Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
Land_of_the_losers
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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Seagram7 Jr. Hamster Analyst 1mo ago
Women's hypergamy is not eugenic, they don't always pick the best mates. They frequently spend their most fertile years jumping from man to man, potentially getting turned in to a single mom by thugs and smooth talking dudes who just want a quick nut instead of saving their hymens for the man that would have protected and provided for them and made them a mother and wife, and probably given them more offspring that would be raised in a far better environment. You see other similar examples of this in the animal kingdom as well, like certain birds with brighter/larger plumages being sexually selected for even though it's actually a disadvantageous trait when it comes to being detected by predators. There's a reason why women didn't traditionally have sexual freedom or political influence, and their fathers with decades of experience and wisdom judging men and who were once young men themselves chose their daughters husbands, or at the very least could veto their daughter's decision. Similar thing with "muh polygamist harem chads might makes right survival of the fittest" nonsense. Societies that practice polygamy/polygyny have been btfo and ENSLAVED by those that practice monogamy, which is far more conducive to creating strong families and actually building civilization The """chad""" that women select when left to their own devices with a sharper jawline and a couple more inches of vertical leg meat will inevitably get force fed his own intestines and made to watch like a cuck as his harem gets killed or distributed
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Saw a post on my FB, reminded me of this , so came back here to rant.
The post in FB is about women marrying their dogs, they are not few, and they are so empowered.
Reasons:
First of all not my monkey, not my circus, I am not here to judge women marrying dogs. I can laugh at them, make a meme, may be post here if suitable, and that's it. Whom they marry is none of my business, nor have I been appointed to preside a judgement over them.
In fact, I myself as I wrote in this forum found my joy in a doll.
But what I find in them is a lack of joy. When a I talk about my doll, or speak to a fellow doll owner, I can sense the joy being radiated by them. Here, amongst these women, it is another attempt to take a jab at us men. I hardly sense any joy coming from such women and their writings. That sort of throws me off calibration.
Also, in a healthy system, I expect a spectrum of personalities. Women who wants dogs, men who wants to be dogs, men who wants bitches, and women who wants to be bitches. Men who wants to be dogs are fundamentally like that. But women who wants to be bitches to a certain class of men tend to browbeat and shout with a megaphone while standing on a soapbox to us that they are gonna marry a dog, expecting a knee jerk reaction from us.
Pretty soon this becomes tiring. Besides that, I can still laugh at them.
strawberrycompote 2mo ago
There are dudes claiming to be Napoleon Bonaparte. They usually will get a ticket to asylum because of limited use.
Woman claiming to be Napoleon or marrying animal...? well she can still swallow. Be it her therapist's or dog's cum.
I feel sorry for therapists or dudes unaware they might be getting sloppy seconds after a dog.
hornetsfalcons12 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Hey, at least she isn’t a single mom…that’s a plus. Right?
laughs
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
You just raised her value closer to zero.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 2mo ago
This woman is essentially asking for the inverse of a female slut: a male provider that gets no guaranteed benefits for his provisions.
If she is not going to work, she should be willing to offer to make sure that the household has all the needs met. That is, making sure that it is kept clean, meals are made, and other upkeep is taken care of. But we do not see that, but instead her wanting to do "random music and science projects" (whatever that means). And I would not be shocked if she would take offense at the idea that she would do some domestic duties in return for getting provided for. Because that's not equality! It is only equal if he does half the chores despite the fact that I am doing to contribute.
Just like I will say that women should not be sluts, men should not be giving away provisions to women who give them nothing in return. This woman wants a paypig that lives with her.
Note: not using the term "paypig" as derogatory, but rather a term that illustrates the type of relationship she seeks.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
I'm having trouble envisioning what this woman is looking for. Some kind of concierge service?
I get that the dude isn't entitled to anything from her and needs to be utter perfection but she's entitled to absolutely anything she wants from him and unlimited good-natured tolerance of her quirky, goofy, unladylike sloppiness-- that's par for the course for these kinds of chicks nowadays-- but that role doesn't really scream 'Alpha male/hero' to me.
GimmeTheUsual Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I'm sensing a variant of the "trad" trap, except she's a 'widdle little nerdy girl tee hee' that wants the sun, moon and sky.
