Dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man", to show women's poor dating behavior and unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves.
polishknight
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We're just a bunch of clueless NiceGuys™ with kindness coins that don't seem to work in women's holes so that the sex we're "entitled to" falls out. Because apparently we weren't demonstrating good relationship material through the attention, respect and stability that women demand. We were only "pretending" to be nice just to get laid.
In response to r/niceguys, this forum is dedicated to exposing all the women who complain about wanting a "good man" after dating jerks and riding the cock carousel in the prime of their youth, and think they're deserving of commitment and financial stability when all they have left to offer is their depreciating looks, narcissistic mentality, used-up vaginas, and another man's kids.
Women in their 20s have numerous opportunities to date the decent men they claim to want, but many reject or friendzone these men for jerks and promiscuity. She takes advantage of a good dude's kindness for attention and favors, then accuses him of being a bad person who thinks he's entitled to sex.
But when she's in her 30s with depreciating looks, jerks who won't commit, the likelihood of being a single mom, and the social pressure from her married friends, she asks "Where have all the good men gone?"[1][2] Funny how back when she was chasing the bad boys "Being nice is the bare minimum", but now that she's past her prime and needs a bailout, she wants a man with nice guy traits.
Furthermore, dating jerks and riding the carousel before settling down with a good man is planned by many women, and encouraged by feminists. They then come to the dating market with unreasonable standards while offering little to no value themselves. Such women are totally unaware that the mature, stable men they now need are the same decent men they rejected, except these men remember the rejection and are responding in kind to avoid unstable, unappreciative women who view them more as ATMs than romantic partners.
The reason women end up here is because their behavior is not exposed as the lucid, self-destructive, feminist ideology that it is. And we're here to help Good Men guard their commitment and resources by exposing women who would make poor life partners and mothers of their children. Providing observations and opinions on the posts here allows us to better understand women's psyche and later depressive/miserable state when they are not held to a moral standard required for healthy, functioning relationships.
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1. No shaming men for any reason.
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2. No white-knighting or NAWALT. This is not a debate forum.
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3. No comments such as "Her profile looks decent", "She's not asking for much", "At least she's honest". No comments saying a post is fake without proof. Proof must be sent via modmail.
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5. Submissions must show a woman who is looking for commitment while also either complaining about jerks or promiscuity, needing her kids provided for, being entitled or unreasonable, or complaining that she "can't find a decent guy". (Examples, details)
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5b. No posts of women who are merely fat, post-wall, unattractive, seeking sex or money, nor women merely behaving badly. (Examples NOT allowed)
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Recommended reading:
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Dating profiles showing women's Dual-Mating strategy and unreasonable standards
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OkCupid study shows women reject 80% of men based on looks alone
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Milo - The Sexodus: The Men Giving Up On Women And Checking Out Of Society
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Women Want to Know Why Men Don't Want to Marry Anymore...Allow Me
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WAATGM mod explains why promiscuous women can't get good men to commit.
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Okay, I get it. You're sick of hearing men complain about girls only dating assholes.
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Dear Girls Who Are (Finally) Ready To Date Nice Guys: We Don’t Want You Anymore
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Dear Single Moms: I wasn't your type then, why am I all of a sudden your type now?
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The Truth About Single Moms Who Bring Young Children To The Dating Market
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Carol asks WAATGM for the harsh truth after riding the carousel
- Complete list of resources here.
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The Big Question- Carol asks "Where are all the good men?", "Why can't I find a decent guy?", "What happened to chivalry and respect?"
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Bailout- Carol wants a man to help raise her kids and provide financial stability.
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Leftovers- Carol whines about how hard dating is as an older woman.
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Dual-Mating Strategy- Carol admits to promiscuity and dating jerks but now wants a good guy to settle down with. Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
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Cock Carousel Rider: Carol complains about being single while having a history of promiscuity.
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Entitlement Princess- Carol has unreasonable standards while offering little to no value herself.
