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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
"I really miss extravagant gifts from my ex"
Let that sink in.
Thats what she misses. Not the romance the extravagant gifts. I am guessing that her ex doesn't miss anything about her at all.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
I'm amused at their love of gifts. Are they teenagers? (Rhetorical question). Adulthood means that there are no free lunches. "Gifts" aren't delivered by Santa, it cost someone to make them but that's the point for them, isn't it? Like when they frown upon a man using coupons a date simply to make him spend more illustrating their utter contempt for us. Imagine if a man said:
"Yeah, my wife cleans the kitchen every week but she uses a power mop. I want a REAL woman who can do it on her hands and knees with a rag."
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 11mo ago
Yeah, and whats with the hoover and washing machine? I only want women that scrub by hand and bring the carpets outside for a beating.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
1) “the holidays” = likely an annoying progressive woman who would hand out “happy holidays” cards to her evangelical Christian cousins because she wants to be “inclusive”. You can all fill in the blanks on what other annoying traits she has
2) “statistically more likely to be happy unmarried and childless” - where does this even come from? Before it probably got buried by search algorithms, the only data I ever saw was that anxiety and depression medication use shot up for unmarried, childless women as they aged past around 45.
3) welcome to the end game of third wave feminism. She’s already sad about not being able to cling onto the kids of her sister or friends. She’s already witnessing nothing but death around her. That’s what she has to look forward to, a bunch of “Friendsgivings” with a group of people whose numbers will progressively dwindle. Until it’s her turn to kick the bucket. Enjoy!
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 12mo ago Stickied
I wouldn't go so far as to think that; it's a very common turn of phrase. It doesn't make a lot of sense for me to say "Merry Christmas" to my Jewish friends or hand out "Happy Hanukah" cards to my Japanese acquaintances. But it does make sense to say "Happy Holidays" to a mixed audience, that being the term which would bother the fewest number of people. It's not virtue signaling so much as simply acknowledging the fact that not everyone that you speak to is doing your particular Festivus.
If it makes you feel better, I had some Muslim acquaintances send me a "Merry Christmas," which was thoughtful of them.
Aox1993 12mo ago
There's nothing worse than a woman with a moralistic superiority complex, otherwise known as "woke" Also isn't it over 50% of all unmarried women on depression medication or something? Yeah no kidding the search engines really buried anything remotely disparaging about women hard
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
I’m not familiar with the statistics on female happiness in regards to age. That said, I don’t doubt that most single childless women IN THEIR 20s report being happier. They aren’t saddled with the responsibilities that come with having a young family. I would bet my house that the statistics flip starting in the mid-30s and beyond, where loyal family women that did the hard work while younger start to reap the rewards that come with having older children and stable marriages. Which is to say nothing about the joys of becoming a grandparent and watching your adult kids take on life.
Taking on meaning through responsibility in life is hard, the rewards come later, if they come at all. Happiness is fleeting and dependent on external circumstances that are often beyond your control. Living a life of meaning is forever, and will ground you during the storms of your life.
Of course none of this matters to Spinderella, it’s all about what she wants RIGHT NOW.
Also, let’s not forget that many women love to lie and live in delusion about the consequences of their choices.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 12mo ago
She's probably referring to studies such as this headline: "Women are happier without children or a spouse, says happiness expert" It's hilarious that the women smiling in the photo are the most massive train wrecks of humanity imaginable.
The challenge to defining "happiness" for women is that women live in a continuous delusional, hamster-wheel state where they love to complain and look for reasons to NOT be happy while if they actually have something to occupy their life, such as having to work a menial job, look after kids, and live life like a man, they have less energy left over to make up reasons to be miserable.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
But do such headlines / studies really exist? And do they apply to women of all ages or just those in their 20s?
It sounds like cope from someone who both wants to be happy and is seemingly trying to come to terms with the likelihood of being single and childless due to having too high standards and/or potentially running out of time for kids
Aox1993 12mo ago
Personally I'd go as far to say this is pushed out by individuals or agencies that actively benefit from women being single/unmarried financially, but hey couldn't be me being a conspiracy theorist right? slowly puts on tin foil hat
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
The whole "women are happier single and alone" thing is just massive copium that rears its head around the holidays. TikTok is full of this bullshit narrative.
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
Ah so that is where she might have got it from. Because I don’t believe there are legit studies saying this
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
I think there's one cherry-picked 'study' that some refer to, but if you read it closely it contradicts their claim that single women are happier.
Its just like the 'wage disparity' myth that feminutz like to perpetuate - they never mention that the reason women earn less overall is because they prioritize their own time over jobs generally, so work less hours overall. This results in earning less. But no, its because "TEH PATRIARCHEEEEE" or some shit.
Sometimes, it gets really tiring trying to push back on this bullshit, but there it is.
