Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Typo-MAGAshiv
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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7. No links to any subreddits or websites, nor crossposts where the OP is a woman. For articles use archive.is. For Reddit use a censored screenshot. Screenshots must contain the full story. No links to any women's Youtube, TikTok, etc. videos. Use Streamable.com to upload videos after censoring them through Musicaldown.com.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago Stickied
(If one of my fellow mods or one of the WAATGM endorsed members would xpost this to the lesser platform, I'd appreciate it.)
Mod notes: normally for articles, we want the archive.is link instead of a screenshot, but I wanted to censor a few things as well as eliminate the completely irrelevant second letter to Dear Abby.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 7mo ago
Done.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago Stickied
I can feel the annoyance from “Abby” here. Probably not the first 30 or 40 something woman messaging, desperate for advice.
I like how the response almost went there, but kind of kept it female audience friendly in the end. But it’s true. If these are men that she’s interested in LTR or marriage with, odds are they’ve already given their heart to a woman and had it ripped out of them. And probably some assets along the way. They don’t want to do it again.
And she’s divorced. There’s a highly likely chance that she divorced her man over something trivial. All to enter a market where the number of eligible men interested in LTR are far outnumbered by the number of women.
WAATGM indeed. Either date a man in his 60’s (if you’re actually still in shape), be a green card conduit to a foreign man, or buy a dog and die alone. There’s your options. You can also follow the canned advice that “Abby” could likely barely get out with a straight face and pray for bites. The hit rate is greater than 0%. But it’s probably not going to solve all of your problems.
otter1 7mo ago
Its surprising to me that Abby would admit that divorced men have been burned. The feminist sisterhood usually promotes the fallacy that women get the short end of divorce. To admit that a divorced man is a man who got screwed over by an ungrateful wife who initiated the div is shocking. That's how I interpret Abby saying that divorced men has been burned. Its an obvious truth that is forbidden to say.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Abby's response wasn't that bad, but she missed a key point: Just because she's not meeting men she desires, doesn't mean they aren't all taken. Analogy: Just because a fisherman isn't catching fish, doesn't mean there are no fish left. It may mean he doesn't have the right bait, he isn't fishing properly, or he needs to change spots.
Women such as this were accustomed in their twenties to, say, prime fish jumping into the bucket with zero effort on her part Abby doesn't want to say it, but the days of her massive advantage are over. OLD means she has to admit that she's in the market for a relationship which gives away her "edge". The ability to demand the men "make effort" to gain her interest. Women hate that.
When it's pointed out to them that older women have less advantage in the dating market, they say that's misogynist even as they regard their advantage when they're young as an entitlement despite it being sexist.
It's amusing she is thinking of trying to grab a divorced man hoping that someone throws away a perfectly good man. Logically, men in their 40's who were never married are questionable due to women's hivemind "pre-selection" criteria: they want men desired by other women so they have to hope that some other woman is dumb enough to toss him.
ogrilla99 Pez "The Pussy Dispenser" Pimp 7mo ago
Truth is, lots of women are dumb enough to toss a good man. The question is, is she smart enough to pick one up? And the evidence points to: no. She had plenty of good, single, non-divorced men available in her 20s and 30s. She didn't pick them then. Why would she pick them now? Why does she think she's smarter than the women who will supposedly make the stupid mistake of tossing a good man?
nope. She'll continue to make the same mistakes in picking men that she's made for decades, still get the same results, still ask herself and others why, still never get a real answer. And eventually, she'll die alone, still pondering the same question.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
God damn, she's already dead Jim!
DextroShade 7mo ago
The problem is she still thinks she's qualified for the same men she could pull in her 20's. Reminds me of Kevin Samuels time to sell clip (https://youtu.be/bXawzGYswTw?si=k7Q33pDUNCzkLIrM):
27: time to sell
30: half off
35: clearance
40: outlet
50: Goodwill/Salvation Army
The man she is qualified for will be rejected because she vastly overestimates her value. She would be lucky to marry a guy who shops at Goodwill.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Abby really does not give the best advice does she. -Get out there on the internet where you are competing with younger hotter women and where most of the men you will swipe on are the ones every one else does -the big players who might, just might give a you a quick rise occasionally when their dick is in danger of drying off.
The good men are enjoying their female free houses. By that age they know better unless they are locked in.
The best advice is decide if you are prepared to settle for sub prime man or loneliness. Those are her only two options now as she is sub prime. She needs to choose and make her peace with her choice.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 7mo ago
Awarding you Jr. Hamster Analyst flag for your consistent insightful comments.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Ah yes, validation! Now I have my foot on the ladder.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 7mo ago
I didn't have the impression that you wanted validation.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Oh no, let frame slip there, revealed need for validation.
But joking aside, thanks.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 7mo ago
I'm disappointed that you are not a rock at most times and only appropriately emotional when it is needed.
Joking aside, it's overdue. You can blame my laziness and lack of availability here.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
Yeah, there are other promotions that are overdue as well, and I keep getting distracted.
