot of single women to hang out with at brunch.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They’ve tried so hard to dogpile Jonah Hill, and is hasn’t gone well. Because anyone with a functioning brain can see that this was a completely reasonable thing to say. High value men do not owe women commitment for free. Whether this girl understood her own mentality or not, she essentially wanted to always have one foot out the door in the endless quest for hypergamy. You know, in case someone as rich and funny as Jonah Hill came along, but he was also more handsome.
If there were text messages of Jonah calling her a whore and saying she’s for the streets in some bitter breakup, that would certainly have come out. Fact is, Jonah is almost certainly taking care of the money side of things, he’s entitled to some loyalty and deference from a relationship.
Also, it goes back to how women view a guy like Jonah Hill; not that attractive, but has money. So he would make a great husband, but they don’t actually want him sexually. You think if Ryan Reynolds weren’t married, and he sent this list of boundaries that he won’t compromise on, that she wouldn’t go “yes Ryan, I’m sorry”? And they’re likely used to men who look like Jonah Hill just taking their horseshit.
AlwaysStoic 1y ago
I do not wish to violate Rule 1, but this degree of accommodation for a woman who is clearly below him, in terms of status, is somewhat strange. Girls would be lining up for a multimillionaire Hollywood star the day after he dumps this whore. Communicate once and see the behaviour. End without explanation if it continues. (I hope I haven't violated Rule 1)
On the other hand, the woman displays the typically spiteful nature that you would expect from these creatures. She is regretful at having missed out on the prize and now the only way she could do him some harm was through this sort of nonsense when Hill's life is sorted. Fawning feminized media cheering on her over semantics was a sight to behold of course.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Never heard of him. After some googling I see he was in a Seth Rogan film and played a fat gay beta guy. He probably lost weight and got some self respect and told off his gold digging girlfriend.
hamstersdonthibernate 1y ago
And yet most women get upset if their partner follows bikini models on instagram.
User4566 1y ago
You know, you'd figure he would know better because he was the "fat funny guy" that likely was ignored by women and then became a hollywood star who would party with guys like Leonardo DiCaprio. He should have seen clear as day how women now treated him better and it had nothing to do with his amazing "personality".
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
His ex girlfriend looks like a dude.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
Jonah's ex permanently reduced her dating options regardless of whether she was morally right/wrong. Through her actions she told the world that there is no expectation of privacy in a relationship with her. If she feels slighted, she will not hesitate to publicize information that should have otherwise remained hidden.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Yep. Whatever short term gain she got out of being a Celebs ex and running him through the mud will forever be offset by "I am a bipolar type I (her words) chick that will post all my shit between my ex and me very selectively online for no fucking reason and or personal gain at the drop of a hat"
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And outside of relationship prospects, if I were a customer/client, I'd be looking askance at her behavior and realizing it would be better to take my business elsewhere. She'd stab me in the back even faster.