Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
MelkorHimself
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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8. We accept images from Imgur, Postimage, and ImgBB.
- 9. Other content may be posted on the weekends. See the types of content we allow.
Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
Link Flair:
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago
As someone who is getting more involved in my church community, I have to admit that one thing I notice is that a lot of the most eager people in general are the ones who have made a train wreck out of their life. It kind of makes sense, as a lot of people need to get humbled into submission before realizing that maybe they don’t have it all figured out.
This being said, here’s why I advise men to watch out for the born again Christian. The story of Abraham stuck out to me as particularly wise for this; Abraham constantly questioned God until he really got everything from God, and proved his faith when he was willing to sacrifice Issac, trusting that God had a plan. A lot of these women haven’t had their “sacrifice Issac” moment. Who knows how “Christian” they’ll be when faced with some sort of adversity.
And this doesn’t even touch upon this girl, with 4 (!) kids from another man (men?) and calling her a 5 is an insult to 5’s.
Let her be the woman that attends mass to do nothing but eye down the rows for men that come by themselves regularly.
otter1 5mo ago
My ex wife was a big Christian until she met atheist Johnny Handsome and started fucking him on the side. Now they are married in a civil ceremony. War bride syndrome. Women take the frame of the man they are with and discard it just as easily. They have no true convictions.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago
I agree; he who has been forgiven much loves much.
But a truly humble woman in her circumstances would not lead with her list of demands nor point fingers in blame nor play the victim. She would instead lead with her mistakes and how she is improving.
It's one way I've learned to "spot the chameleon/predator".
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago
I was once chatting with a single mom. Now I just wouldn’t, it’s too messy unless you’re a dad as well. But back then, I was more willing to get over it. She seemed pretty accountable for being in the situation, so it wasn’t a dealbreaker for me.
Even back in my blue pilled days, though, a woman acting like another man’s kid is something I should cherish is insanity.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 5mo ago
The man who raised me did exactly that. The female psyop was 100% effective. Imagine being so enthralled with a woman, so under her spell, that her kid from another man seemed like something you just had to raise as your own.
I'm thankful I had a good father, but to this day the man is as BP as they come. Never saw the divorce rape coming, never really put the pieces together.
DextroShade 5mo ago
So divorcing your husband and wrecking your own home is traditional?
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 5mo ago
Wait, she even got to be married? She mentions being a single mom (of 4), but I don't see any mention to having been married - which means her kids could be very well be from situationships and ONS.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 6mo ago
This profile has a strong Karen vibe as it goes on.
RPU_mike 6mo ago
Pretty sure that’s a dude.
AurelianWay Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
That resting bitch face pic (3rd from the top) is what she is really like. Women love to tell on themselves even on dating apps. That Karen face is what you will have to deal with when things don't go her way.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 6mo ago
If it weren't for the kids, this would almost fit the tradthot flair.
Then why aren't you with the father of your children, hmmm?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
Based on her complaint list, I assume her baby daddy(ies) are toothless jailbird porn addicts with blue collar jobs and who could give a shit about church or anything else that would allow her to pretend a social status she does not in truth have.
4 Kids and one of them special needs = expensive, and Cletus, Billy-Ray, and Jim-Bob make all their money under the table so she can't easily tap them for child support.
So she needs some sucker to sign a contract allowing her to legally enslave him.
chunky 6mo ago
First message you send her, make sure you express sorrow for the loss of her husband. Widowhood is the only righteous form of single motherhood, if she is traditional. And if she is confused, then she's not traditional.
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
I dunno, maybe all 4 of her baby daddies got killed in a drive-by...or police shot them to death while trying to pull off a bank robbery...
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 6mo ago
That's the right question to ask. She's another one of those people who hit rock bottom and then looked up. That's great if it's genuine, and I'm not one to say whether it is or not.
But the question requires an answer. All sorts of pertinent mischief are likely to be hiding in the ambiguity of that unanswered question.
When did dating apps stop differentiating between divorcees, widows, and never-married people?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 6mo ago
It's not just dating apps. Some bloopie on reddit was white knighting at me on behalf of single moms, and said something about "when my dad died...". When I told him that his mother was a widow and deserved better than to be labeled as a single mom, both he and the feminists in that sub (/r/NiceGuys if memory serves) shrieked in horror.
ElliotPagesLeftTit 6mo ago
I believe in traditional marriage/ gender roles.
Translation: I’ll take care of my kids and “our” house. You pay for everything. My kids will always come first. You must be a masculine man but always defer to me.
chunky 6mo ago
Of course, the traditional man always has control of all the finances, and a traditional woman would not have a credit card. She would be given an allowance for groceries and household expenses, and would have to ask for a splurge, like a new dress to wear for church.
Of course, women were also traditionally granted dowries before marriage, and I would expect her to bring a large one if I'm to take on 5 dependents.
She asks for "tradition", give her that, and in great abundance.
