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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago Stickied
Here's the problem recently divorced women have:
They perpetually see themselves at the SMV/MMV they had at the time of marriage.
The reason so many women struggle with dating after divorce is because they fail to accept their actual value - they have gotten accustomed to their husbands treating them with the value they had at the time of marriage (or better!) and they assume that treatment will be mirrored by other men.
That's why these women implode their marriages - they perceive other men as being viable options because they wrongly believe they can compete with women who are literally two whole decades younger and much nastier in bed.
They think "plenty of single men my age to choose from" not realizing that all the single men her age are:
Divorced men who will never remarry.
Never married men who have zero interest in it because it's much easier to fuck divorced women and younger women
The selection for women diminishes as their age increases, no matter what the media tells these women.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
The other reason why divorced women fail after divorce is that they conflate 'willingness to bang' with 'desire to have an LTR'.
Phase 1: Usually what happens is that a woman hits late 30s, early 40s, and the marriage is a bit stale. Then some chad gives her attention, and he bangs her. This 'proves' to her that she has 'still got it'. So she jumps ship. But the chad is nowhere to be seen. She jumped onto a raft that wasn't there.
Phase 2: "Never mind she says - plenty more fish in the sea". Goes on OLD. Gets LOADS of swipes and likes. "This is going great! My boring ex was useless, these guys that are swiping on me are waaay hotter / more fun / have fancy cars. She bangs #1. He ghosts her. She bangs #2, he ghosts her etc etc etc.
Phase 3: "I'm doing it all wrong - I have to take it slow" Starts 'dating with a purpose'.
We all know the next few steps and where they end.
TLDR: Its very easy to get laid as a divorced woman at 40 (assuming not fat and still good looking). It's next to impossible to get an LTR/ marriage. The two are very different things. 99% of women don't understand this.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Minor quibble: It's not just the silver foxes but most women confuse beta orbiters and one-night SMV value with LTR value. These women have rarely experienced actual rejection or even had to live life in hard mode. It's why I fell for foreign women and "country" girls because they generally had a better viewpoint on life. (By "country", I mean my wife used to go to a well and have to spend about 1 minute to bring a bucket of water up to take into the house for baths and cooking, with about 20 buckets needed).
I'm a hot-tub-time-machine for my wife. I still see her as if she was 26 years old. She's the mother of my daughter. This woman had someone who cared about her and she threw it away like someone kicking out an old dog that loves you because "he's old" or she just refused to cut back on the nagging and complaining. My wife at least listens to feedback from me keeping in mind 20 years later, she still has a lot to learn.
A friend of mine got served with divorce papers from his barfly wife that he was asking for some basic changes from: Cut back on the drinking, do a little more at home, and just be a better mother and spouse. He was a bit passive aggressive about it but he wasn't being unreasonable. She served him up with divorce papers thinking she'd hit the family court jackpot and... because of all her DUIs and social workers seeing that he was the primary caregiver, she got only shared custody, no alimony or CS. She offered reconciliation but he refused and I can see why (and all of you too as well, I'm sure). She tried to shaft him but failed and she was angry about it. She wasn't much of a looker to begin with and she didn't look prettier 15 years later.
So... to get "even" with him, she alienated the daughter by bad mouthing him and the daughter looks 40 at the age of 25. Just awful. I don't see so because it's terrible but I think this woman is hell spawn. He didn't have to marry bar trash, quite frankly. He has Swiss, British and USA citizenship and a good college degree. I think his mother was disappointed with his mating choice.
Final observation: looking at this woman's chest, she didn't use sunscreen on what is otherwise a quite nice rack. I tell my wife this: It doesn't look good when women have sun burnt skin going into middle age. I act like a little girl going out and put on sunscreen AND a hat and I have the face and skin of a 30 year old. (I take a lot of vitamin D supplements to make up for that.)
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
The term "silver fox" applies to older men (usually in their 50s and 60s) who take advantage of the fact that as a population ages, the ratio of available women to men goes down.
Men rarely go for older women, but women go for older men, so an older guy with some game can amass a harem of divorced women, especially if he has resources. Those guys are known as "silver foxes" in the US, although the term isn't as widely used as it used to be.
Women outnumber men anyway, and every couple takes one woman and one man out of circulation, so there are always going to be more women available than men. Then figure in that men die sooner than women. Then realized that most guys who are single aren't exactly the cream of the crop. Then factor in that single middle-aged divorcees know they have to get slim and offer up the goods early and often to compete for the few desirable men who are available. Face lifts, tummy tucks, personal trainers, boob jobs, and liposuction follow middle-age divorce as surely as night follows day.
A guy with a smooth tongue and a Cadillac doesn't have to chase... the women game themselves. It's mostly a matter of scheduling.
chunky 1y ago
I was divorced at 48 (no kids). six foot tall, had a Mercedes and my own house. 235-245 lbs. I can confirm. There's an unlimited supply of divorced moms who will rail a guy like me then, in the hopes you will pick them. I told no lies, made no promises, and laid a LOT of pipe.
