Reminds me of that aphorism that all woman are Bi - the only question is, Bisexual, or Bipolar?

Do these women really think that men don't notice that they are insane and on a ton psychotropics?

Yup sweatie, it's you. When you are in your hot girl 20's these issues are not a problem since everything is transitory for your hoe phase. Then, you hit 30 and things start to change. Quickly.

So now that you are on the downhill slide in attractiveness and you feel the need to lock down resources, those little 'quirks of personality' have suddenly become red flags and deal breakers for men. Most men who are still looking for a woman worth commitment have been through their own wringer. And the lessons they have seared into their psyches all boil down to the mantra of 'hire slowly, fire quickly.' And more men are doing this.

And it is only going to get worse, for you that is. So, enjoy whatever cocktail of head meds the docs will put you on next. That chemical buttressing and your plethora of cats are all you have going for you. Well, that and your 'career.'

If I recall correctly, buproprion (Wellbutrin), used to be considered a heavy-duty antipsychotic when it first came out. A small dose of it was sometimes included with a mix of less-potent drugs.

"Ladies... How come I can't get exclusive commitment from one of these scarce men that 90% of us have decided to chase after and give easy sex to?"

Here's the thing about medicated women:

• They are medicated because they are crazy.
• If they get pregnant they have to stop the medication.
• Then you're dealing with not only a hormonal pregnant woman, but one who is also crazy and can't take medication for at least 9 months.

A few things that caught my eye;

1. After the first relationship was over, she got another date on OLD within a few days. She probably got a ton of matches, narrowed it down to a few that she conversed with, and then one to see on an actual date. IOW, her success rate on these apps rivals superstar Chads, and yet she feels like she's been put through the wringer. This is further reinforced by:

2. She's exhausted after two months of rejection, and looking for some emotional support. Most guys, even chads, go through dry spells measured in years and yet we're just told to deal with it, and get mocked as incels.

3. Guy #3 had a bunch of options which were better than her. IOW, the type of guy that she's matching with and meeting up with are the top of the heap, most desirable guys on OLD, the type who juggle multiple matches and women on a routine basis. You wanna snag one of those guys? Best bring your A game as the competition is fierce. And if you're 32, you're already starting off with a big handicap compared to his other options.

4. I love the euphemisms: "self compassion". ROFL. You're not being compassionate to yourself. You're coming up with excuses to be lazy. Red Pill is all about the need to always be improving. It actually has nothing to do with finding a partner. Even if you have lots of plates spinning, you should always work on improving yourself, achieving your next goals, etc. Waiting around for someone to "love me for me" implies you have no desire to improve yourself even with the carrot of finding a mate, nevermind due to any sort of inner drive to make the most of your life.

5. You're 32 years old with a known chronic health condition and you haven't prioritized getting into a career that provides stable health insurance. Because stable careers like engineering, accounting, or even HR office drone are boring man! She's still figuring herself out! Travelling the deep blue yonder! Like a flaky goddamn 20 year old child, rather than an adult rapidly approaching middle age. I realize this is a uniquely American problem, but if you know you have a health condition, and you still haven't prioritized getting good enough insurance to manage it, then your priorities are whacked and it doesn't speak well about how you'll set priorities for the rest of your life, so why do I want to hitch my life to someone so irresponsible?

Anyway, I'll at least give her credit for briefly, temporarily, partially considering that maybe, possibly the problem is her, with her rapidly aging looks, mental health issues severe enough to require active management of multiple medications, and poor life choices that lead her to being uninsured, likely underpaid in a shitty career, while being delusional enough to still be aiming for some top tier Chad to bail her out. But then she rapidly retreats to practicing "self compassion" again. I'm sure she'll still chase those guys while still wondering "what could it be that keeps them from committing to me?"