Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
For the same reason you dont care about nice guys in your youth ma'am
You are old, you are supposed to have a house, car, etc. You are supposed to not be an abuser/cheater ..
If that is all what you have got going for you - then regrettably, you are not entitled for a "relationship"
Also, your "experience" of doing things to/with other's does not qualify.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Hell, if you have lengthy relationship experience with numerous men and no marriages to show for it, I’d argue that’s even worse. Clearly the course of her “experience”, she hasn’t learned “find a good guy and determine how I can keep him”
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
Men don't care
Men don't care.
Men barely care, if at all. And even then, mainly for logistics. It doesn't make you any more or less attractive.
Here's what matters:
Are you fat, or fit?
How well have you aged? I mean, even the rare actually hot 40-something woman will still have a harder time attracting men than she did in her 20s (unless she spent her 20s fat). If you haven't aged well, then men just aren't going to be attracted to you.
Are you saddled with kids?
Are you annoying and/or bitchy?
MovinCruisin 11mo ago
Woman try so hard to be men it's unreal. They literally don't notice how they turn themselves into something that won't be love and that cannot love! They grind so hard they reduce their own pool of men that they can look up to and thus fall in love with. Feminism is basically that stick-in-bike meme.
chunky 11mo ago
The average 40s woman is ~20 pounds heavier than the average 20s woman.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
Yes, on average, that's right.
Also on average, everyone is fucking fat.
There is a chance this woman is svelte. A slim chance, that is. *ba-dum-TSH*
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
Username checks out
Goingthedistance 11mo ago
I've seen enough 40 year old women that were total hotties. The fact that she has issues attracting men is a dead giveaway that she's either fat or full of wrinkles or both.
MovinCruisin 11mo ago
I feel like being a massive bitch is also a huge factor. If she has FWBs then she can't be all that ugly. If no one wants to commit to her there have to be more reasons for that than looks imo.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Or worse, she's hot enough to get fucked but too insufferable to be kept around.
You have to be a grade-A bitch for a man to give up a FWB situation.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
The things she claims makes her attractive are things the men she wants has already and deal breakers for a relationship if he doesn't, thus nullifying any dating utility of having those things.
I'd argue that it would be annoying being a taxi for a woman so her having her own transportation is a tremendous convenience if anything (unless she can easily obtain other arrangements). But as for whether it makes me want to fuck, not really
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago Stickied
You can't sell coffee at Starbucks. Too many women think "because I value these things, they must be what men value."
No.
Men value the things we cannot attain for ourselves. We have homes, cars, jobs, etc.. This is yet another example of a woman moving in the world as a man and expecting the dating outcomes of a woman.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
What’s funny is that every single other group of women seem to accept this, to an extent. You tell a woman from sub-Saharan Africa, Southeast Asia, Latin America, or even one from most of Europe (maybe not the UK) that your dating prospects decline with age, they may not like it, but they won’t disagree and won’t push back on the men for it. But these American women? They’ll often completely ignore it. It’s a strange arrogance
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 11mo ago
Being too coddled does that to you.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
I dated a few frumpy working class American women when I was starting out and it surprised me that they thought they were "powerful independent women" and gave me zilch credit that I had attained professional status. "I knew my worth" in that I had a lot to offer and they weren't being respectful of that so I either let things fizzle out or broke up with them (which one reacted to badly).
This is why in the states, perhaps, there's this plethora of impoverished single mothers and working class women struggling.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 11mo ago
This is marginal in the sense that she's not overtly complaining about jerks or seeking a bailout, but it's a weekend and it's Christmas and she's unhappy about the fact that all she can get are FWB arrangements, so I'm giving it the green light.
We don't have much detail to work with here, but what she admits to is plenty. Her last sentence about how she isn't a liar or a cheater indicates that she's been on the receiving end of those things. In other words, she tried to turn an f-boy into a husband, and he dumped her. Rather than learning from her mistakes she hopped back on the carousel for a few more spins, and now that she's on the wrong side of 40, none of the ponies want to be turned into her personal plow-puller.
Certainly no man of any value is going to be impressed that a middle-aged woman has a job, a car, and a place to sleep. Whoopty-freakin'-do: I had all that at 22. If anything, it means that she doesn't need a man to support her... she's free to be a booty call (which is exactly what happened).
This is one of the most hopeless cases we've seen here in a while. She doesn't even have the option of getting with a wealthy older man who's even moderately put-together. She has very limited choices now. She can go WAY "down market" and take whatever man she can get and learn to live with it, or she can continue to chase tingles until she finally becomes invisible even to dumpster-divers.
No-Stress-Cat 11mo ago
Ouch, that's harsh. *points and laughs at nothing*
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
Lurker, you're a gentlemen and a scholar, but I thought that this was pretty darn good but I think as you looked at it in more detail, you figured that out. Thanks for the green light and Merry Christmas.
What I found particularly amusing was the frustration and bitterness. When men express such sentiments after having precisely what she says she has, we get ZERO empathy. "Nobody owes you anything, tee hee!" She's experiencing what millions of men go through every day. As a hero in a great Christmas film put it: "Welcome to the party, Pal!"
chunky 11mo ago
In your 40s, a car, a job, and a place to live is called "normal adulthood".
Nothing to do with dateablity.
nicknack 11mo ago
If you’re in your late teens it’s the same
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 11mo ago
She might as well have said "Not only do I have a savings account, I'm also sexually active and can assemble IKEA furniture!"
It's absolute catnip for men, all of it. Every word out of her mouth, every half-baked thought, every queef from her groin is just scintillating.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
Missed opportunity for a terrible pun there
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
LotL, thank you and Merry Christmas.
Bob_and_Virginia Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Maybe try not swearing? Women who swear all the time is UNATTRACTIVE.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
One of the unifying themes of all of these posts is the stylistic way all of these women write about dating: as though dating is just something that happens TO them instead of something they participate in
In almost every post dating just happens to them; there is nothing they can do to fix their problems with their own agency (although at 40 there probably isn't short of extremely low standards). Shitty dating is written about like just some mystical force that sweeps through the land knocking down all these women's hopes and dreams
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
Just look at how often they use the phrase "didn't work out". Such passivity!
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
Lmao as if they pulled a slot machine lever and didn't win anything. Just happened to not yield anything, no contributing factors to reflect on
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
I fucking love your breakdowns
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 11mo ago
Thank you man, i appreciate that a lot, I love your breakdowns and analysis as well
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
So unless you are looking for a house husband or a 50/50 partnership, those are not selling points unless you are a man.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Not even that, we’re talking bread winning. My wife was talking to me earlier about some woman she knows, who got married and speed rushed a few kids with a younger man. That’s probably the most viable long term option for these women: a dude who contributes sperm and won’t bail once the kids arrive. Not sure what more that they could ask for at 40.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 11mo ago
Smart woman, your wife's acquaintance.
reignoferror00 11mo ago
FWB sounds ideal ... oh, you HAD them.
Carry on ... on your quest to up your lifestyle and find your retirement plan... oh, I mean find a "healthy relationship".