Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Land_of_the_losers
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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jerrysolomon 1y ago
This is the result of mothers and society telling their daughters that they are unique and that they can have anything when they grow up. Luckily, while everyone was constantly talking about those things, I just sat at home and played geometry dash lite
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
False gods need to be knocked off their pedestals.
reignoferror00 1y ago
You want high class?
How about showing a modicum of class? Using asshole three times in a profile, ain't it "lady"
"Millionaire match", if it had any scruples or standards, would boot her ghetto ass off. As she says "This is Millionaire Match not tinder".
Sounds like sloppy seconds for a street corner thug is more her style.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Is it me, or does she sound ever so slightly 'ghetto'? But she's looking for a millionaire.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've noticed on various clips I view that mock stupid women that TikTok is infested with some low-IQ bitches. Probably something that is part of the hive-mind, you can't be all smartypants and get that scumbag that makes her wet. Some act like it, most are really that dumb.
Adoption of slang and a shitty vocabulary is of course immediate 'tells'.
You can have the hottest of the hot come into the room, but if she opens her mouth and sounds like she's going to meet up with her pimp at the greasy spoon later, she can fuck right off.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This is the result of mothers and society telling their daughters that they are special and that they can have it all when they grow up.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
We really need something beyond red flag. Maybe a Jolly Roger?
I've never watched it, but isn't there some cheating involved in the main plot? Another Jolly Roger. No wonder she's single.
RobertElrick 1y ago
Someone is trying that sweet findom life I see.
The only notebook she deserves is having her name written on the Death Note.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Translation - "I like assholes but one of them made me cry, so don't be one (But I won't fuck you.)"
The gold-digging request at the end just puts the icing on the whorecake.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Mmmm... whorecake....
TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
What lack of religion and parental guidance combined with unbridled feminism does to a MF
AsianDude 1y ago
Curious, does being on 'Millionaire Match' mean that she is a millionaire herself? What are the requirements to join the site?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
To sign up is free, but most features can't be unlocked. If you buy a subscription, you can unlock some of these features.
But... ahh here comes the glorious part... if you can provide them with documented proof that you have assets and/or income over a million dollars, you become a Premium Member, and unlock all of the features. Also, a little diamond appears next to your name.
And, no, most of the women aren't Premium Members.
There is a mix of people. They range from professional-seeming women in their 40s and 50s who are divorced and have decent careers all the way down to some very ghetto-looking trash who are "looking for something real" but provide little info beyond that.
AsianDude 1y ago
As a 30s millionaire, I would certainly not be interested in the range of "professional-seeming women in their 40s and 50s who are divorced and have decent careers all the way down to some very ghetto-looking trash". I doubt the typical 30s - 50s millionaire would be looking at women like that. I'm not even looking at single (never married) 30s virgin women with decent careers and no kids, even if they were willing to sponsor my lifestyle.
Compared to other dating sites, are there actually a higher % of early-20s college grad girls without a trashy background (i.e. virgins from intact families), no drugs, no tattoos, and working in a decent job (or student)?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
If it makes you feel better, I seem to attract the attention of a lot of European-based west African or Slavic women and New York-based afro-Caribbean women in their 20s. They know how to dress and act feminine, at least.
Generally, I have noticed a pattern in the profiles: the younger the woman, the less information she provides. Like, the 24 year olds have a few sentences and the 20 year olds have maybe 2 or 3 words.
I'll tell you what: you sign up for a free account, check it out, and see what you think.
AsianDude 1y ago
As an Asian, I had a similar experience while living in the US East Coast, recent immigrants from my own race where the easiest to attract.
Thanks for sharing, not that surprised about the "younger the woman, the less information she provides". Potentially fake accounts or probably no need to provide much information to get interest. Seems like it's not much different from a typical online dating site?
chunky 1y ago
I'm wondering this myself? What are the requirements for women on this site? Speaking as a well-off person, it would be ideal to find a place with women who presently (and not aspirationally) match my socioeconomic background.
Also, I'm a millionaire BECAUSE I eschewed the "luxury lifestyle", and instead got rich from investing what I saved from doing that. It's a good habit that many very wealthy people follow. I would much prefer a similarly rich AND similarly frugal partner.
I do do "epic stuff", but its not at all about luxury or spendthriftiness. Backpacking in India. Climbing the Rock of Gibraltar. Deep jungle excursions in Central America. Snorkelling in the Aegean. Backgammon games in Turkish bazaars. Amazing street food everywhere.
I suspect this one isn't "epic" at all, and wants the exact same 5 star hotel treatment everywhere, just in different places each time. Boring.
Who has time for drugs? Drugs are for people whose lives suck, and need to medicate themselves.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Have vagina
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That's an "optional extra" for women in the current year.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I'll fuck a hot shemale right in the ass.
The difference between me and the loonies is that I don't pretend it's something that it isn't in order to win the gold medal at mental gymnastics.
You have a penis, you're a man. A very pretty man that I'm about to have some really rough gay sex with. You're not a woman, you don't have the chromosome pairing (btw, when someone asks "what is a woman, that's the answer - two x chromosomes.)
