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user84893093748959 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
This is actually quite simple. She is getting matches, but the men correctly acknowledge OLD apps are just hookup/smash apps. If she is not mentioning sex and linking in real life within the first few messages, she's not DTF and still thinks these apps are about dating... and dating is dumb. Especially, no one is trying to date a 41 woman. Like... why?
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
I'm one of the few guys that likes to fuck 41yr olds but I completely gave up. Partially because I have a wife in her 40s so it's readily accessible, but also because they ain't like the cougars of 20+ years ago. Back in the day they knew their worth and just wanted to get you into the sack as soon as possible and use your dick for as long as you could handle.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4mo ago
If her dating profile/weight etc was a WAATGM bingo card, i wonder how many different ways we'd win bingo, even without a free space
PoopBeast 4mo ago
I can't imagine the alternate reality women must live in in order to be surprised by these things.
Vermillion-Rx Penchant for plastic dolls 4mo ago
I get engagement at one of venues comparable to how your average woman in a small black dress would get engaged. Just a constant stream of approaches, competition etc. i have to frequently reject them if I'm not interested. It's the closest thing to being in the average cutie's shoes i can contemplate seeing as i often get even more engagement than even them there and even better options than them on average.
It's intoxicating and would be deluding if not for the fact I had to earn it. Being a rejected dude there for a year humbled me. When I finally started getting results I never forgot how shitty it was.
That's NOT what the average or even cute/hot woman experiences. They barely earned it. Puberty just gave them ass and tits and gave men the horny. So when their unearned starting at the finish line streak wears off they are besides themselves.
They were born with a silver dildo in their chances at acquiring dates and lays and when their shriveled eggs queef out that silver dildo they don't know what to do. They never had to earn anything for the most part in the pursuit phase of courting.
Oversimplification but being the guy in this alternate reality, this is why they are hooked on it, except they didn't earn it and are shocked that their pussy lotto ticket runs dry
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
Part of the problem also is that they were surrounded by men, and society, that told them they were entitled. Some of those men were lying to them to get laid, others believe in it themselves (and spend their lives in servitude to women), and the media and cultural institutions scream "girl power" at them.
One of the best examples of this mindset is Veruca Salt from Willy Wonka: The girl actress had to be directed to get in touch with her inner bitch. That girl was a product of a lavishly wealthy father who had given in to her tantrums throughout her childhood. In Game of Thrones, Joffrey Baratheon was the very epitome of a spoiled childish tyrant.
I mind my business, but it astonishes me how many conservative parents buy into this paradigm and simply leave it up to chance at how their daughters turn out. One relative of mine blew hundreds of thousands on private religious school for his daughters. One turned out goodie-two-shoe, the other is a typical bourgeoise chad chaser. I heard the chad chaser state she was a golddigger at dinner table conversation and he said nothing.
When my daughter was 5, she had some bratty moments and I put in her room for a 10 minute timeout. Sheesh, it was like I was throwing her in the Bastille with an iron mask. The screaming! Yet, she was much better behaved after that. Unlike her mother, I don't yell at her for no reason. I simply firmly warn her, act, and then explain why I'm doing it.
When I was about 30, I came to the realization that the USA wasn't as great as I thought it was. This culture is insane.
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
As some have said, it is global but the USA is further along the path of general degradation.
I did look into expatriating for a while, but I realized that like the "Body Snatchers" film, there is nowhere to run and hide because the forces at work have metastasized into a global cancer that is infecting every society. Witness the falling birthrates all over, the lack of family formation and the rapid decline in married couples making it past 2 - 5 years, never mind 10 or more.
The pendulum will swing back, but I don't know what it will leave in its wake after it does. I still have some optimism, if not for myself at least for some future generation after.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Germany isnt much better either. Only thing in Germany is that the University system is really great, if you want to study. The sorts of freedom you get here is just awesome. But that is only useful if you are driven yourself.
wswZtyqNGQ 4mo ago
Damn, took you long enough!
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
In all fairness, I didn't travel outside of the USA until I was 32. Back then the little internet there was dominated by BP thinkers. Most people in the states never really catch on although they develop a feeling of existential dread. We take it for granted that there's all this RP info and discussion around but back then, it was mostly a few books.
Problematic_Browser Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
The two most defining days of a woman's life are the day she realizes that her pussy can get her things she hasn't earned, and the day she realizes that her pussy can no longer get her things she hasn't earned.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Lol it's the same for boat owners. The 2 happiest days of their life is the day they get their boat and the day they sell it.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
If it flies, floats or fucks, rent don't buy.
houseoftolstoy Unchivalrous Christian 4mo ago
I have a theory about her statement on "lots of the men like my profile but when I start conversation there's no response back or it stops quickly after a couple of sentences." She is getting "likes" by bots/fake profiles, just like many men who use dating apps get as well.
This may not seem like much of a theory, as it is not news that online dating is full of padded numbers. But this is something that mainly men experience, not women, because women already get more interest on average from men than men get from women on average. But when we factor in her age, she is going to lose much of that natural advantage she had by just being a woman. So what happens as a result? Bots and fake profiles.
I suspect that there is an algorithm built into many dating sites to create fake engagement for any members who are seeing a lack of attention from other users. Previously, I only would suspect that this would happen for men, as they would be the ones who would get less attention and be willing to become "premium members" by paying for more features. But now I think that the algorithms may have never been specific for men only in this way, but for any member on the dating site. It is just that men are far more likely to get no attention versus women.
My theory might not have much ground, as the men on the site might have taken a second look and realized they wanted nothing that she has to offer.
Weightyboy 4mo ago
Most guys get low percent matches and low percent responses a common guy tactic is speed swipe right on evrything and filter later.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
I found one number in the OKCupid statistics interesting in that while even average women would get about 1000 "inbound" likes from men (and rejecting 95 to 99% of them), they were also sending OUT a lot of likes on their own and getting rejections.
Although the numbers are skewed due to men's more flexible appearance standards and general overswiping, women such as this are actually experiencing true rejection for the first time in recent history. Even the over-swiper men are perhaps ignoring her because they have below 40 set on their filter. So she must finally be experiencing a taste of what men go through with actual, direct rejection.
Now the question is: Will this become a cultural phenomenon as RP lingo becomes commonplace and the old days of "aunts" saying they "decided they just didn't want to marry" are outed as losers which, to women, is worse than death?
The shaming ploys used against men unable to get laid are usually secondary to the immediate effect of loneliness and lack of sexual access itself but to women, it's reversed. When women start to finally feel social stigma for winding up alone, in mass numbers, will this be communicated to younger women?
GimmeTheUsual Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
Shaming needs to come the fuck back for women.
And for the right reasons, as you say. Peak "I'm gonna fuck anything weee" bullshit does seem close for these women, especially as we seem to be rounding the final warning buoy before the Niagra Plunge of the economy.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 4mo ago
What reason is there for any man that has anything good going on in his life to bother? He'd just be expected to invest a ton of time and resources into acquiring an expensive middle aged room mate.
Sorry not sorry sweaty, it's either you go for the tier of men that you treated at best like furniture your entire life up until this point (and ladies....ALL of you have these sort of men around you, the only difference is your personal cutoff point for doing it), or die alone.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 4mo ago
And give up the scraps of free attention your fake photos and makeup are likely to net? I think not.
Scraps of attention and the drama that the apps generate is all you have left. You're not going anywhere. You'll continue to whine about it and get victim status points from your friends, who are all in the same boat.
For the rest of your life, you'll seethe at younger, prettier women and successful wives/mothers, becoming more bitter every year about what you can never have.