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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Complaining about jerks

Future leftover woman laments on misadventures with dark-triad psychos; then goes on a rant against ALL men
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TRPDuryodhana

Posted 1y ago in Complaining about jerks - Permalink - Locked - 4.1K Views



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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The thing that is noteworthy here is that this woman is in India. They have been behaving 'western' for about 5 minutes, and they have already run into the buffers. Indian women wanted modernity, and 5 minutes after they get it, they are complaining that men aren't 'traditional' any more.

To any bros contemplating going the passport route - read this and readjust your strategy. The moment women come into contact with modernity, its the same result all over the world. The alarming thing is just how rapidly feminism and DMS spreads. If they have the internet, they are toast.

PS. when she says 'there is no progress in being a degenerate human' she is talking about men, she wants men to traditional and wife her up, but she wants to be degenerate.

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TRPDuryodhana 1y ago

In India (and other developing countries cases), what's interesting is that we have the degeneration of modernity, along with a fledgling economy.

So while the US govt (and probably other EU countries as well?) can subsidize this hoeflation from taxpayer's money, no such thing can happen in India's case. This leaves women like these literally for the streets or they just become a dead weight to their families.

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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yup. Most likely her parents will have to carry her.

I used to think that Indian parents that were ashamed to have a daughter aged over 27 and not married were a bit OTT. Now I see what they were on about.

It IS shameful to have a daughter that is nearly 30 and still at unmarried. It means you failed as a parent.

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TRPDuryodhana 1y ago

I forgot the third option: she can also probably just divorce-rape some guy who's unaware of trp and ends up marrying her. I'm seeing this more and more in my relatives.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

When will women learn?

Men become the kind of men they reward.

If women rewarded honest men, men would be honest. If women rewarded hard working men, men would work hard.

But what do women, when given free rein, choose? We know what they choose and now we've entered into a time where those consequences are bearing out.

Sucks for them

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

none of these men have any moral values.

Who is choosing these men?

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

Yup, it's basically her confession that she's been messing around with fuckboys exclusively.

And a warning for any decent man feeling a Save-A-Ho impulse: Her past is also her future. She just showed you of preview of the sort of man she is either going to leave you for, or cheat on you with, should you be be foolish enough to involve yourself with her. Or worse, resents and mistreats you for not being that kind of man even if she stays nominally "loyal", condemning you to sexless misery.

There is literally no happy ending with that sort of woman. Don't even try.

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Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

If a woman truly values good morals in a man, she should avoid fuckboys and player types as they learnt that amoral boy boys get laid while moral good guys generally don't.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Moral guys can get laid, but it’s like modding a Souls game because you found it too easy.

You could just enable God mode and treat them like subhumans, apparently that’ll get you laid by the end of the first date.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

The reason young men are not like their grandfathers is because young women are not like their grandmothers.

You get more of what you reward and less of what you punish.

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The joker meme fits here - you get what you fucking deserve

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

You get more of what you reward and less of what you punish.

Aaron Clarey goes into that here

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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

There was a TV sitcom back in the 1970's "All in the Family" where a strawman bigot "Archie" (played by a liberal actor) argued politics with his "meathead" liberal son-in-law mooching off of him. The South Park character "Cartman" is based upon Archie.

There was a memorable exchange between Archie and meathead where Archie said: "Why do you constantly remind me it's 1973?" and meathead responded: "Because you think you're still in 1952."

Now, we see that women want to get into a Dr. Who TARDIS time machine whenever personal responsibility rears its ugly head. Men are reminded today "Women don't owe you ANYTHING!" and these women are discovering that men increasingly are returning the favor. Feminists wanted a "laissez faire" society of every man, so to speak, for himself? Well, they're (slowly) getting it good and hard.

Of course, this woman defines "average" men as the ones she's interested in because to women, "alpha male" is "average" while non-alphas aren't technically "men" or human beings.

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Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 1y ago

26F

So, with how many men have you slept? Only two, right? Both of them in LTR with the intent of marriage, right? And only after a monogamous relationship was stablished, right?

... Right?

