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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Oh look, story as old as time. Older woman (who claims she’s “totally better now than she was before”) is mad that men at the peak of their SMV/RMV aren’t interested in simping all over her like they used to.
Her friends are right. If she wants to get plowed, or have a relationship that doesn’t go anywhere, she should date younger men. If she wants to actually get kept, she’s looking at men about 20 years older than her. Why would a 42 year old man with options deal with her, when there’s 27 year old women who would be interested in him?
Justanaverageguy 11mo ago
It’s not just that. I’m noticing that women in their mid-30’s and up have MASIVE amounts of trauma and bitterness. It’s like the narcissism gets worse the older they get. What do they do? They double down on obtaining Chad and scold the regular guy and use and abuse him.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
That line made me laugh, loudly - "totally better now" - I mean fuck man, that is some pure hopium bullshit if I ever saw it. I know females specialize in that kind of fabrication, but to actually read it was amusing as hell.
I'm sure she's one of those "men are too intimidated by me" chicks too - it can't possibly be that she has an expiration date, it has to be the man's fault.
It is a pleasure in life to be a man that ages like wine, versus the "boss bitches" that have no one to boss around anymore.
AbusiveFather1 11mo ago
They are, just not for the reason she thinks
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
They don't realize that they are best at 23
That's their biggest problem. Sure. Maybe if one loses weight and looks hotter at 30 than she ever did at 23 and chunky then fine maybe we have a loophole but will never be as more in demand then her best best at 23
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
That's on average.
Some individual women peak earlier, some later.
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TRPDuryodhana 11mo ago
You say this but I've heard 40yo oldies say this exact thing, "I'm the best!" Although I'd add that she was fit and skinny, did yoga and all to stay "young", etc.--but it's almost impossible to fight aging by the point.
And yet, the hamster keeps spinning!
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 11mo ago
I mean...... noone wants to be unattractrive, ignored and alone. You know...... like the men she rejected when she was younger.
So I can understand wanting to fight the ageing process by being as attractive and appealing as possible.
But jeez, the fucking denial that happens.
To make it work this woman is almost certainly overweight. The kind of overweight that still gets matches in her 30's but not past that.
How do I know she's overweight....... two clues......... firstly she calls herself "well rounded". But the biggest clue is that at no point does she describe herself as slim or fit or describe her exercise or diet.
A slim woman would describe herself as such...... "Despite being slim and fit and young looking, I don't get any matches". But we don't see posts like that from slim fit women because they're too busy getting railed by attractive men......... even in their early 40's.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
I took that to mean the usual use of that phrase: she has a variety of experience, hobbies, interests, etc. I've never once seen "well rounded" to refer to being fat.
It's still illustrative of a common blind spot among women: thinking that what attracts them to men also works in reverse.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
I'm chuckling that she doesn't seem to have figured out that "in the past year and a half" since she turned 40, her matches declined precipitously even as she has round numbers set on her own preferences such as 50. Not forty nine or fifty one, but five zero. Someone observed that European women's hypergamy is less extreme because in the metric system, 2 meters if 6'6" in imperial units so women know that would be impossible to get. Women judge men by round numbers on dating engines for status and don't realize it can apply to them as well.
I chatted briefly with a European woman gate agent at the airport and chuckled "You know, kgs is a whole lot better for my self-esteem than pounds" and she smiled and agreed. The whole thing: centigrade, km, centimeters were based upon a scientific standard, not a human relatable one.
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 11mo ago
Solid points :)
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
If you ever watched Firefox (sort of "meh" now), I love the line with the "brain control": "You must THINK in Russian!" I still think in imperial units. Sometimes I think in Polish. My father when he passed, he was speaking Latin.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
That's why they frequently demand 180cm, a nice round number.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Interesting observation. That's 5'10". To go to 190, they'd push the men (pun intended) up to 6'2" which would be unobtainium for most of them.
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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I like the chinese term - 剩女 - "Leftover Women/Ladies"
That's what they are, like a microwave burrito at a convenience store at 3am, the guy that bought it is long gone as it congeals in silent protest.
reignoferror00 11mo ago
"travel often" - Oh great, yet another expectation and huge ongoing expense. Just throw it on the pile with the others.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I know "travel often" is usually a euphemism for promiscuous sex for women but I think they also say that as a way to brag that they're cultured and have the means to travel. They often go on trips that are tourist traps or all inclusive trips to South America where they spend the week drinking wine at some glorified bar with a pool. Just because they have travelled to a few places (and probably on someone else's dime) they think they're Herodotus on some fucking grand tour.
AbusiveFather1 11mo ago
Lmaoo
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
It's a relatable interest. I love to talk about travel as well including the process: Dealing with jetlag, AirBNB versus hotels, airport lounges, handling the local taxicab mafia, and so on. But yeah, someone who travels typically have a bourgeois mentality even if they're not extremely rich because it takes either spare income to travel or resoucefulness (or in their cases, the ability to find a guy to shag to provide room and board). Travel is the ultimate "hobby" because it does provide exceptional experiences different than just stuffing food down one's gullet at a local sit-down restaurant.
chunky 11mo ago
This is the case. I was dating a gal a while back, and she wanted to travel more, so we did. She had money, and was perfectly fine with paying her half, except she would only go on cruise ships or to all-inclusive resorts. Never interacted with any locals, except those paid to do so. Never left the resort grounds, except for the airport shuttle. Never self-guided at any cruise port, always a paid tour.
I could do the same checking into a downtown hotel in my own city, and getting guided tours of local museums. What's the point of getting on the plane at all?
Even though I was only paying for myself, it was a LOT more expensive than how I would choose to travel, via trains and staying in pensiones. And, since she was paying for herself, she insisted on flying first class, too. Something I would never do on my own.
