Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
Rules of conduct:
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
- 4. No brigading, doxxing or witch-hunting. Do not look for the individuals posted here, nor ask or give their personal info/social media, nor ask or give the source or you will be banned and reported to the admins. See here and here.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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6. No personal information in dating profiles or social media accounts. Take a screenshot and censor all names, social media, hometown, school, and place of work. Additionally, censor any children's faces if their mommy included them in any profile photos.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2mo ago Stickied
Wrong, wrong, and wrong. "Lower [y]our standards" means you stop filtering men based on superficial qualities such as height and looks, not on morals and quality of character. It also does not mean you should think that just because anyone says you should be less picky on things such as income does not mean anyone is advising women to go from exclusively chasing doctors and lawyers means they have to settle for the guy who cannot hold down a job at a gas station. In the case of income, it means maybe accepting the kind of guy who will be able to afford a modest sized house rather than McMansion sized place.
The fact that so many women complain about abusers and red flags tells me that many of them are filtering solely on aspects such as looks and height. Many women will overlook every other bad trait because they prefer the guy who looks better in photos over the guy who is stable, reliable, and has good character. And many women who complain about the men they choose just claim that "all men are like that," as it allows them an excuse to absolve themselves of their own bad decisions in men. So for that kind of woman, "lowering her standards'" means choosing a less attractive guy who is just as bad, even though that is not what anyone is advising nor does her outlook on "all men" reflect any sort of reality.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Well said. However, counterpoint: what if he's hot? Like, really really hot?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Then it's spelled H-A-W-T, duh!
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
The story of Paula the Heightist Paula was an unabashed heightist. She belonged to a tall club, where women needed to be at least 5’10” and men 6’2”. Paula was 5’10”, 32, and was attractive. She modeled in High School and in her first year of college. From the neck up, I would say an 8.5-8.8. She had a very pretty face, and she was very easy on the eyes. From the neck down was another story. Typical for a tall girl, not much in the breast department. Her body I would rate –C, for she didn’t have much of a waist and her butt was sort of there, but nothing exceptional.
This didn’t stop Paula from telling me all about her relationships with men 6’ plus, knowing I was 5’8”. Paula would only look at men 6’ plus, and most of her talk about the man centered on his height. One day, I met Paula and her latest man. He was either in his late 40’s or early 50’s, had about 50/50 black and grey hair. He was about 6’1”. I met Paula a few days later, and she gushed on how great he was. Over time she sensed that something was not right in the relationship, so she hired a private investigator to check him out. The investigator told Paula he had another girl friend, and he had a sex offense on his record. Paula was devastated. She told me this when I saw her with her girlfriends while I was out clubbing. I ran into Paula sometime later, and she was over the moon. Her latest man, she named Baby Beef. He was 6’7” and was 26. She went on how being next to him made her feel so feminine and safe. All the time talking about his height to me, knowing I am 5’8”. It didn’t take time for this relationship to fall apart, for it was based upon her obsession of height. So I was not surprised 2 months later when it did. And as in the other failed relationships, she was down in the dumps. I met her in a bar we both liked, and I could see how depressed she was. Months later, I ran into here again. And again she had a new man, somewhere in the 6’4” range. I think she met him at the tall club as she did the 6’7” guy. She was ecstatic. He was 6’4”, what more could you want in a relationship than that? And just as what had happened in the previous relationships, it came to a crashing end. And again, Paula was depressed. I bought her a drink, and she told me that she thought that the reason her relationships failed was that she was too INTIMIDATING. I wanted to tell her that I thought the reason the relationships failed was that she was a broke secretary, out of shape, whose only qualification for a man was to be 6’ or taller. And that height does not guarantee a relationship will last any more than if you only dated people with freckles. An absolute requirement when it comes to height is the definition of stupid. Not only does it greatly reduce your dating pool, but it is an indicator of how shallow you are, where you are more concerned with optics than focusing on a relationship. You need to judge a man by his character, not his inseam. You have to like each other, like being with each other, respect differences, and much, much more. But to Paula, height was the most important thing, everything else was trivial. I knew Paula for about 2 ½ years and there were more failed relationships. And she was not taking it well. The last time I ever saw her was at the bar I first met her at, and she must have gained 40 pounds in the last 6 months. I felt sorry for her, but she just wouldn’t change. You would have thought years of failures would prompt a new dating plan, but not Paula. She needed a tall man, no matter what.