- New Carols Unlocked!- A list of all the Carols we've identified.
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polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Pardon the length of this post, please read below for my reasoning:
Staring into the past can be a scary thing because I could have made many better decisions, but I am content with what I have: A wife, lovely daughter, and community (this includes many of you) as well as a feeling that I was a decent, albeit imperfect, person throughout my journey so far. I want to impart to my daughter to periodically look at herself from a future perspective looking back and saying: “What do I need to do now to make that future me content?”
At first, this was merely a standard Leftover post but going through her posting history, her public journal, it revealed an epic tragedy comprised of material encompassing nearly everything we discuss here. Note particularly how her sense of reality changes or even contradicts itself from time to time. How can someone hope to create, or even influence, their future when they don’t have a mental grip on what’s happened in the past or the present? There’s so much great material it would be a pity to toss it out even if the basic narrative would remain intact.
For my future self and those here, I want to note that I both laughed at much of what I read but also feel a touch of sympathy and regret for the family life this person could have had and squandered as well as bad choices she continues to make.
Boar_excrement Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Damn, a post this long should have been in cuneiform....
Ah...the sweet shrieks of whimyn denying personal accountability. MOAR!
The number of women that just expect 'something to happen' never ceases to amaze me. They never once stopped to think how a man has to build himself to the point he can make an offer these sloots would even consider accepting and then resent him because they 'settled.'
Bed made, lie bitches. You earned this fate with every casual rejection of a good man.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Does the 5-point-star mean that all the star-studded parts are from the same poster?
In either case...
Ahhhh .... for the same reason Ukraine had to reevaluate their choice and send their younger, inexperienced pilots to train with the F-16, as their already old already experienced soviet trained pilots could not keep up with the western aircrafts.
I wrote a post on this in my blog. I have to post the Ukraine evidence in another post as well. I will (with OP's permission) like to screenshot the relevant part of this post as source material.
Younger entrants are preffered because experience is not transferable.
Changing vessels makes experience just encumbrance*.
The ageing is not the issue. pre-aged specimens are. The F-16 pilots will also age, but they will age on the f-16. The pre-aged pilots (aged on Mig 31s and SU25s and the likes) are not suitable for the F-16 role.
Indeed all women I came across, including my mother, and a large section of RP/ and tradcons do not understand or accept the distinction between the men these women were fucking when young and the men they want later. Indeed their argument is such men chosen later by such women aren't special and hence they should be thankful with an older experienced woman that they are getting access to such """expereince""" . But such communist world view often contrasts with reality.
Note: I have made no statement about fertility. Even if these women can use a medical miracle to restore their fertility, the used canvas will always be less desirable than an unused one.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
All comments/posts are from the same person unless I use a different color to block their usernames or underline key passages. I used the stars to emphasize key points of a narrative, with multiple stars when they conflict with some earlier narrative that the woman may not be aware of.
I don't want to be like Hollywood and spoon feed the reader but at the same time, I underline and put in stars so they can connect the dots, so to speak.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Thank you for the explanation.
SwarmShawarma 3mo ago
in the case of such e long summary, I'm glad you did
the whole thing is TL;TR.
She is clearly loosing it. It is like internal fight of good [I see I should change] and evil [it is all his fault].
Assuming she is serious about dudes telling her straight in the face, she was hotter 10y ago, she still hangs with Chads that do not give a shit about her and she is likely drawn to it and when she will become totally disposable, they will cut her off.
The school reunion party stinks, IDK why millionaires would bother doing a reunion, is that US tradition or an attempt to rub borrowed millions and a magmansion, into a former schoolmates face.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3mo ago
That’s depressing. She had the world laid out at her feet and she pissed it all away. But no matter how bad I feel for her falling for a series of life-destroying lies, I have to note that I’ve never been invited to party on a yacht, or flown to exotic destinations on a private jet, or had relations with a celebrity (much less multiple instances of all of those).