I'm 59 now, drive a Toyota. Packed on 30 pounds during the pandemic, all out of fucks. Loving the single life.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Ha, my ex is somewhere between phase 2 and phase 3. She got a tattoo and started fucking anyone who would toss it in her.
Weird how nobody is sticking around to date a post-wall overweight single mom. It's almost like men want something else.
Oh, and you forgot:
Phase 4: Looking at your ex realizing that he is much happier, has more viable options and trying to avoid the dawning realization that you were the problem and being torn between your pride in your newfound life in the streets and admitting you were fucked up, you did fuck up, and you don't want to be fucked up and apologizing, getting the help you need, fixing your shit, and praying he's willing to take you back.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Your phase 4 perfectly matches what is going on in that video. The next step (hopefully) is the guy cuts her out of his life 100%. No phone calls, no chats, nothing.
I don't know your situation (whether you have kids or not) but the most healthy way to treat ex-wives is 100% cut off. Personally I only have very occassional email contact, that is exclusively about legal matters or kids holidays - that is after 10 years. No phone calls or text messages in 10 years.
This is the way.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I only talk to her about the kid. I'm sitting back and watching her struggle with dating and enjoying it.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Disagree, only because I think you didn't go far enough. I've often heard women on K Samuels saying things like "I've developed myself as a person," or "I own my own business," or "I'm a better person now."
The common thread here is that they think their previous relationship experience has increased their value, so they can do better now. It's delusional.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
Great stuff, both of you @NotaBene and @Problematic_Browser
Notabene, let's get you bumped up to Junior Hamster Analyst.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This. You can also add;
'I've got more experience how' 'Mature men want a woman who know what she wants' 'Men my age just don't have anything in common with young women - what would they talk about?' 'Men just love milfs'
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I love how they can’t get out of their own heads. They want someone that can be intellectually stimulating, so don’t men want that as well?
Sure, that’s not a negative. But it’s not what we’re seeking in a woman. Besides, if a woman really likes and respects a man, her views on stuff will “evolve” to be more representative of her man anyway.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women shape themselves to be appealing men that they want, assuming that the effort isn't too uncomfortable for them.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And it's not considered uncomfortable by them for you to go ass to mouth on them if you are Chad.
Zephyr 1y ago
My Schadenboner might never come down.
Unusual_Chair 1y ago
I ran into this video a few days ago. I'm not sure if youtube videos are allowed or not. If they aren't I apologize!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
They are, as long as:
they aren't on a channel owned by a woman
Not finished yet, but so far, this one fits the rules just fine and is a good find.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
Did that old hag truly think she could just breakup her marriage and have any Chad of her pick on the dating market?
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She looks and sounds like a Karen, so I can totally believe she thinks she's hot stuff when in fact she's more like a hot potato.
chunky 1y ago
Lukewarm potato AT BEST.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Hot potatoes can burn your hands, so you want to throw it away as fast as you can.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Lol and she had the gall to get upset he found a replacement after she left him. Like she still owns him or something.
Yet another lesson as to why one should never treat a woman like a queen, she'll treat you like a peasant.
And I'm not religious, but God help these women once men collectively realize they don't need these women in their lives and can do better off without these human millstones dangling from their necks.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I think the tide is turning. I watch a lot of different vids with the consistent theme of criticizing these delusional females. Younger guys are getting it, and I've seen outright REJECTIONS by dudes toward some self-proclaimed 'influencer' thot, and you can see the gears turning in her peanut brain because she can't believe they had the balls to do it.
Its glorious. I think the "boss bitches" finally overstepped their bullshit and its coming back to them.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I laughed at one (I can’t remember her name, I know she was the daughter of a reverend and is now an OF whore) asked a random guy on the train to either kiss or slap. Pretty normal looking guy, wouldn’t call him good or bad looking. He slapped without hesitation. She was absolutely shook.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I am religious, but I don't think these women will turn to God for help. That would require humility and a desire to take responsibility & change their ways. No, they will turn to daddy government to bail them out. And you know what that means. Taxes and alimony will increase to pay for their mistakes. The system is already strained to its breaking point, not sure how you can extract much more from us men before we blow our own gaskets and overthrow our masters. And by that I mean corporations, banks, governments, and women.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
They only turn to God when they’re single mothers, in the hope that a God fearing man that has his act together will accept them. It’s not a bad grift when you think about it, because how many single women are in the church these days? A nice, God fearing woman doesn’t last long on the dating market, so if you’re a 35 year old man looking for love at the church, a huge portion of those single women are going to be single moms these days.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's extremely easy to run church game. I made a post about it a long time ago and I can't find it.