PoopBeast 2mo ago
Nice story. Was Paula Indian btw? Was this in India? Also, what do you mean by "tall club"? Is there an actual club you have to be tall enough to get in?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Paula was born and raised in Houston, TX. She was an actual model for a modeling agency for 3 years. She belonged to a club called,"Towering Texans". The minimum height for a woman was 5'10" and for a man 6'2". The club still exists.
PoopBeast 2mo ago
So when she was with the guy who was 26 she was in her mid 30s?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
She was 30's and he was 26. Her nickname for him was baby beef.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
It happens. I married a divorced woman older than me. She was hotter in her 30s and 40s than most women are in their 20s.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago Stickied
"Shitpost Saturday" due to Rule 5. She's gotten commitment and didn't need to lower her standards or ignore red flags.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Now let's see how long until she realises she deserves better.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
You stay in the situation, you wanted it. You don't get to spend hours on a "date" (whatever the heck that means anymore) with a man doing this, and also get to complain about it later. Anything short of "I immediately ran away and called the police" means you were enjoying the attention.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
If women were genuinely making mistakes, then you'd expect them to randomly choose the nice guys X% of the time and the assholes Y%, whereas the X and Y are close to the values X' and Y' representing their respective ration in male population.
Unfortunately, the discrepancy between X and X' and Y and Y' shows it's unlikely to be the case up to 90% + of certainty. I did run the numbers.
So, I am forced to conclude that women are choosing the bad boys by deeper drive, which makes me unable to feel bad for them
woodsmoke Respectful reprobate 2mo ago
This entire screed is ironclad proof not only for why The Patriarchy™ is, in fact, a good thing, but why it's downright necessary for the function of any healthy and prosperous society.
Left to their own devices, most women will sooner hit a bullseye blindfolded while balancing on a rocking chair in a hurricane than actually select a good man as a mate.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I don't think the odds are that great.
Justanaverageguy 2mo ago
This woman is incredibly dumb
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Holy fuck.
"I can change him" syndrome coupled with a large bulk carrier of "not my fault". I'm surprised this woman is still alive, given her propensity to walk on the dangerous side of life.
There has to be more to this, because a woman won't necessarily endanger herself over and over unless she's really fucking dumb, or she herself is some kind of scumbag that she isn't letting on about.
My guess? Drugs, lots of them.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
I almost can't believe that women could be that stupid. Almost.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Market 101: considering how damaged she must be, that's most likely the best she can get.
Also, amazing how they'll compromise on the guy having a job or not having severe mental issues, but he's "an attractive man", "6'5'' and extremely good looking".
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
he's "an attractive man", "6'5'' and extremely good looking".
What more do you need for a successful relationship? Everyone knows the taller the man, the better. How could a dating/mating plan fail based on height, says most women?
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Women are the sole gate keepers of sex. Women choose who they want to have relationships with. The man initiates his interest in her, but she accepts or rejects him. It is HER choice, not his. If the man turns out to be a shitbag, it was her choice. But women refuse to acknowledge their failures and bad choices by blaming the man they choose as the problem. (If your baby daddy ain’t worth shit, then why did you let him into your vagina?)
No doubt men can be shitbags and men do shitty things all the time. If you don't want shitbags, then stop having sex with shitbags. If you don't want shitbag husbands, then stop marrying shitbags. If you don't want shitbags fathering your children, stop letting shitbags impregnate you. Want to know why men act like shitbags? Because women reward them for acting like shitbags. Women give shitbags lots of sex, lots of attention, and lots of deference and respect. When you reward shitbaggery, you get shitbags.
Think about this. If overnight, instead of women rewarding shitbags with sex, they rewarded the kindest, most loving, most caring, honest, hard working men, socially responsible men of society, all children would be loved and cared for and all women loved and protected. So ladies, step up to the plate and choose a good man for once, instead of f*cking the bad boys you complain so much about. That would be a real change for the better for everyone.
