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Forums.Red / WhereAreAllTheGoodMen / Dual Mating Strategy - DENIED!

Woman divorces husband because friends told her to do so.
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mustangfrank1

Posted 1y ago in Dual Mating Strategy - DENIED! - Permalink - Locked - 5K Views



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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 1y ago

Haahaahaahaaa.... you gotta post this one at Reddit, man... hahaahaahaaa...

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

just going to put this out there: this reads very strange. I have noticed it happen quite a bit recently. Something seems a bit off about these kinds of posts. there is a faint whiff of Ai.

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BecomingABetterMan1 1y ago

Let's test it out. I'll use Google Gemini 3.5 (I'm a tech nerd in the body of a bodybuilder).

Me:

Write me a reddit style post asking for help. OP is a woman in her mid-30's who was influenced by her friends to divorce her loving husband, only to find herself not getting what she had hoped for out of being single. Men who date her won't commit to her and now she wishes she could go back. This should read like a mid-30's woman writing a reddit post for help on how to win her ex-husband back.

Gemini:

Huge Regret: Ditched a Good Man, Now Single and Lost (F, 35) Ugh, ladies, I need a major reality check and some serious advice. Buckle up, this is a doozy.

So, I was married for 10 years to a fantastic guy, Mark. We had our routine, sure, but it was comfortable, supportive, and we always had each other's backs. Maybe a little too comfortable. My friends, bless their hearts, were all about living your best life, YOLO, and "don't settle!" They convinced me the spark was gone and there was more out there. Looking back, I think they were just jealous of our stability.

Fast forward to "single and fabulous" me. Turns out, it's not all champagne brunches and carefree flings. Dating in your mid-thirties is a whole different ball game. The guys I meet are either commitment-phobes or looking for something casual. They text all night but vanish when it comes to meeting my parents.

Meanwhile, Mark? He's living his best life too, but apparently it involves a successful new business and a very cute Golden Retriever. I see him on social media, happy and thriving, and all I can think about is what a colossal idiot I was to let him go.

Here's the kicker: I bumped into him at the coffee shop the other day. We talked for what felt like hours, and there was still that spark, that connection. He's obviously hesitant, and rightfully so. How do I even begin to approach getting him back? Is it too late to show him I was wrong and the grass definitely wasn't greener? Any advice, Reddit fam?

P.S. Please don't judge me too harshly. I'm kicking myself enough already.

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

that's pretty good, except for the bit when she says her ex is on social media with a dog.

he is balls deep in a younger better looking woman. that is what is going on.

And the meeting in the coffee shop, that went on for hours...still that spark? yeah no, that's just blue pill nonsense.

I've been married twice. Divorce raped twice. When married, I thought my wife was the most beautiful woman on the planet. It's a form of positive oneitis - it keeps you together. Then, when the wife dumps a man, he goes through a process of reversal. After a few weeks, you see that she is actually rather ordinary looking. You start noticing other women. Eventually, you realise that your ex is not only a cunt, but ugly to boot.

so...if I met my ex in a coffee shop,,, there would not be an 'hours long' chat.... there would not be any spark.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yeah I think there is a form of war bride effect for men. Once we're over a oneitis we can never go back. We imprint once and once that is gone we see her as she is currently(old, haggarly, etc).

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

The old fairy tales are full of wisdom. There is a fairy tale about an ugly old woman that puts a spell on a man, and he thinks her beautiful and young.

That is just a metaphor for love. When a man loves a woman, he thinks of her as the most beautiful woman on earth. When the woman takes advantage of him, acts like a cunt, divorces him - the spell is broken. He is quite quickly set from from the spell and the 'scales fall from his eyes' and he sees her as she really is.

That is my expereince. The fairy tale is simply a metaphor for human nature.

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whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

Yeah I studied a lot of Alan Watts and Joseph Campbell. We could call up the story of Medusa who was once a beautiful woman who was transformed into a Gorgon with snakes for hair and a gaze that could turn people to stone. Or "The Picture of Dorian Gray" by Oscar Wilde: Although not a myth, this novel explores themes of vanity, moral corruption, and the consequences of one's actions. Dorian Gray remains youthful and beautiful while a portrait of him ages and reveals his inner corruption. When others see the portrait, they are horrified by the true nature of his soul.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

And you have a nose for it!

That said, I noticed that too. The grammar is impeccable, yet uses slang like "cos". Strikes me as someone who is very strictly educated but has never read a book in English. Therefore I'd guess an Asian who learned English for school, to become a nurse, but it's not the native language.

I mean either that, or it's AI.

