Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
DextroShade
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
Rules for submission:
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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chunky 10mo ago
The BF needs a shotgun, and should blow the ex-con away if he comes to the house. The dead guys record would let him claim that he was threatened and had to shoot to protect himself.
Ironically, such violence would excite the 304. But she is for the streets. Use her to get mate choice copying, and then ditch her for a better one.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
From the title alone you know she already made up her mind.
She just wants some validation to not feel like a TOTAL slut, even though she is one.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
I'm glad someone else caught that. This slut isn't looking for advice, she's looking for plausible deniability.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Yup. "Help me not feel bad about a decision that I've already made."
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
She’s not even a slut. She like criminals, she’s basically a sociopath who gets off on hurting others or getting off for those who hurt others.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
You wouldn't believe what women will do for a convict.
I read a story where two women were fucking the same dude, and they got into trouble trying to do some hair-brained scheme to get him sprung before his sentence was done.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 10mo ago
This is so stupid I don't even know what to say. My brain is lagging.
In a couple of months she'll be complaining that her new ex dumped her for being a slut and sleeping with old ex, the old ex will want nothing with her except to get his oil changed from time to time, she'll be complaining that the inmate ex won't commit to her, she'll surprisingly get pregntant to try to get him to commit to her, he'll bail, she'll try crawling back to the nice ex (who'll hopefully be in another country altogether), and then we'll see her Tinder profile with a "my baby is my world". When people wish they could go back in time and undo their fuck ups in life, this is the point to which they wish they could go back.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
It’s the “Sexy Son” Hypothesis, Mr. Big Dick can sire her baby and the nice guy can raise them. If she associated with the criminal, that’s all you need to know.
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
Seen this movie play out before have you?lol
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Shit it's in the Saturday matinee every god damn week in some areas.
And then they get on social media and hookup apps to e-beg for handouts and attention. It's fucking pathetic.
Mundane_Worldliness7 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
And before anyone questions the veracity of this, I actually know of such a case where a woman was actively dating guys to raise money to get bail for her boyfriend in jail. In addition, there’s an episode of the show “Unsolved Mysteries” where a girl duped and killed a guy to get bail money for her boyfriend. So yes, guys can have such a hold on chicks that cannot be broken by imprisonment, indeed, it can often be enhanced. In general, if a woman associated with criminal such that she dated one, she’s expressing something of her character, you should avoid.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
When I hear women complain about how chivalry is dead, I imagine that many of them were like this in their youngest/hottest years.
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Lamo so women really do prefer big dicks
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
Gotta have one so it’ll fit in their hallway sized vagina
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
Some do. Some run screaming. Most just get really nervous and giggly because they don't know how to react, having never seen one in-person before, and they aren't sure whether it'll hurt to have sex.
I've never had a problem talking a woman down from her trepidation after our clothes come off the first time but I do have to talk them down. Every time.
I don't know about you but I can't say as I've ever met anyone had to be convinced or reassured in doing something they prefer doing.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
This is the takeaway you get from this? You're missing the forest for the trees.
First, this woman is damaged. If this is the kind you want, then go nuts.
Second, nobody ever says that women don't like big dicks (in fact, some don't. I've had a woman say "that's not going to fit" - it's generally a matter of personal preference). It's just not the thing that attracts them. As another user pointed out, women don't want to see your dick until they decide that they want to fuck you. Plenty of dudes with above average dicks who get an average amount of pussy.
Your fixation on this makes it sound like you have a small dick which, by itself, isn't anything to be ashamed of but when taken in conjunction with your other hangups paints a picture about you.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
Of course that's his takeaway. It's the one fixed detail upon which he can fixate and further convince himself his lack of success with women is entirely out of his control.
nicknack 10mo ago
As someone with a big one I absolutely thing they do. Especially for things like getting head and handjobs on the regular because a big one is more exciting / further away from your body / crotch.
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Yeah like I’ve never heard or seen anything that suggests otherwise. Like there’s women always talk about dudes with big dicks as if they’re gods, how they love being able to take on deepthroat big dicks, gleefully talk about being sore, etc. Plus they definitely make sure to note if a dude has a large bulge or a dick print in sweats. I don’t have a micro penis, my shits like a little over 6 inches. Considering my dad was black its disappointing though…
nicknack 10mo ago
Hey man there are many more important things. Your face, status and money. Height somewhat too. Also being have black at least your junk isn’t pink which I’ve heard multiple women complain about before
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
It's a myth that black men have bigger dicks and it's a myth founded in racism and fetishizing black men.
