Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago Stickied
What personality? What accomplishments?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago Stickied
Ugh, sweaty, she like has a vagina that she won't let you fuck (unless you are stronger, taller, richer, better looking, and in all measurable aspects a better human being than her) and a degree and a career that you can't fuck, what more should a man want? SHE IS THE TABLE! These are things clearly in demand and hard to replace.
Such ungrateful scrotes.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her accomplishments?
Have you managed all of that? Well, have you, 'impressive cricket'?? What's so impressive about you?
I bet you haven't even got a single scratch on you car. She has banged all 4 corners of her car and has a 7 foot scrape down the passenger side.
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Thank you for this. I needed that!
You forgot how she has 3 cat boxes in the living room (why hide them away?) so she doesn’t have to change them as often…. A modern day problem solver.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago Stickied
She is 34, so she could still wise up. She's not terrible looking and doesn't seem to be fat (she may be covered in tats , can't tell)
Here's the deal. She might be able to find a guy that is 44-50, who is divorced and has a couple of kids. It all depends on her. The question is - can she change her behaviour? Can she be nice? Is she prepared to be feminine and submissive for this guy and give him a peaceful home life with romance and sex?
Because that is her only option left on the table.
The guys that she wants, don't want her. The 34 year old guys that are 6-6-6 are not going to wife her up (they would have already done so). They are going to wife up the women that she fears - the competition that she is talking about.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Probably not. Let's not hold our breaths, there are younger and smarter women out there
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 1y ago
I had the same thought. She's not unattractive, even despite the nasal stud and shaved head on one side (I will never understand how that became The Style™ for women today, it looks retarded). She could absolutely still bag a good man if she were willing to be reasonable about it.
'Course, as Vermy said, therein lies the rub. She can change what she needs to - everyone can - but the odds she'll do so are... not high.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yeah and as others have said, her age range should be 10-15 years older.
If she wants a kid, the dude will have all of the power in that dynamic. He could probably get a prenup and have her agree to do all of the child raising, since he’s likely been there and done that. At least that’s what he should get, if her ego allowed it.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I would advise any man to act as if the pre-nup didn't exist ....because when you wind up in court, you will discover that the pre-nup is not worth the paper it is written on. It serves only to convince the judge that you are an evil, sexist bigot and should be punished accordingly.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
It depends on your locality.
Divorce attorney James Sexton, made famous by this Soft White Underbelly interview and subsequent appearances on Rollo Tomassi's YouTube channel, has said many times that at least where he practices (NY State), prenups are consistently upheld.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
He would say that. He is lawyer. He makes his bread and butter from people going to courts, largely to contest PNA's. The proof is in the pudding - if Pre nups actually worked, nobody would contest them in court.
You have to go through divorce to realise what it is. Its a scam that benefits a huge army of lawyers and hangers on. When I got divorced, there was only about £600,000 'in the pot'. That is net assets. The legal fee's gobbled up just over £200k. The lawyers get the best share.
I know of two partners at a law firm (who should have known better), that got divorced. There were no kids, and they were both partners at one of the big 6 law firms in London. They were both millionaires in their own right (annual earnings over £850k). And they lost it all in the courts. After a few years they called a truce and both were bankrupt.
Lawyers want you to believe in PNA because they know that for everyone single one they draw up, 50% of them will end up in the courts. It costs you about £400 to draw up and sign, and then when the SHTF, it costs you between £90k to £infinity to contest.
My advice stands - get a PNA if you want. But act as if they don't exist.
The worst time to evaluate a parachute is after you have jumped out of the plane.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
No, he makes most of his money from people who didn't bother with one, and/or from people trying to prove fault instead of just going the no-fault route.
Check out his content for yourself. It's enlightening, and he straight up says "don't get married at all".
That's silly.
People contest laws that have been on the books for centuries in an attempt to get what they want. Just because something is challenged doesn't mean it's worthless, just like just because someone's on trial doesn't mean they're guilty.
Attorneys challenge them (prenups) because their job is to try to get the best outcome possible for their client.
He has never had any of his overturned, and he has never managed to get anyone else's overturned. They have been upheld every time he has dealt with them, and he's been practicing for like 20 or 25 years.
Again, this can all change based on your location. According to a dude who makes more money when you don't have one, they're consistently upheld in NY State. I have no idea about my state, and I hope I don't have to find out.
I'd advise similar to him: don't get married, but if you absolutely insist on getting married, then get a prenup.
This matters because even with 20 years or so of manosphere/Red Pill/MGTOW content advising men how terrible marriage really is, there are still young up-and-comers who just don't want to give up their blue pilled dream.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I am not sure that the 'don't get married' thing is sensible.
What about having children?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago Stickied
Aaah, we've featured her before.
Great example of "Epiphany Phase" flair.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Wonder how things are going for her now that she’s at least 36.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
Shay's gawta purdy maowth...ah giver a fowar fer tha purdy maowth...
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
This is a natural consequence of the "men only want one thing" trope and not giving a shit about figuring out what men actually want their whole lives, even after they hit the wall
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women: "Men only want one thing!"
Men: "What's that?"
Women: "Sex!"
Men: "Well you've been having sex, but you're still unmarried."
Women: memory dump
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Yup. Massive blame shift. Men clearly want other things. If men only wanted sex, all she’d have to do to keep a man is offer sex whenever he wanted. Oh, and keep in shape so that he’d want sex with her.
