Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
The last bit, where she posts "Looking for some fun tonite [sic]", is evidence of just how different it is for men and women. Here is a post wall disaster, and all she has to do to get laid is post a single line saying she wants sex and her inbox is instantly full. Now do a thought experiment where we reverse the genders.
Living as a woman really is living in easy mode, even at 32. You can get laid whenever you want, with zero effort.
Her mistake is to assume that because she can get laid easily, that she should be able to get an LTR easily. She is used to getting fucked by the top 1% of men, so she assumes that she is deserving of an LTR with one of the top 1% of men. She has been fucked by so many 1% men that she erroneously believes that she is a 1% woman. She is not.
This is the reason so many women end up with cats and wine. They don't understand the difference.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
btw....If anyone is still wondering if hypergamy is real, did you spot that the two women on that thread both openly admit that they are only interested in "less than 1% of the men". One of these women says 0.5% and the other agrees and says that she is only interested in 'less than 1%'.
This is what female hypergamy is gentlemen. Do not be fooled, its not the 'top 20%' of men, as you might find in normal pareto distributions. It's less than 1%. They want tall, handsome, rich, well dressed men that can dance, know all about star signs and are 'romantic' and 'real gentlemen' that know how to 'treat a lady'.
My question for these fussy ladies is simple: are you in the top 0.5% of womankind?
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
This is a mirage though. She will be giving some junkie drug dealer his 5th child by the end of the year.
The irony is that these vapid hoes actually do know their real worth. Over time the results speak for themselves.
reignoferror00 11mo ago
Of course, her opening statement makes no mention of what was eventually must have been dragged out of her. As one guy toward the end stated "a bastard child with a drug addict"
That's not an important part of it, no it couldn't be. Well, I guess it become less important in the big picture when she proudly raised other large red flags - like 99.5% of the men where she is, she isn't into at all, and of course her down to fuck post at the end.
I'm sure she has all her "shit together". It's in the open and in one big pile that she proudly rolls around in. Shit covered she loudly proclaims that she doesn't stink while wondering "Where is that smell coming from? Must be from the 99.5% of men in her neighbourhood."
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I’ve always laughed at how women can act like being employed and able to make the rent is somehow “having their shit together”. Like congrats on achieving the bare minimum needed to be an adult, I guess?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Yeah, but when you look a little closer, you'll find that some man/men are actually footing the bill. Either her father is helping her out, or some child maintenance or some welfare (which is funded by the sweat of other men's labour).
there really isn't any such thing as a single woman that has her shit together. They all live off men.
No-Stress-Cat 11mo ago
Can't turn a crack ho into a housewife.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
You could, but you will quickly regret doing so.
ZZoMBiE13 11mo ago
Jeez. She's thicker than a slab of concrete and less appealing.
MelkorHimself Mod 11mo ago
What exacerbates her situation is how easily it could be solved. In the bottom screenshot of her post seeking a hookup, the location I censored is a sizeable city. She could literally move an hour west and alleviate many of her dating problems.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
She could move to a city, and that would enable her to get more hook ups.
But it would actually make her chances of getting an LTR considerably worse. Cities are known for their gender imbalance - women move to cities because of the profile of work in cities is far more orientated to women than in the country. There are almost no human resource roles that require a genders studies degree in the country. that is why its so easy to smash and dash as a young man in London and NY. the city is chock full of hot desperate women, and not enough straight men.
A lot of post wall women move to the country 'to find a man' after 32 because the competition between women in the cities is so intense.
If she ever does move to the city, she is in for a shock.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
She COULD move an hour west, but CAN she? I phrase it that way because I have friends who live an hour drive away from work because it's affordable but when I visit them, I feel like I need to get my passport stamped. If you have a "crackhead/bumpkin" budget, you're going to wind up living amongst "crackhead/bumpkin"s.
Which begs the question about her being a quote "well educated woman with a good job". How many good jobs are there out in country bumpkin land that require her to live there? Perhaps she's an HR rep at a slaughterhouse? (but I doubt it).
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 11mo ago
Yeah, but that would take some effort of her part. Why should she make the trek when guys should be banging at her door?
