Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
kevin32
Posted 11mo ago in Chasing Chad - Permalink - Locked - 14.4K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
This is the type of woman that used to tell me “I don’t send nudes to anyone. Ever. I don’t have sex on the first date with anyone, I respect myself more than that. Treat me like a lady and court me!”
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
To paraphrase the great Patrice O'Neal: pussy isn't am I want, but if it's all you offer, I'll have some.
This particular woman not only seems like she offers nothing else, but is also a total drag.
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
The ironic thing is if a non-Chad came along and saw more value in her than just sex she wouldn’t be interested.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I mean she’s proving that. I wouldn’t go as far as to call her ex a simp (seems more likely he just doesn’t want her to feed herself enough sleeping pills to knock a horse out, knowing she’s a basket case with no friends), but he’s clearly not THIS guy.
Back in the day, when you were mentally broken, you’d consult with your father, or a religious leader, or a therapist, who could actually help you. Now? Consult with the Greek god of Thunder apparently
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I think you are being more than fair when you say that he's not a simp. He is letting her use him as an emotional tampon but he's still not 'collecting the rent'.
He's paying top dollar but not getting the (probably worthless) product.
I've said it a few times - the only way that works for men is full ghost after termination of contract. 100% radio silence and get them out of your lives for good. Be strict about it.
It's better for you and better for her.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 11mo ago
I agree. You have to read what's not written. While she says breaking up with him was a mistake, note that she never says she tried to get back with him. And "he didn't care about sex". BS. I can't think of a 19/20/21 year old guy who isn't full of raging hormones.
So basically, she was in a non-sexual relationship with her "ex". They weren't really boyfriend/girlfriend. He was probably young and still not redpilled, and so when she spent 24/7 with "endless sobbing" about her trauma and how that made her frigid, he probably thought he was doing the right thing by not pushing for sex, and trying to "heal" her trauma. He tried baby steps with simple touches here and there, and he got her comfortable enough with physical touch again, that she promptly dumped him and went after guys to fuck again. What she really adores about him is that he was a "good friend" who healed her enough to get back on the carousel with 6'4" greek gods. That was what he did for her, and even after she dumped him with the "I love you too much to fuck you" speech, he still continues to call her because he thinks that's what a nice guy should do.
She's still in the market to get her back blown out by Chads. But she's also looking for a backup NiceGuy. Because she's worried that if her current one ever gets a real girlfriend, and shows him how a girl behaves when she truly desires a guy, he'll promptly tell this one to fuck off and never call her again. In fact, she's so sure of it, she's basically pre-dumping him if he ever finds a girlfriend, the equivalent of "You're not firing me, I quit!" routine, except not even waiting for the boss to fire you. It serves to ensure that she never has to believe that this guy would ever dump her first, and it's basically a warning: if you ever find another girl, I'll stop talking to you (nevermind if he ever finds another girl, he'll wonder why he ever wasted so much time talking to this one in the first place).
Unfortunately for her, she's finding that it's difficult to find a guy to wind around her finger as much as she has done with the previous guy. Each year that goes by, more guys get redpilled (usually by experiences with women like her), and fewer are willing to waste their time with her unless she proves her intentions first by having sex with them. And that's when the bitching commences...
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
100% agree
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
There's a lot going on in the post and I'm thinking she's "damaged goods". Women are notorious for creating dramatic false narratives. Perhaps... this Chad was too much of a "nice guy" to her, so she mentally shrunk him in her brain, "pushed him away" to see if he would "pursue her", and he has declined.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Yup - you need to read between the lines quite a bit here. She says all sorts of hamster nonsense about her ending it because she felt guilty etc. WOMEN DO NOT FEEL GUILT!
What I get from reading between the lines: She ended it because he was showing her too much love and affection, which gave her the dry. He is now behaving like her gay best friend, letting her 'cry to him' etc etc.
When she talks about 'trauma' what she means is that she is traumatised by the idiocy of herself. She gets the dry from men that care for her (because that is beta and disgusting, in her view) and she is on the hunt for a chad that will treat her like shit, which will get her panties moist.
She is hoping that the new tall guy will treat her like the dog shit that she is, so that she can have lots of fun drama and trauma, and then relate all that to her beta simp ex with mascara running down her face.
This is another twist to the 'dual mating strategy'. She wants different men to fulfil different roles in her shitty life.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
I like to call that specific strategy à la carte dating. And most of the men(u) items are getting stuck with the bill with nothing to show for it.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
yup. All the men in her life have different roles:
As always, choose wisely. Be the skittles guy.
orbilius 11mo ago
Lol yes. One of the oldest redpills on the net
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
One of the classical retorts by blue pillers against RP is "Who hurt you?" It's presumed that men who went through trauma might be gun shy and, therefore, mocked. One of the traits of classic femininity used to be empathy and kindness.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Ah, yes. That ol' classic. Most women are intellectually lazy and do not like serious debates [They like drama and emotional arguments for the sake of drama, but not actual debates]. So they use the "Who hurt you?" to shut down any form of dissent.
reignoferror00 11mo ago
Still a trait of classic femininity. Just no longer a trait of the vast majority of females.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
One of the shaming ploys modern women make is to say "There are few REAL men around!!!" Why, why is that? Whose raising the "fake" men? Single mothers or a society that seeks to empower women.