But men want more than just sex. That’s why she’s single. Because the only thing she ever worked on to please a man was sex. A skill that has declining value with age. Instead of dumping all level ups into the wife and mother skill trees (which actually appreciate over time), she chose the trees that depreciate over time.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago Stickied
The wild part is that women don't have to decipher what men really want (unlike what we have to do with women).
Men are very clear what we look for in relationship partners - while the list may vary from man to man, most men will happily tell you what they want:
All women have to do is study off the cheat sheet for the damn test. Do they do that? Fuck no. They show up and hour late to the test, put down the wrong answers on purpose, punch the professor in the face, and scream "yassas kween slay" on the way out the auditorium.
Then they cry about how it isn't fair that they failed.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Men are very simple creatures. I read a list that's even simpler than yours:
Feed Him
Fuck Him
Dont be a Bitch.
That's it for men. Ladies reading, do these three things and you will have a loyal slave for life that will sit in traffic two hours a day to go to a soul crushing job, put a roof over your head, put food on the table, and give you the rest of his paycheck.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Well said.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Just like being "nice" isn't enough for men to be attractive to women, being "accomplished" isn't enough for women to be attractive to men.
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Projection. They emulate the traits they find attractive and think that men will think the same way they think. They are attracted to power and accomplishments so women will go out and get a degree and find some sort of job that has prestige and be a "boss-bitch" thinking that they will attract the same kind of man.
The girl in the post is realizing that the men she wants to attract because of her "accomplishments" dont care about her "accomplishments"
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Her accomplishments are actually a negative. They most often come with debt, entitlement, and expectations. Those are the anathema of fit, feminine, friendly, fun, and fucking.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I would say 'transference' rather than 'projection'. Women are far more prone to this than men - they start becoming the man that they want rather than focusing on attracting the man that they want.
In a way, we live in an era where basically all women have become 'trans'. They are half men. They want to wear the trousers, go to the gym, become the boss, get tattoos on their arms, drink and smoke and swear and go to bars to pick up shags. They have transitioned into macho men.
And then men don't find them attractive for an LTR.
And they don't know what to do about it. Because they can't contemplate going back to be being feminine, because that would be pandering to the patriarchy.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
As indicated by all the women "trying to buy their own home"
Zero plans to move in with a guy who has one. Aspiring to become spinsters essentially with their own independent male traditional trajectories and then wondering why it didn't work
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 1y ago
Correction: they don't know what femininity is. Having the blush fucked out of you ensures that you're never going to be a blushing bride.
nicknack 1y ago
Actually, being nice for men and accomplished for women are both generally viewed as huge negatives for dating. Men want nice women and women want accomplished men.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Wrong.
They aren't negatives. The problem is that people who lack attractive qualities lead with "nice" or "accomplished". Those are secondary considerations and the people who fail in the sexual market treat them as primary considerations.
Women like nice men. They just happen to also need those nice men to meet the attractiveness threshold before they care about how nice he is.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
And women absolutely hate men who are nice, just because. They want to get checked when they’re behaving poorly, for example. And also, men who are just mind numbingly “nice” for no reason, often have ulterior motives that these women are wise to.
Now do women like men who treat them nicely once certain standards have been met? For the most part, yea. Some women really just want to be treated like crap, because that’s the opinion they have of themselves (whether it’s true or not). But just being nice for the sake of it is a childish finesse (like the kid will put their plate in the dishwasher and clean their room, mommy will be thrilled, until kid acts like they’re owed something for it).
So yeah, there’s a difference between being “nice” and being a “nice guy”. If you’re the former, that’s great. But never be the latter.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Women: "Fucking is an accomplishment!" -- also women -- "My past is NONE of your business!"
Men: "Fucking gives me release/clarity/enjoyment, and unless I give a shit about her, its transitory."
Guys get off and move on with their day.
Women spread and think its some kind of gold medal.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She didn't say anything in that video that was anti-man. What she did say is that she's worried about younger girls. She's worried about competition. This is one of the reasons women hate each other, and establish a pecking order based on perceived beauty and ability to wield power over men.
The hatred is coming out as sadness/anxiety in the video, but I'm convinced women like this have various levels of seething hate, like that evil witch in Snow White. "Mirror, mirror, on the wall..." What does she do when she finds out a younger, more beautiful woman exists? Plot her murder, of course.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You are bang on point here.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago
Weird, it's like she knows younger women (who have less accomplishments) are more desirable but somehow spent her youth and beauty trying to get accomplishments instead of a man
She could have gotten a man and then accomplishments later. They always come so close to getting it, maybe next time
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"Don't try to understand women, women understand women and they hate each other."
– Al Bundy
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Becoming the man she wants will not get her the man she wants. If she even put a shred of thought into this, she'd have asked: "If I were the kind of man that I wanted, what type of woman would I go for?"
It isn't even a mystery to her - I'm sure she knows plenty of men who she can observe. What kind of women do they date? Who do they just pump and dump? Hell, worst case scenario, she can just ask a dude.
Can you imagine a man saying "to get the kind of women I desire, I'm going to become more feminine. I'll start wearing dresses, I'll start doing things like gossiping and getting my hair and nails done, taking up feminine hobbies."
Fucking gross.