In essence, if you're a man who is above average fitness, masculine, and you can keep your mouth shut, you can have all the secret sex with as many women in the church that you want.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Yup. Biggest sluts will put on the biggest performative show that they aren't sluts. Crucifixes dangling right in the middle of their cleavage (not an accident), tattoos in places that can only be seen after they have taken their clothes off, social media filled with virtue signalling but a divorce in her history and womb turd from Chad in tow...
And they all put on airs in public like they are some Wild West school marm that has naught known the touch of a man.
RobertElrick 1y ago
Ah, women and their decision-making abilities, it's always good to see them in motion. Not her fault, though, girls just wanna have fun of course.
Unusual_Chair 1y ago
A couple things that stuck out to me:
She already had a boyfriend shortly after she moved out. Meaning she already had him before she moved out.
She became upset when she realized that her children and ex-husband were happy even though she was not there with them.
She is a selfish woman and her husband deserved better. One of the best things about the story is that apparently her husband was financially well off and she still found a reason to mess the whole mariage and leave.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah, and she wouldn’t admit it, but CLEARLY the daughters preferred dad. They were playing intermediate messenger from dad to mom, which means that dad has information that his girls are privy to that mom isn’t. That likely means that they spend time talking to dad out of desire too. Versus mom, where it’s more out of familial obligation.
Unusual_Chair 1y ago
One thing about those type of women and happiness is they constantly chase it but can never experience it. So, when they hear others say how happy they are and they really mean it, it pisses them off. These type of women are constantly miserable inside and the reason they can never experience being happy is because they can't be content and appreciative of anything they have. Listen to how she spoke about her children and husband, it's like they were curses instead of blessings.
She got everything that came to her. When the tears started rolling, I was like YES!
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
But they do, and what they find is the problem.
Also, how many filters is she using? There are so many that her face on the last happy video was lagging.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
My wife's sister is about her age, and even looks a lot like this woman. She, also, blew up her marriage to a guy who - though far from perfect - was too good for her. I've seen her in person many times over the years my wife and I have been together, and I've also seen some of the pictures she posts on social media.
More make-up than Maybelline and more filters than a cigarette factory. She doesn't look anything like her video. I absolutely guarantee that this woman looks decades older in person, and probably looks like an extra from "The Walking Dead" first thing in the morning. It's no surprise that the "handsome boyfriend" making her dinner was nowhere to be seen after he woke up next to her (if he even existed at all).
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
Imagine wishfully fantasizing about your own children being unhappy.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
That jumped out at me as well. What a miserable bitch.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
@Durek_The_Bald
This was probably the worst part of her entire series of streams
She made a conscious decision to do this with the supposed future unhappiness of her ex and children not only NOT being a negative, but as if it's an ego- and value-boosting positive
All the while planning on being even happier in her own personal life only to resent that her family picked up the pieces without her
Her need to know what the man she divorce raped was up to was disgusting
"Give me half your shit while i cut off all the love and intimacy I ever gave you while I go fuck another dude immediately, but also tell me when you start seeing someone and I'm going to go through your phone when you're not looking even though you're my ex husband i divorced out of the blue"
EurasianChad 1y ago
Damn, this woman is very ugly. I don't know what the hell she was thinking. Just being honest
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Listen to the bit at 4:40 where she says "I'm not saying that he shouldn't..."
She is OBVIOUSLY saying that he shouldn't.
Watch and learn boys, watch and learn.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
At 6:08 she openly admits to going through his text messages - after divorce? wtf.
The ex-husbands big mistake was being way to nice to this piece of shit after she left.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Am i the only one that thinks he was being "nice" or gullible on purpose with the expressed intent to low-key flaunt his newfound happiness in her face?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Let's give this man the benefit of the doubt. Why would he do that? I am going to assume that he is a busy guy - runs a successful business, has kids to look after etc. Has hobbies (boat we know of) and all of this.
The kind of behaviour you describe is far more associated with the female of the species.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
I can see your point but he had plenty of justified reason for settling the score.
His daughter was also saying shit like "this is probably the last time he'll (ex) will invite you boating"
Sounds a bit planned to me but who knows. I'm not the guy, it's speculation. Had he done it first I'd say eh. That's really female behavior, if he was returning the favor to the woman who took half his shit only to instantly have a new bf and flaunt it not so much
I don't expect men to just waive a white flag after getting divorced raped
I mean look at her she's mentally damaged for life now and regrets everything yet will never get him back.
If he did that on purpose with such a small tactical maneuver, that's rather cunning, something that isn't very commonly female
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
We'll never know for sure, I'm just guessing that this guy is a practical guy.