Or maybe YOU are the AI and you wrote both posts to confuse me! Aieee!

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

Yeah I am guessing either Indian or Asian, it has that weird stilted pattern to it. Or some other ESL from that hemisphere.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

Most people under 40 can't write worth a shit

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

But waymens have waaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyy more EMotioAL inTELigenz .. witch makes up 4 it? coz it aint all about the gamar rulez, its about feelz. just check you're male privaledge!!!!!

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

hahagahhaaaa oh shit yeah bettur chack muh privuladge

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Lone_Ranger Live by the pork sword, die by the pork sword 1y ago

It's more than not being able to write. She actually writes ok (for a woman).

It's the lack of hamstering. Ai makes lots of 'category errors'. For example, this post rings false even from the first sentence:

"I divorced my husband out of group influence last year in 2023"

No woman can be that honest if it makes her look bad. And that sentence basically makes her look terrible.

"I feel lonely and can't find a man"

Again - where is the hamstering? More normal would be to say something about all men being trash, and not worth dating / dishonest / ghosting / something about emotional blah blah.

This is way to blunt and to the point.

"....owing to the fact that I'm not attractive..."

this is where my Ai detector went into overdrive. When have you ever heard a woman self describe as 'not attractive'? I have never ever heard of that. Anyway, we all know that all women are 10s.

This post just reads fake from start to finish. @NotaBene

I know I know.... I'm not allowed to say its fake unless I have proof that it is. Just presenting my reasoning.

Let's not be naive - Ai posting has exploded recently - as a way to easily make click bait.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

"I divorced my husband out of group influence last year in 2023"

No woman can be that honest if it makes her look bad. And that sentence basically makes her look terrible.

She's blaming her friends. She fails to take responsibility.

She looks terrible to you because you see through that garbage.

Most bloopies and normies will think "oh you poor dear".

"....owing to the fact that I'm not attractive..."

this is where my Ai detector went into overdrive. When have you ever heard a woman self describe as 'not attractive'? I have never ever heard of that

Many times. Often, they're convinced that they're fat when they aren't . Even more often, they're fishing for compliments. I fell for that frequently when I was younger.

The "I'm a ten!" thing in so many videos is just bullshit posturing. They know better. It's bravado, striking a pose.

I know I know.... I'm not allowed to say its fake unless I have proof that it is

Then don't.

Just assume (as most people do) that everything on the internet is fake, and that everyone knows it already.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Due to a bunch of things that caused me to end up with a “new normal” (at least for now), I’ve seen countless stories like this lately. For some reason a lot of women walk away from situations and relationships in the mistaken belief that they’re going to quickly end up in a better place.

Obviously, that almost never works out for reasons that are well known around here. This woman is on track to join the growing number of women who end up the subject of a video with a title like, “Woman Divorces Husband and INSTANTLY Regrets it!”

She bailed out of the Wife Zone and ended up in the 304 Zone. There’s no coming back from the 304 Zone: no self respecting man would take back a woman who divorced him to ride the carousel after she realizes that she’s just another bowling ball as far as anyone else is concerned.

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Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 1y ago

I swear I've seen this one before. Maybe I've read so many of these that they're all running together.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Sometimes I find myself several minutes into a video before realizing that I’ve already seen it.

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NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

You've been hitting the "Taylor the Fiend" vids too I see.

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lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 1y ago

Among others. I’ve been watching a lot of SSM lately. I don’t agree with him on everything, but he has some great stories.

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hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

He’s like me in that he’s from Massachusetts and I’m planning my relocation to around where he lives now, too. My home state is a disaster now, sadly.

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Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 1y ago

Give him his alimony and divorce rapings back with interest and let him have 5 extra girls on his roster to make up for the bodies you accrued post divorce

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prapra-horse 1y ago

It wasn't wife, but that is what I have asked for - just more. Got some of it. I don't think I will get all of it as it nearly impossible to meet my demands, and I don't care, she is chasing and she seems to love it [to whatever extent].

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Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 1y ago

Remember, when a woman pulls shit like this, she never regrets that she did it. She regrets that it did not work out as planned.

Never take them back.

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mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

You got that right.
She never regrets that she did it. She regrets that it did not work out as planned.

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Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

If the husband was really evil, he would tell her to convince 3 of her friends to get divorced before he could even consider being in her presence again.

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JudgeSmales 1y ago

Level up, Kween. You got this.

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GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 1y ago

"Group Influence" - right, an entire woman's existence. Its just that the good ones aren't stupid cunts that bow to such peer pressure.

But lets be honest, she's just ducking accountability (again) so she can come out as the victim somehow.

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