The problem with the "Type A" "alpha female" wanting to have a man who is the alpha male leader she wants is that this type of man is not going to want a woman such as herself. Rather, he is going to be looking for the type of woman who is more submissive and willing to be led from the start.

Sorry "alpha females," men are not the ones who glorify the so called "power couples," it is women like you who fail to understand that men do not want to have a woman who is also trying to be a leader herself but wants to contradict things by having a man who is so much of a leader himself he tames her to follow him. For the man, this is a whole lot of extra work for less benefit, as you know this woman will be constantly forcing the man to live with this inconsistent behavior, where she will likely pull out the "alpha female" card when convenient and the "you are the man so you should be leading" card when convenient.

Modern women have a unique ability to self sabotage more than anyone else.

So she wants to turn off her Alpha-mode huh?

Maybe she can get into BDSM and find herself a Leather Daddy to dominate her.

I find it amusing that women sold the feminutz lie all just want to not think, and be led.

At the same time, they'll have 'standards' that weeds out a majority of men that would be willing.

Welcome to the decline, all of you delusional bints are getting exactly what you deserve.

These, the ones with 'alpha tendencies', are the ones which end up with criminals and drug dealers. Then cry about black eyes and eventually WAATGM.

Yeah… good luck with that. First of all, women should never use the word “alpha” to describe themselves. It’s cringy enough when men do it, but it’s exponentially worse coming from women.

It’s not “alpha”… it’s just bitchy, and no self-respecting man wants to deal with it. If she understood that she was just another garden-variety bitch, at least she could work on improving that about herself, but she honestly thinks that men like that (or at least don’t mind).

So few people understand the first thing about leadership. Any relationship has a hierarchy, and it doesn’t work if one person can switch off-and-on at will. Leadership implies both authority and responsibility, and nobody is a leader without a follower. Followers don’t get to choose when to follow and when to assume the leadership role.

Aside from that, she will demand to lead whenever she wants her way, and will only submit either 1) when she has no preference, and/or 2) when she doesn’t want to be responsible for the outcome of a decision.

I think when women talk about wanting strong men to be leaders, they imagine the leadership paradigm common in business today. Supportive, charismatic, nurturing, motivating, and helping the people following them to "be the best they can be."

Stuff that sells books, courses, and mentoring programs.

When men think of leadership, many of them imagine military leaders of the past. "Follow my orders. See to your responsibilities. If you run into problems, figure it out."

Women see things differently than men. That's why they seem delusional. They're speaking a different language with an entirely different set of expectations.

Sounds like she became the man she wanted. What she doesn't understand is that the more masculine a man is the more feminine he wants his woman to be. We don't want a woman who is only slightly less masculine than we are.

Boo hoo, [List of normal man responsibilities] is exhausting!

Gee, I wonder why. Could it be that YOU'RE A FRIGGIN WOMAN??

You can never get what you want, because:

• You don't know what you want
• You would change your mind if you got what you say you want
• You're a delusional woman who can't keep a man

The minute a "strong man" tried to tell you to do anything you'd have a hissy fit.

Tell you what, get in the kitchen and make some pasta, maybe you can manage that. Start there, then we'll talk about your miserable, pointless life as a failure of a woman.

Modern woman logic 101: weak men give her the ick, but strong and capable men still need to respect her strength.

Pro tip: if a man is a strong leader, then he doesn’t want to get challenged by a person who is supposed to be deferring to him constantly.

It's so easy to read between the lines when women write. She says that it is 'exhausting' to work and keep a home. So what she wants is a solution.

The solution she is looking for is a man that will do the work and keep her home. But,,,the man will have to be subservient to her, obviously, because women like her can never go back from being boss babes.

Basically this woman has transitioned from being a woman to being a man.

So why oh why is she still looking for a man? She is clearly a SIW and utterly 'amazing', so why doesn't she just enjoy all her amazingness on her own?

My advice to this sista is never settle girl, men are so useless and crap, and you are so beautiful and amazing, so just don't bring yourself down with some useless man, ok sis?