Aox1993 12mo ago
Once feminism has nothing to fight against similar to socialism or really just leftists in general they lose their purpose to exist, so there always has to be a target
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 12mo ago
You could still ship gifts to your family, and maybe a few close friends.
Oh. I see. You love gift giving, as long as you're not the one doing the giving part. I wonder if this kind of selfish behaviour extends to other parts of your life... Nah, I'm probably mistaken. Otherwise, you wouldn't have a "vibrant social life".
SwarmShawarma 12mo ago
I believe orphanages still exist
inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 12mo ago
Some people like seeing the reactions of people. There have been a few rare occasions where I have nailed it with gifts that I’ve actually thought of rather than just asking what people want - which you kind of have to do after gifts at least twice, sometimes three times a year for key people for many years. It’s a great feeling.
I’d have been prepared to use that charitable explanation were it not for the line about the ex.
The bit that really gets me about that is not the word “extravagant” but the word “actually”. The fake naive schtick some women seem to do - “well gosh golly would you know it, I’m ACTUALLY surprised I miss being treated well”. As if it’s a shock or surprise. Do me a favour.
It’s got a very similar energy to the women who answer the “I’m weirdly attracted to…” Hinge prompt with something to the effect of “Tall, Doninant men”, “Tall, Dark and Handsome”, “A strong jawline” etc. Lady is says “WEIRDLY” attracted to. That doesn’t mean you list what 90%+ women want
“Oh isn’t is just so WEIRD that I’m really into the same type of looks and physical attributes in a guys as EVERY other woman on this app. That’s so WEIRD isn’t it?!”. No. It isn’t
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 11mo ago
I think the "weird" thing is the hamster-wheel rationalization/justification in their minds for their double standards and also why they have long lists to bury their shallowness. "I want a man who goes to church each Sunday, likes French toast, etc. oh, and is tall and rich!" It's a paper chase. I posted about a woman who finally admitted at the bottom of the comments that she's shallow and old and therefore unlikely to find someone which is at least her coming to grips with the personal consequences of her decisions and even then, she says she "can't" have sex with someone she regards as unattractive.
EurasianChad 12mo ago
Women = more influenced by social environment/care what others think.
Probably saw her sister & friends posting about relationships and shit, then got jealous. Hence the need to cope & ask for support.
Cry me a river
reignoferror00 12mo ago
"... deal with ex ruining Christmas as he did many times in the past" Ah, so she was with a guy for several years. Wonder what the story for that was, or at least her spin on it. Everyone gather round for a tale less plausible than elves making toys at the North Pole and flying reindeer. I guess her therapist is the lucky one that gets to hear that work of fiction..
"I actually really miss extravagant gifts from my ex" Shocker. I guess him "ruining Christmas" isn't that big of a deal when a big prize was attached. At least some honesty slipped through here.
SwarmShawarma 12mo ago
somehow folks missed that bad boy
No-Stress-Cat 12mo ago
According to Feminist statistics, sweet cheeks, but your biology is telling you otherwise.
Sister with a husband who can take the family to Europe and wonderful lovely children is what your FOMO is nagging at you about.
Perhaps you should have gone the wife route instead of the whore route.
Okay. We get it. You miss being some pimp's whore.
Aox1993 12mo ago
Where exactly are women getting this happier when single and unmarried statistic from? I'm guessing it's some self reported lethal doses of copium from women that have just got divorced and robbed the man for half his stuff? Can see why they'd be happy then. I'm sure clinical psychological studies have said otherwise
orbilius 12mo ago
I don't have the study handy, but I've seen it posted on PPD and FDS. It's the same flawed reasoning that leads to people claiming that married men live longer.
Basically, if you take a snapshot of married vs. unmarried people, and you base your study on that, then what you're actually getting is survivorship bias - that is to say, your population of married people are the people whose marriages have lasted (plus those that haven't yet failed). Your population of "unmarried" people includes people that never married (the woman in the OP) ...but also includes people who married and then got divorced.
In the case of men, "married men" live longer because the actual populations you're studying are (population A) men in successful marriages vs. (population B) men who endured divorce-rape, parental alienation, possibly jail time ...plus incels.
OF COURSE population A lives longer!!
For women, population A includes successful marriages, that's true, but also includes all the women who had their "party phase" and got fucked by professional athletes and rock stars and now they secretly hate their husband because they actually think they should have/could have married the alpha that pumped/dumped them. So, they're not happy.
And population B includes a lot of women still on the carousel, still haven't had the epiphany, still telling themselves that "when I'm ready, I'll marry any one of these men who I hook up with"
So sure, population B is likely happier.
Note also that a lot of women in population B initiated their divorce and so have an enormous incentive to claim to be happier. "If I admit that I'm not happy, that means I made a mistake by torpedoing my marriage"