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kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago Stickied
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Lionsmane8 1y ago
I keep saying, hypergamy is not a woman's friend
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women think that having a masters degree and a high profile career makes them more attractive to men. Which is like men thinking that if we get big tits and put on high heels we'll be more attractive to women.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
BuT drAg QUEens Get ALl tHe BitCHEs.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Guys that are OK with dating a worse version of themselves are on Grindr, not Tinder.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
Good thing she didn't claim to be smart, just schooled.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
The print's too small to read on mobile. By the time I get it zoomed in enough, it's too fuzzy/distorted.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I was wearing my reading glasses at the time, but I'm not wearing them right now and can still read the comments section, so it's not a vision issue.
I adjusted display settings on my phone, and nothing helped.
Oh well, thanks for trying.
kevin32 Ambassador for NiceGuys™ 1y ago Stickied
Some users are having similar issues on Reddit, one comment: "if you're using a mobile phone, Imgur will only show you a low resolution version to encourage you to use their APP. Make your browser load the desktop version of the site to see the full resolution of the picture."
I haven't tested it, but I think another workaround is to post the screenshot more vertical than horizontal. Let me know if you can see this image better on mobile.
@MelkorHimself, @moorekom
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
It worked!
For anyone else using Chrome on an Android device, hit the 3 vertical dots in the top right corner of Chrome, and then tap the "desktop site" option (near the bottom of the menu).
Your image is even better; I'm not even wearing my reading glasses, and I didn't have to zoom.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This woman may be educated, but she sure as hell is not smart. She as fallen prey to the most basic sampling errors in her research (because of MCS - main character syndrome).
She writes: "I don't understand why [desirable men] who are 40 don't want to settle down with me or with others. They are in their 40s, what are they waiting for?"
The vast majority of 'desirable men' in their 40's have already 'settled down' - they have wives and kids and a great job and great house and she doesn't see them because they are not on OLD or in bars late at night.
She has made the most basic and fundamental sampling error and has no business working as an engineer. I sure as hell would not drive under any bridge that she worked on.
ps. those few 'desirable men' that do come on the market (usually as a result of divorce rape)...they do want to settle down - just not with her.
CisgenderPig 1y ago
She has been educated exactly how the current system wants dumbasses like her to be educated.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Pretty much her entire dating pool is 1) playboys, guys who are happy to stay single forever and move on whenever a woman starts pushing for commitment 2) guys who got divorced. They’re likely not wanting to do that again, unless they got an outstanding deal.
The men who are 40 and want commitment, they’re basically invisible to her.
Pic889 1y ago
Also, why would a man want to marry a 40-year old woman? That's straight up pre-menopause territory. I don't know if her analytical skills as an engineer allow her to make the following thoughts, but men marry because they want to start a family, not because they have a burning desire to give someone half their stuff (she wants a man that is "better" than her, so you can bet it means financially better too).
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"(she wants a man that is "better" than her, so you can bet it means financially better too)."
That's the only thing she means by 'better' than her.
Weird things about modern women #14: All women are entitled to a man that makes 3x what they make.
"If I make $Xk a year, my ideal man needs to make at least 3X, to keep me in the lifestyle that I am accustomed to."
This equation does not waiver. It doesn't matter if she is making $20k a year or $700k a year. It always has to be 3x.
So if this chick is a senior engineer, she is probably making around $150k a year. She would be expecting guys on $450k.
Weird thing about modern women #15 "Women must be paid the same as men"
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Google high risk pregnancy. It's considered to be high risk at age 35 and above. Biology is a heartless bitch. Her best baby making years just also happens to be her best man catching years. She gave up her best years to find a man and have children for a career so just own it. You gave up having a family for a career, end of story.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's actually after 30, not 35. After 30, the medical profession used to call them 'geriatric pregnancies'. They've stopped that now because its racist and evil.
The fact remains, the prime years are 18 to 24. Then it starts getting harder and more dangerous to give birth.
But, you know, facts are racist. And madonna is cool, and she had a baby at 50, and she's not a tool of the patriarchy, or something?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. And she had a man. But clearly he wasn’t interested in marriage, nor did she seem to make any effort to push for it.
But in terms of effect, she may as well have been married. 10 years with one man, and now we have to follow that? If I’m better, then why am I not getting the best years? Her value proposition is borked.
If she wants a relationship, then she should be prepared to fulfill the traditional husband role and take on some beta boy ten years her junior. That’s how we used to do it; work our tail off from 18-33 to establish ourselves as a high value guy, then marry the Secretary or a cute girl from the parish.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She did not push, because she already knew the answer. When she did finally push, he bailed.
