Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Ishabaka 4mo ago
It's 2024. Black people have been prefered hires over Whites for the past 40 years.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
These women sound wrinkled, fat, and bitter.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
She failed to understand that the men seeking more physically active women means they don't like fat chicks.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
You left out homely.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Even if by some long odds they were in shape, they simply don't get that they are at the end of an endless conveyor belt where 21 year olds are having their birthdays, bumping every single woman in that line further along. The ones at the end, they get pitched into the pile of cat yarn and TV melodramas.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Plus they don't seem to get that when a woman bloviates about her "maturity/experience", men damn well know that it always translates to a woman insisting on playing an idiotic game of keep away with her pussy.
Which is a dumb strat because these old hags are already working with an age related handicap to their raw physical attractiveness.
So of course men just start defaulting to chasing women who are younger, better looking, and less of a pain in the fucking ass.
No-Stress-Cat 4mo ago
LMAO
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4mo ago
"I was so angry at being stereotyped based on my age, that I immediately lived up to the stereotype! That really showed 'em!"
Justanaverageguy 4mo ago
I know for a fact women my age aren’t interested in sex, thqts why I go for younger women who clearly are interested in sex with me.
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Maturin_nj 4mo ago
Exactly.
This is the new rules old rules lament. It was OK for her inher 20s to date older guys and find herself ;hey it was just a preference and she cant help what she likes. but now guys are supposed to abide by some gynosentric code of honor. This is just more BP bullshit.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
She: How dare men want to get their rocks off? She: How come men don't want me?
MelkorHimself Mod 4mo ago
No, it's code for keeping your BMI below 30. If you can't do that, why would we stick around long term?
JudgeSmales 4mo ago
Precisely. It sounds like she was getting online matches and when things escalated, they found out she was a fatty. "More physically active" was these men telling her in the nicest non-confrontational way to lose weight. Her opening sentence reeks of "Fat girls deserve love, too" entitlement.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4mo ago
Does she not realize her own words can be swapped out for her own dealbreaker??
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
When I'm hiring, I prefer whites. In women I prefer youth, beauty, and a low/healthy weight.
I realize my response upset/angered you. But I hope you can see it from a man's perspective.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Recently I came across a woman saying that getting older is realizing that a "soulmate" is someone §to bake cakes with, to grow and to watch movies with" [slightly paraphrased]
So, yes, women continuously telling us, that after a certain age, it's not about sex, it's about other things.
so why is it a problem if men recognize patterns?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
IKR? They seem to have this delusion that men will maintain the same level of interest in them after informing those men that their needs will not be met.
Like, you stupid bitches, men have options, and you just told them those options are better.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 4mo ago
If I wanted a non-sexual relationship, I would hang out with my bros and do things like lift weights, drink beers, bust each other’s balls, talk about women / guns / politics, tell (literal) war stories, eat chicken wings / fried cheese, and watch movies with explosions.
In what universe would a non-sexual relationship with some old broad be superior to that? Don’t get me wrong: I’m happily married. If I were single and my best prospects for female companionship were women my age who just wanted to drink herbal tea and watch chick flicks, though… I would vastly prefer to be alone.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Men die sooner than women for a reason. One might sarcastically imply that its because women make men want to.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
did you miss the memo? You need to VaLuE fEMaLe FrIeNdShIp or something like that
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Lurker, if you and the wife are in the DC metro area, ping us. My wife makes killer borscht.
Here's the thing: (American) YOUNG women don't select for soul mate traits: They want chad or psycho PUA, not a boring beta. My wife picked me because, quote, "Someone like you could never cheat." She was shocked at my high school reunion when all my childhood sweethearts were being sweet to me. Best weekend ever.
When I see my 49 year old wife (I thought she turned 50 this year, she was PISSED that I made that mistake), I see the 26 year old I met. Would these women be turned on by an old broke guy even if he used to be a CEO and rich?
Actually, I tried to befriend a former hollywood starlet who had designed the poodle skirt and had interesting tales to tell, but she was a diva and user and annoyed the heck out of my wife so I let our relationship slip. I have many old women friends including a former member of The Hitler Youth and various old ladies who appreciate young men who want to hear their stories and laugh at my tales of the hijinx of modern women.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 4mo ago
Mine too. If we're ever in each other's area, we should get them to engage in a borscht-making contest and gorge ourselves.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Not a good idea. My wife makes it in bulk and then shoves it onto us for 3 weeks. We manage to give some away to the neighbor.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Oh man this song is perfect for this post: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=O4QzHeUE-CM
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
(My vagina is) 8 miles wide https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NrCdq44oRUA
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
You know, I'm a little buzzed and I laughed at that. If they have a sense of humor, then that really does mean a lot. The thing is that many of these women are just like the younger versions of themselves: Humorless, demanding, but also bitter and there isn't a lot to love. That being said, a dear friend of mine who was single in middle age mocked a short guy who was playing tennis with her and i found that interesting. She still had the feminine entitlement arrogance going on.
My father in law is a former gymnast, 5 feet tall, 90 years old, and kicks arse. He's getting a bit set in his ways though which has us worried. Nonetheless, he charms a room.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I used to be like those women when I was blue pilled. My feminization by the gynocracy was complete. I hated being alone because I hated myself. Then I turned 12 and had to nut up. :) I had to give people a reason to like me because I could no longer rely on my "kid pass". I imagine that's what it's like for these women. Their "pussy pass" is expired and they have only themselves at the end of the day and they hate their self.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
And don't have the youth and beauty anymore to encourage a man to overlook those flaws.
I know that was the point you were indirectly making, but I just wanted to be pedantic and "explain the joke" for the benefit of the more spergy out there that can't grasp a point without being beaten half to death by it.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
You're going to have to learn a lot if you want to help us spergs. There was no satire in his post, nothing to "read between the lines", no hidden individual knowledge, nothing to explain.
