Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Cougars wanting kids... yet another way to make money. What if you just start knocking them up one after another? Dick down 3 chicks/day. 21 chicks/week. Collect welfare and make them all work. By age 40 they've got to have a decent career. Now that everyone gets maternity leave she can be back to work after a couple months. Get a group discount at day care.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
There's a classic Beavis and Butthead episode from the 90's "sperm donor" where the clinic pays B&B to "spank the monkey" despite claims that these clinics only pick the creme de la creme or highly educated tall guys. I read various horror stories over the years including "Sperm donor fathered 15 kids without telling moms he has genetic IQ disease" and others. Sperm salesmen are sometimes not much more honest than used car salesmen it appears.
It just got off the phone with a colleague whose 35 y/o highly educated son apparently is getting together with another 35 y/o and she's in a rush to have kids and was thinking about freezing her eggs. That's sort of like going until the night before an exam to study for it. Women are so dumb about this: She was thinking about freezing her eggs at the age of 35. That's like me keeping steaks in the fridge JUST before they're about to go bad and THEN freezing them. (And yeah, sometimes I had to do that. I'm not saying I'm perfect either.)
I know how to keep my mouth shut, of course, but it seems to me like her son holds all the cards in that relationship and she asked me "Do you think they should get married right away?" and I thought to myself how interesting the situation is: A SMART woman would know to be on her very best behavior for the next few years at least anyway until there's a baby in the oven with a highly educated sugar daddy. On the other hand, the reason why so many of these women reach 35 and single is because they're shitty about keeping their big, bossy, independent, strong mouths shut. I myself during that period in my life never came across as a devious American woman, really. They had the sophistication of the kids who try to get into unlocked cars and steal stuff.
That reminds me: My wife and I got brand new cars and have to keep the keyfobs inside of Faraday Cages at the door because script kiddies can buy online repeater antennae and open and start our cars if the fobs are left exposed. Highly recommend.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 7mo ago
Only issue is you will be expected to pay child support for any kids you sire.
There are cases of lesbians having a male friend impregnate one of them, and then turning around and suing the man for child support, even though the 2 lesbians are the official parents of the child.
The only way to avoid any legal obligations to a child is to go through a licensed sperm donor clinic / IVF center. Knocking up a woman in any other way has no protection. Even with a contract drawn up with the woman. After all, the child did not sign away his/her rights to your money, and their mother can't sign away that right.
https://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/index.html
P.S. Even the legal protections of sperm donation are being chipped away. in the UK, sperm donors are no longer anonymous. something about the right of a child to know his genetic father to know if he's at risk for genetic diseases. Note that if that was the real reason for stripping anonymity, they could have simply required that sperm donors must agree to a full genetic test, and the anonymous results will be made available on request to the mother or child. But that's not what they did. I wonder why...
https://www.theguardian.com/society/2023/nov/14/egg-and-sperm-donors-to-lose-right-to-anonymity-at-birth-under-proposed-laws
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
It's hard to get child support from someone who has no job... ;)
No-Stress-Cat 7mo ago
She's already hit menopause, and still thinks she has another 10 years to find a guy that meets her standards, settle down, and have kids.
I swear it's like these magic fairies are floating about with coins on a string swinging them in front of their faces, "You are unnnnnnder my pooooower...you goooots this, queeeeeen..."
Fucking retarded bitches, and they're only getting worse.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 7mo ago
I feel bad for this one. Becoming a mom just never worked for her; having kids in a family that hated her would not be a good idea, and one day she woke up and was 40.
It's not like there was anything she could have done differently - like having chosen an average man whose family would like her, or at least not staying too long in such a relationship. She just had to keep on dating that guy, and things would naturally change for the better. She was robbed of her youth for no fault of her own.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
"She was robbed of her youth for no fault of her own."
Let's give every woman a free pass up to age 25. That gave her nearly 20 years to find a reliable man to have children with. What does this mean? That she dated around for at least 5 or 10 years and then spent about a decade with someone whose family didn't like her? Note that she didn't say anything about being divorced (she certainly would have mentioned that).