Sorry, but when I travel, I want genuine experiences in places dramatically different than where I come from.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Pop open those wine bottles, has-been! To make herself feel better, she should only drink vintage wine. They are older than her.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
"I am not interested in dating younger".
This cheapskate doesn't want to be the one who has to open the wallet.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Ya she can't extract resources from the younger dude & the idea that she might have to foot the bill is not acceptable for our better than ever 42 year old queen.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
And of course, men who dare to date younger (because men WILL invest financially in someone they are interested in) are shamed as “creeps” and “manipulators”. But when a woman tells her 42 year old friend to get a 20-something brokie with a 6 pack, that’s no problem. Logic. Right?
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
"I have a great career, travel often....."
Again with the careers and travels? The men say they don't give a shit about those, so those are not pluses.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
They always try to cope by claiming their older version is the "better" version, but deep down inside they know it's not true.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
It’s amazing that the only group of people who seem to always see themselves as better with age are single, older women.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Sometimes they may truly have improved and become less spoiled and bratty than their 20's and are "looking to settle down". This is one of the few advantages men have in that we can go through a "sow your wild oats" period and get some time to recover from this gynocentric society to make something of ourselves by our 30's or even 40's and still find someone to settle down with and have a family.
Because that's PRECISELY what I did. I got married to a younger woman at 35 and had my daughter at age 50. Yeah, I pushed the limit too, absolutely, but the point is that I could do so.
Women are born genetic celebrity rock stars and they squander it during the 20's and then try to engage in hypergamy in their late 30's. A fun analogy would be the people who bought up all the beanie babies at maximum price when they were cool and now are trying to dump them on Ebay.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
And of course, people don’t teach women this these days, because it’s politically incorrect. After all, imagine the uproar from parents (even “red pill” dads) if some counselor was telling the girls that they’ll max out their value before they’re legally allowed to drink?
I mean sure, maybe there’s a lot more that they’ll contribute to the world as they age. But to dating, nothing will be better than the physically fit, young, starry eyed version of them.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
No sweatie, the only difference between the different versions of you is your psych prescriptions. Sounds like it might be time to up the dosage again....
mattyanon TRP Endorsed 11mo ago
You have to give credit to men for being able to accurately detect female fertility, despite err..... "skin care".
Attraction is based on ability to make successful babies.
Men are very, very able to spot which women can make offspring for them.
That's what attraction is for.
Why is everyone surprised when it works?
nicknack 11mo ago
42 and is asking why the guys in her age filter (35-50) don’t want her? 35? Even 50 is too young honestly, she should shift over to 50-99. She’s being greedy trying to pull a 7 year younger man for commitment when she couldn’t manage to lock a 35 year old 25 years ago
reignoferror00 11mo ago
Great friendships? Are any of those great friends men? If so, try turning one into a friend with benefits. The other option is trying for the at least 55+ guys that are retired and like travelling; maybe, just maybe you'll have luck with one if you don't set your sights that high in that group or push too quick.
At 42 you've aged out of being a mother to a prospective husband so why would any man with any life experience at all want to marry you or even live with you in the present legal/social situation?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
She's 'feeling overlooked'. She thinks this is something to do with her feelings. Lady, its not feeling, you are BEING overlooked.
Why? Simple - because there are hundreds of thousands of better options than you within a 5 mile radius of you. That is why.
Men get smarter and smarter as they age. By the time they get to your age (42) they realise that there is no way in hell they should be marrying a woman their own age. The only couples I see that are the same age are the ones that get married really young - like in their 20s.
When a woman gets to 42, she is going to have to accept that she is not going to be able to get married to a 42 year old man. You should be looking at men at least 15 years older than you, so aged 57 and up. The kind of guy that might take you on at your age will likely have already had his kids, is divorced, and does not want more kids. If a man wants kids, he won't want you.
42 year old men are now looking at 30 year old women and younger.
Cry all you want, and have a little tantrum if it makes you feel better - but thems the breaks.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago
When this popped up on the alternative site yesterday I posted this:
Why did her matches dry up for men in the 35-50 range? Simple: her age now starts with a "4" rather than a "3." Notice that the time she became invisible on OLD coincided precisely with her 40th birthday.
She needs to use "50" as the bottom of her age range rather than the top. Men her age who would hit her up won't meet her unrealistic standards, and men younger than her will only bang her if she can pull off the MILF thing.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
If the crazy redhead MILF who was 20 years older than me hadn't been such a pain in the arse, I probably would have stuck with her and being the kind of guy I am, that would have meant through thick-and-thin. Because I broke up with her, about 5 years later she hit the wall super hard. Bridget Fonda hard and I marveled at how grateful I was she drove me away. I got a facebook friend request from her 5 years ago and quietly deleted it (my wife reads my feed).
Listen, it's mind-boggling how well off women are compared to us. She ONLY gets a few matches a week probably with a lousy profile. I put massive effort into mine and got largely bots. She COULD land fantastic men but she'd have to put in 1/2 of the effort we would so... of course that won't happen.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
No, not at all. What a disgusting idea.
We do not lean away from such women, we run from them.
The only women in their 40s and over who are worth anything are successful - meaning at that point in their lives they have been submissive housewives for over twenty years, have children from ONE husband, and constantly improve in their love for husband & children.
All the other women 40+ have squandered their 20s and 30s and have MMV of zero.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Yeah if she's anything other than a widow whose husband just died from no fault of his own or hers, and is single at that age and in want of a relationship....she's automatically a fuckup of some flavor.
First world women have NO excuses when it comes to failing to find and keep a man with all the advantages they are automatically born with in such a society. Fucking pig woman can get suitors.
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