Like you suggest, she probably could just outsource to get her 'stuff' but then that would require bitchy scientist to earn a living. Maybe she was a scientist but lost her grant, lol.
I think she's scoring five out of five catbags with these criteria.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Once again, we have an example of a woman using words based on the emotions those words evoke rather than on what those words actually mean.
It reminds me of this old post of mine: "Alpha males only" but then proceeds to list beta traits such as "provider", "generous", and "kind". Oh yeah, and you'd better be child free but ready to help raise her spawn.
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2mo ago
The mysterious Alpha Bucks who gets his pleasure from being a beta. I'm sure all these women will find one.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 2mo ago
This woman's vision of men is based upon wishful thinking from movies, cultural entitlement, and her own desires where comic book heroes have a full time job to pay the bills and their "secret identity" to be a hero at night. They envision men as magical creatures who exist to serve others but yet are also handsome and exciting while they do as they please.
Perhaps it's because such movies and classical literature is portrayed as role models for men and admired and women have "sassy" role models such as Bogart and Bacall of "strong women" telling men off and the men find it a "romantic challenge".
Men have our own masturbation fantasies, literally, such as porno films where a hot blonde delivers pizza and the guy says he can't afford a tip so she takes the "tip" in the form of him providing sexual services to her. We KNOW that's a joke, a laughable fantasy, and society agrees. Granted, there are less extreme versions of male fantasies such as 'revenge of the nerds' or "she's out of your league". We recognize them as such.
These narratives collapse for men, of course, when we propose them to women and they reject us and that's quite reasonable while women, on the other hand, live out the beginning of their lives in passive-aggressive mode waiting for men to approach them and provide them with validation while never getting actual rejection. They just haven't "found" the right man yet (by that, they mean the "right man" doesn't make the perfect approach to her simply due to bad luck).
moorekom Urban Hoe Guerrilla 2mo ago
You would not be aware of other options when all you listen to is positive re-affirmation.
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
I honestly read it as "I want/need a father". He should provide, he should make time to play with her and give her attention, she should look at him with glistening eyes (like a kid who thinks dad is a superhero), he should be ok with her behaving like a child, he should support her many hobbies just because - and even buy her stuff to encourage her -, and he should not want/expect to have sex with her.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Exactly this. The modern women confuses childishness with femineity. This women is looking for a father, so that she can fully transition into a child like state (she is half way there already).
And just like with her real daddy, you will only get to have sex with her very occasionally.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
*insert vomit emojis*
Impressive-Cricket-8 Founding member of FapGPT 2mo ago
Step-dad. Real dad is either long gone or unknown.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I think half of the crazy women out there are that way because their real daddy was abusing them. I just can't understand why there is so much cray-cray over on the female side of things.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Don't get stuck in the dryer!
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
You already are. You think any self-described "alpha" man is going to sit there and read all that?
That's exactly what you cannot have with a Chad/Alpha type man.
"Equality" is a word we should simply not allow women to use. People are not, and cannot, always be equal in every way at all times. Nor do women actually want that, ever, because they cannot compete with men in many areas of life.
My wife is very dear to me, but she is my subordinate, and she knows it. Moreover, she likes it that way and appreciates not having to worry about many decisions. She focuses on what she does best: Taking care of the home and being a good wife/mother.
You feminists with notions of equal everything would run screaming if you actually got it. Try a lesbian relationship and tell me how that goes.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
Ahh, but he'd be a considerate alpha who knows how to gallantly take orders with nary a ruffled feather. For that is what alphas do.
Einsamer 2mo ago
What was the name of that female journalist that pretended to be a man (as an experiment) and it made her so depressed that she suicided in the end? I think she lasted a year or two. And she was prepared, it was her job.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago Stickied
Norah Vincent.
Correction: her doctor-assisted suicide was almost 2 decades later, and may or may not have been related to this experiment.
However, she did end her experiment earlier than scheduled because it was too difficult for her, and checked into a mental hospital for depression soon after.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
I assumed that she had some kind of incurable cancer. I don't think you can just do an assisted suicide because you feel like it. The doctor would probably face some repercussion.
mallokrano 2mo ago
She did it in Europe where the laws are more lax about voluntary suicide.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
In Switzerland (where she did it), their nationalized medical system allows assisted suicide for depression.