ZZoMBiE13 11mo ago
I'll confess that when I first came here, part of me felt a bit sorry for some of these women. Call it blue pill residue. As time marches on and I see more and more drivel like this, well that old reaction has been replaced by outright disgust. I'll support anyone on a journey of self improvement. But I hold nothing but contempt for someone so willfully ignorant like this one in the post. I wish her nothing but the same energy she puts out into the world, which should ensure her own misery.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I have never had sympathy. Even from my blue pill days, I had resentment for these women. Because I didn’t understand the game, I lost the game constantly. Now I just laugh as the women who used to overlook me and chase older men now decry age gap relationships as “creepy”, or how women who chased bad boys over guys like me cry about being single moms and how there’s “no good men”.
If the woman here really is “pretty” and “educated”, that means that she likely went to college and was surrounded by ambitious young men around her age, who would likely have eagerly gotten in a relationship with a pretty woman. She wasn’t tricked by society, she chose her suffering.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Someone call the police.
The guy in blue just committed a fucking murder.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Someone reach out to that man and ask if he’d like to join us. We’re actually a pretty diverse group of opinions and lives, who just come together to mock insane women on the internet.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 11mo ago
With that level of savagery, I wouldn't be surprised to know he's already one of us.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Aren’t women the ones that are supposed to have empathy and compassion? Could have fooled me. It’s going to be so much fun to watch the relationship dynamics continue to change as more men avoid marriage.
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Aox1993 11mo ago
Worse thing about this is the consistent lie women spread about caring about men's mental health as though they don't cause about 95% of the reasons as to why there's such mental health issues in the first place
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
"Keep it up, I'm the one that gets to pick the nursing home you'll go into."
Aox1993 11mo ago
"Keep it up, I'm the one that gets to pick the nursing home you'll go into."
It's a classic code, but it checks out
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 11mo ago
If my Mom treated me like that I'd be hard pressed to do much more than make sure she's somewhere she'll be well taken care of then washing my hands of her.
And I love my parents. I'm currently watching their place for 'em while they serve a mission elsewhere (the fact I get to live there rent-free is definitely a plus).
Respect goes both ways. Raising you to adulthood generates a lot of goodwill but abusing your trust like that when you're a grown man would burn through that real damn fast.
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SarsaparillaCorona 11mo ago
Honestly she probably is. Men in their 30s have laser guided focus and ability to sniff out bad prospects, even if they aren't RP themselves.
Like it or not this woman will forever remain single. I've met many like this.
My understanding is that due to feminism projecting a man's sexual pathway and prime (men get better with age) to be universal, they mistakenly believe that them being 30, showing maturity (if you say this you obviously don't) and having experience in dating makes them more valuable as partners and prospects.
Absolutely, unequivocally, fundamentally false. It's honestly sad how modern gender politics and feminism has led these women so astray.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Nothing will ever beat young, friendly, feminine and loving. We don’t need someone who has seen struggle like we have. We need someone that we can sit down with at night, watch a show with and hug. Ask each other how our days were. Smile. Essentially being a pleasant and enjoyable person to be around, in order to bring the best out of us. Not some exhausting, demanding, wannabe alpha female that thinks her struggles are somehow an asset to us.
Aox1993 11mo ago
struggle builds men whilst it breaks women springs to mind here
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Completely true. Few women really come away from personal traumas stronger. The more common response is defensiveness. It’s why women will claim that being older and “not taking bullshit from men anymore” is somehow a virtue, when in reality they’re just shutting out men in general instead of honestly assessing why they just keep finding themselves with men that cause them so much pain
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Her life is her punishment for being a stupid cunt.
Honestly, it makes me laugh. She's neck-deep in the copium blaming everyone around her. We know how this ends, with her 'shit together' aging out all alone.
The best part is how she's convinced that there are no changes needed on her end. The modern western female delusion, promoted by the feminutz morons.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
To give you an idea of what happens: Back in the late 90's I fell for a woman 20 years my senior. She was interesting, educated, and a demon in the sack but too much bother and eventually I broke off with her and went my own way. She simply refused to "settle down" in the sense of just living a normal, healthy life. She lost her house and moved out of state and 10 years later, I married a normal woman.
About 3 years ago, she reached out to me on facebook. Hmm, I'm married and my wife reads my facebook feed so no effing way. It's not a big deal. She was 65 at the time and had a GREAT run. She was able to live like a spoiled teenager for the first 60 years of her life even if it led to her being broke which, if you think about it, as the line from Highlander goes "Who wants to live forever?" As an (early) baby boomer, she had a GREAT run. I suspect that millennial and zoomer women are going to have a harder time...