Acela_nextel 10mo ago
Bro I’ve seen it plenty of interracial porn to know that there’s truth to the myth.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
I hate that I have to explain this to you, but I will:
Pornography is not real.
You are, ironically, making the case for why men need to abandon pornography - it presents a fake image of sexuality that most men should not emulate. It forms detrimental habits and creates expectations that women cannot meet as well.
In this specific example, you need to stop and ask yourself "Are they going to cast average men when they are trying to sell a fantasy of big dick black bucks fucking white women?" Much in the same way they don't cast average-looking women for porn, they aren't going to cast men with average penises. Moreover, interracial porn exacerbates this because they have to cater to a specific stereotype about black men - that we all have huge dicks.
You really need to touch grass my guy.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
My experience is exactly the opposite, at least with respect to oral. I've never had a blowjob really blew my mind - not because of a lack of enthusiasm on the woman's part, but because most of 'em simply can't physically get their mouth around more than an inch or two below the head. Taking me all the way is simply out of the question. I don't find gagging arousing and have zero interest in cleaning vomit off my sheets and/or dick.
nicknack 10mo ago
Are you dating girls that are like under 5’3 or is your junk like pringles can thick? I’m a bit over 8 inches and very thick too, and yes blowjobs with small girls can be difficult, I mostly date 5’5-5’11 girls. It’s just my type, the long slim type.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
I'm 5'8" so tall girls aren't really an option for me. Not saying I can't land one but doing so is generally far more effort than it's worth.
nicknack 10mo ago
Yeah i get it but that makes sense why their mouths all small then.
Justanaverageguy 10mo ago
Why do you never hear men say “waiting on my convict ex wife to get out of jail and come see me! Can’t wait!”?
Pic889 10mo ago
It can happen, but only if the woman has managed to otherwise demonstrate high-quality traits despite the fact she is in jail or she is there for no fault of her own. But no man would say "Waiting on my convict ex-wife to get out of jail and come see me because her tits are big! Can’t wait!".
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Yeah big titty jailbird is a porn genre at best for men, not a relationship goal.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 10mo ago
Gentleman, it's time for another episode of "Red Pill Truths!™"
Red Pill Truth: the type of men she chooses when she has options are the type of men she prefers.
Do not let a woman's situation-influenced decision making fool you. She'll take you when her options or situation demand it, but she'll cheat in a second when the kind of man she wants gives her an opportunity.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
Yup. Her past choices are her future choices.
And it's their fault it is that way. Shouldn't have gotten on the slut train to Thottown if they wanted to end up at Wifeville.
nicknack 10mo ago
10 years ago now I started dating a girl at my work and a month or two in she told me her ex boyfriend is getting out of jail after many years. Lo and behold the day he got out he went straight to her house and insisted on seeing her, and “it wasn’t her fault but it just happened he was so persistent”. Luckily I really didn’t care about her, at all.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 10mo ago
I love that first response :) looks like red pill is spreading.
DextroShade 10mo ago
Modern women love thugs and other dangerous criminals which is why convicted serial killers are inundated with love letters from women. If I were dating these days I would lead with stories about the criminal exploits of my youth that I never got caught for.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 10mo ago
FTFY.
None of this is new. Women have always loved dangerous men. The difference, historically, is there were social and familial controls in place to prevent most of them acting on that attraction and ruining their own lives.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 10mo ago
There was a guy who posted to a dating reddit that he was getting nexted by women on dates who weren't immediately attracted to him as he tried to then try to up his beta game by trying to follow the women's change-of-topic without success.
I tried to reach out to him by chat but he didn't respond to give him some advice that he needed to neg them down AND throw out a red-herring to their story such as: "Well, beta male, I really like this new series on netflix which is blah blah blah" and instead of trying to follow her, say something such as "Well, I don't watch netflix because I watch the latest and best foreign films via Kodi streaming and VPN the day they hit the theaters". I overdid my badboyness when I was young and at times that scared them off so it was like finding that middle ground. Badboy charm beats expensive dates any day of the week.
No-Stress-Cat 10mo ago
When I drove for Uber, one of my passengers was on the phone with a friend of hers talking about her grandmother scolding her for fucking some other guy while her boyfriend was in jail. She said she didn't want to break up with her boyfriend because she wanted him to have something to come home to when he got out.
At least that was her hamster's rationale. Reality is that she didn't want to become murder victim #2, but even the thought of getting beat to death wasn't going to deter her from being a slut.
These chicks are seriously damaged.