OR
She did not push, because she always believed that some other man that was taller and richer would show up.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
As one of those men, you know what I'm not doing?
Signing up for round 2.
No, we learned our lesson the first time. Men like us, if we do date:
Have all the options of men in their 20s and 30s (assuming we stayed on our fitness and money)
Don't date women looking to get married. We know that women our age desperate for marriage are damaged.
This woman doesn't even know it, but her time at the top of the market is over. If she wants a man then she has to accept her new reality and date accordingly.
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm not in the category of previously married/settled down men, but I can definitely vouch as a 40 year-old physically/financially fit man with the 3 points you made.
The momentum shift is mighty . I've stayed disciplined in working out since I was 25 (started at 135lbs and at 40 I'm 205lbs) and going through the hard knocks of being a 20-something in the real world (2nd gen IT specialist) to bearing the fruits of my labor (just got a promotion and no car/student loan debt), it's amazing how the "game" just comes easier now.
The women who are "dating with a purpose" after they hit those 30s (long after their "keyhole" has now become a chasm), were always the ones brushing you off (and worse, putting you in the friendzone) when you were on your come up. NOW they want you to circle back and be smitten with them the same way you were when both of you were in your 20s...after they've been tossed up and fell off. I fully took the red pill around this time 2 years ago and what it has taught me has served me greatly: pussy's a perk not a priority. This meme is so accurate for me and it's beautiful (and it's for men of all races as well) https://i.imgur.com/J7yIKL3.jpg
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The problem is that women see themselves as their peak versions even when reality tells them that they're not!
I have an older lady friend (65 ish). She's a great person but she's not bangable. Just the other day, she showed me a photo from her 30s and said "this is how I see myself" and all I could think was (in Saint Kevin's voice) "you can't make this shit up!"
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
An epidemic of tremendous proportions. Women in my age bracket are STILL using profile pictures on their social media that were taken no less than 7 years ago. And you would think that they'd have more toned arms given the amount of makeup they're slathering on their face trying hard as hell to still look like they did when they were at said peak (and ironically, they wore very little makeup when they were at their peak)
RIP Godfather. Good grief man! This is the female version of the high school jock who still rocks his letterman jacket. And just like KS said in one of his livestreams: "You already met Mr. Right and you blew it!"
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Man I miss KS. He was putting on a master class of red pilling normies. He was even nicer than a lot of us, too; he classed 27-35 year old women as “danger zone”, implying that women in their mid 30’s still have a chance. Pretty much every woman I’ve known in that age range that married, it was basically the first guy who stuck around longer than a few months. Occasionally a woman who dragged her feet on the ceremony and it took 2 years to have it. But there’s no line of men waiting to wife up a 30-something. At least no line of men who meet their “standards”
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The answers to her questions are being way too soft on her.
She needs to hear it straight up. The men she desires do not desire her. She wants to 'date up' but the men do not want to date down. There is an impasse, and she has stated clearly that she will not compromise, therefore, cats and wine.
She is so MCS that she thinks that she can win this Mexican stand off. She thinks that men will 'give in to her demands'. They will not. They are many, she is but one. And the wall, as ever, remains undefeated.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
It's more like a game of Chicken: Hypergamy is the notion that a woman, particularly women as a group, won't date down even if it means dying alone and childless. Collectively, women have won the game because when you see someone tie their steering wheel so they're fully committed, the opponent may decide to just let them win but...
Individually, there are going to be losers. When men have an advantage and don't HAVE to marry "down", so to speak, because they don't have a biological clock going off, there is no urgency for them to capitulate. Any man that she wants doesn't have to "date with intention" and if she demands it, she comes across as "desperate" or "weak" ironically the same set of emotions that such women punished men back in their youth. This is when women will say "no games" meaning they will have nothing to play with. (It's interesting how we don't see this in young, childless, attractive women's profiles? :-)
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Men have the advantage, even though the pitch has been queered. Why?
Lionsmane8 1y ago
To your last point. I did, and I do confirm that she is indeed a unicorn.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Was she an exhibit in a wax works museum?
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I thought a lot about what you said (and even rewrote everything TWICE!)
I'll sum it up this way: Women's advantage is the same as the proverb of biting the hand that feeds you: People do this because a hand that feeds you CARES about you. It will hesitate to strike you back. Women have an advantage, so to speak, in that us men want relationships with them and we don't intentionally muck things up which happens to benefit women. Women's disadvantages, as you observe, is they are emotional idiots. They muck things up out of greed.
