Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 1y ago in Single Mom Tears - Permalink - Locked - 11.2K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Aox1993 1y ago
"women don't build they wait at the finish line and fuck the winners"
Myron Gaines - 2020
The amount of women attesting to how being a stay at home parent is harder than working is breathtaking, almost as if they have absolutely no fucking clue how much working 50+ hours a week takes it out of you. I've been the stay at home dad before when the kids were basically newborns and did shared parental leave with my partner and split it so rather than her have 9 months she shared a few months with me. Being a stay at home parent is ABSOLUTELY PISS EASY!
yeah sure you might be running around a bit but there's been many occasions where due to partner not being well I've taken care of things by myself, I had the cleaning, washing, putting clothes away etc done in like 2 hours and that's it. Besides making them breakfast, dinner and tea I had quite a bit of spare time to do nothing and that's with 2 kids
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
If only there were a way for these women to have avoided all this misery...something like not letting Skittles men baste their wombs with baby batter.
Crazy concept, I know.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Come on now Overkill, what's with the kur-raaaazy suggestions all of a sudden?
MelkorHimself Mod 1y ago
If making money is so much easier by comparison, then swap places with the man. You go to work and pay all the bills, and he can stay at home keeping the house together.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It is quite insane. And when these women get a guy who is winning, they ignore the time he was the office bitch, making under $50k and was basically expected to work 50+ hours a week.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
"If you want to be the wife of a colonel, marry a lieutenant."
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
But then they'd have to invest the time and effort of helping a guy become a winner instead of just showing up at the finish line to fuck the winner. Or at least sticking around and not actively hamstringing the guy.
That takes patience and discipline, and she wants the rewards RIGHT NOW.
And then they wonder why men are defaulting to treating them like spoiled brats.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Solid point. In fact, it would make a great TV show. Lets call it 'Gender Swop'. We get guys that are busting their balls 10 hours a day at a real job to switch places with the SATM and see how it rolls. The guy would probably have the household in tip top shape within 1 to 1.5 hrs. Laundry done, house cleaned, bit of admin. It would be intersting to see what he does then. I bet he doesn't sit on the couch and binge tik tok. I bet he goes to gym, plays golf, goes for a run. Then goes to the supermarket to get some stuff. Then leaf blow out the dust in the garage, mow the lawn and put the diner on, all while listening to a podcast.
Men are super efficient. I can cook 3 meals for 3 nights ahead in 1 hour, everythign from scratch. That's what men are like. We don't spend 3 hours bitching about making shite food and then say 'we're exhausted'.
Meanwhile, the SAHM would be so confused at the dudes job. She hasn't got a clue what real work is.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
In the (still good) film Kramer vs Kramer, Dustin Hoffman (Ted Kramer) struggles initially as he has single fatherhood foisted upon him because his selfish ex-wife abandoned him. It's a wonderful film that dives well into the thinking of liberated women even as early as the 1970's. Ted certainly has problems initially because he's going through the trauma of his divorce and has a high pressure job but within a year, even his ex's best friend agrees what a great father he has become.
What made the film also rather poignant was the talk he had with his son about how he had always detected when his wife was angry and then had to be the emotionally mature one in the relationship to resolve it but due to work, he hadn't. In other words, Ted Kramer's only "flaw" was for a brief period of time, he had his own emotional needs and wasn't able to carry the load for both of them.
In hindsight, it's also an interesting film because the divorced friend of the family had basically helped cause the divorce for them too illustrating why divorce women can be such a pariah.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It's amazing he was able to have a family given his autism and that he had to be rescued from an asylum by his younger, much more handsome brother.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
That would be hilarious. In short order, the entitled bint would:
Need a "mental health" day for just dealing with the normal stresses of a job.
Take time off the moment they could, bookending it with "mental health" days to extend it.
Lag on doing projects, and when they finally produce something, its a 'effing mess and the men have to fix it. (Fun fact, the big bridge in Texas near a shipping port that ran into severe design problems was engineered by the same "women only" team that effed up that pedestrian bridge. Their "GO GRRL" company was booted from the project.)
Managers would be afraid to do one-on-one meetings, because this is where the imaginary "abusive" and "hostile" workplace accusations would start, because the male manager dared to ask a female employee to do her fucking job.
Then to top it all off, before profitability dropped off a cliff and all the real earners left the company to save themselves from these dumb bitches, the cunts would take to social media and complain how men are "mean" to them because they don't want to sit with them during lunch, or only stick to business-oriented conversations at work, instead of flirting and paying compliments.
Single wall-hitting moms are so funny to me. And this one is aging horribly, with a bad attitude to boot.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And doing it in public is of course some form of -ism or microaggression.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
All meetings would have to start with some sort of conversation about pronouns.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
The thing about these single moms is there ARE guys out there who will overlook you having kids but the problem is they aren’t gonna be super Chad. So the single mom would rather be single and complain instead of looking in the mirror and saying “ok he’s 5’7 and a 6 but it’s better than nothing”. No, they pop out kids by randoms and still think they hold all the cards.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
This one is really a gem. It should be mandatory reading for kids, alongside To Kill a Mockingbird and other classics.