Such behavior would facilitate the creation of more good men. It would incentivize positive behavior from men and at the same time stigmatizing bad behavior women claim to hate. The problem is that women don’t hate such behavior, or if they do, their lust for Chad, Bad Boy, Gangbanger, Thug, Criminal, Ex-Con, etc., overcomes any hatred of bad behavior by these men. Women’s tingles override logic and reason. But for those women who choose the “tingles” mating strategy, it has been shown over and over again to end in failure. We don’t live in cave man times anymore. The days of Brains over Braun are here. And women who live in a bygone era of “tingles” lose, and lose big time. As proof, all one has to do is look at the kind of men single moms choose. Were they good men? Most likely not. They chose tingles and lost. A few of these single moms will find a Billy Beta to support them, but even the Billys are starting to wake up to the down sides of dating single moms.
I used to believe that good honest women sometimes made bad choices. Now, I know that is not true. This may be true for a very few, many more women pretend that they don’t want shitbags, but years of their choices are evidence to the contrary. Shitbags choose shitbags.
Updated 4/21/2024 Women have made this point. Players know how to manipulate women, but being played several times indicates poor decision making while not being able to learn from past mistakes. Choosing poor quality men over and over again while the vast majority of men are good, is a conscious decision. Blaming men for being bad bois does not correct the defective thought decisions that chooses bad bois in the first place. The corrective action is accountability, not blame or excuses.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago Stickied
There are plenty of occasions in which the father was a genuinely good man, but the woman used the power of the courts to throw him out because she was booooooooored and unhaaaaaaaaaappy. We have many examples of that if you go through the "WAATGM in the making" flair.
Edit - also going to copy and paste my stickied comment from here:
Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I am calling BS on that. Are they saying that gangbanging thug Chad "tricked" them??? Fucking really??? She couldnt tell that the guy with the "Born To Steal" tattoo might not have been a good idea to have sex with? They really saw ZERO red flags? This use to be my biggest "WTF is wrong with you" with women who rant about what a scumbag her Ex is. No clue huh? Zero red flag huh? The multiple felony convictions or he is pushing 40 and still a club bouncer didn't give you any clue? He was the most perfect, nicest, kindest man until he fucked you, knocked you up, and burned you bad. A true Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde in real life.
Well I actually once did ask a girl about this when she was ranting about her Ex. I got her to admit that she thought, and I'm paraphrasing, that with the right genes the rest will follow. As long as he has looks and attitude, she can fix everything else. Find an Alpha male with superior genes and she can turn him into an alpha male that is also a loving husband that provides.
Women are the gatekeepers of sex so it continually amazes me on not only how many men they fucked but also WHO they decide to fuck. So when I hear a girl tell me that the last guy she fucked, dated, had kids with, a ONS with, a hook-up, was a FWB, had a tinder date, went and Netflix and chilled was also the biggest jerk, A-hole, druggie, gangbanger, alcoholic, deadbeat, a real loser, convicted felon; I keep thinking so that is the guy you choose to fuck? A guy like that is who you took your clothes off for and got on your hands and knees and presented you hind quarters to? Seriously? On top of that, you gave him your sexual best. You willingly and passionately fucked his brains out. Jose the gangbanger or Mongo the badass biker didn't have to beg to see you naked, did he?
I have seen women go off on angry emotional rants on what a deadbeat abusive jerk their Ex was, and all I can think is "this is the guy you choose to fuck."
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Here's what interesting about this kind of thought: men can be guilty of that too. Men will, at some point in our lives, look at a hot girl and think some dumb shit like "I can help her", "I can save her", "if I show her what love is really like, she'll be mine". Sometimes it's not as obvious as dating some blue-haired chick with daddy issues, but the mere lack of sufficient awareness can land you in hot water.
However - and this is where things really differ - a man who does that will inevitably crash and burn. She'll suck him dry and discard him like a used tampon. And then, even if he is only somewhat smart, he'll learn. Facing consequences for our actions, including (and specially) the negative ones, admitting and learning where we did wrong will make us a better version of ourselves.
Women, on the other hand, refuse to be held accountable for their actions. They cannot do wrong, thus there's nothing they can improve. So, they don't learn. They don't mature. They're perpetually stuck in a 17 y.o. mindset, doing whatever the hivemind approves because they crave that social validation. A 17 y.o. boy would be peer pressured into doing dumb stuff, but a 47 y.o. man will only do so if he actually kinda wants to do that. But a 17.y.o. girl and a 47 y.o. woman are, more often than not, pretty much the same. There's nothing new for them to learn; they've figured out life at 15.