It's something I point out to women's libbers all the time: I'm not a handsome man but I have a lovely wife and daughter while I know tons of career women who are childless spinsters and/or miserable. Stupid is as stupid does. They use success to price themselves out of the dating market or like you said, blow their money on junk. They "play themselves."
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Your first paragraph is on point.
Allow me to rephrase it differently: They abuse men's innate protective instinct.
And when they finally squeeze out every little emotional weakness we might have towards them, and when we begin to treat them like the sex objects they want to be treated like (while simultaneously using our big brain and protecting ourselves) they wonder "What happened?" "all my bail out plans are gone?"
I mean it's just stupidity, no ability to think through things or consider 2nd order consequences.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I was thinking about what you said and will put it like this: Men don't shit in our food bowls. We don't bite the hands that feed us. Ok, some of us do (and ironically, those are the kind of men that turn them on) but most of us are sensible.
Funny story: My brother had a problem with his female cat that when he went on vacation, he asked me to catsit for him. So I followed his instructions to the letter spoiling this cat rotten. I changed her litter box, entirely, every 3 days (I only scoop for my own cat) and so on. I treated his cat well. But his cat missed him so when he returned, his cat took a dump right under the kitchen table. I think she was sending him a message.
He struggled to discipline her (he's tight arsed so he doesn't understand cat psychology) in that he rubbed her nose in the poop spot and that didn't work but he finally hit on the trick: He simply put her food bowl where she was taking punishment dumps.
And that stopped it. A cat doesn't dump where she eats.
ZAIUS (Planet of the Apes) (calmly, without rancor) Because you are a man. And you were right -- I have always known about man. From the evidence, I believe his wisdom must walk hand in hand with his idiocy. His emotions rule his brain. He must be a warlike animal who gives battle to everything around him -- even himself.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well put Polish.
Another thing to note - there are plenty of 'plain' looking women, some of them very much average or below average looking, that go on to have successful LTR's, a family and children. They can have fulfilling lives and grow old together with their husbands. And then there are plenty of hot looking baddies that end up alone, with nothing but cats and wine and debt.
What does that tell us? It tells us that character and behaviour are the things that men screen for. We are not impressed with your big fake tits, your fake tan, your fake eyelashes and your 2 inch nails. We impressed by loyalty, honesty and commitment.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
you're being too nice.
The girls in the first category simply figured out early that they can't compete for the top shelf men.
The results for the men involved with them are still the same: resentment and sexlessness.
You're essentially dealing with the same shit, but coming from a significantly less attractive face. (at least that's what my married beta friends and relatives keep complaining about).
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'm not so sure about that. I have noticed considerably worse behaviour coming from women that are 'hotties'. The worse of all women are what I call 'formely attractive women'. When you next see a Karen behaving like a complete spoilt child - have a close look at her. It may be hard to discern but what you are really looking at is a woman that used to be quite hot, and spent her whole life living off the hotness privilege. Then when the hotness runs out, they have nothing, and they go insane.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
There is a Dunning-Kruger effect when it comes to beauty and women.
Mid to upper-mid girls have the worst egos.
Paradoxically, the stunning girls are down to earth. The reason for that (imo) is that they compete in a different league, and in that league, the pressure is higher.
It's like the guys who start working out, they get to a certain level and it goes to their head. Then if they keep going, they just become the humblest kindest creatures on the face of the earth.
Same with intelligence, money, achievements, skill level etc.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
My crazy-redhead girlfriend said she got hit on all the time when she was working in the garden and looked approachable. The betas hit on the average to slightly pretty ones (a bit chunky with a nice face, for example.) These women then friendzone and despise betas but their ego is pumped up so they crave alphas and then direct their complaints at the orbiter betas. Lather-rinse-repeat.
I remember back 30 years ago that women griped online they had it tough too "Men are also shallow and flakey!" but these women were talking only of the men they craved, not the dozens of men they didn't want. Women live in a bubble rationalization that us men can't fathom hence our inability "understand" them for so long.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
She ticked every box on the list of things that men do to get women. As a famous feminist once said, "We became the men we were going to marry." Her problem (well, one of them), is that she's not very good at being a man, at least relative to the men she wants. She freely admits that when she lists her masculine attributes and declares that she wants a man who has better masculine attributes.
Men like that have options: and those men will choose a first-rate woman over a second- rate man (i.e. her) every time. Unless she realizes that the guys she's dissing are actually on her level (and picks one), the best she can hope for is to end up on the booty call roster of a man with options. She thinks she's the main character, but she's just an extra. When the credits roll she's just: Harem Girl #3.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
And that is why I keep saying: women are not biologically programmed for LTRs, they are biologically programmed to be in a harem.