If you have kids living with you (and he's not the father*), you're already high maintenance.
*Oh, who are we kidding. The father wouldn't date her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Bowing. I found this in the wild (via a referral). The coup de gras is the photo set that was autogenerated with the center image. I couldn't make that up if I tried. What's interesting is that it's a witch surrounded by more feminine photos that appear to be filtered. Perhaps she was going tor the wicked witch look, which she succeeded, because she scares the heck out of me. Are the prettier pictures due to filters, caked makeup, or both?
Pic889 1y ago
Four kids! You need to have a 3 bedroom apartment (minimum) and a 7-seater SUV or a minivan to date this catch.
And you have to pay and care for 4 kids that aren't yours.
Form an orderly line folks...
And those women wonder why men have a mindset of "if I can't get a child-free woman, I will date a woman from abroad". Even a mail-order bride is better than the woman featured above. And she will cost less too.
Justanaverageguy 1y ago
I know single moms who expect their guy friends to buy them stuff like groceries and crap. The delusion is unreal.
Aox1993 1y ago
Absolutely zero benefit on being friends with women unless you're smashing them
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Let's do some math:
So, around $200K-$300K give or take to raise one kid. And that's just the costs for the one kid. She has 4 of them. So $800K-$1200K for the lot, then, add in another $200K-$300K because we damn well know this bitch ain't fucking for "free" even if you paid for her kids. So $1M-$1.4M, minimum that you are being assessed for around 17-18 years of mediocre used pussy doled out on life support drip.
Comes out to around $4.6K-$6.4K a month for that pussy.
A LITERAL WHORE IS CHEAPER AND WILL BE MORE SATISFYING.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I just got off the phone with my sister who says she knows a single-mother-by-choice who got sperm donation and then griped to her about how hard it was to be a single mother without a man and she couldn't take it anymore and broke off the friendship. It's funny because this same sister then went on to try to gripe to me about her problems so I found an excuse to cut the call short. "Hi. Er, Happy Thanksgiving. Can we talk about something other than all your miserable problems?"
There was a 1970's sitcom, "Alice", about the travails of a single mother working in a diner for her incompetent white male boss. During this era, there was this media trope of the "suffering single mother whose smart and makes it work!" because of the sudden unleashing of (usually divorced) single mothers griping about how alimony and "child" support wasn't enough. Now, many of them don't get that!
Knock on wood, but raising my 7 year old daughter so far hasn't been that bad. We spend $15k/year on private school for her but that's only for 4 years (we get about $2K off of our taxes for the summer). She'll be situated to enter the advanced section of the decent public school system we have here then. Otherwise, we get a lot of 2nd hand clothes and stuff from friends so the expenses haven't been too bad. $300/year for diapers for the first 3 years. I could have gone cheap and sent her primarily to the public school, but I want her to start out with an edge.
As Kevin Costner knows, I should factor in the cost of additional housing for the child in that a 2 bedroom apartment, say, costs about 20% more than a 1 bedroom or $400 in my region so $5K/year total cost $90K to age 18. Apartment/housing prices scale funny. You can get more space comparatively cheaper by owning past a certain size although for apartment renters, it's probably toughest.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Also did not spend much on the kid. Pretty much 100% hand-me-down clothing, food stamps, 100% homeschool. She's old enough now where she's contributing to the cooking (from scratch), and can crochet/knit clothing or make quilts, etc for the rest of the family. Good at chores too, so actually a net positive. We spend very very little, and I will spend absolutely $0 on any kind of college.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Well, it looks like FDS is alive and well. Female delusion has no expiration date.
Pic889 1y ago
Kinda sad they went podcast-only, it was the best inspin subreddit out there.
Aox1993 1y ago
Hey the podcast has some absolute gems we can all laugh at, still good for the delusion
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Upvote for using 'inspin' as a phrase.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She might want men to give her flowers, plan fancy dates and other stuff like that, but she doesn't want to fuck the guys who do that sort of thing.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
She wants to bag and wall-mount a trophy specimen of the elusive North American AlphaBucks.
... while she has four bastard children sired by four different baby daddies.
... and she's not particularly attractive.
... and she's broke.
... and she has no time for the person who should be her top priority.
Good luck with that.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Its even worse now, because the trend on TikTok is "Double Alpha" - they want 2x what an "Alpha" is, whatever they've decided that bar is.
They absolutely will jump over the fence of logic and kick over any obstacle until they're hitting that wall at Mach 2.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
"Double alpha?" WTH is that?
It was 6/6/6, so is the new requirement 12/12/12, or 6/6/6/6/6/6?
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Here's a reference vid Hoe_math about it - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2ia5qXdYEXM
Its as stupid as it sounds, yes.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
If she's a single mom it's usually a direct outcome of her choices.
She picked shitty men and had babies for them before she was married
She ran a good man off
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I also posit 1a) She ignored red flags and married a shitty man, and had his kids and eventually it "didn't work out".
About the only good outcome of that is said kids are not bastards I guess.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
These days, when I hear these complaints from women I just shrug and pretend I'm French. "C'est la vie!" I say unto them.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Or just say in a very sexy French voice: "Ne soyez pas une pute"
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
These chicks sound lazy.