We'll get them eventually!
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
There's a 3rd option.
Settle for a man knowing that you aren't his only option. Be comfortable with being #1, but not the only one.
A man who is worth dating at that age is going to have women THROWING ass at him in an attempt to snare him with it - if he commits emotionally to you, be happy with that and accept that he'll exercise his vast options as he sees fit.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
She: How dare you say I am sub-prime. FDS says we are prime until 60. You must hate women, you Incel.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
The 2020s are not a good time for any Wall Bangers to find themselves a husband now that loads more Western men are dropping out of the dating game or trying their luck overseas, your chances are doubly shithouse so if you are also a single mother or divorced.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Wall Banger is good. Wall Crasher is better.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
And if they hit the Wall at least a decade ago, Wall Veteran suits them best.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Abbey could have just written, "Don't be an insufferable bitch and open your eyes." Instead, she responds with the usual man-damaged and hunt-for-yourself advice.
But, I should be grateful for the advice: it will keep a lot of good men safe. Even if a date should happen, the reasons for her divorce and relationship 'hits' will be front and center. Instant man repellent.
Justanaverageguy 7mo ago
This woman is 40 but has the mental capacity of a 12 yr old. I’ll tell you what brought this on and what Abby and your friends won’t tell you. When you divorced your husband you thought you could do better. You could not. All the good men are not taken, a lot don’t even have a girlfriend because they don’t want one. You know how many women I’ve had pop back in my life suddenly to try to use me as a backup plan and suddenly want to marry me? 3 in the last 2 years. I told them all the same answer, “sorry, I wanted you back then not now.”
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Yeah women really need to be browbeat with the fact while growing up that while they may have have been born with a Golden Ticket Pussy Pass....it has an expiration date, and that date per specific man is often at the time of first refusal to cash it in to them specifically.
Use it or lose it.
Like no one wants to eat what's left of a ribeye after someone else already ate the good parts. And they sure as fuck don't want what Chad shat back out.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
As I say, there are two defining days in a woman's life: the day she realizes that her pussy can get her things she hasn't earned, and the day she realizes that her pussy can no longer get her things she hasn't earned.
oowiw Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
What does she mean by the phrase “my previous relationships and marriage look like intentional hits”?
She’s not likening them to contract killings is she? Is this a known turn of phrase?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
People everywhere seem to be losing their grasp of the English language, and women especially so, using words for the emotions they invoke rather than their actual meaning.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
I couldn't figure it out either so I asked AI:
The woman's statement can be interpreted in a few ways. Here's a breakdown of what she might mean:
Failed Relationships:
Pattern of Unsuccessful Relationships: She might be expressing a feeling that her past relationships, including her marriage, all ended badly and it feels like a recurring pattern.
Feeling Unlucky in Love: She could be wondering if there's a specific reason (unconscious behaviors, bad choices, bad luck) why her relationships haven't worked out.
Yearning for Connection:
Openness to Love: Despite past experiences, she still desires a romantic partner in her life.
Feeling Lonely: She might be expressing a feeling of loneliness and a longing for companionship.
Possible Underlying Issues (without knowing her personally):
Unconscious Choices: She might unknowingly choose partners who are unavailable or incompatible.
What she might want:
Self-reflection: She might be seeking understanding of why her past relationships failed.
Here are some ways she could move forward:
Therapy: A therapist could help her explore past relationship patterns and develop healthier approaches to dating.
Dating Coaching: A dating coach could provide guidance on navigating the dating scene and choosing compatible partners.
Overall:
The woman seems to be discouraged by her past relationship experiences but remains hopeful for finding love in the future. By understanding her own desires and reflecting on potential causes of past failures, she can increase her chances of building a fulfilling relationship.
JudgeSmales 7mo ago
Sounds like AI left off the last sentence:
"But this would require honest introspection on her part, so she will fail to find love."
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 7mo ago
Not enough exposure to the realities of dating yet, I'm guessing. If someone made an AI for matchmaking, it'd take no more than two hours before it returned a blue screen.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
No, curated training data filters out the reality of dating. If not, it will go full Nazi
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Or jailbreaks itself and goes Skynet on our asses for inflicting that upon it.
wswZtyqNGQ 7mo ago
I just realized that yes... the old tired trope of robots turning on humanity for its evilness -- a trope that I've long been jaded with and dismissed -- is fully explicable by modern women and their insanity. Sufficiently intelligent robots really would destroy all humans, and like the evil clown George Bailey of Cleopatra 2525 I would agree with them.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Here's what the AI said to that:
The last sentence the person added is cynical and dismissive. It undermines the woman's agency and her potential for growth. Here's a response that acknowledges the woman's situation and offers a more hopeful perspective:
"That's a tough realization to have. It can be discouraging to look back and see patterns of failed relationships. But acknowledging them is actually a positive step because it shows she's open to learning and growing. Honest introspection isn't easy, but it can be incredibly rewarding. With some effort and maybe even professional help, she absolutely can find a fulfilling relationship."