BUT YOU GUYS DON'T LISTEN!!
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
And men are biologically programed to have harems. But the birthrate of boys and girls doesn't allow that at scale.
That's not a particularly novel idea around here. I'll go so far as to say that you'd be hard pressed to find many guys who don't acknowledge that. The question is not whether it's true, but what the implications are for men.
For the hedonistic player who can effortlessly spin plates, that fact pleases him well. The women who are attractive enough to make it into the harem of such a man seem happy enough with the arrangement, too (until they're replaced by younger women).
In the long run it leaves them all unhappy and unfulfilled, of course, but people who are enjoying the ride may not care that the bridge ahead has collapsed into the chasm.
In the meantime, it sucks for everyone else. A patriarchy that relies on a grossly unequal distribution of sex is not much better than a matriarchy, and will be likely to suffer the same fate.
The simple fact is that a society that doesn't ensure a more-or-less equal distribution of sex won't prosper. Personally, I like indoor plumbing and antibiotics and items from abroad. All of those things are only made possible by the fact that men work and build and create and explore to get women who will provide exclusive sexual access. If harems are the norm, the main incentive for most men to produce more than they need evaporates, and those things never get done. Why should a man bust his ass to provide for a wife and children he will never have?
As I and other have said many times, Patriarchy is just another word for civilization. I would further specify that monogamous patriarchy is what works by giving every man a reason to produce, provide, protect, etc..
Civilization rests on an agreement that requires both men and women to compromise on their "biological programming" for the sake of the group. Women form the reproductive bottleneck of our species, so sex really is something of a zero sum game. There's only so much of it to go around, and if "alpha" men ("alpha" being situational and subjective at best) monopolize the fertile young women, that means that most men will get little or nothing. Those men are non-productive at best, and inevitably destabilizing.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
See, I totally agree with your macro analysis. Few caveats though:
See, modern society has completely scorched whatever fucks I had for it (and I had a lot). I can no longer be mobilized and/or bamboozled into sacrificing my wellbeing for that of an abstract "Society" (which is just a synonym of the ruling elite + females that they've turned against me).
The trend is what it is. It is of civilizational significance and I ain't the Messiah. All solutions that my mind is coming up with are: Build an Arch like Noah's, take care of yourself, your girls, your children, your pets, your assets, your cash, your family and your friends.
I trust men (not all, but a big chunk of the male population) to uphold an "agreement". I don't trust women at all to hold up any part of any agreement that they enter into unless the breach of such agreement is severely punished. So yeah, we can keep dreaming.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
I can't fault your logic. The fact that women's biological programming favors the formation of harems works against creating advanced civilizations, and when feminism took the collar off, our doom was set in motion.
They try to square the circle by demanding that men both 1) retain all the responsibilities of the old system with none of the authority that inventivized accepting them, and 2) accept the right of women to do whatever they want without having to accept responsibility for the outcomes.
Without that two-pronged charade the whole house of cards would have already toppled, but the mask cannot remain in place indefinitely. Anyone who cares to look can see the face of Circe behind the mask as we steer into the rocks.
But you're right: neither you nor I can do much about it, so we're left with regression. We look to the welfare of our tribes while the whole facade crumbles around us.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Perfectly said
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She reminds me of a woman I briefly dated in my red pill days. Me - 32. Her - 40. She had a successful career, a condo that’s probably worth $1.5m (can’t remember her exact address, but it’s in one of the prestigious parts of the nation, really). And absolutely no luck in dating. She lamented how men wouldn’t be interested in her due to being single and never married. She also mentioned that the guy she dated before me, he openly admitted that she was 1 of 5 that he was “maintaining”. I ended up leaving her too, when the insecurity and pushiness got too much.
Meanwhile, her neighbor was a male divorcee, renting (not owning), and was 56. He was dating a woman who was 36.
So, he fosters masculine traits, he attracts women. She fosters masculine traits, she doesn’t attract men.
I’m now married to a woman who was working at a gas station when I met her. And had no car. That stuff doesn’t matter, I can always help level her up. But she can actually help make my life more pleasant. Not just two rich people complaining about their job at the end of the day over some crappy, high calorie takeout food.
redblow22 1y ago
Sitting at breakfast with the Plaintiff one morning, she asked if I'd date a gal like our server.
I, realizing the loaded question, said that as long as I was treated with dignity and respect, and she didn't need my assets to live, no doubt.
The Plaintiff made 2x what I did, no matter what she said about it not mattering, well, she hit me with that in divorce.