What also is telling is how she regrets "didn't have kids on my own and quietly". A lot of these women would rather become single mothers without a father than make an effort to find a reliable man they don't have "chemistry" with. Perhaps she's worried that if she had kids on her own, then and now, she'd be stuck with all the bills and responsibility.
My grandmother told me stories about how women "dated" back a century ago: They didn't roll around with chad for decades or waste their time with men who wouldn't commit to them. They found a way to make their own "chemistry".
She's lying in the bed she made.
wswZtyqNGQ 7mo ago
So only at least 10 years of Caligula-level power to crush, abuse and humiliate every man around her with no consequences or remorse? You are far more forgiving than I could hope to be, and far more blind to basic human compassion.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
I was establishing that this one had plenty of time even if we burned off a good 5 years of prime time to latch down a good husband.
My niece found her husband when they were still in college, she treated him with respect, and they didn't have sex until marriage and were very religious. She just had a child a year ago at age 25.
As a father, I'd encourage my daughter to buy Apple stock when it's a dollar a share but of course to be as discerning as possible. The problem, of course, is that most of these women today don't want to be religious like my niece but want to ride the CC and hang out with chad and chad in college isn't interested in settling down. Even if he was, there's only 1 chad for every hundred women or so.
Then there's the factor that supposedly traditional and modern women want to wait for the perfect man to "approach" them and wine and dine them and this largely limits their options in an era of "metoo" where men lose their jobs from asking the wrong woman out.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
The only good part about her story is she's very unlikely to pass her genes and thus her stupidity to a child.
One thing in particular men in general could do better is be way pickier about the minimum quality of woman they knock up. A good chunk of why so many women are so shit to deal with is for generations they've been coddled and protected, absolving them of any real sort of selection pressure to not be stupid cunts. So of course they replicate like a fucking plague upon humanity.
Stupid cunts are for fun, not breeding. Reliable, flexible and covert male birth control cannot come fast enough.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Exactly.
We're just witnessing severely delusional (all women are to some degree, but this current crop is barking mad) women age out of the reproduction pool. It will be a drag on civilization for a while, but after grandma shuffles the mortal coil there is hope for the newer generations that will observe these wasted lives as a warning.
As the pendulum sweeps back, we'll see even more complaining as reality forces women to recalibrate their demands and unrealistic aspirations. From my perch, I'm laughing as they frantically try to "manifest" and girl-boss their way out.
JudgeSmales 7mo ago
Your use of "grandma" made me think. All my life, certainly as a kid, any older women you saw (65 or older, let's say), you would automatically assume she was someone's grandmother. Gray hair = grandma. But with so many childless harpies aging out, that assumption is no longer valid. No kids also means no grandkids. We'll soon be chock-a-block with gray, age-70 non-grandmas, waddling around Walmart. Keep riding that carousel, ladies.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 7mo ago
This is absolutely correct, as there is only so many years for a woman to optimally have children. Women who want children need to do a lot of groundwork to do it right, including finding a husband early on so that pregnancy can be achieved much more easily.
I don't know which parts of "society" she is listening to, but anyone in their right mind should understand that you do not need all of these things as a woman if you want to be a wife and mother. You just need the right guy and kids. The "career" is not something you should do because of "society" telling you to do it. Especially if those people are other bitter career women who are burnt out by trying to "have it all."
Oh this again? Did you hear how those same women who got pregnant in their 50s also had a bunch of children before their pregnancy at 50? Because that is almost always how that happens. You being a woman in her 40s would have less of a chance replicating that outcome because your fertility window is closing/closed while the women who had previous children had their window pushed back. So anytime a woman repeats this line, always ask how many children these women had before.