As an aside, they definitely fucking know that. There's a whole place on a website I will not mention called "Two x chromosomes" that forbid men from participating. Funny how they fully understand gender when it gets them what they want.
AsianDude 1y ago
I like traveling with 4-5 star hotel treatment, but she's about a decade too old to travel with me (without considering any other factors).
chunky 1y ago
My point was, this sort of woman goes everywhere, but doesn't interact with the culture anywhere. All that changes is color of the towel she twists into a turban while some Asian woman uses a cheese grater on her hooves.
Dubai, Paris, Hawaii, Aruba, Singapore, it's all the same to these women, they sit on the beach, get a spa day, buy a handbag, and fly home. Absolutely zero culture or class.
AsianDude 1y ago
On the bright side, without people who spend almost everything they earn, it would be difficult for most companies to make record profits. I really can't blame women who spend at malls, consume services etc. as I own shares in some companies that profit from these spending habits.
Personally though, I like to travel with some comfort and no sweating. E.g. nice hotel, decent dining, comfortable transport to destination etc. I did the budget thing in my teens and 20s, traveled for work in 20s - 30s and it lost attractiveness quite quickly. Now I mainly travel not to experience the local culture, but to chill and relax in a nice hotel, with a good pool, and proximity to good food and entertainment.
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chunky 1y ago
Oh, I don't use zero drugs. I will occasionally take a cannibis edible immediately before bed, to aid in sleep. And I take what my Dr tells me to, which occasionally includes Xanax or Valium, for the same reason. But I don't get stoned every morning. Or ever, really. If I want to alter my consciousness, good bourbon is cheap, plentiful, and socially acceptable. But even there, moderation is key, 2-3 rounds is a big night, for me.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’ve actually seen studies that suggest intelligent people are more likely to partake in recreational drug use. Of course, those studies didn’t measure other, likely more relevant, attributes for success, like high conscientiousness or low neuroticism. My guess is that it’s weighted towards lazy, above average IQ people who are smart enough to understand that their life sucks, but aren’t hard working enough to go fix it.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Forgetting about all of your problems for the evening is a lot easier than trying to fix the problems.
I’ve watched stuff like Caleb Hammer’s channel where he does financial audits of people. Often times, you can see some sort of pathology where the spending habits are just the symptom of something bigger.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yep. Head down and grinding it out is the way to get there. Sure, some people stumble into it via the lottery or perhaps inheritance - but it tends to leave as fast as it came when they haven't worked in some degree to attain it.
I'm wary of sites that cater to a certain bracket, only because its a big target on your back. People are mildly jealous when you say that you're financially independent, hell, they'll act shitty when they realize you don't have to think about money at all - beyond longer-term goals you might have.
To join such a site is certainly a self-sufficient dude's choice, but it seems to me that women openly knowing all they have to do is try to rook you into something and then use the skewed laws to fuck you over is just too big of a risk in my view.
I know, play the tiniest violin ever, but getting up to that level you realize that the cost is also high in terms of isolation and having to be guarded. Besides, its naturally the broke deadbeats and drug dealers that get the "modern women" wet apparently since this society is upside-down.
Just rambling a bit here in the late hours. I also agree that drugs are pretty fucking stupid as a recreational device. Hell, I don't even like taking aspirin. Then again I only get sick maybe once or twice a year, at that. Everyone else seems to catch a cold every other week.
chunky 1y ago
Yes. The easiest way to become poor is live like you are rich. And the easiest way to get rich is to live like you are poor.
I was asked how I was successful, and I said: Work hard Live frugally Invest shrewdly.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
No scheming or grifting or scamming? Well that's no fun.
chunky 1y ago
There are more than enough people willing to hand over their hard earned cash in the market, with their eyes wide open. Scamming people is for small minds.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
What makes these women think they can go from being Chads whore to a millionaires wife at the snap of a finger?
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Considering dudes who are interested in/enjoy anal is already selecting for a fairly small minority... welp.
It's a bold strategy, Cotton. Let's see if it pays off for her.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
There’s something else going on other than that. I’m seeing TONS of late 30’s single moms DEMANDING Chad and won’t settle for a regular average beta bucks who’s decent looking. These women have nothing to offer, are toxic due to their past relationships and decisions but somehow think they hold all the cards.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I’ve maintained that it’s a defense mechanism. They know that they command nothing on the dating market. So the strategy becomes demanding the world and hoping that some guy with high value but low self esteem bites, or just dismissing the lack of success as the men’s fault.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Not even concubine tier.
A concubine at least knows when to keep her mouth fucking shut.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Red pill truth: when you see profiles like this, it's a list of all the men she's let cum inside her
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
Learned a new word today. Thanks for that.
As for the post itself:
Explicitly mentions "not being an asshole" three times, with at least another two such admonitions to be found by reading between the lines (be helpful, kind to wait staff, be positive; "has kindness toward me").
This woman has just enough self-awareness to know she's turned on by dudes who treat her like shit but not enough to know why or how to change that. So, as with all willing abuse victims, she's absolved herself of all accountability for her own decisions and places the blame for the whole sordid affair solely on the shoulders of those dastardly "assholes" who maliciously avail themselves of her utter helplessness at their wicked hands.
