Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
Posted 6mo ago in The Big Question - Permalink - Locked - 5K Views
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
Reminds me of that aphorism that all woman are Bi - the only question is, Bisexual, or Bipolar?
Gondola_the_Observer 6mo ago
Do these women really think that men don't notice that they are insane and on a ton psychotropics?
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 6mo ago
Yes.
That or they wear it as a badge or honor if they can't play it off with an explanation
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Yeah. The guy that walked her to the car and then said 'bye' was probably literally afraid of her! 3 hours on the bench chatting was more than enough to establish that she was a class a lunatic.
orbilius 6mo ago
Yeah that part of the story should have been a wake up call for her. I’d give her the same advice I’d give a dude (and that’s rare) do a double date with a friend so that you can get some honest feedback
…unfortunately women do the “crabs in a bucket” thing so her girlfriends will probably listen to her talk about her various psychosis for three hours then tell her she did nothing wrong.
But a dude will tell you how you fucked up. So, be thankful for that
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Its the trendy victim stigma all the idiots on TikTok love emulating.
Getting hard to tell when they genuinely have it, but if they volunteer that they're Bipolar, that of course is time to pull the rip cord. A whole medicated generation and they're not even past 40. Insane.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 6mo ago
Wasn't there a whole trend about people pretending to have multiple personalities - despite the actual incidence being 1.5% or lower of the general population?
Oh, your friend may indeed have seen me with the guy from the gym, but it wasnt me me. It was Brenda, my alter.
I blame it on the unconditional acceptance of weird behaviour of this generation. Everybody can be whatever they're feeling. Though I am rooting for my government to make it easier to declare oneself as a woman; car insurance is getting too expensive nowadays.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Yup sweatie, it's you. When you are in your hot girl 20's these issues are not a problem since everything is transitory for your hoe phase. Then, you hit 30 and things start to change. Quickly.
So now that you are on the downhill slide in attractiveness and you feel the need to lock down resources, those little 'quirks of personality' have suddenly become red flags and deal breakers for men. Most men who are still looking for a woman worth commitment have been through their own wringer. And the lessons they have seared into their psyches all boil down to the mantra of 'hire slowly, fire quickly.' And more men are doing this.
And it is only going to get worse, for you that is. So, enjoy whatever cocktail of head meds the docs will put you on next. That chemical buttressing and your plethora of cats are all you have going for you. Well, that and your 'career.'
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
In other words, most of us learned the hard way the old saying: "Dont stick your dick in crazy."
orbilius 6mo ago
There’s been a sea state change in the last few years. I only see it from these women’s posts, but it’s clear. Men have stopped putting up with them
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 6mo ago
If I recall correctly, buproprion (Wellbutrin), used to be considered a heavy-duty antipsychotic when it first came out. A small dose of it was sometimes included with a mix of less-potent drugs.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
No, it's a SSRI.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 6mo ago
Ok. Are you aware of what drug I mistook it for?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
It's one of the antipsychotics but I don't know the names anymore. Lithium maybe?
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 6mo ago
Aripiprazole!
Okay, had to look it up. Ugh. This is not my strong suit.
orbilius 6mo ago
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, I think that birth control fucks these women up. I bet this one had been on birth control since she was 16. She probably needs an anti-psychotic at this point
It’s sad. It’s legitimately sad. She could have had a happy life. 32? She could have three kids with a decent man. The youngest would be 7 and off to school and she’d be thinking about an optional job to keep herself busy and have some more disposable income, but still be home when the kids are home. She’d watch them play and be happy, in a way that the real her will never know - never even imagine.
God damn this is tragic
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
The tragedy of modern society, really. We get a chuckle at a woman who used her peak sexual attractiveness for selfish ends and is now facing the reality of being an average woman with no negotiating power with the men that she wants. But in actuality, if she wasn’t raised in an insane time, she would likely be the kind of woman you mentioned. Which would mean another man has a high quality woman and a family that serves as inspiration to be better. Instead it’s another case where that man is now better served staying single, versus opening himself up to the headache of dating this kind of woman.
orbilius 6mo ago
For sure. I know that the "cultural construct" excuse is overused, but in this case it's undoubtedly true.
PoopBeast 6mo ago
"Ladies... How come I can't get exclusive commitment from one of these scarce men that 90% of us have decided to chase after and give easy sex to?"
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 6mo ago
You know the old saying: Men should stop taking the free milk and do whatever the cow tells them to.
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
Here's the thing about medicated women:
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 6mo ago
Maybe they'll cancel each other out. Maybe she'll run after you with a knife because she dreamt that you were hanging out with that girl from the bakery around the corner. Why not take a chance on love?
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 6mo ago
A few things that caught my eye;
After the first relationship was over, she got another date on OLD within a few days. She probably got a ton of matches, narrowed it down to a few that she conversed with, and then one to see on an actual date. IOW, her success rate on these apps rivals superstar Chads, and yet she feels like she's been put through the wringer. This is further reinforced by:
She's exhausted after two months of rejection, and looking for some emotional support. Most guys, even chads, go through dry spells measured in years and yet we're just told to deal with it, and get mocked as incels.
Guy #3 had a bunch of options which were better than her. IOW, the type of guy that she's matching with and meeting up with are the top of the heap, most desirable guys on OLD, the type who juggle multiple matches and women on a routine basis. You wanna snag one of those guys? Best bring your A game as the competition is fierce. And if you're 32, you're already starting off with a big handicap compared to his other options.
I love the euphemisms: "self compassion". ROFL. You're not being compassionate to yourself. You're coming up with excuses to be lazy. Red Pill is all about the need to always be improving. It actually has nothing to do with finding a partner. Even if you have lots of plates spinning, you should always work on improving yourself, achieving your next goals, etc. Waiting around for someone to "love me for me" implies you have no desire to improve yourself even with the carrot of finding a mate, nevermind due to any sort of inner drive to make the most of your life.
Anyway, I'll at least give her credit for briefly, temporarily, partially considering that maybe, possibly the problem is her, with her rapidly aging looks, mental health issues severe enough to require active management of multiple medications, and poor life choices that lead her to being uninsured, likely underpaid in a shitty career, while being delusional enough to still be aiming for some top tier Chad to bail her out. But then she rapidly retreats to practicing "self compassion" again. I'm sure she'll still chase those guys while still wondering "what could it be that keeps them from committing to me?"
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 6mo ago
This was a really long-winded way of saying she deserves the best
/s
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
First they hit The Wall... then they get angry... then they get cats and boxed wine and say "I haven't been dating for 6 years".