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
But facing down poverty for the last 15+ years…oof.
I once worked with a dude who held a Stanford PhD in a STEM field. Somehow in his same family, he had an elderly aunt who was living in public housing in a random midwestern state. Strong and independent until the day they die, I guess.
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
Let me break it down for you what she’s saying:
“All these damn Chads in chasing don’t ever utter the word relationship in my presence. I had the upper hand in my 20’s and now the tables have turned but I haven’t figured it out yet. This is ALL guys fault, even the ones I don’t respond to who message me and whom I’ve ghosted who tried asking me out. Fuck you Chad, you bastard!”
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 11mo ago
Nice find. Given how women in the dating market (especially online) have more interest from the opposite sex than vice versa, it is a testament to a woman's filtering abilities when she states how all the men she is meeting with "just want hookups." If she keeps running into the same type of men who do not want to commit, her selection process is the most common factor.
Granted, her selection capability is greatly diminished when she is a single mom. Though it is not entirely impossible for her to find a man willing to commit. It just means she has to lower her standards. And given how highly she believes herself to be, I doubt that will happen any time soon. And her experience should serve as a warning to other women who squander the best years they have to find a quality man, as her fate will be their fate if they mess around for too long and/or get pregnant with a man who probably should not have been a father in the first place.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Biologically speaking, the greatest reward that you can offer a man is a large family. The reward he traditionally offers is taking care of the children with resources, and of course their mother / his wife. To give children to a deadbeat bum, then try to get a good man on the hook for the bill, is a massive insult.
I remember once, some girl called into Kevin Samuels. Young girl, college graduate, pretty. She was complaining about her dad and how her mom is basically a servant to him. Didn’t take long before she revealed that her mom was bringing 4 kids from different men in to her father, and he still accepted her. She gave him two more, the girl being one of them. Mom actually understood that this man was a saint, willing to accept and accommodate 4 kids that aren’t his, and apparently provided well enough for the kids to go to college (something only around 3 in 10 black kids get to complete in America). The least she could do was let him kick his feet up when he got home and take care of everything.
But even with all of those liabilities, she still found a respectable life, because she understood that she had to offer more to make up for her additional demands. This woman seems to not care at all about what she offers. It’s all those damn country boys fault, why can’t they just be EdUcAtEd?
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 11mo ago
It sure is. And the story about the girl calling into Kevin Samuels stands quite a bit in contrast to how too many women approach relationships today. They act as if their mere presence is a gift to men without having anything else to offer. The only problem is that a woman only has "herself" to offer will find out that when she does not have her looks to coast on in terms of getting men interested in her, she will truly have nothing to offer men, as she will not have any work done preparing herself to be a woman worth a commitment if she does not have anything at all to offer.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
As an "educated" man, I'm starting to realize those country boys are the smart ones in many areas of life. When I get around to moving out there, I hope you guys can overlook my total ignorance of things you knew when you were six.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 11mo ago
Yes, "education" is most certainly overrated. It may have used to mean something when having a college degree actually meant you needed to have some level of intelligence (or money), but now there are plenty of college degrees that are far too easy to obtain. And doubling down on a Master's degree in a field that has very little demand or value in the working world is also a sign of the opposite of intelligence.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
As a homeschool principal, I think "education" is very important. I'm raising my daughter to be a submissive, respectful housewife and excellent mother. She needs to know things I never learned growing up. She needs to know how to cook, clean, take care of animals, grow/harvest things on a farm, shoot guns, clean/dress fish/game, and take care of babies. She needs to know her Bible and the value of putting it in practice. She needs to know how to be frugal and respect every dollar her husband brings home.
I could go on, and I'm being snarky, I know what you meant by "education". Still, I have a very different perspective now. I wish I could have my wasted years of public school and college "education" back, and actually learn something important.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Anyone who praises herself like that is compensating for actually not having her shit together. She has a need to hype herself up.....to herself! But on many nights, she likely drinks and cries because she knows her life is a mess.
SarsaparillaCorona 11mo ago
Why do I get the feeling that her breakup with her baby daddy was her own doing...
I don't think there's any lessons here that aren't already obvious.
That was a funny thread though.