In short, this woman is telling you, in not so many words, she's a junkie who doesn't want to get better. It is incumbent upon you as a man, presumably in full control of your own faculties, to take her at her word and leave her lie in the gutter where she placed herself.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
"This chick sure seems to have a history of gallivanting about with assholes" was the first thing that came to mind.
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
She will be very disappointed when she discovers what a "typical" millionaire is.
Two-thirds of millionaires are age 60+. 23% are age 50-59. That means only 10% of millionaires are 49 or younger.
84% of millionaires have a net worth between $1M-2.5M, and most of that is tied up in their homes and/or retirement accounts.
Most millionaires buy normal cars (often used instead of new) and live in modest houses.
The top five professions who become millionaires are engineers, accountants, managers, teachers, and lawyers (in that order). With the exception of lawyers, the other four types are probably frugal.
chunky 1y ago
This is accurate. I actually retired at 50 in 2014, just short of the full million. I didn't have a million in cash or financial assets until early into the pandemic, (late 2020-early2021), when I was 56. I did, however, own my house outright, since 2012. I did drive a Mercedes SUV while I was working, but when I retired, I got a decent used Toyota Camry. My house is a quite modest 100 year old, 2BR bungalow in a working class city neighborhood. I am indeed an engineer (and research scientist).
I don't give a damn who else is wealthy, but I was brought up in an upper-middle class/lower upper class environment, (my dad was also an engineer) and am comfortable in it.
I don't even think of myself as "rich", merely as "wealthy". I get my living by having my money work for me, I no longer have to work for it.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
My mom is 77 and she became a millionaire about 2 or 3 years ago. Mainly because of her investments, I guess.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I like Dave Ramsey’s take on the criticism of the millionaire status. People will say it doesn’t get a lot, and his response now is “well it’s more than you have”.
Though the critics aren’t entirely wrong. What’s a millionaire now? Someone who owns a median home in America and has $650k in their retirement portfolio. This is also likely an older person. So if they’re stacking $2500 a month in SS plus withdrawing 4% a year from retirement, that millionaire has an income of around $56k a year. Now don’t get me wrong, $56k a year of income with a paid off home and no savings requirement is probably living pretty good, but you’re not driving a McLaren or living in a house off a beautiful lake overlooking mountains.
My all in NW is dancing around the million mark right now. It makes me feel comfortable, but I’d want at least 3x that before I even consider “retirement”. And “retirement” could easily end up as “coaching football” or something where I’m still trying to generate some income.
Tangent aside, a lot of these women see a man with a good investment portfolio and home and assume he must be balling. In reality, the dude that’s “balling” probably has credit card debt.
chunky 1y ago
That's exactly where I'm at. I pull in a variable amount, mid 5 figures, without working, and have no house or car payments. I do spend a bit on airfare, and some restaurant meals, but I have a pretty good life with that kind of money. I recently put 15k back into my brokerage account, as the periodic withdrawals I had been getting were too large.
The life of a 50-something American millionaire.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. Quite frankly, that’s still better than the vast majority of the world. So women who demand that home in South Beach and luxurious lifestyle, they don’t understand just how few men can provide that. And then of those men, how few would want to provide that to them
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Bingo.
Most of us aren't out here driving Bugattis and flying to Dubai every Sunday.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Also the richer people get, the more they tend to worry about their wealth and get jealous of others.
I had a client who was a multi-millionaire, in his 80s. We were talking one time, I made an offhand comment about how he's wealthy. He says, "I'm not rich, the guy over there in that house has 6 millions, I only have around 4." Or something like that.
I've been under the poverty level for 20+ years, that kinda stuff always shocks me. At least he was a generous guy and always overpaid me.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You just become more aware of it.
It's a weird thing really - the more removed you become from the things that bother people , the more you reflect on the things that give you that freedom.
It's kind of like how bodybuilders seem to focus on the muscles of others more than the average person.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I've noticed that women are highly impressed by men who tip well.
For this and a couple other reasons, I've stopped altogether. I strongly dislike the US culture around the expectation of gratuity. It's more of a built-in tax/fee than a generous act.
And before you all jump on me, yes, I've worked as a waiter. Never once did I expect a tip from anyone. I was happy when I got one. If I didn't, so what? I made enough anyway.
But I am wondering what the dynamic is with tipping impressing women. I imagine it's something about being with a man rich enough to drop money on any woman anytime?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Men's hind-brains crave specific things in women like bountiful breasts, a certain hip/waist ratio, childbearing hips, healthy hair and skin, etc, since they are indicators of mate fitness.
Women's hind-brains crave certain things in men too, and most of them boil down to power and the ability to exercise it. Weak men make weak babies, and weak babies mean the death of her genetic line.
Tipping is a display of wealth. Wealth is a proxy for power.
This is why women will flit from thugs to CEO's and back again. All of those men have some form of power. Or at least a convincing enough facade of it to fool the very primitive and stupid hind-brain.
This is why after marriage, bedrooms die. The man gave up power. No power = weakness. Weakness does not make women wet.