Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 4mo ago
Emphasis added. They always tell on themselves. Granted, most don't generally do so by the end of their third sentence.
See @Lone_Ranger's post re: broke dudes. I guarantee you Ms. Standards here knew going in this guy was there for a good time, not a long time, but she still let him smash because he was hot.
Women like her make rules for good men and break them for bad boys. Respond accordingly.
Because men operate on a different set of rules and opportunities than do women. Particularly the physically attractive men you're pursuing.
I could go on but most of the important bits have been covered already, so I'll end with this:
Crabs in the bucket. She could meet a 62-year-old who checks every conceivable box and still turn him down out of fear of how other women would gossip about the age difference.
Women like this would rather wallow forever in self-inflicted misery than risk finding happiness by bucking the sisterhood.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
....because nobody wants to bang her!!!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I see a theme emerging - with a few short sentences, she says 'I still attract men'
You see what she revealed there? She is telling us that her only metric for self worth is the medium of mens interest. She has no internal sense of self worth - the only source of self worth for her is the exogenous factor of 'men's interest'.
I see this all the time. Women are only ever validated by the attention of men. Without it, they die.
PS. as an aside, you often hear women talking about feelings of self worth etc. That 'all women should feel self condident' etc etc. What you will never hear is women discussing this question:
If you have no inherent feelings of self worth, could it be that you have no inherent worth? Could your feelings be correct? If you are insecure about yourself, are you correct in being insecure? Could it be that you have simply failed to achieve anything, that you are simply a boring, self absorbed, lazy dopamine addict incapable of love?
In the female world view, insecurities are always wrong and should be countered simply by believing that your are fabulous.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I honestly don't think that she really wants to be married.
What she really wants (what women want) is validation.
One man can only provide so much validation for a woman. She has lived her life on the OLD/CC which has provided her with more validation than she could get from a marriage.
At a certain point, its useful to look back on your life and challenge your own assumptions about your own preferences. She tells herself that 'she is open to marriage' and that she would have liked to get married, but that is in conflict with what actually happened. It's easy to get married. Poor, stupid, unemployed, ugly, fat, homeless, drug addicted people can get married.
If she has reached the age of 50 and she is not married, she needs to start to realise that she didn't actually want to get married as much as she wanted to play musical dicks
This is what I mean about women being the more delusional of the species. She is wallowing in self pity, pretending that the thing that 'just didn't happen for her' (marriage and kids) is due to some bad luck.
It's not. It's due to her preferences. She went for the feelz, the unsuitable men and the life on the CC.
Justanaverageguy 4mo ago
She’s still hung up on her Chad ex from 3 years ago. Hasn’t given pussy to anyone since then because no one looks like or better than her ex who’s been single. I have a feeling the Chad ex never saw her as a girlfriend, just a temporary piece of pussy but she saw him as her boyfriend. I say this because his excuse to breakup with her is she’s old and he dates younger, she was old when they got together but he figured he’d get some ass now during a slump. She thought it was a serious relationship, it was never that to him. Now she won’t settle for anyone else who’s not her ex.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I saw her the other night at the local crunchy hippie granola grocery store. She had a flower bouquet she was buying. My eyes popped out at her beauty at first but then upon closer inspection I could see her blonde hair had black roots, sun damaged skin, granny hands, a butt held in shape by a tight skirt, and try-hard purse and shoes.
I could see the nervousness in her eyes as she first saw me and thought I might talk to her. I was dressed like a bum, unshaved, and smelled like a horse. But then along comes my 15yr old son with me. Talk about awkward!!! So I completely ignored her. Imagine being ignored by an "inferior" bum man who successfully reproduced while you're a post-wall THOT trying to look good. OUCH!
No-Stress-Cat 4mo ago
Grandma got run over by the Fem-Wall...
More like she ran into it head first and it fell over on top of her.
JudgeSmales 4mo ago
She writes: "He can't give up on his dream and he routinely spends time with people 15-20 years younger. I find this behavior pathetic and confusing."
Ah, so if a man has wants and standards for a relationship, that's a "dream." But her delusions are perfectly sane because "attraction is a mystery. It either happens or it doesn't."
Enjoy the next 30 years until you're 80, grandma.
