Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Land_of_the_losers
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Betrand Russel says "We are all born insane...some remain that way"
Its a fantastic observation. He is saying that logic and reason have to be learnt. Logic and reason are the tools we use to defeat insanity.
But with women, society always gives them the free pass. We allow them to remain child like their entire lives. We don't expect them to be logical or reasonable. If they look ok, we clap our hands and shower them with praise as if they had achieved greatness. We celebrate their journeys, value and respect them just because they can tie their shoe laces.
And they never grow up. This woman was born insane, and she is still insane at the age of 42, because she never grew up. The odds are that she will go to her grave as a child, as mad as a fish.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
This post is just evidence of how insane women are. The only way women get to live in some sort of sanity is if they are under the guidance and control of a loving man. When they are young that would be the father, and as they reach adulthood, that would be the husband.
Women on their own always go insane. Or I should say, women under the guardianship of a man can learn to reign in their insanity if they allow the man to guide, lead and rule them. They are insane, but they have a carer, so they can have a normal sort of life.
Women on their own always tend toward chaos and disorder.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 8mo ago
It is amazing how all of these women seem to always marry abusive men, it's like women should not choose their own men, crikey when I become so sexist?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 8mo ago
I like how everything in society is unfairly arrayed against her. The courts, quack psychologists who lie in the courts, her mom, the insurance, her former employers, domain-name speculators who outwitted her own speculation... Diabolical. Simply diabolical.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
It's a plot! They hide in plain site.... its an evil conspiracy called.... tHE PAtrIarcHY !
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 8mo ago
What a loon. I’ve met people like her, and you literally cannot take one single thing they say at face value. The fact is the legal system bends over backwards to accommodate even the most obviously unhinged women, and the social safety net is massively geared towards helping women no matter what… so the fact that even those people are sick of her nonsense is pretty telling.
I’d almost wager that her ex-husband is a saint who made the mistake of trying to “fix” her, and his “abuse” is him trying to prevent her from forcing the family into bankruptcy and protecting his child from a delusional psychopath.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
If she was as good at markets as she says, she would be just fine. Once you understand how to trade one, you can apply it to many different things across the world and make money. Assuming of course she had any kind of consistency and risk control.
It just reads like a big list of "waaaaaa I'm such a put-upon womaaaaaan" and naturally, she's the poor victim blah blah blah.
I think a lot of older broads do this when they can't look in the mirror and take all the sags and wrinkles looking back at them. It can't be her fault, because then she'd have to admit that she's totally responsible for her own actions.
This trend of every ex or relationship being "abusive" has been used so much that I don't believe a single word a woman says if she drops that turd into a sentence.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
She's good at the markets but.........she's moving into a trailer.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 7mo ago
Indeed: we’re all adults here, and I have never seen an “abusive” or otherwise dysfunctional relationship wherein the “victim” didn’t share at least some of the blame (and I include myself on that list).
If you don’t get out, it’s due to one of three things: either you choose to stay because you like the drama, you choose to tolerate the bad behavior because it’s worth it to you to keep the person around, or you’re naive and - at some point - choose not to acknowledge the truth.
In my (worst) case I started off naive, and tolerated her bad behavior for longer than I should have, but finally reality smacked me in the face hard enough to snap me out of my willing blindness. I never made the mistake of being a woman’s doormat again, and I became a good deal less tolerant of 1) bad behavior and 2) holding back in subsequent relationships. Needless to say, those relationships were much better for all parties involved.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
I've been there for sure, brother.
When I finally realized what I was doing, and more importantly, what I SHOULD have been doing, it became clear. I pulled the plug. Want to know how hard she fought to keep it? I can summarize:
"Do you want to go to couples therapy?" < I shake my head "No" > she then immediately called someone to announce she was getting divorced. I had handed her perfect victim-fodder which I'm sure she squeezed out every last drop, and then some. In the end, it worked out for me. I should've done it sooner, but we all have these pressures and the urge to conform to societal trends/cues can be strong. I'm glad I woke up, I would've been in a much worse place had I stayed. At least I'm in the small percentage that initiated a divorce first, and I understand why that is so. I love my life now, and as I've alluded to before, I have resources now that I wouldn't if I hadn't gotten away from the irrational anchor that was holding me down.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 7mo ago
That’s rough, bro. I’ve never been divorced. My worst scenario was me breaking out of an unworthy woman’s orbit. I never even kissed her, yet she had me so wrapped around her little finger that I ended up in a hospital with anemia. Naive? AH, HELL YES!