She did a hundred times more “living” in her 20s than most men do in their entire lives, and she didn’t lift a finger to earn any of it. Meanwhile, the most exotic location I’ve ever been to was Afghanistan, and I rode in the back of a cargo plane on the jump seats.
Oh well… she won the lottery and blew it all on fun experiences, and now that it’s gone she’s left with nothing but memories and the realization that fifty years is a long time to mourn her bad decisions in anonymous poverty.
Oddest-One-Here Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
She failed to cash in during her prime, now all she has to look forward to is a long lonely decline.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I agree with you. She had a good and fun life in her prime. No one ever invited me to a yacht or flew me anywhere just for my looks or fucked Celebs. And I agree with you that when she was in her prime, she would not have given me the time of day.
But she and she alone wrecked her life. She chased bad bois, rich bois who used her as a fuck toy along with other players all with her full participation. Now, aging out a losing out to younger women, she sees her future. And it is not pretty just like her.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
I can't be certain, of course, but my impression of her is that if you or I tried to chat her up (at appropriate age and single, hypothetically of course), she'd probably ignore us because of a "lack of chemistry". She wouldn't think we're good enough for her.
I'm reminded of the Prince and the Pea story where the princess is denoted not by any claims to titles or wealth, but rather her insufferable "standard" that she'll lose sleep at the tiniest deformation in a mattress entitling one to high living because that's what they "require." Being spoiled is somehow a virtue similar to The Kardashians enjoying untold wealth simply for having their lavish lifestyle documented. I showed this segment to my wife (t=29) and she cheered it on.
https://youtu.be/YFq93hfxxBM?t=29
She could STILL command a LEGION of thirsty betas via OLD even in the high cost of living city she's in, but she'd likely have to (ick) marry a normie and live in a condo.
Kosingas 3mo ago
This is just sad... I don't understand how can you guys laugh at this, or even throw insults at this poor woman.
She may be stupid, but this would never have happened to her if she war born in the '70 or earlier.
sean_karaya Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
I must add, that there is no reason to think all this was not premeditated. Alexander Grace on YouTube has interviews to that end (I am not gonna post link as it would be difficult to sanitize it) where women very openly in their 20s say that they want to f around with the bad boys and find a safe guy later.
There are lots of incredibly mid women browbeating the same idea in many places in Tick Tock as well, slightly differently, saying that is the natural way of things, that they will want a nice guy once they are older and more mature, and past their lust stage.
There is exactly zero reason to think that this woman was also not premeditating all these. Despite everything she wants us to believe now.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
She isn't stupid. She is doing exactly the thing that will prevent her from learning - she is playing the victim.
You can here her blaming men all through this rant. Men that wasted her time, the idea that men are shallow and only want young women.
She is refusing to learn from her mistakes. Men don't want young women, they want fertile women. It would make more sense if she raged against biology of women (that 90% of their eggs are gone at 30) rather then blaming men.
She will blame men, society, culture, media, films anything except herself. If we were to put her back at 21, she would jump straight back on the CC and do the same thing again.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 2mo ago
I would like to know more about the 5 year relationship that started at 26 and ended at 31. What was she doing all that time? Was the man paying for everything and she didn't do a thing? Did she stay in his house and she was nothing more than a fuck toy? 5 years later the man realizes she is nothing more than a hoe using him for his resources and that is all. Thus, he wants a younger fuck toy.
I suspect she also would not give a good man a chance, since she was used to the good life and didn't have to do a thing for it.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Her soliloquy reminded me of this notion that men and women have different "communication styles" where men want to hear solutions while women want to vent and be "supported". In reality, particularly in relations to men, modern women are often infantile in communication and mindset. When my daughter was born, she cried if she felt discomfort. She even cried when she was tired and THEN she couldn't sleep because she was crying so she'd cry even more about it (I'm not making this up). I had to then engage in psychological manipulation to distract her for a minute and stop crying and then she'd pass out. But hey, she was an infant so it's understandable that her coping skills were lousy. A nurse turned me onto "self-soothing" where I mentor my daughter improving her problem solving and coping skills.