This woman seems to have accepted that having children is not in her future. And that would be best, since thinking otherwise is delusional. And given how men get less out of relationships with women these days, the one thing that might help her entice a man to enter a relationship with her (bearing his children) is no longer a realistic option. So she is very likely to also need to come to terms with her becoming a spinster as well as childless.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Women who managed to get pregnant and give birth to a healthy child with something like IVF at 50 or older is so rare it becomes automatically newsworthy when it happens, much like reporting about someone winning a billion dollars plus in a lottery.
Maturin_nj 7mo ago
This WAATGM series has shown me how bad things truly are. This is the consequences of open hypergamy in an unregulated mating market.
The stable guy in waiting has learned how women operate, a secret pre2000, and has gone mgtow. The marriage oriented older guys aren't there. The market of marriage minded 40 plus yr old men is tiny and still stupid.
Did the social planners think that men would not adapt and that they would continue to sit back and be subjected to increasingly poor female behavior that was front loaded with rejection, no dates, sex, respect, cooperation, and lastly a nice attitude (which so few seem to possess).
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
In all fairness, men as a group still haven't adapted. Many men still put up with this nonsense but these are not the men that these women desire. We've been raised with this belief in Free Market Economics but sadly, they don't always work or when they do, they're as highly inefficient like communism. Why? Because they assume people are rational.
Men go online and hit the validation button for women online. It doesn't cost him anything to tell pig-woman that she's hot. Pig-woman gets 1000 signals of interest which she interprets to mean that all these men are telling her the truth and willing to wife her up AND that she can leverage this to demand a top tier man. She then tells all of her friends, and they tell their friends, that women can "still have it all".
Our "social planners" largely don't think and are as reactionary as the rest of us, if not moreso, in that they got there by being popular and not rocking the boat or when they did rock the boat, they use the halo effect interpret that if they got in charge they can do no wrong.
Maturin_nj 7mo ago
Your right. Things are not perfect. But we've made a lot of progress. . I've seen religious guys mention the blue pill. Just a few years ago the BP is something they would have denied. And the progress is coming from below. The younger guys who know about this shit in their teens. BTW thanks for posting that stuff. Very funny stuff.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Agreed. I think the next stage in RP will be when: 1) Young women in their early 20's start feeling a sense of urgency as they witness women in their 30's either winding up childless or paying all the bills for a sperm donor baby.
2) Chads start to charge "stud fees" and insist women pay for dates and his "time". Why are guys with literally hundreds of women wanting to have sex with them giving it away for free? 3) Alpha-Chads only marry rich women (see stud fees) and beta bucks also demand women outearn them. She can't divorce rape you if YOU qualify for alimony!
At THAT point, thirsty men providing OLD click validation will largely be worthless to these women.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
No, other women expect a lot from you, and you run yourself ragged trying to please them. This is why you opened with your fears about "growls, snide looks, and aggressive comments" from women.
These sound like women who have done things the right way (at least moreso than you), while you wasted your youth, beauty, and fertility chasing Chad and wasting money. Now you want to whine about having children? Yeah, I'd growl at you too. You get nothing.
You ain't seen nothin yet. Soon your useless career will be over, and you will have no one and nothing for the rest of your life. You will go lower and lower in the female pecking order, and men will simply not notice you.
You should be a life/dating coach. Put on a smile and a brave face, collect money from other unsuccessful women, and then you can all cry yourselves to sleep every night.
Women were created to be wives (helpers of men) and mothers (raise his children). If you fail at those two things, you are NOT a successful woman. Womanhood is defined by your ability to do those two things. Always has been. To men, you are worthless for anything but sex, but even that will soon end.
Women who stay married and have children are simply in a different paradigm or hierarchy than you. You can never understand or compete with them. You can never be one. That's why they growl at you. You act like you know the game, but you've never played it.
The absolute best you can do at this point is serve as a warning to younger women.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
She failed natural selection. Nothing she says counts.
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 7mo ago
Good grief, there's so much cope here you could see it with the naked eye from fucking Ganymede.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 7mo ago
Otherhood. What a hilarious term.