Canada has been offering assisted suicide in lieu of actual medical care, with one especially egregious case of a Veteran and Paralympian being offered assisted suicide when she requested help installing a wheelchair ramp at her house.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
...but there are treatments for depression that involve... not dying?
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
I know, right?!
Einsamer 2mo ago
Ah, that's how it was. Thank you!
Einsamer 2mo ago
Classic. Starts with "I want to find an alpha ... being my provider and protector". Seconds later: "He needs to treat me like an equal partner".
Yeah, yeah, I know, consistency is a tool of the (non-existing) patriarchy.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Check your privilege!
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Holy shit. Finally read the entire thing.
fried ice!
Edit - I'll sticky this post to the top of the forum for a bit
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
I'm not much of an alpha, but even a pathetic subhuman creature such as myself would find her relationship to be something of a raw deal. I can only imagine that the Handsomehero McLargePecs of her dreams would find it even moreso.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
She: Sex is always at my discretion.
Me: How many men worth a dime would put up with that BS? And she wants a man considerate of her feelings and her desires, but no consideration for his feeling and desires. Sex happens when she wants it, not when he wants it. Also, she will not tolerate being abused but no issue controlling and denying sex. I can't see any confident man getting involved with this self-centered post wall hag.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
I... can't.... even.....
No-Stress-Cat 2mo ago
She's not looking for a man, she's looking for an alien. What she wants doesn't exist on this planet.
First-light Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
And what do you bring madame?
It looks like you bring the relationship of a spoilt daughter who is too lazy to work. Men are usually trying desperately to shift them from the house either into employment or onto any man who will take them.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
All women are deluded to a point. They refer to it as 'being romantic'. But there comes a point where delusional thinking is the main event in their brains, the absolute driving force.
And this woman has reached a level of delusional thinking that actually means that she is mentally ill. She is no longer able to perceive reality, as it is. She is now only able to see the world, as she would prefer it to be. This is a full blown mental illness.
I would argue, not only from examples like this from OLD, that we are in the middle of a mental health epidemic. We have mollycoddled young women by not calling them out on their bs. We have encouraged their delusional thinking. it turns out that women naturally go insane, unless they have a strong man at their side (father or husband) to inject reason and logic into their lives.
I suspect this women is beyond help. She will never be able to come back down to earth.
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
I have to disagree with you here. There is a systemic mental health problem in our society but it is not a disease as there are no negative consequences from those with the problems.
Think about Donald Trump: he has all of the required criteria for Narcissistic Personality Disorder, except for the requirement that he suffer or have negative consequences because of it. He's possibly the most successful man in the world, so being a narcissist has not harmed him. If anything it's a rationally superior decision for him to become that way, given the legal/cultural system that we live in.
The same thing applies to these deluded women. They are "insane" in such a way that it is completely rational and advantageous for them. Everything the women wrote in the OP is consistent with what she can expect. She has a very good chance to get everything that she's asking for, or at least some close experience.
It's our legal/cultural system that's insane, not these rational actresses. Up and until our system changes back to a more sane footing these women will continue acting like this. We don't have a mental health epidemic. We have a mentally unhealthy society.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
you make some good points.
HOWEVER.... I think you are over estimating how well life is going to go for OP. She is on OLD making demands, which is often the final order at the final last chance saloon for these chicks. She is online looking for something that she can't find IRL (a man that will pay all her bills and care for her, while she provides nothing in return). The reason she is online and looking at 33 is that she has spent the last decade not finding what it is that she demands.
She is also childless at 33. The odds of her reproducing are fast approaching zero.
So no, I don't think this is a good strategy. She is alone, broke, mad, delusional and childless. The primary function of any living organism is to reproduce. I don't think she will ever reproduce.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Women that are as mad as this are like this for one of two reasons.....
They didn't know their fathers.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
What's really tragic about this one is that, if you could surgically remove the insufferable "me me me all for me, plus you should be a total alpha and accept me warts and all while I judge the hell out of you" insanity... the remainder of this gal is kind of appealing. She has a creative, off-center sense of humor on her profile and pictures that I rather like, she has education and skills, she's not bad-looking at all... it's just... this kind of entitlement is ugly to me. This woman would end up rejecting me after totally exhausting me. Inevitably. I don't see how it would go well at all.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
On second thoughts, I am going to say that this woman is downright ugly.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
Thanks for your response - but..... she is not appealing. She is mad. You said there were other pics... can you post?