No-Stress-Cat 4mo ago
I noticed in the video she's the only skinny one, and surrounds herself with a bunch of fatties to make herself look good.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Yeah definitely a Grandmother I'd Like to Fuck(GILF) but the pink hair and demand for commitment are a turn off. A lot of these older women could be getting sex god method from guys like me if they weren't so insufferable. Oh well, plenty of MILFs out there...
No-Stress-Cat 4mo ago
You mean the younger, hotter, skinnier, less flabby MILFs.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Yup.
ZZoMBiE13 4mo ago
"How dare you presume to know how a woman feels? Why aren't you willing to see this from my perspective? How can you not empathize? Now get away from me you will never understand."
Ugh, so tiresome. Glad I'm done with this mess.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Your reaction is like many other men, myself included. I don't actively seek anything beyond what I might want at the moment. The plans for a long-term relationship is completely blown out of the water. It simply isn't viable in this current "era" (my god, I hate that TikTok-ism).
I focus on my other goals, I have fun, I do things that I want to do. I'm sure a lot of other guys are doing this too, which is why women are collectively freaking out. They try to shame men, do the other behaviors that used to gain compliance when they actually had something to offer beyond a few moist holes, but shocker, it isn't working.
I do get a certain amount of satisfaction when I see the pretentious, self-important, haughty and prideful women out there getting brought down low by the reality of civilization over all time -- you need men, and when women turn their backs on us bad shit happens in general.
Enjoy the decline, I know I am.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
She: Now get away from me you are too short. I think men have superficial standards.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
It pisses her off that health and fertility in a female are sexually attractive to males.
The world was not made for her then.
What has education come to these days. She is middle aged and she still does not understand the fundamental facts of life. What do they each in those sex education classes? oh yeah I remember it was 1. Use condoms or you will die and go to hell 2. Make sure she wants it 4. Abort if you mess up 4. Bum banditry is not a perversion. Think that was about it actually.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
It never crosses her mind that maybe men do want a more active women for more than just sex.
I’m getting ready to go for a 7 mile run with multiple hill climbs. I bench press over 300 lbs. I haven’t tried to max a deadlift, but I’d get at least 350 (which is kind of trash TBH, but it’s a bad lift for me). Why would I want some old, withered hag that can’t “match my energy”?
See what I did there? Like the 30-something women who bash men their own age who are yet to overcome the quota hiring practices and aren’t earning the kind of money that she demands of a man. The difference is, a man can eventually match that energy. An old, withered hag is just going to get older and lazier as time progresses.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 4mo ago
Dude… I hit a 1RM deadlift of 350 in March. Then again, I’m in my 60s and I weighed in at 147 pounds that morning, so I’m calling that a win.
I’ve had to slack off on my lifting lately because of my insane travel schedule, but my cardio is on point. I did nearly two hours Thursday, 50 minutes yesterday, and about 90 minutes today. Not many women my age could keep up with me. To tell the truth: not many women half my age could keep up with me.
I don’t expect a woman to match me lift-for-lift or mile-for-mile at my pace, but if we’re going to do things together…
My wife and I frequently hike together near our house, and we flew to Europe for a four-day hike last year. She’s younger than I am, has a normal range BMI, and exercises several days per week. She tapped out after Day 2. She’s floated the idea of trying again, and I told her that she’s going to have to train a lot harder than she did last time before I agree to it.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Yeah, admittedly I hold you up as a little bit of a role model to what to aspire to as I get older haha. 2.5x body weight would take a long time to get there, especially on top of marathon training, but just setting the goal puts me in the top 1% of people easily. It’ll also have the ancillary benefit of making me look more respectable as I age, versus the normal American look of a lump of potatoes. Women especially, it’s insane how poorly the older women I’ve worked with in life have aged.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 4mo ago
When women like the OP complain about men from their generation not being able to keep up with them, I have to wonder what they mean. On average, men are athletically superior to women at every age and by every measure. Most people in western countries are so out of shape that non-athletes criticizing the opposite sex for not being “as fit as I am” seems silly. A woman who can’t walk up three flights of stairs isn’t going to be constrained by being with a guy who also takes the elevator every time.
If a woman is well-above average in fitness for her age, she’s likely to have better endurance than an average man her age (although he will still be much stronger), but how many times have we seen articles written by these old broads; only to see from their pictures that they’re frumpy and dumpy even after being dolled up and photoshopped?
I recall an article from one of the UK papers that made the rounds in the manosphere a few years ago wherein the women (in their 50 if I recall) were complaining about the lack of men they found attractive. The writer insisted on calling them “beautiful” (they were far it), and took their criticisms of men at face value. One of the main criticisms was that the men they could get “couldn’t keep up” with them.
You could tell with a glance that not one of those women were athletic, so I’m not sure what activities they were engaging in wherein the men were falling behind. Walking around buying things doesn’t need to be a team sport.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I know the exact article. They glammed up those old bats to hell. Maybe one of them was worth slump busting for a dude in the 35-50 age range.
But we both know what they actually mean. They mean money. They’re a bunch of dolled up professional women who bought the “Sex and the City” fantasy that they could live it up until their late 30’s and choose from a wide array of high value men.
So they have their career, and the small subset of men that they find attractive aren’t interested in them. They still aren’t short of options, but their options aren’t to their liking. Maybe they only make a modest living. Maybe they look like a potato. But dudes who have it all going on, we don’t need those old women.
I know that, at 38, what I’ve been able to do in life dwarfs most of those “career women”. And I even have been able to lose 40 lbs despite my Manlet genetics. They had it all before the age of 30, now it’s our turn.