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

They play Ho Games and are shocked when they win Ho Prizes.

Who could have predicted that happening to them?

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adam-l TRP Endorsed 1y ago

LoL they killed traditionalism (shat on its dead and rotting corspe, too) and now they revere it. Nah, we'll let it lay there dead, why hassle when sex can be got cheaper?

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The galling thing about stories like this is how women punish all men for the actions of a few. And nearly always the few they chose and chose to reward despite their bad behaviour.

It wouldn’t be great anyway but far more people would grit their teeth and accept women going for these men if they could then clearly distinguish the difference and not punish others for it

I’ve been asked more than once (but not often enough for my liking) whether or not I really had a secret partner and/or family as I seemed “too good to be true”. Note: by women who all either ended up dumping me or never letting me get to that position in the first place. I used to just take that as a sort of compliment. For some reason it has only just hit me that every woman who has said that has either been directly burnt by such a scenario or know someone who has. Taken in by someone out of their league who just wasn’t available to them. I’m thinking specifically of three women and am still struggling to see two of them having been lead on all the way into bed in such a scenario. But I guess this could be me being woefully naive (still). But why would guys give the game away before that?

I guess they could have just been sucked into narratives about that sort of thing happening a lot even when it is really rare in the real world

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inevitableowl1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

The sub this came from is surprisingly based. No mass downvoting of replies with red pill messages in. I guess Indians are getting fed up like everyone

I particularly liked the person who played the “reverse the genders” game I like to play. I tried that with a different account on a more general Reddit thread the other day and got some baffling push back. People were claiming the girl dodged a bullet after the girl freaked out that her request to be exclusive with a guy who she’d been friends with even though they’d both dated others in that year and never done anything physical or had a discussion about it. She just assumed because they’d hung out as friends a lot that he owed her a relationship

(The guy had basically friend zoned her after seeing her publicly state on social media her preference for men over 6ft. Which is why the knives came out for him I think)

But I tried telling people that if you played “reverse the genders” people would STILL be saying the woman dodged the bullet. Even more so most likely. Dodged from a crazy incel is what people would say. It was wild how anyone pushed back on that and some came up with bonkers false equivalencies

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Almost anything bloopies say about incels is nonsense, but is true about inspins. Even when you point out that an inspin is doing exactly what they criticize incels for doing (often falsely), most of them won’t see what’s right in front of their faces. Holding women to the same standards as men is so utterly foreign to most people that they can’t even begin to process it.

You see that Every. Single. Time. you reverse the sexes. A few years ago I ran across a mostly-female blog wherein there was a story about some lazy cow of a woman who admitted that she didn’t do much around the house because she felt overwhelmed by basic 21st Century adulting. (She was a SAHM with one toddler). She was angry that her husband didn’t just do everything around the house when he got home from working his 10-hour shifts. I called her out for being lazy and entitled, and the hive pounced (because women apparently have no agency). So I waited until a huge number of them went apoplectic, then I pointed out that there was a story on the same blog, one day earlier in which a woman said that her daughter’s boyfriend was a monster (that was the actual word she used), because he wasn’t doing what she thought was his fair share. She even admitted that he had received a formal diagnosis from a medical doctor that he was unable to work. The writer and the commenters treated that as a character flaw that warranted slamming him. The hive had no hesitation about calling the guy lazy and entitled, and said that he was just using the girl.

I gleefully pointed out their blatant hypocrisy, but not one of them acknowledged it. Women can never be treated like adults except when it benefits them. There’s a reason why feminists are quick to say that they want equal rights, but you’ll die of old age waiting for them to demand equal responsibilities.

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Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Well, the lovely point we are reaching is one where men are simply not cooperating with insanity. Bloopies are diminishing in number and being red pilled is shifting from being an outlier to being trendy.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

What is a "real man"?

Obviously, the place we should be looking for the answer to this question is women.

Any time a woman uses that phrase, immediately trot out the phrase "real woman" and watch them get all confused. Ask them to define what a real woman is. If they can't do that, or even agree with any other woman, what business do they have telling me what a man should be like?

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