She's got a body like cheese fondue.

She does NOT go to the gym 5 days a week unless she uses it as an excuse to consume 5000 calories a day.

5 days a week at the gym

and she looks like a fucking landwhale? and she likely knows she needs to go and doesn't have the will to take herself there. She probably doesn't train, she's just there because they have great "healthy shakes and tasty snacks." Free pizza days too. it's the GYM... Gyros, Yeeros, Moussaka

To be honest, I am positively surprised by her post. Sure, at first it reads like a wish list in full delusion, but at the end it comes off as a genuine question. Hope someone helped her, by giving some honest responds about her looks. And she even implies going to the gym, for sure not 5 times a week as she claims, but at least if you show her how done properly. I'm sure she would lose weight asap. The only issue I see is her age, kinda late to wake up. This woman is so deep in her cope delusions I doubt she's never gonna change. you can't fix a problem you're not willing to accept even exists.

watch Netflix MAJOR plus if he likes Sci-fi beer

This describes 99% of nerdy dudes on dating apps - which she absolutely uses, being A) female and B) into nerd shit makes you a bugzapper on dating apps easily, she's guaranteed to have swiped-over her ideal boyfriend hundreds of times. She doesn't want anyone even remotely into these things the way said nerdy dudes imagine, she wants someone that'll watch Stranger Things endlessly, nu-Star Wars and Dune (until she falls asleep), and shandies that are primarily sugar. Here's where she gives herself away

Will work out with me at the gym 5 days a week

and will also eat any dessert I make

Translation:

I want a swole chaser who consistently goes to the gym, and will watch me fuck around on the bike and elliptical, with a metabolism that allows him to eat the Marie Calendars pie I painstakingly warmed-up after he bought Benihana for dinner

She 100% posted this on Reddit in hopes a chaser from r/BBW hits her up

fit-thick

Do they really think their labels will deceive our eyes?

She is nowhere near fitting any definition of "fit" at her current body. Wearing gym clothes that look like they are about to burst at the seams doesn't make her any more fit

Based off her feet and bone structure she’d be a baddy if she was 150+ pounds lighter. What a shame . Now she’s just a fat nasty pig nobody wants.

American women look around at all the other ugly fatties and think they are fit. You’re not a fit and attractive until you can stand in Moscow and fit in. Your local Walmart is not it, unless you’re trying to date the welcome greeter, if he’ll give you the time of day

fit

No you aren't!

make good money

We don't care.

loves my confidence

Ok, that's a positive, if the confidence is a) deserved, and b) doesn't become overconfidence.

and career

we don't care!

but is not made insecure by it

Ugh. Every time a woman accuses a man of being "insecure" or "intimidated" or "threatened", she's trying to manipulate him. A man's displeasure at certain traits possessed by women stems from instinctual revulsion, and instinctual apprehension that the future with her is doomed before things even really start.

1) I commend her for being willing to post her body in a revealing but non-sexed up way and open herself up for criticism. But that doesn’t change the fact that I’d never consider a woman that looks like this “fit”. She’s got FUPA for days. I’m not sure what routine she’s on, but she should probably consider shifting to more cardio and focusing on caloric deficits + protein. Given her height, she could easily be at 200+ lbs; throw down 30-45 minutes a day of steep incline treadmill walking and focus on less calorie dense foods and the pounds could melt off.

2) men aren’t intimidated by a woman’s career. Men who say they are, are either A) lying and letting a woman down easily or B) hugely insecure in general and probably not someone she’d want to be with anyway.

3) Kevin samuels used to harp on it, so I will too. There’s no such thing as conditional femininity. You don’t just get to turn on the soft, affectionate woman thing, it’s a part of your personality. Your personality is masculine and you’re simply seeking someone more dominant than you to metaphorically slap you back into line. Put it this way: if I were lazy and unmotivated, and soft to a point where people questioned if I even liked women, and I said “soft enough so that I can lead because I know she knows I’m the boss”, I would either get called an incel, a misogynist, get laughed at, or a combo of the three. Being an attractive man is a lived experience, and so is being an attractive woman. We don’t just decide to be the person that someone we’re interested in would like us to be.

Must have a pig fetish, but not be into actual bestiality.

Fucking delusional. I mean, god damn, her gunt sticks out as far as her tits and that's gross no matter how it is interpreted. You'd need a crowbar and cargo straps to hold back the fat rolls on her ass during even doggystyle.

What she needs to realize is that men as a general rule are not into bodies that resemble and smell like fermenting bread dough, outside of a few depraved fetishists among billions.

And most of even those are not going to want to be seen in public with her. For 99+% of men, crippling loneliness and one night stands with Pamela Handerson are a more satisfying option than she ever would be in this state.

A Gym bro would have a higher probability of being completely homosexual than ever finding her attractive.

Read her headline. She’s 31 and can’t goddamn spell “particular”. Learn to spell check, dummy.

How can I attract you

At least she's asking the right question, but any man who tells her the first step (stop being fat) will get ignored.

Women like this are a waste of time, you can't save them.

Edit: this is a key example of what happens when you put your efforts into the things that the other sex doesn't find valuable. She neglected the things men want in favor of the things she valued and now she's wanting men to change their preferences to accommodate her. The equivalent would be if a man skipped physical fitness and resource acquisition in favor of developing his emotional availability and designer bag collection - cool for you, but no woman gives a fuck.

to everyone wondering why on earth a woman would post such 'honest' pictures of herself, showing us that she is fat.

The answer is....these photos are from 3 years ago, when she was 50 to 100 pounds lighter. I bet you 10 to 1 that if you responded to her on OLD, the woman you see arrive at your date would not be the one you see in these pictures.

Just so people know - this post is 8 years old. 8. So before the pandemic forced most of the world online and the app and memeification of “dating” started