Women lie. It took me way too long to absorb this truth.
I'll add that I did get alimony out of her.
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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
She doesn't want real answers, she wants to hear "Oh poor you! Those men are all stupid! You're never at fault for anything!" a dozen times.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
you forgot to add
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Unsurprisingly there’s a lot of that in the original post.
But I’m sure if some dude in that thread who had all the stats that she looked for sent her a DM, she’d still eventually find a reason why he gives her the ick. Like if he voted trump in 2020 or something.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You'll never go broke selling comforting lies to women
maseboogie Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Word to Derrick Jaxn.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Derrick Jaxn is an expert, he literally does everything that he tells women that they shouldn’t tolerate.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Here's the secret to grifting:
Find a group that hates you
Figure out the things about you that they hate.
That's it! That's all you have to do. You don't even have to believe it or following your own bullshit. They will pay you good money to hear their bullshit out the mouth of someone they despise.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Sound like Pearl!
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Man, you've giving me flashbacks of Hugo Schwyzer. That was totally his hustle. And they ate it up with a friggin' spoon.
What's so funny is that, very early on, I could see he that was a fraudster. It wasn't merely his intellectual dishonesty and doublethink, he was teaching stuff that he wasn't qualified to teach (as he himself would one day admit). On top of it, he was an utter sociopath. But as long as he pandered to his audience by saying the right things, he got away with it..
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The only men interested in a woman's career are guys who cannot afford to be the sole breadwinner and wants her to pay her share of the bills, but these career women are only interested in the sorts of men who don't give two knobs of rat shit about her career because they don't want an older career woman, they want a younger traditional girl.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yeah that's the problem with women that forsake their feminine value to poorly ape male value. The men making enough to interest her don't want a woman whose career is an impediment to being a good wife and mother. And they are not going to be a fan of coming home to a woman that busts their balls and tries to compete with and dominance challenge them in the worst possible ways after dealing with bullshit at work all day.
This is also the same kind of woman that will financially ruin a man via divorce at the drop of a hat because unhappy.
Saying she is a poor ROI is a hilarious understatement.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
I have a very hard time believing a woman with an engineering degree is even somewhat attractive.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Spent an evening a couple weeks ago with a 23yo girl that was doing a mechanical engineering PhD. She was gorgeous.
But she was also nuts trying to lock me down within 48 hours of meeting her (i'm not kidding). I wrote a few posts about her in the Public Square.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Any woman who presents something other than her beauty as a selling point isn't beautiful.
CisgenderPig 1y ago
Can't stick my dick in your college degree.
CisgenderPig 1y ago
Explain to me how guys are "dating above their league" if they have "qualities attractive to women?" Wouldn't having qualities attractive to the women you're dating mean you are dating within your league?
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Here we go again. A women thinking that having a degree and successful career will attract a man just like her. I call it a birds of a feather mentality. She thinks that emulating the same traits and success that she is attracted to will therefore make her attractive to that kind of man. We men have been screaming from the mountain that we.dont.care about your career and degree. Want to melt the mind of a woman like this? Tell her that the 22 year old college grad that is cute and has a great rack and works at Target has a much better chance of landing a successful CEO/Rap Star/Astronaut/businessman all rolled into one guy, than a 35 year old with a degree and awesome job. That's why theirs is so much DiCaprio hate out there from women.
We had an incident at work last year when the station tough chick thought she should be with station tough guy because "they were so much alike." It melted her mind when he brought his date to the holiday party a petite, little, Asian girl.
reignoferror00 1y ago
You want someone at the same level or above in those categories? Weren't you taking your Masters in Engineering? A field where the ratio of men to women would have favoured you in the extreme? That was likely your last good chance at a serious relationship.
If a man is around 40 and marriage is even remotely a possibility in his mind, it ain't with a woman herself pushing 40. One of the few reason for marriage by then (if reality hasn't already completely beaten into his head the actual nature of women) is him wanting kids; and it sure won't be with a woman who is exiting her baby making years. Any other qualities that might lean him towards having a long term relationship with you, you've make clear you're sadly lacking. (hint: pleasant attitude and personality are a good part of it)
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Man she accidentally nailed it.
Yup, you’re marketing yourself as a man. You basically want a guy who is your superior in every way. So…what are you adding?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
What good is having a career if you just want to shack-up with a rich dude anyway?
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Plan B. They subconsciously know that there is a large chance of not landing the man with the lifestyle they want and thus, at the very least, want to guarantee that lifestyle for themselves without having to compromise on their Standards
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Peacocking for the girl group. Career is a status symbol. It’s why women pile time and money into education
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