The daughter is pointing out that the ex-wife is not getting invited to family days out again, because she clearly had a freakout (she called it a 'trauma', probably more like a spaz-attack). That's on her - because of her behaviour, not his behaviour.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Good point it could really cut either way. I know if I were him I'd have done it on purpose before cutting her off completely but that's just me
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Bad idea - if you are trying to 'hurt' your ex, it means you are still emotionally invested in her. If you 'hate' her, it means you still love her.
You need to become an expert in Moveonology. Moving on means giving her NOTHING. No contact, no hate, not thoughts. Just block and move on with your life. Free yourself from the weight of a toxic bitch. She cheats with someone else? Great, now she's someone else's problem. Block and move. You don't need to 'wish that she suffers' - just ignore - the hamster will do your work for you.
Every time I see a brother that has mastered moveonology I see a free spirit, unencumbered, flying like an eagle. Its a beautiful thing.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
That wasn't the way I saw what he possibly did. I saw it as he showed her he has someone new and then moved on.
Yeah it would be better if he just simply cut her off entirely after that divorce rape but i would entirely understand why he might do that
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
On the other site that rhymes with edit someone linked a response allegedly by her ex-husband. If it's legitimate, she left out a few very important details, and lied about a few others... specifically the part about the phone.
In that video, he says that she began sliding into radical feminism in the years leading up to the divorce, up to and including being arrested at some demonstration against "Teh Pay-tree-ark-ee." She got in so deep that she decided that marriage was oppressive and filed for divorce for no other reason than that she didn't want to be part of such a "misogynistic" relationship.
I'm usually skeptical about anonymous responses, but I'm willing to give this one at least some credence because the guy admits to doing a lot of things that we would recognize as being blue-pilled to convince her to stay. He seems to have thought going to therapy and groveling to her would carry the day. No red-pilled guy would fall for that and then be mystified that things only got worse.
Which brings me to the phone. According to him, she knew about his girlfriend, and knew that she would be there that day. Apparently it was the girlfriend's idea to invite the ex-wife along since their lives were going to be entangled, and it's easier if everyone gets along like adults. They met on the boat in person. (Since there was no abuse and no cheating in the marriage, that's not the worst idea I've ever heard: it's easier when everyone knows where they stand and gets along.)
So it wasn't that she "found" his phone unattended and decided to hack into his messages... nor was it a case of him hiding the fact that he was dating and leaving his phone where she would be likely to see the messages. It was her seeing her ex-husband with a superior woman and hearing him tell her that he loves her that set her off.
She was expecting - and hoping - that he would 1) go into a tailspin without her, 2) end up alone or with a much lower value woman, and 3) be there as a safety net for her. That last part was almost certainly subconscious (which is common for women who frivolously blow up their marriages).
When she saw that he was happy, and with a superior woman, all three legs of the stool were kicked out from under her at the same time. It's a wonder that she didn't grab an anchor and jump overboard.
Instead she cried into a camera about how unhappy she is and how unfair it is that she doesn't get wife-level financial support now that she's no longer a wife... but rather another bitter old grandma trying to relive her youth on the silver fox carousel, and realizing that the only way off involves a coroner.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You write beautifully bro. I mean it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
This one has made the rounds and is hilarious.
1) whenever I listen to women try to shame men for pursuing younger women, I think of women like this. She’s in her FIFTIES and sounds like she’s about 30 years younger. And she’s basically instructing her followers to pursue hedonism, no matter what the cost. She continues to show her immaturity by referring to her new apartment bed as her “princess bed”.
2) within a month or so of divorcing, she was revealing the existence of her “handsome boyfriend” who was “cooking breakfast”, suggesting that this guy was somehow better than her husband (who probably isn’t as handsome to her and didn’t cater to her every whim).
3) she was perfectly happy with all of her decisions until she realized that her ex-husband replaced her. Not only that, but reportedly with a younger and prettier woman. When he wasn’t available as a pure fallback, she became depressed. We also learn here that her ex-husband seems to be a wealthy man, which makes her delusion that she couldn’t be replaced even more hilarious.
4) the story of her client inviting her to a family outing cements that she probably has no social life now. The boyfriend of hers is likely gone as well.
5) tying all of the above together, we see her start to get angry and begin to justify why she deserves her alimony. Reminder to all of my brothers that feel cheated by the system when someone like this gets what’s effectively a lifetime paycheck (in a state like Massachusetts, it’s indefinite alimony), essentially reaping the benefits of being a wife without providing any wifely duties, remember that this is what their life is like without you. You can always keep making more money to offset the L, but what can she do? Cut hair and complain for more alimony? Her life is ruined. Yours is going to be just fine.
Redpillpusher 1y ago
At the 9:30 mark when she started talking about going to dinner w/another family, I thought to myself that females in situations like hers realize that they're so stupid that they have to lie when others ask them why they got divorced. She's rare, mostfoolish females in her position say gibberish like "he cheated, he was abusive." Sorry to those that already knew this, had a blonde moment (pun intended)
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She needs to #CryHarder