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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
"After years of crappy choices with men"
Why cant she say it like it is?
"I only desire men that treat me like a worthless piece of shit. If I meet a man that treats me well, I tag him as low value and do not desire him. It's the ill treatment that gets me excited. This is leading to poor outcomes, but I am unable to break the cycle because that would require honest self reflection."
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
Here's another way of putting it that seems anathema to modern women: Just CHOOSE to do what's healthy for you even if it doesn't "feel" right. My wife just went to the gym. She doesn't "enjoy" the gym but she goes because she made a mental choice to do so. She didn't spend years of therapy trying to make it "feel "right.
Modern women have been raised to think that they're cats and should only do something when they "feel" like it.
Us men are told to "man up" as in accept adult responsibility for our decisions. We want to bawl our eyes out in front of people and lose their respect? Well, we know that's not always a good idea so we refrain from doing so. For all this talk from feminists "Men should be ok to express their feelings (provided it serves our interests)", that's BS. Today more than ever we live in a society that represses us and shows ZERO compassion towards us for our feelings. "Who hurt you? Tee hee!" We're told simply that if something isn't good for us, don't do it. Period. NOBODY cares about whether we don't want to do that or not.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
correct.
The reason why men are killing themselves at an alarming rate is because we are shamed for even having feelings.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I hope that dude is seeing some other woman, and that she's better than lil' Miss Can't-Make-Up-Her-Mind.
Then what's the problem, ya dingbat?
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago
In one of the forums a guy asked about offering commitment to a girl as a precondition of dating her. My response was that exclusivity should be roughly aligned with engagement.
If you're never going to marry then I fail to see why you'd offer exclusivity to any woman. If, however, a guy is looking for a wife (or open to the possibility), the time for that is when you get engaged. If you're sure that THIS woman is THE woman, then no further vetting is required and you might as well get on with it. If you're not sure yet, why would you want to preclude all other options?
That's why I get so exercised over allegations of "cheating" in relationships that are completely informal. Unless there's an explicit promise to refrain from seeing other people... seeing other people isn't cheating.
Just last week I read a woman categorize her boyfriend's dating another woman as adultery!
Can you imagine?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago
I read that one yesterday evening while in line at a store. I was the first upvote on your comment.
That post seems to be gone now that I have time to reply to it. *shrug*
Yet another example of women using words with no regard for what the words actually mean, but rather as a way to evoke emotions.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
It’s also historically unnatural to be in long, drawn out relationships with someone who isn’t your spouse. This has people all whacked out. If you date a woman who is 30 (not “old” in terms of life span or even that old in terms of having kids, but older in terms of starting a relationship that would lead to kids), it’s likely that she’s already lived with a man before you. 2+ in many cases. In my mind, that’s a woman who’s already been married, she simply didn’t formalize it.
So yeah, in her eyes, her boyfriend cheating is the same as a husband cheating. Because historically speaking, he’d already be a husband to her by now.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
30 is old in terms of having kids.
By the age of 30, 90% of a woman's eggs are gone. She is well past her breeding prime.
https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/health/news/7079641/Women-lose-90-per-cent-of-eggs-by-30.html#:~:text=It%20shows%20that%20on%20average,40%20just%20three%20per%20cent.
But apparently we're not allowed to say this out loud, because feminism.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
You’re not wrong, but it was common for women to still be pushing out kids at 30. It’s old to start having kids
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
There's the typical response to a man who criticizes modern women or expresses his concerns about the family courts and such: "Who hurt you? Tee hee." If a man is hurt by a woman, or even multiple women ("incel"), even if he was totally innocent, he was "weak" and had it coming to him.
If a man were to express even healthy signs of doubt or awkwardness, he'd be dismissed as "lacking self confidence" and she'd dry up in a second.
Not only that, but men who have spent years to gain their strength in a feminist-corporate society that does little to help them and made it to their 30's, as she observes, owe her absolutely nothing. "Experience has made me rich and now they're after me-ee".