SwarmShawarma 4mo ago
resentment, youth long gone, bad feelings and bad feelings can't be her own making so is looking for external source
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
She doesn't want to face it but the menopause has dried up her desire. The wall beats them all. She is now even less willing to try than before when she had more desire. At least she knows it.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 4mo ago
All I got from that is that she is wrinkled and old. Good luck to you grandma.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 4mo ago
Hey! Vaginas filled with dust and cobwebs still have needs, you ghoul.
Justanaverageguy 4mo ago
Those “needs” can only be met by the very tip top Chad. You know, the ones way way out of her league. Guys in her league? Yeah, no pussy for them, that’s why she’s gone so long without. Chads don’t want her and she refuses to admit what she can get.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
This is the fate of about 50% of the next generation after her. Millions of women will be self-focused, solipsistic, clueless old hags - ranting online that they can't find any attractive men.
O brave new world, with such people in it!
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
And then they hit 65+ with nothing to show for decades of screwing around. Because for their entire existence they assumed they'd get a man to subsidize their retirement while doing jack and shit to actually attain one.
So of course they are going to collectively whine for Daddy Gov to bail them out, and they'll get exactly what they deserve for running One Last Grift - dying alone of sepsis in a state ran nursing home.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Maybe they will offer them some Canadian-style Health Care.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Or when they do find attractive men, they realize that those attractive men can get with far more attractive women and resort to shaming them.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
"he is very good looking and won't settle for me" .. "I find this behavior pathetic and confusing" .. "I cannot force myself to be attracted to a person" .. She has all the pieces, but will she be able to put them together into a cohesive whole?
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Of course not.
I also love the irony of these old women who act like some 27 year old woman is “immature” and men are “immature” for chasing them. I’d say she’s more mature, because she’s actually trying to get a man before she’s relegated to slump buster status.
SwarmShawarma 4mo ago
and they could try to work with that.
"You do your thing. What thing? I don't know what you're talking about - I was taking to myself." Then behave herself.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Let the old biddies attempt to shame those guys, all those guys will here is a drizzling sound.
NPC070201 4mo ago
Drizzle drizzle
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
The only reasons left to marry in the West is blind optimism, pure desperation but mostly wanting to start a family, but since her womb is now a tomb, no guy wanting that will go near her.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
It was quite dark and depressing until she provided a bit of comic relief:
I haven't ruled out the possibility of marriage
I legit burst out laughing when I read that. That is comic gold.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
She might as well buy a lottery ticket and hope to win over $100 million and make it known she is seeking marriage, cos her odds at getting married as she is now is lower than her chances at winning the lottery.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Actually she can marry herself so it's not totally impossible. https://www.cnn.com/2023/05/28/us/sologamy-self-marriage-women-cec/index.html
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
yeah, the thing about the lottery analogy.... she still needs to buy a ticket.
She is trying to win the lottery, but she's not even willing to buy the ticket
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
"I prefer dating men who are age appropriate...who physically would be more my match"
Girl, you are infertile and impotent. So your physical match on the male side would be an 80 your old guy that can't get it up.
She spends 80% of her post telling everyone that she can't get it up (zero libido, obviously hormones are toast, vagina is closed for business) and then pouts about finding a guy her own age. I'm a few years older than her, but there is no way in hell I would date (much less marry) and impotent, infertile, sexless witch that can't get it up.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
another great find from @Polishknight
This is where 30+ years of following the feelz gets you. This woman does not realise it, but she is fighting the mental health epidemic of her generation (modern women). You cannot fight an enemy that you cannot see, which is he problem. She cannot see her own problem, so she will never solve it.
The mental health epidemic that I am referring to?
Delusion. She is deluded to the point where it is a mental health issue. Delusion is the inability to see reality from fantasy.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Delusion is also a product of entitlement. I'm reminded of a line from Marilyn Monroe when she was committed to a mental institution: "They don't understand how difficult it is to be me" or something such as that.
Us mortal men are expected to "settle" in life. "Man up". That we aren't "owed" anything from women and our "feelings" aren't justifications. We are expected from an early age to prepare for adulthood and learn how to control our feelings. We men are not entitled to "delusions". Our culture even jokes about the childlike state of women: "A woman has a prerogative to change her mind" or "Who knows what women think?"