A lot of women today have been coddled like the (tragic) story of Rhett Butler's daughter in Gone with the Wind or Veruca Salt in Willy Wonka and simply cry and expect somehow that will solve their problems magically as some man fixes it quietly in the background and she takes credit for it. "Why should I thank him? All he did was sit there and listen! I'm independent and strong, BUT I expect a man to be a leader!"
They're told, and many men believe this themselves, that men LOVE (quietly) problem solving for free, like comic book heroes, and feeling "needed". You know, if there was a non-obese non-landwhale woman who paid all the bills and solved her problems and mine and didn't give me gaff about it, I would totally be on board with that.
Pardon the quibble, but I don't think her problem is a matter of men "wanting" "fertile" women so much as that in this modern age, men she desires don't need to marry to get non-procreation sex and marriage is nearly entirely a liability for men so why bother? Cow and milk and all that. If a man wants children, it's usually best for him to get married for that stable household for the kid and usually to a younger, more fertile woman so he has time. As this woman says (and why the post is so long, she says nearly EVERYTHING we observe here), baby rabies women have unreliable fertility, could be dishonestly presenting themselves as marriage material to land someone, and rushed childbirth robs men of the "honeymoon" period of 2 years of time to settle into the marriage comfortably.
Women themselves love to tell men "Take it slow, I want to enjoy the courtship" because they enjoy being wined and dined and clown gamed. Perhaps men also don't want to go from shaking her hand on a dinner date to buckets of dirty diapers 10 months later.
When feminists demanded EQUALITY NOW!, they demanded it for ALL women not realizing that it came with liabilities and not just when women wanted to be CEO's or astronauts. Being a "strong, independent" man mostly sucks where we just pay the bills and do unpleasant work. Aside from selling their fertility as a sexual product, once they aren't at peak fertility they're as worthless on the marriage market as us men are.
Marriage and "traditional" dating courtship worked when it was confined to early 20's men and women hitching up when women were at peak fertility marriage value and men married for the long term. To return to the cow-milk analogy: This woman is like asking men to buy a gallon of milk that's 2 days left to spoiling when all he really wants or needs is enough to put in a cup of coffee.
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3mo ago
It’s sad and I’m not laughing, but insulting her for playing victim when every thing about this is the result of her decisions?
Was she lied to? Of course she was. Did she spend the last 35 years living in an information vacuum? Nope.
And if you think girls were not doing stupid crap like this in the 1970s I have a bridge to sell you. In some ways the 70s were worse.
polishknight WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Something to keep in mind is that I've tried to tell such women the truth in the most gentle and caring manner so they can maximize their situation, and they either ignore me or react with hostility. Even when information is available, they will usually avoid it or engage in confirmation bias seeking out the pretty lies. I rented a room in the Hollywood Hills from one such women self-help book author who wound up single herself. (edit) Steve Harvey paid off the IRS selling pretty lies to women who wanted to hear them.
Imagine a society that sold crack and heroin on every street corner but, also, there were a few people handing out pamphlets explaining the dangers of crack and heroin. We don't have this system because we know the streets would be littered with these unread pamphlets and millions of crackheads roaming the streets. Feminism asked for women to have sexual and economic equality so now... this gal enjoys what most men have had for history: Working to earn a literal living until she dies and winding up alone and childless because she couldn't compete.
I chuckle about the 1970's era. Check out "the last days of disco" or "Studio 54".
lurkerhasarisen A Strategist Among Tacticians 3mo ago
Yeah… I was in high school in the 70s and sexual purity was openly mocked. It wasn’t until later that “purity balls” and “promise rings” allowed virginity to make even a little bit of a comeback.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Fast forward to the glorious, modern age we live in today. Less than 5% of men will marry a virgin (and that's for the few who actually get married - the rates are stupid low).