This guy is in the prime of his life and she's doing everything she can to sabotage the relationship and there's absolutely nothing he should do to stop it. She's doing him a favor.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
As an aside, since women collectively still insist on putting the Burden of Performance as an unconditional default upon men, men who have become successful under that yoke are absolutely justified in regarding women as inferior. Because those women put themselves in that position by doing so.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I liken men to machines: As we become dependent upon cars and calculators, we sacrifice some of our physical and mental acuity to someone else in the name of convenience and comfort. Until a few years ago, when I went shopping I didn't trust the supermarket scanners because I know sometimes they didn't give me a discount so I ran a "tab" in my head: whenever I put an item in the cart, I'd add the value to the total and when I checked out, I usually was off only by a factor of about 2 percent or so. If something seemed off I'd ask the clerk to show me the full listing and ask for a correction. Now, I got a bit lazy in that at self scan I can see everything as I ring it up so I don't bother. I wonder how many young people have atrophied minds due to google and having a calculator everywhere they go.
Women for millennia have been, well, pets for men. We've spoiled the pet recently with a gynocentric society sort of like how facebook is full of pictures of cats. It's amusing how after supposed "liberation", women have doubled down on wanting more patriarchy and not less. More "protectors" and "providers" no matter how much more supposedly educated and "strong" they claim to be.
SwarmShawarma 1y ago
I use alarm clock with math problems: 48*29-479, now I can get them done mostly half asleep, so I have reduced time to solve them. Now standing at 30s, then new one appears. Then I need to solve 2 problems. Good fun before morning coffee.
MovinCruisin 1y ago
This is one of the things, that after realizing, will keep me redpilled for life. Women complain endlessly about the privileged men they desire and envy while completely overlooking the, like, 80% of normal dudes who are struggling and even insulting the weakest of these guys. All that talk about "feminism allows men to cry too" is straight up just virtue signaling like the American Psycho. In truth, women are ruthless to men they don't respect.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
I'm reminded of "jokes" by women about how men are such "babies" when we're home sick and how contemptuous they are of it: ""Honey, I don't feel well! Please bring me some soup!" Hahaha! So pathetic!" A man's home isn't just his "castle", it's his SANCTUARY, like Superman's "Fortress of Solitude". A place for him to recharge and relax.
So "Boss Babes" and "Successful women" who are looking for a man who "enjoys a challenge" and "isn't intimidated by a strong woman" think men should enjoy being shit tested when he most wants to relax.
MovinCruisin 1y ago
Watch boss babes stay single at 40, with the only guys to show interest be pump-and-dump Chads and complete simps, and ask: where are all the good men? No other type of man except these two will put up with her.
No self-respecting man wants to come home after a hard day of work to a nagging woman. I wonder, will they ever understand?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago
I'm sure she can find a man who'll be glad to have met her, and who'll be there for her for the rest of her life: a therapist.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
I have this feeling you're the kind of girl to get offended by men asking for your bodycount. But I'm sure you already have some rationalisation ready to reconcile your diatribe with how baggage should have no importance to your hypothetical future man.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
She should get a dog too. Then she can get him to come pet sit.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago
Biggest, and only, red flag you need to make a decision here.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Especially since she never says my crappy choices. Everything is stated passively with no personal accountability. Surprise, surprise, surprise.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago
And even if she did take ownership that they were her crappy choices....
...her past choices are her future choices too. No decent man is obligated to put himself in the path of a past and future trainwreck.
reignoferror00 1y ago
Nice wholesome fun and genuinely kind to you at first doesn't mean he also doesn't want physical affection and to get laid. If you're cold he's soon going to be searching for someone hot. He doesn't have time for stupid games no matter how you name of justify it.
"completely understand that he owes me nothing in this initial dating phase, but" Intellectualize it or cover it in psychobabble all you want: a "but" after the "completely understand" negates that part. Quit trying to say your offering a full course meal when all you offer is word salad.
Pick a lane. Put out or shut up. He doesn't want a friend unless possible it is a FWB with the benefits starting early.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago
Oh, but that's mutually-exclusive. His personality means he should have no hormones or libido or desires of his own. He should only enjoy being with her for the sake of being with her. He should be content with merely holding hands, or not even holding hands if that what the woman wants. He should love her and provide for her, even if she was only just a brain in a jar!
MovinCruisin 1y ago
At least then he wouldn't have to hear her talk.
DextroShade 1y ago
Unlike this woman, a fixer upper house can be worth a lot if you put in the work to fix it up.