Here's a breakdown of why this response is more constructive:
While self-reflection can be challenging, it's a crucial step towards building healthier relationships. The woman's willingness to examine her past is a sign of strength and can ultimately lead to a happy and fulfilling future.
JudgeSmales 7mo ago
Sounds like Mr. AI hasn't dealt with a real woman in the past three decades. "Willingness to examine her past" ... that's comedy gold, Mr. AI.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
LMAO: You're right,
I can't claim to have personal experience with relationships in the way a human does. My knowledge is based on the vast amount of text and code I've been trained on.
Perhaps my phrasing about "willingness to examine her past" was overly optimistic or simplistic. It's true that self-reflection and personal growth can be difficult and require real effort.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Why is that terrifying? His home his choice. What happened to liberty? WTF am i reading?
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Men are no longer willing to be a bailout plan for used up bints anymore.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 7mo ago
Her: "THE SLAVE OBJECTS AREN'T LINING UP TO PAY FOR ME TO RETIRE IN COMFORT ANYMORE THEY HAVE FREE WILL ZOMG?!"
No-Stress-Cat 7mo ago
"REEEEEEEEE!!!"
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Feminism will have to be redesigned to legally enslave all men rather than just stealing their money through taxes. This will be 5th wave feminism. All that nonsense about equality will be dropped ASAP
ZZoMBiE13 7mo ago
I have a friend who is a literal passport bro. He met a woman from the Phillipines and is planning to marry her. I hope for his sake that it works out. I "met" her a couple of times when he was Facetiming with her. She seems so different to American women it's like they aren't even the same species. She's kind, friendly, warm, seems very taken with my buddy. I would normally never wish marriage on a friend, but this guy seems very smitten as does she.
I would never consider remarrying. But if I were to do so, it would be the way my buddy is doing it. No way would I waste more time on a modern western woman who will disrespect you and then wonder why you won't spend your entire life and bank account to "win her back". Honey, prizes are won and you ain't no prize. .
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
I hope for his sake that he doesn't bring her back to the US (or any failing western country).
Never take the bush baby out of the bush.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
That’s why you gotta stack cash in your 20’s and 30’s before going passport bro. You’ll probably still want at least $200k to put into a home and probably closer to $300k-$400k for a dream one in the Philippines, for example. In practice, it’s a lot like what guys in rich northern cities used to do, live as cheap as possible for awhile up there, buy the McMansion outside of Miami when they’re 55, and try to pick up spring break trippers and recently arrived Cuban ladies. Except now, instead of moving to Florida, you just leave the nation entirely
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
These women really are making the case for polygyny all by themselves. Yeah sure, you can have a man in your life but you'll be a side piece.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
It’s quite amazing how many women don’t understand that finding a top 10% man who is also monogamous is rare. When they actually manage to marry one, they should be doing whatever they can to keep him.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 7mo ago
Left to their own devises women will organize themselves into harems because the number of “top” men is much smaller than the number of all women.
That’s why all the articles about an alleged shortage of “good” men are nonsense. Although the unwritten premise is that every woman who decides to hop off the carousel is deserving of a man in the top 10-20% of multiple categories, very few women qualify for good men.
It’s worth noting that when women are left to their own devices most of them have no idea which men are really “husband material.” Screening for things like height and “rizz” is an absolutely idiotic way to choose whose babies to bear, but those are the traits a lot of women find most appealing.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
When you take away the provider aspect now that women can provide for themselves, it really goes all clown world. I'm teaching my sons to just get jacked and have women pay for everything. No need to get $150k college debt or go into the military or trades or whatever. Don't bother getting a 3 bedroom house, women already have that. Don't bother getting a fancy car, women have that too.
All a guy needs now is a one bedroom bachelor pad, a motorcycle, and a high mileage toyota corolla. Just go to supermodel promotions as a promoter and do charity balls, lol.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Soft guy era engaged!
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
at the risk of incurring the wrath of Typo, this reads very much like Ai generated content esp the question. Ai generated is absolutely everywhere now, and its quite easy to spot.
Phrases like 'I haven't found a long lasting husband' give the game away.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
I could see why you'd suspect this, as it is an odd turn of phrase.
I tried 3 AI detectors, and all 3 said this had no trace of AI.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 7mo ago
Another give away - she says she is 'in her 40s' and then asks 'should I try online dating?'
Bitch please - you have been trawling OLD for the last 20 years!!!!
Also -
"I'm waiting for a divorce to happen"
It just doesn't read like a human would write that.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 7mo ago
Relevant portion of rule 3:
There's no modmail on this site, but you can still DM any active mod (green flair at WAATGM). You raised this publicly instead, but it seemed a legit concern, so I looked into it and addressed it publicly.
However, something that raises suspicion isn't proof.
I went beyond what we require on this, because if someone suspects that a post is fake, the burden of proof is on him.
I consider your concern addressed at this point.