It takes a massive effort for most men to become "real' whether by the definition of feminine entitlement or RP thinking. Society no longer provides support or tools for men (grrl power!) so most men need to be self-starters but what self-starter wants to spend decades of self-improvement for entitled "boss babes" who are simulacrums of men?
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
Basically she fucked around and found out
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GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Oh man, the tiktok hivemind "trauma" trope. Oh fuck off, what you're describing you loopy cunt is called "life", where you make decisions and bear the consequences.
I'm sure she uses every subsequent man's shoulder to cry on because she's never at fault for her weepy psycho bullshit.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Just keep in mind that even jaw-droppingly stupid people like this woman get to vote.
Why I have absolutely no faith in the electoral system.....
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Give us a better voting system.
60 years old, 30+ years of earning high income, no criminal record, no history of collecting government checks, volunteer work? Your vote counts 5x average.
21 year old who has never held a real job, can’t pass a civics exam? You get 20% credit on a vote.
Collect welfare or are behind on student loan payments? You don’t even get to vote.
Bet if you simply gave more enfranchisement to middle and upper middle class people to have the government that they want, you’d see things get cleaned up within a generation.
orbilius 11mo ago
What if it was just tied to how much income tax you paid?
Ironically, that would lead to people wanting higher taxes
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Make enfranchisement and taxation both a linked opt-in system. As in, you can choose each tax year to bother paying federal or state taxes, but the tradeoff is no taxes paid = no vote that year. Literally link your vote (representation) to taxation. And of course re-scale the tax brackets so that even the lower classes are not exempt from paying at least something if they want to vote.
So even if the entrenched political elite try to push a dynamic of "Our Guy A" vs "Our Guy B" like they have for generations, the masses can just tax revolt and bring the gravy train crashing down. (without having to become so poor as to be tax exempt like as now)
And if one is too lazy greedy or destitute to pay taxes for whatever contrived reason, there is no reason one should get a say in the direction of the country. Otherwise you will just keep getting the current dynamic where the ultra rich and the ultra poor just keep looting the middle class and shitting up the economy in a perverse incentive death spiral.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 11mo ago
Just what relevance is his height in her post. Wait, I know, it is just bragging. "I got a tall guy to be interested in having sex with me!" Well, if you are at least medium level of attractiveness as a 21 year old woman, this is not much of an accomplishment because ALL men are going to find you attractive. Her picking out the guy who she "didn't even know was that tall" is just her having the final selection. How much do you want to bet if he was 5'4" instead of 6'4" that she would have any desire to still have that hookup? So the excuse is a bunch of crap because women like this who care enough about a guy's height to mention it to others are going to be inquiring about it or get the answer from the guy who is tall without effort on her part (because guys in the low to mid 5 foot range are not volunteering that info off the bat for obvious reasons).
With this in mind, I see a woman who does not understand the best means to seek a relationship, because she places too much emphasis on superficial traits to the point that she fails to look for anything else in a man. And she wonders why she keeps getting burned. Though when the guy is tall enough, all that goes away. I can only assume that her previous relationship with her ex formed on a fluke rather than any conscientious effort on her part.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago
And in 10 to 15 year's she'll
pretend tohave learnt what really matters in a relationship and be ready to find a husband.Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
If she thinks dating is so trash 'right now' when she is 21 and in college, she is not going to like the way the rest of her life pans out.
Someone needs to tell her that this is the top of the mountain. It's all down hill from here on honey (for her at least).
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
"I didn't even know he was that tall until he msgd me"
This reveals so much.
reignoferror00 11mo ago
All they want is sex, sex, sex; just guys thinking with their dicks.
While my inner spiritual feminist god self has guided my physical being towards just the right guy. The stars have aligned and It just feels right. (i.e. I got a wide on from his pic and bullshit texts). He had me once, now he'll stick around ... right? ... right ??? A little later - maybe has some good looking friends I can throw myself at.
Fuck lady, with all your issues, problems and your instincts, might as well just skip the middle part and reserve a street corner now.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Ironically why I want prostitution legalized and regulated to include mandatory registration, with it being illegal to conceal such employment.
Let them be whores if they want, just make it nearly impossible for them to try to hide it later to sucker in a retirement plan. Maybe also mandate they have to invest a portion of their earnings into a collective retirement plan for the profession because we know otherwise they'll just blow it all on dumb shit if not.
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