Fortunately I’m a quick learner, and in all my relationships with women I was never the one who was dumped. Some we more-or-less mutual (none were acrimonious), but the rest were me walking away from women who couldn’t or wouldn’t meet my standards. I never went full a-hole, but I became a lot more aloof, and it has served me well.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 8mo ago
Forcing the family into bankruptcy? How do you get that idea? She's made all kinds of good investment and career moves up until now.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 8mo ago
She says she did, but despite her claims to have “called it” well in advance, she’s awfully quiet about the times she guessed wrong… which probably outweigh her occasional good guesses.
Like I wrote: I’ve met people like her, and there is no reason to think that you’re getting anything but a highly-curated version of events that is hopelessly skewed to make her look good and everyone else look terrible.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 8mo ago
Haha, I guess I didn't pour the sarcasm on heavy enough. I never thought you'd actually think I was serious!! Hahaha...
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 8mo ago
I just came from the Reddit thread where I had just responded to someone who said that the guy was a nasty piece of work, so I didn’t catch the sarcasm.
V-cards for me!
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 8mo ago
its amazing to think that this specimen of insanity was once some man's pride and joy. His wonderful bride. Scary to think that there are still probably several guys who will take their turn before the cats get to keep her.
Just beware.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 8mo ago
If this is the kind of shit she's sharing unprompted at an Arby's drive through, I can't imagine what we'd find stashed on her closet's top shelf.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 8mo ago
I don't think I've ever met a woman who enjoyed, or was good at, investing or saving money.
Men are literally designed for this - to work the soil and provide materially for themselves and their families. Women are designed to serve and help men - to make it easier for men to do what they have to do anyway.
A woman acting like a man is not a successful woman, but a broken one. This mental basketcase is the result. They are fighting their own natures, and can never be in harmony with themselves. It's like a turtle that acts like a lion its whole life. Exhausting, foolish, and schizophrenic. They can never be at rest, and must always shift blame to avoid the house of cards collapsing.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Its exceedingly rare.
The stat I've seen is that most women with money didn't work a job for it, unless you count the horizontal mambo and inherited wealth.
Reminds me of a quote from Boiler Room (2000):
"We don't pitch the bitch here."
"We don’t sell stock to women. I don’t care who it is, we don’t do it. Nancy Sinatra calls, you tell her you’re sorry. They’re a constant pain in the ass and you’re never going to hear the end of it alright? They’re going to call you every fucking day wanting to know why the stock is dropping and God forbid the stock should go up, you’re going to hear from them every fucking 15 minutes. It’s just not worth it, don’t pitch the bitch."
It was true when it was filmed, and its true now.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
If you look at the list of the top 1000 richest women in any country, you will see something interesting. They are rich through inheritance or divorce. About 1-3% will be from their own wealth. 98% of that wealth that women have is simply wealth taken from men.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Bingo.
A series I recommend that encapsulates some of the difficulties of being a new trader, as well as female dynamics in a group of men is "Million Dollar Traders" -- https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=million+dollar+traders
Its three parts, each an hour but are entertaining to watch. Especially when one of the women can't hack it, then spins into a spiral of drama and group destruction. That is why the quote from "Boiler Room" holds true, women generally are operating in the feelz-dimension, which doesn't lend itself to rational acts while trading.
Even if you don't care about the financial part, I find the group dynamics interesting and worth viewing.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Just watched that this week because of your quote, was pretty good.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
I still watch it from time to time, glad you liked it.
It has some pacing problems and I'm not much of a fan about how Seth's character is written when interacting with his Father, but it works out.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 7mo ago
"Barnum's the name! P. T. Barnum!" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4-jsqZQ4OOY