Now, the fact that a 15 y.o. is not trusted enough to drive, drink, vote or join the military is another issue altogether.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
I was thinking the same in regards to "Single mom with kids clearly from different fathers wonders why her future husband is still hiding" looking for a bailout. There are both men and women who are willing to adopt "Christine" (referring to the novel/film by Stephen King) of a "fixer upper" mess that some desperate or naive person undertakes.
There's one fundamental difference, though, in that I think men want women simply for wanting women. I remember a girlfriend disgustingly saying that men "only want pretty women for something on his arm to impress other men" which I realized later was merely projection on her part. Men like Leonardo DiCaprio largely want hot women because men like hot women. Lonely men undertake fixer upper projects because they're lonely while this woman, I think, was looking for a fashion accessory.
"Now that he is what more women would want, he won't leave me" she says. She couldn't afford a Louis Vuitton handbag so she fixed one up but now has to hope that the bag doesn't have a mind of its own. She wants someone that other women will crave, and be jealous of her, and prays she has fixed up the man so that he won't leave her.
That's not to say that some men don't "win" when they bailout such a woman and it works out as expected. That's just not for me nor I think most men here, but if they're happy with that as compared to going through life alone, good for them.
I was reading recently about a heartwarming story "Pocho the crocodile". There are youtube videos. Chito found a gravely wounded crocodile and nursed him back to health and the two formed a bond of friendship for 20 years. Even after release, Pocho swam back to visit him. So Pocho from then on had shows for tourists to watch him swim with, hug, and kiss Pocho. Pocho died about 13 years ago and the village mourned his passing.
I adopted a street cat (or more accurately, he FORCED himself upon me). He was my constant friend and kind to anyone who visited the home. 3 other families adopted cats because they were inspired by his loyalty and kindness. A friend buried him in the yard when I was renting a condo and that friend tragically passed away and his widow said: "I'll give you the home at a good price, you belong with the cat."
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2mo ago
"I was manipulated" can be a cover for women who want to have the quick thrills of hooking up with that type of man but look for a way to avoid the consequences. So when she makes the claim about being tricked, she wants an excuse to make it not her fault for choosing to have sex with such a man, as she knows full well that it reflects badly on her if she chooses those men. So if he is the bad guy and she is just the victim, then she has a ready excuse for her bad decisions.
Though I would not rule out cases where the woman is genuinely stupid and easily tricked. In that case, the man is no master manipulator either, but rather just someone who can appeal to the low impulse control women. Either way, whether the woman in question has enough intellectual brainpower to understand that she is making a poor choice by sleeping with such men, when a woman makes that choice it becomes clear that she is on the left side of the bell curve.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
Works great until men suppress their knee jerk Savior Reflex and start realizing that if her words are true, then she's stupid or lacks discipline to the point of being a bad prospect for anything beyond recreational purposes.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
While it's true sometimes men accept the wrong women, what about men who attract the wrong women? My entire life I've attracted prostitutes and gold diggers. The last date I went on the chick showed up wanting to go to a fancy restaurant. I kept it down to a 3 star restaurant and she still spent the entire time trying to get expensive wines and mixed drinks and entrees. A week before that a chick who had dozens of mutual friends on Facebook told me "every man should be taken for all of his money" and she'd like show that to all her friends.
No, those are seriously the wrong women and I attract them in droves. I'm surprised I haven't gone bankrupt yet. It's not because I wear a Rolex and I make it clear I'm not a sugar daddy or john. The only conclusion I can come to is I am always in the red light district and I look like someone who frequents prostitutes. They are predators looking for easy prey. Nice chicks don't show interest in me. I want a girlfriend but only these types are attracted to me.
No-Stress-Cat 2mo ago
Such is the life of a Chad. You have to pick the one you want, not be picked by the ones you don't want.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Go to the gym. I approached 4 women and dated 2 for a period of time. One was built like a playboy centerfold. 5'7", 122-128 pounds, 34DD, 27" waist and 37" hips and she was good in bed.