Should be 100%. I believe that the closer to 100% both figures are, the more glorious and prosperous a civilization would be.
Land_of_the_losers the-niceguy.com 3mo ago
Ahh, but does it also include the Shahnameh of leftovers? They say Ferdowsi single-handedly propped-up the Persian language with that one.
No-Stress-Cat 3mo ago
OH, THE REALITY!
PoopBeast 3mo ago
Too "traumatized" to date after a break up? "Afraid of men"? Oh please.
It's remarkable to me how so many women these days will try to punish completely unrelated men because they dated one guy who ends up having different goals and does the unthinkable and (gasp) breaks up with them.
Just think about how stupid these women are; after not doing their due diligence (for years) to make sure they're dating the right guy, they decide in their EARLY THIRTIES to stop dating while they "work on their trauma". Early thirties is the worst possible time for these women to become a prude and clam up. Lady, you should be throwing pussy at the first responsible man you can. Hell, you should basically be chumming the water with it like a shark fisherman.
...oh, and if I've assessed it correctly, and you think taking your dried up cooch off the market in the twilight of what little prime years you have left is a punishment to men, it's really not. Good riddance. Doesn't the navy have some kind of ceremony when they retire a ship?
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Punishing the lower tier men for her not being good enough to lock down a top tier man. Surely that will be a winning strategy and not one that actually worsens her situation.
wswZtyqNGQ 3mo ago
I'm imagining the day will come soon (in the midst of global economic disaster) where this absurd metaphor will become apropos.
mustangfrank1 Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
This will happen in less than 10 years. Today, there are 2,000,000 more women in college than men. IN 10 years, that is 20,000,000 more educated women than men. Educated and skilled men will be the prize that they have to compete for. Oh to be 25 in 10 years. And all the post wall hags will want some action, too. It will be great to be a single man in 10 years.
Lone_Ranger Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
You have a great writing style.
PoopBeast 3mo ago
Hah! Thanks
JudgeSmales 3mo ago
So, with the wall approaching hard, m'lady realizes (finally) that her Pussy Pass has been stamped: "INVALID." Boo-hoo.
Her: "Most men treat me like an antique."
Oh boy, is she in for a fun surprise when she turns 40 and "antique" becomes "invisible."
souldrone 3mo ago
A relic of the past.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Since we are making literary allusions, I feel the need to point out the Aesop/fable of the Ant and the Grasshopper.
This woman is clearly a grasshopper that wasted all of spring and summer. Winter is coming, and she will do and say whatever it takes to try to get you to overlook her willful negligence.
Let bitches like this freeze if you know what is good for you.
souldrone 3mo ago
This is beautiful. Beautiful.
NotaBene Sr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
There are only two measures of success for women:
Being a good wife
Thus has it always been, thus will it always be. The proof is how worthless these women all feel when confronted with their lost potential. They all want to be wives and mothers and regret the lost opportunities of youth.
Women who fail to stick the landing on either are worthless. There is no profession in which women are now engaged that could not be better done (and historically, has been better done) by men... except those two. Women were designed for these two purposes; they abandon them to their own detriment.
Overkill_Engine WAATGM Endorsed 3mo ago
Well, they certainly want the status and conveniences of such, like a paid for retirement instead of having to work until they die like many men do.
Problem is, a good chunk of them have neither the discipline or loyalty to be fit for such a role.
JudgeSmales 3mo ago
If women went back to the kitchen, 10 million make-work jobs at do-gooder non-profits would disappear overnight. And the economy would recover from the blow in roughly five minutes.
whytehorse2021 Jr. Hamster Analyst 3mo ago
Cougars that don't know they're cougars. In Asia a cougar will latch on to any guy that shows interest and do everything possible to keep him: blow jobs, anal, 12hrs sex, cook, clean, do laundry, etc. She could easily find an average guy and get knocked up.
On a side note it's pretty rare for women to go gray at 35. Just adds to the cougar look 10yrs early.