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Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
Since you insisted:
https://imgur.com/a/ilOXV5F
Really, she's not bad looking at all. The middle one is supposed to be her homemade flame-thrower.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
lets be real - she has so much make up on and so much retouching (look at the eyes) that she looks like a robot.
This is a weird looking woman. And the weirdness is not just how she looks. She is insane as well, clearly.
So, that would be a hard no frome me.
user84893093748959 2mo ago
I might agree with you that she's "not bad looking".
However, what alarms me is the semi-satanic alluding "recreating the moment I first possessed this human". Not to be too judgy... but I'm getting vibes that she's soul-less... that's she searching for purpose but knows she shouldn't be a mother nor anywhere near children.
Also... now with the benefit of the picture of the "mystical forces", the first paragraph makes more sense. She's saying it as a character from a mid-evil set TV show might be speaking in the tone of a dark-arts expert.
I would be interested in learning more for scientific reasons.
Just what I'm getting... your mileage may vary.
DextroShade 2mo ago
So she wants an alpha male to be her hero by randomly gifting her chemicals? Maybe she should date a drug dealer, but he will expect sex for the drugs and not just at her discretion.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
No sugarplum,
The kind of man you want is absolutely entitled to sex.
Why would a man who is all these things, can do all these things, accept a deal where he gets conditional sexual access based on whether or not he caters to your moods?
The fact that you cannot fathom why is the very reason you're single.
This man already has unlimited sexual access to a variety of women, many who are at least as attractive and definitely far more willing than you for a fraction of the cost you're demanding. He doesn't have to pay for their existence. He doesn't have to spend his time getting you small tokens of affection like some besotted emperor penguin. He doesn't even have to respect these women, if we're being honest.
He just has to show up and they give him what he wants because he's become the kind of man that women want.
You see ma'am, you're out here thinking that the sexual calculus still benefits you. You're demanding virgin bride price for used goods. A man like that can have used goods for free. An average man can get a better deal than what you're offering. You offer this man nothing except obligations, debt, and hassle for what in return? A limitation on his sexual options? An opportunity to serve you?
No ma'am, you need to either offer FAR more (which is unlikely - the hubris of women would set Achilles agape) or drastically lower your demands (let's not call them standards - a "standard" implies that you're on the level of what you're demanding).
wswZtyqNGQ 2mo ago
Penkosan?
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
What weeb shit are you on about?
SpiritualEnema Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
With that profile pic the only “provider” she needs is an ophthalmologist.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
It think it's a Halloween costume. She was dressing as 'Cocaine Bear' or what the hell ever.
Typo-MAGAshiv asshole. giga-shitlord. worst mod EVAR. 2mo ago
Underrated movie!
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
At this point, this sounds like a parasite looking for a host.
These days, my FB is over saturated with meme's such as:
"I don’t care how “independent” I am. I desire a man to protect, provide and lead me." (It was an image, I performed an OCR)
In my view, this kind of expectations by such women, that the man pays because that's his nature, without asking for anything in return and sex may happen if not, he should just enjoy paying - sounds like what they used to tell the much hated nice guys 10 years ago but on steroids. I remember, it was like : "just pay for her and enjoy the date bro - you will find someone. Women don't want much but a good company. If you expect something, you should not date".... or something along those line. This has now became it is a man's sort of duty to pay without expecting anything, and they are more brazen in their demands. I am having difficulty in accurately articulating everything. I'll later ask mistral uncensored to help me with this.
As I wrote elsewhere in this forum, this is like getting the diploma first and then doing the study, and pass the exams later.
As I wrote in the askTRP tribe, attraction needs to come from a reptile region of the brain - if not, it is unlikely to be worthy. It might be acceptable, tolerable, may be even fulfilling, for many people - but it will be hard for such a coupling to reach the proverbial top shelf. I insist - I am not adding this paragraph to judge people. Everyone can live life as they see fit - but many cracks would be visible in a coupling not based on reptile desire.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 2mo ago
"Men should expect nothing. Just pay."
"But I'd like to have a real relationship."
"EXPECT NOTHING. ONLY PAY."