Looking at this as a "health issue", consider this story I read about a 30 something year old man who had bone and vision issues and the doctors documented the cause: He only ate chicken nuggets and french fries his whole life. He didn't "like" anything else and his mother didn't "force" him to eat anything else. He didn't even take vitamins.
Humans do not naturally become healthy, productive people. Our childhood is a combination of protective status but also careful escalation of painful responsibility by our elders. Learn how to wake up for work even if you FEEL like you want to remain in bed. As a parent, balancing these two factors out (protectiveness and discipline) can be frustrating. It's also why single mother households produce such feral offspring: They are emotionally fickle children themselves trying to raise children.
A core requirement of entitlement is that someone else usually must enable it. She wants to be "pursued" (because then she won't have to improve according to what men want, rather than what she enjoys doing already). She justifies her "preferences" because other women share them ("age appropriate"), but she wants men to reject our own shared preferences to date younger women. She holds out hope for marriage (which anyone can do, of course) but hasn't faced the prospect that to achieve this she would need to change which she resists.
The ability to change, grow, and adapt, to "man up", are assumed masculine traits which shouldn't be seen as such. Such women often gripe there are no "real men" left. There are certainly "real men", but such men have choices and autonomy, as human beings and not objects to suit her whims.
SwarmShawarma 4mo ago
I'm not that old, so I never dated old women but don't they all remain in permanent childlike mental state? At 80 they supposed to be dead for like 40 years, it probably will take couple of hundred of years to see the tip for women's wiring to move.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
We should just name it and add it to the DSM. Post-Wall syndrome?
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I think there are many types of delusion that women indulge in. They really ought to be categorised.
For example, this woman (and many like her) is totally delusional about her own preferences.
She thinks that she is 'open to getting married one day* but that is not her true preference. In consumer choice theory we say that preference are revealed. What we mean by this is do not listen to stated preferences, observe what consumers do. What they do is their preference.
If you observe a consumer that only ever eats chicken you can infer that their preference is chicken, rather than beef. You should ignore them if they say "I love beef - I would love to try beef one day, I dream of hamburgers and steak etc". Ignore what they say, observe what they do or have done over the last 10 or 20 years.
She has spent her life on the OLD/CC pursuing unsuitable men. This is her preference. The reason is more or less not required - you don't need to know why. She could have got married and had children, but she simply pursued other goals. The fact that she did so is evidence that riding the CC gave her more utility (in the form of validation) than a married life would have given her.
We can see this, but her powers of delusion are preventing her from seeing this. This woman will go to her grave actually believing that she 'would have liked to settle down' but she 'never met the right guy'.
She is subconsciously disgusted and appalled by her own preferences, and chooses to simply not believe them. Because to do so would infer some sort of blame (can't have that) and it would also conflict with her own identity as 'a good person'.
I am going to name this condition Autonomous Preference Denial and Delusion Syndrome.
I think its widespread. My evidence for saying that is that I have yet to meet a post wall single woman that has ever said
"Marriage and kids? No, I'm not that kind of person. I don't think I would get any joy much validation out of that, because it would involve effort and the giving of love and attention. I only want to receive attention. I get a lot of excitement from being chased by men and I love sleeping around. I have poor impulse control and a low sense of self worth so being validated by men is my only source of joy or purpose."
SwarmShawarma 4mo ago
Man, I wish I had someone in my childhood/early adulthood talking to me dirty like that.
You have a gift of describing things well.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
To a woman like this, I just have two words: “die alone”.
She made her bed. There’s probably a whole host of men in her past that would’ve wifed her up. Now she’s older, and demands more from the dating market than she has to offer.
The fact is, she’s single and childless, which pretty much destines her to die alone. The fact that even a man just 10 years older gives her the ick means that she really has nothing to look forward to except death. At 50, I assume her parents are getting up there in age, for example.
SwarmShawarma 4mo ago
https://youtu.be/6-kM_ZDaodU
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
The results of decades of Chad chasing. She's tried nothing and is all out of ideas!
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Lol, some 52 year old Chad made her an alpha window. Probably my own naivete & ignorance but I didn't think a women her age could get alpha widowed. You would think at that age her priorities would be more practical & grounded in reality.
wswZtyqNGQ 4mo ago
Women mature up to 13 and permanently stop.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
that's not quite true, some of them regress.