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
By today's standards, that is considered to be a "traditional" marriage.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
When a modern woman says that, she means that men should stick strictly to their gender roles while she picks and chooses which parts of the gender role she follows.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Weed "friendly"... yeah, fuck off with that shit. Its a big tell when some post-wall hag is desperate enough to allow that into her life, among other things.
Her looks are atrocious, and even if she was sincere it would be a big reach to even bother with this one. Think I'll just toss this horse a corn cob and she can chew on that while she ages out.
lemko1968 6mo ago
Conservative? She has purple hair in her profile picture. I doubt many conservative women sport Technicolor tresses and even fewer conservative men like that.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
@MentORPHEUS You missed the nose ring one of the friends is sporting. Quite frankly, as one gets older it gets tougher to find a nice photo of yourself so she probably used an earlier photo that was prior to the cleanup operation.
Kudos to her, nonetheless, for laying out a nearly perfect trap: If not for those clues, and the crotch goblins, she'd appear to be a perfect, chunky country girl.
In answer to @Typo-MAGAshiv question: It's possible Cletus is serving time for opiate trafficking or got busted for running a meth lab to pay for the trailer park fees and wal-mart shopping. She at least doesn't run off a list of demands. There's an old quote:
Hypocrisy is the compliment vice pays to virtue.
MentORPHEUS TRP Endorsed 6mo ago
Pillar. A pillar of salt!
The picture of her 3 friends gives off strong feminist and single mom vibes!
Pic889 5mo ago
4 Suezmax-sized tankerfuls of salt for me.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
The age of the chameleon is upon us.
As the great Saint Kevin said "winter is coming" and these grasshoppers are starting to feel the chill.
Never let anyone say that women are stupid. They know exactly how to manipulate men to get what they want from us. What you're seeing is a trend of women who are starting to play chameleon in order to get brought in from the cold. They are pretending to give men what we have been asking for and they will fool a large number of us who aren't RP aware.
The problem that they have though is a simple one: you can't unfuck your fuck ups. These women have swallowed the feminism pill and their outcomes are evident. This woman in particular is a key example of how women want traditional men and know what traditional men want, but her past disqualifies her from it so she has to pretend (i.e. lie) about who she is and hope that we don't look too closely at her.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
While there is no perfect way to always avoid a chameleon, young and childless are your best bets, if she is at least halfway attractive, over 25 and not at least engaged already, any claim that she is a traditional woman is sus AF.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Agree, beware the chameleons.
Predatory women in acquisitive mode have a remarkable ability in this regard. They can fool almost any man into thinking they enjoy his hobbies. His interests, values, religion, and dreams become hers, and the trap is set.
According to Shannon (The Predatory Woman), this is instinctive and therefore not even conscious on the part of the woman. She is not lying; and so the man is also fooled because she is so sincere.
The coming shift will be interesting. Many younger men (in church/homeschool circles) I speak with are very RP aware.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 6mo ago
This is true, and it's why hating women doesn't make sense. Be cautious and adapt, but hating them for their instincts is like hating dogs for sniffing at you.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
It is also instinctual to abandon these interests after marriage. Suddenly she is not into your hobbies, your interests, or your values anymore. Being a chameleon is natural at first, but exhausting in the long run.
Once women are aware of this, they can learn to put effort in. Part of frame (marriage game) is that she learns to conform herself to your desires, dreams, hobbies, intentions - her will to yours. If a wife can only be taught this is necessary, she can make tremendous strides. My wife went fishing with me last week... for hours. She does not fish. She went because she wanted to be with me and knows I like her company.
Was not natural at first, she had to learn this kind of companionship/brotherhood/friendship was important, and put that into practice. It can be done, but know that is is not instinctive and that it takes effort and training.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 6mo ago
A truly conservative/traditional woman wouldn't have put herself in the position where she'd need a bailout from a history of non-traditional non-conservative decisions; or at the very least would accept that she is not deserving of one as a recent convert.
You know, instead of showing up hungover and bitter at the afterparty still dripping from all holes with a list of demands that she clearly does not reciprocate in kind for.
This is just a predator (poorly) donning a coat of camouflage.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 6mo ago
i.e. Someone, please, bail me out. For I've fucked up good and don't want to do this alone anymore.
ObliviousDuck Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
She's using pictures of herself in her 20s when she was clearly not a conservative and yet post a recent picture beyond the fold where she looks a bit over 50, fat and damaged by pregnancies. Is that last picture some way for her hamster to forgive her dishonnesty?
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
Sorry Karen, I would normally be overqualified for the position, however I've had my wisdom teeth removed. I must therefore regretfully decline.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 6mo ago
This is why I set my age filter to 18-28... sigh.
No-Stress-Cat 6mo ago
Crunchy, like if you pulled down her panties it would sound like velcro tearing apart, or like got crust and shit all up in there?
EDIT: Fuck, I just grossed myself out...